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niyad

(113,306 posts)
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:29 PM Aug 2018

the dark side of john mccain (a truly loathsome human being)

(as we witness his final days, as I watch the accolades pouring in, I remember the other side of mccain, and it is not a pretty one)

The real McCain
To his fans he's a lovable patriot with a maverick streak. But to his critics he's an anti-abortion Creationist who surrounds himself with religious extremists. Paul Harris uncovers the dark side of John McCain


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Republican presidential candidate, Sen. John McCain. Photograph: Mary Altaffer/AP

I. . . . .



But there is another, very different side to John McCain. Away from the headlines and the stirring speeches, a less familiar figure lurks. It is a McCain who plans to fight on in Iraq for years to come and who might launch military action against Iran. This is the McCain whose campaign and career has been riddled with lobbyists and special interests. It is a McCain who has sided with religious and political extremists who believe Islam is evil and gays are immoral. It is a McCain who wants to appoint extreme conservatives to the Supreme Court and see abortion banned. This McCain has a notoriously volatile temper that has scared some senior members of his own party. If McCain becomes the most powerful man in the world it would be wise to know what lies behind his public mask, to look at the dark side of John McCain.


John McCain is an American hero in an age of war and terrorism. As young Americans return in bodybags from Iraq and Iranian mullahs cook up uranium, an old soldier like McCain seems a natural choice in a dangerous world. He is the son and grandson of warriors. Both his father and grandfather were four-star admirals. He was even born on a military base, on 29 August 1936, in Panama. And his life story reads like a movie script. The young, rascally McCain, nicknamed 'McNasty' by his classmates, attended the elite United States Naval Academy in Annapolis, Maryland. He became a navy pilot, long before Tom Cruise made 'Top Guns' famous, and began his first combat duty in Vietnam in 1966, carrying out countless missions. Then came disaster. He was shot down and held prisoner for five years by brutal North Vietnamese captors. In his stiff gait and damaged arms, he still bears the scars of their tortures. His CV for the White House is written in his suffering as much as in his career as a senator.

That military legacy has made John McCain a legend. But it has not turned him into a peacemaker, at a time when most Americans desperately want the war to end. Anyone hoping for a new president who will quickly bring America's troops home from Iraq had better look elsewhere. McCain has always supported the invasion of Iraq and he wants to support it until at least 2013, or perhaps for many years beyond. He believes withdrawal would be a surrender to terrorists. That warlike spirit was on full display in Denver when McCain's speech was interrupted repeatedly by anti-war protesters. They stood up, unfurling banners and shouting for a withdrawal from Iraq. When it happened a third time, McCain had had enough. In a voice suddenly filled with steely resolve, McCain broke from his carefully scripted speech and gripped the lectern. He looked out at the audience and spoke slowly. 'I will never surrender in Iraq,' he rasped. 'Our American troops will come home with victory and with honour.' The crowd cheered and chanted: 'John McCain! John McCain!' It was a perfect moment for unrepentant supporters of the Iraq invasion and a McCain who still smarts from defeat in Vietnam. No retreat. No surrender. This time America will win.

. . . .





Just look at McCain's 'pastor problems'. He has enthusiastically sought the political blessing of some of the most conservative religious figures in the country. McCain gave the 2006 commencement address at Falwell's Liberty University, a college that has taught creationism alongside science. McCain also courted and won the endorsement of Texan preacher John Hagee, despite Hagee blaming Hurricane Katrina on New Orleans's liberal attitude towards gays. Hagee believes the disaster was God's judgement on the sinful city. Another McCain-backer, Ohio preacher Rod Parsley, has spouted hate about Muslims. Parsley, whom McCain called a 'spiritual guide', believes America was founded partly in order to destroy Islam. He has called Mohammed a 'mouthpiece of a conspiracy of spiritual evil' and has supported prosecuting people who commit adultery. Though McCain later repudiated the endorsements of Parsley and Hagee, he did so only after bad headlines threatened his moderate image. Most of Hagee's and Parsley's views were widely known from public speeches or books. It was not their bigotry that caught the campaign out, it was the reporting of it. 'McCain has had links with these religious figures who are just way, way out of the mainstream,' says Cliff Schecter.

. . . . .

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2008/jun/22/johnmccain.uselections2008


https://theintercept.com/2017/07/27/john-mccain-fake-maverick-horrible-record/


https://www.gq.com/story/john-mccain-is-the-perfect-american-liehttps://www.gq.com/story/john-mccain-is-the-perfect-american-lie

https://theoutline.com/post/1952/you-can-feel-bad-about-john-mccain-s-cancer-and-still-hate-his-legacy?zd=1&zi=ftwnjszr

http://www.palestinechronicle.com/john-mccain-a-matter-of-character/

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1024927/The-wife-John-McCain-callously-left-behind.html

https://www.factcheck.org/2008/09/mccains-first-marriage/

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the dark side of john mccain (a truly loathsome human being) (Original Post) niyad Aug 2018 OP
Deeply flawed, politically just wrong in near all respects, but not a sociopath....not without honor hlthe2b Aug 2018 #1
"not without honour"? you and I have two very different views of this person. niyad Aug 2018 #2
then you have blinders on. I can see the contradictions in even those I detest. hlthe2b Aug 2018 #4
Yes indeed. cwydro Aug 2018 #10
you do remember that the crash that landed him as a pow was an unauthorized mission, yes? niyad Aug 2018 #23
Doesn't change the fact of what he did as a POW. cwydro Aug 2018 #36
What he did as a POW? Scarsdale Aug 2018 #92
Do you enjoy flotsam Aug 2018 #112
Gotta call bullshit Major Nikon Aug 2018 #133
Also from politifact: flotsam Aug 2018 #135
He got shot down and survived being a POW Major Nikon Aug 2018 #134
I've never heard anything like that. flotsam Aug 2018 #111
No shades of grey! atreides1 Aug 2018 #50
Many shades of grey.. whathehell Aug 2018 #95
there are contradictions, and there are carefully crafted facades. niyad Aug 2018 #12
Believe what you want.. whathehell Aug 2018 #97
You can do that BannonsLiver Aug 2018 #47
Yeah but why should your view matter more to anyone? Loki Liesmith Aug 2018 #30
apparrently it matters to the people who are excoriating me for my view. niyad Aug 2018 #44
All us humans are a complicated tangle of hero and villian Saboburns Aug 2018 #3
You could have given a man a day. Just a day. nolabear Aug 2018 #5
really? couldn't prove it by all the accolades being heaped on him. even here. niyad Aug 2018 #7
I for one can hold two opposing concepts though I have my limits too. nolabear Aug 2018 #16
Thank you. EffieBlack Aug 2018 #24
F. Scott Fitzgerald. DemocratSinceBirth Aug 2018 #25
Good post. cwydro Aug 2018 #38
Excellent post...thank you! Docreed2003 Aug 2018 #33
Thank you still_one Aug 2018 #56
Well said. n/t Ms. Toad Aug 2018 #58
Hes dying MFM008 Aug 2018 #26
Thank you.. whathehell Aug 2018 #98
No accolades here niyad. LakeArenal Aug 2018 #94
As a fellow Vietnam Veteran, john657 Aug 2018 #131
Wow. Can't even wait till he's gone to start grave-dancing? cwydro Aug 2018 #6
grave dancing? by pointing out the realities of the "maverick"? I don't dance on graves (notice, niyad Aug 2018 #8
Furthermore he brought us that other "maverick", Palin. zentrum Aug 2018 #77
I love people who aren't afraid to speak or write malaise Aug 2018 #90
My thought exactly...I guess haters gotta hate. whathehell Aug 2018 #100
I'm with you. PoindexterOglethorpe Aug 2018 #9
Someone on twitter said he's known him as "a loving husband" and I thought, SOMETIMES nt More_Cowbell Aug 2018 #72
This post Armymedic88 Aug 2018 #11
what should make you ill is the bs facade that people have bought into over the decades. niyad Aug 2018 #17
The man is on his death bed Armymedic88 Aug 2018 #27
like the breaks he has given to everyone else, including veterans? nope. niyad Aug 2018 #28
🙄 Armymedic88 Aug 2018 #29
A difference between us and them EffieBlack Aug 2018 #34
pointing out the truth about someone makes one like a pubbie? got it. niyad Aug 2018 #39
At this moment, in this context? Yes. EffieBlack Aug 2018 #43
I am properly chastised. niyad Aug 2018 #45
Wish I could rec your post. cwydro Aug 2018 #41
Good perspective Effie. BannonsLiver Aug 2018 #49
Thank you. n/t Ms. Toad Aug 2018 #60
Amen Armymedic88 Aug 2018 #93
Thank you, EffieBlack. femmedem Aug 2018 #142
I question McCains compassion for anyone. NCTraveler Aug 2018 #18
Compassion is a commodity few people can afford elmac Aug 2018 #88
Look at his voting record edhopper Aug 2018 #101
Article is a smear flotsam Aug 2018 #13
Not now. Sneederbunk Aug 2018 #14
Horrible voting record. Oppressive voting record. NCTraveler Aug 2018 #15
He is GOP through and through. BigmanPigman Aug 2018 #19
He graduated next to last at the Naval Academy n/t TexasBushwhacker Aug 2018 #20
This is callous and inappropriate. EffieBlack Aug 2018 #21
+1 CentralMass Aug 2018 #32
Exactly Effie! TY! Docreed2003 Aug 2018 #35
I'm thinking of this John McCain today DemocratSinceBirth Aug 2018 #46
Excellent point. cwydro Aug 2018 #65
Seriously. It's not about him. It's about us. nolabear Aug 2018 #48
Thank you for your voice of reason, EffieBlack! pazzyanne Aug 2018 #113
Thanks for the O.P.'s courage. We'll be gigged for it. I'm with you. UTUSN Aug 2018 #22
It doesn't take the least bit of courage to post an OP like that. Kaleva Aug 2018 #37
It was already alerted! Nt USALiberal Aug 2018 #40
And even if they did get alerted or banned, taking that risk is hardly a sign of "courage" EffieBlack Aug 2018 #42
& I wonder again and again why you continue to address your opinions to me. UTUSN Aug 2018 #57
As I have a very hard time remembering names, places, and dates amongst other things... Kaleva Aug 2018 #121
Lol the courage of some random anonymous post! How brave, GusBob Aug 2018 #59
I truly despise him. Scruffy1 Aug 2018 #31
Adding a few more articles that I read long ago that illustrate his connections and rise to power eleny Aug 2018 #51
thank you for reminding me about those excellent pieces!! niyad Aug 2018 #76
I found that one from 2000 way back then eleny Aug 2018 #78
I am so glad the way back machine is still working? FIL was a real piece of work! niyad Aug 2018 #79
The American Free Press is a far-right-wing, conspiracy-theory-pushing entity. VOX Aug 2018 #109
Thanks! It's important to read the article through that lens eleny Aug 2018 #119
He is only a maverick when Mitch McConnell allows it. guillaumeb Aug 2018 #52
exactly! niyad Aug 2018 #53
Absolutely eleny Aug 2018 #80
I understand the OP. spicysista Aug 2018 #54
thank you for showing us these amazing people!! niyad Aug 2018 #55
There are too many more that need our attention. spicysista Aug 2018 #62
and we will not let them go unnoticed! niyad Aug 2018 #63
mccain apologized for that. JI7 Aug 2018 #138
unrec!!!!!!! still_one Aug 2018 #61
If I survive a few more months, I'll begin my 70th year on this planet. Atticus Aug 2018 #64
Thank you for this EffieBlack Aug 2018 #66
"his bedrock decency"? please, be good enough to share examples of it, for those of us niyad Aug 2018 #68
If you are looking for a fight, look elsewhere. If you cannot see the unnecessary cruelty Atticus Aug 2018 #82
Thank you for your wisdom, Atticus! pazzyanne Aug 2018 #115
DO WE REALLY NEED THIS RIGHT NOW ????? groundloop Aug 2018 #67
It's a rare person who is all good or all bad. Chemisse Aug 2018 #69
I look at his voting record, his treatment of women, and the fact that he would not have HAD niyad Aug 2018 #73
JUST STOP!!! pazzyanne Aug 2018 #116
In the majority of people I know, I do not have to acknowledge any bad womanofthehills Aug 2018 #85
I would never have wanted him to be president, and I disagreed with most of his opinions, Chemisse Aug 2018 #132
Thank you for zentrum Aug 2018 #70
you are most welcome. niyad Aug 2018 #74
He introduced the country to Sarah Palin, and for that I cannot forgive him Pepsidog Aug 2018 #71
amoung other things, that is definitely in the top 3! niyad Aug 2018 #75
I salute him for saving Obamacare. I salute him for correcting the woman Doodley Aug 2018 #81
Exactly. That took courage and leaves a legacy he can be proud of. nt ucrdem Aug 2018 #86
I used to admire McCain, despite not agreeing with him on most things The Liberal Lion Aug 2018 #83
The man is dying snowybirdie Aug 2018 #84
Tacky. ucrdem Aug 2018 #87
He is no more "loathsome" than this thread is... First Speaker Aug 2018 #89
Exactly! nt Raine Aug 2018 #124
word. KG Aug 2018 #91
You know, given the circumstances ,sometimes, as it is, Wash. state Desk Jet Aug 2018 #96
What is the point here? Besides pre-grave-dancing, what is the goddamned point of this? VOX Aug 2018 #99
There's an old saying on DU . whathehell Aug 2018 #105
I agree, this is not healthy njhoneybadger Aug 2018 #106
People change. And I am grateful that he was the deciding vote for Obamacare pnwmom Aug 2018 #102
Should be "the dark side of niyad" AZmikey Aug 2018 #103
This message was self-deleted by its author George II Aug 2018 #120
Too soon. Can't we talk about this next week? Crutchez_CuiBono Aug 2018 #104
Wow, writing this OP made you feel really good, didn't it? ObamaKerryDem Aug 2018 #107
I can't post what I would really like to say. MicaelS Aug 2018 #108
this post is a really bad idea rrze Aug 2018 #110
He's dying. I have never much agreed with him. But struggle4progress Aug 2018 #114
Thank you, struggle4progress. pazzyanne Aug 2018 #117
Well done. Thank you. nolabear Aug 2018 #127
You're not telling anyone anything they didn't already know. BlueStater Aug 2018 #118
Thank you. BigDemVoter Aug 2018 #122
Truly DISGUSTING post!!!!!!!!! nt Raine Aug 2018 #123
Delete this oberliner Aug 2018 #125
All that may well be true, and it could've/should've been posted... Captain Stern Aug 2018 #126
Yeah. 50 Shades Of Blue Aug 2018 #128
This OP deserves to be recommended. Thank you. Autumn Aug 2018 #129
No, sir. This is the West, sir tirebiter Aug 2018 #130
My suggestion is that we allow history to reach its conclusions about McCain with a few years remove TomSlick Aug 2018 #136
wow, he's not a liberal....whowouldofthought Demonaut Aug 2018 #137
You I always liked. Him I seldom liked. Mc Mike Aug 2018 #139
I certainly won't put McCain on a pedestal True Dough Aug 2018 #140
This OP Is The River Aug 2018 #141

hlthe2b

(102,276 posts)
1. Deeply flawed, politically just wrong in near all respects, but not a sociopath....not without honor
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:35 PM
Aug 2018

And, right now, however ironic, that says a lot....

niyad

(113,306 posts)
2. "not without honour"? you and I have two very different views of this person.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:37 PM
Aug 2018

"honour" is not a word I would ever apply to him.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
10. Yes indeed.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:42 PM
Aug 2018

He certainly acted honorably in Vietnam.

I guess some here can only see black and white - no shades of grey.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
36. Doesn't change the fact of what he did as a POW.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:05 PM
Aug 2018

I doubt many of us could’ve done the same.

We get it - you despise him.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
92. What he did as a POW?
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 03:33 PM
Aug 2018

Ever wonder why the other POW's named him "Songbird"? He was injured when his plane crashed and he did not follow instructions of keeping his arms and legs tight to his body. In a class of 899, he ranked 895. He crashed more than one plane, showing off. One time he flew through a valley in Italy, between two village, damaged the power lines, cutting off electricity from both villages. Any other pilot would have been court martialed. Johnny had his Daddy "fix" it, so he was not charged. His first wife was badly injured in a car accident while he was a POW. So as not to worry him, she never told him. When he returned, saw that she was no longer "perfect" he sought out other women, then he left. Reagan and Nancy paid many of her medical bills, since he would not. Not really an honorable person.

flotsam

(3,268 posts)
112. Do you enjoy
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 04:39 PM
Aug 2018

Using a filthy lie to smear a dying man?

www.snopes.com/fact-check/was-sen-john-mccain-a-hanoi-hilton-songbird/


A Fox News analyst was fired from the right-wing network in May 2018 after regurgitating a long-standing, long-debunked smear against Sen. John McCain (R-Arizona) and his experiences as a prisoner of war.

Retired Air Force Lt. Gen. Thomas McInerney was terminated from Fox just one day after insulting the lawmaker for opposing the nomination of Gina Haspel to head the Central Intelligence Agency. McInerney told host Charles Payne that Haspel cannot employ torture (or “enhanced interrogation”) against prisoners:

flotsam

(3,268 posts)
135. Also from politifact:
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 08:22 PM
Aug 2018

George "Bud" Day and Orson Swindle, fellow POWs, told PolitiFact that POWs sometimes were forced to talk when they were tortured, but they tried to tell lies to mislead their captors.

"We were all tortured and we wrote confessions under the pressure of torture," said Swindle, who was a cellmate with McCain and is active in his campaign. "John McCain never collaborated with the enemy. He, like every one of us, submitted to severe torture. John McCain did nothing dishonorable. He was heroic."

At one point, McCain broke down and signed a confession. But Timberg, the biographer, said McCain deliberately used misspellings, grammatical errors and Communist jargon to show he was writing under duress: "I am a black criminal and I have performed the deeds of an air pirate. I almost died, and the Vietnamese people saved my life . . . "

Day, a Medal of Honor winner who also is supporting McCain's campaign, said the flyer is "the most outrageous f------ lie I've ever heard."

Behind the group

The man behind the flyer is Gerard "Jerry" W. Kiley, 61, of Garnerville, N.Y., who says he served in Vietnam for about a year.

He describes his group as a one-man operation unaffiliated with any political party or campaign. He says he opposes McCain because of the senator's efforts to normalize relations with the Vietnamese communist government and because, in his view, McCain has helped the U.S. government keep information about POWs classified.

"John McCain has made sure the information concerning the lives of Americans we clearly abandoned after the war remain in government files 40 years later," he says.

He teamed with political activist Ted Sampley of North Carolina to distribute the fliers to South Carolina media outlets this month. Sampley did not respond to requests for comment.

Sampley also is a longtime McCain opponent. In 2000, he gained attention when he called McCain a "Manchurian candidate" on his Web site and said that he was an agent of the Vietnamese. In 1993, Sampley was convicted of misdemeanor assault and sentenced to 180 days' probation for attacking a McCain aide, according to a 2004 article in the New York Times.

McCain is not the first politician to draw the men's ire. In 2004, they formed Vietnam Veterans Against John Kerry.

Kiley has twice interrupted events featuring Vietnamese Prime Minister Phan Van Khai, forcing an American flag in his hand on one occasion and throwing red wine at him on another, according to a Secret Service agent who later arrested Kiley. He admits he threw the wine, but he was later acquitted in federal court of threatening Khai.

Kiley says he bases his most damning charges against McCain — that McCain gave information about the schedule of U.S. attacks in Vietnam in 1967, the year his plane was shot down and McCain was captured — on the word of Earl Hopper, a retired Army colonel.

In an interview, Hopper's wife, Patty, said that Hopper wasn't able to address the charges over the phone because of poor hearing. She said that Hopper has long been involved in the POW movement and that Earl Hopper's son, Earl Jr., is missing in action in Vietnam.

She cited as evidence for Hopper's charges a 1973 article by McCain that ran in U.S. News and World Report and what she said were "declassified U.S. military documents" she claimed to possess describing McCain's collaboration. Patty Hopper said she was away from her Arizona home and could not fax those documents.

But the 1973 article does not back up the charges made in the flyer. It provides the same basic account as McCain's book, corroborated by Timberg's book, which was based on interviews with many POWs.

Timberg, Day and Swindle noted that McCain, the son of a Navy admiral, was offered an early release from the prison but refused so that he could adhere to the military's code of conduct.

Timberg said he was perplexed by the allegations.

"Why do they hate him? There can be lots of issues you disagree with him about. But why try to destroy him?"



www.politifact.com/truth-o-meter/statements/2008/jan/17/vietnam-veterans-against-john-mccain/no-evidence-mccain-was-a-traitor/


Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
134. He got shot down and survived being a POW
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 08:01 PM
Aug 2018

So perhaps there’s something to be said for that, but not much more. Subsequently he inflated his accomplishments. Let’s not forget that McCain rode his family connections throughout his entire military career, and would never had been so much as a swabbie without them given his dishonorable conduct throughout his career. Navy fighter pilots were a coveted position during the war and McCain was unworthy. He was a lousy pilot wo undoubtedly got shot down through his own incompetence holding a position he should have never had to begin with.

McCain is a veteran and deserves respect for that, but the legend of John McCain and the man don’t exactly reconcile.

atreides1

(16,079 posts)
50. No shades of grey!
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:22 PM
Aug 2018

Just being realistic about the actual John McCain, who was the very definition of black and white!!!

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
95. Many shades of grey..
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 03:53 PM
Aug 2018

McCain is flawed, but he is not, in fact without honor, and it's not all in the distant past -- You might recall how he defended Barack Obama, then his political opponent frome "He's a Muslim' madness" and how he gave the "kill vote" to the awful Republican Health Bill.




Saboburns

(2,807 posts)
3. All us humans are a complicated tangle of hero and villian
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:39 PM
Aug 2018

Twas always was, and twill always be.

Took me a loooooong time to figure that out though. I'm glad I finally did. I used to put some on a pedestal not realizing that being human they fucked up too. Even the worst have moments of goodness.

Except for Individual-1. He ain't nothing but a goat fucker.

nolabear

(41,963 posts)
16. I for one can hold two opposing concepts though I have my limits too.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:45 PM
Aug 2018

If you require perfection in order to recognize any good in a person or appreciate any good deed then you disdain everybody eventually. We all have our line. Yours and mine differ.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
25. F. Scott Fitzgerald.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:51 PM
Aug 2018
“The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function.”

LakeArenal

(28,817 posts)
94. No accolades here niyad.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 03:51 PM
Aug 2018

I agree completely.

Joe Biden might be his buddy, but I can’t bear him.

I have no desire for him to suffer in death, but I have no desire to admire him either.

The past was then, now he is all the things that have been said about him.

 

john657

(1,058 posts)
131. As a fellow Vietnam Veteran,
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 07:29 PM
Aug 2018

I highly respect the man for his service to his country, I disagreed with him many times, but I still respected him as a human being.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
8. grave dancing? by pointing out the realities of the "maverick"? I don't dance on graves (notice,
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:41 PM
Aug 2018

he isn't dead)

zentrum

(9,865 posts)
77. Furthermore he brought us that other "maverick", Palin.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 03:03 PM
Aug 2018

This was deeply harmful to the level of political discourse we now live with.

Obama said that Palin set the table for Trump.

McCain was willing to risk the Presidency be that ignorant, reality-TV creature Palin, should anything happen to him.

This was sheer ambition and political impulse ---the opposite of patriotism.

How soon we all forget.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
100. My thought exactly...I guess haters gotta hate.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 04:10 PM
Aug 2018

He may not have been the best man in the world, but he was hardly the worst, and I, for one, am sorry to see him go

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,857 posts)
9. I'm with you.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:42 PM
Aug 2018

His meanness, his nastiness, his incompetence as a navy pilot (how many planes did he wreck exactly?), his adultery, and so many other things make the current beatification of him disgusting.

From something as petty as moving out of his Congressional district in Phoenix to a much nicer part of town well before announcing his plan to run for the Senate (I was living in Phoenix at the time, so I recall it quite distinctly), to is possible collusion with the North Vietnamese -- something any number of fellow prisoners spoke about but were ignored, so many of the things he's done show his true character. And it's not a nice character.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
34. A difference between us and them
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:03 PM
Aug 2018

is that we don’t model our behavior on theirs and we don’t mete out compassion to people based on whether we think they are deserving of it.

That’s one way I can tell us apart - but maybe I’ve been mistaken and it turns out that some of us aren’t all that different from them, after all since they think the people they hate deserve it, too ...

femmedem

(8,203 posts)
142. Thank you, EffieBlack.
Sat Aug 25, 2018, 07:40 AM
Aug 2018

It seems that the urge to divide people into us and them, and to despise them runs deep and wide.

We see it here not only when we're talking about McCain, but when we applaud people who cut off contact with family members because they voted for Trump. When we heap scorn on people because they don't cut off contact with family members who voted for Trump. When we eviscerate Democratic candidates and their supporters during primary season who are running against our preferred candidate, and continue to do so long after primary season is over.

We lay the seeds for it with belittling and dehumanizing nicknames for everyone with an R next to their names. When we say that a third of the electorate is not worth any attempt to communicate with them, not because it isn't as strategically wise as focusing on increasing turnout among our solid base, but because those people are so deplorable that we would literally rather not have their votes.

It seems we cannot help ourselves. Yes, Democratic policies are rooted in compassion, but our own tendencies to hate the other should at least give us pause, and some recognition that we are not as different from our political opponents as we think we are.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
18. I question McCains compassion for anyone.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:46 PM
Aug 2018

Yes, the op goes too far. I will question McCains history in a more negative light than the op.

 

elmac

(4,642 posts)
88. Compassion is a commodity few people can afford
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 03:23 PM
Aug 2018

in our political & economic climate. Watching fascists destroy the lives of so many Americans dilutes any compassion for the evil doers and they do evil. IMHO, Some, like Mccain, fall into the old school republican category and aren't completely corrupted. I know he's screwed over the indigenous population in AZ, got caught up in the S&L scandal, voted with the fascists most of the time. When the end comes I will remember him as a vet, a POW who refused early release because of who he was, correcting a supporter at his rally who called Obama a Muslim, voting against the fascist on ACA. I wish he didn't have cancer, I wish he could continue serving AZ as long as he wishes. I wish we could have used the trillions wasted on war to find cures or better treatments for cancer.

flotsam

(3,268 posts)
13. Article is a smear
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:44 PM
Aug 2018

and the author a clueless moron. "Countless Missions" after 30 seconds on google becomes "on his 23 bombing mission".

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
15. Horrible voting record. Oppressive voting record.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:45 PM
Aug 2018

He even voted against the last re authorization of SCHIP.

Fuck McCain. I wish he wasn't suffering and hope he can be made as comfortable as possible. May his family find peace.

BigmanPigman

(51,593 posts)
19. He is GOP through and through.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:47 PM
Aug 2018

He voted with his party and his political record is crystal clear. Some are worse, some are better. I will not shed any tears.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
21. This is callous and inappropriate.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:48 PM
Aug 2018

The man is dying and probably suffering terribly.

I think this is one of those times when if you can’t find something kind to say about someone, it’s better to just remain silent.

nolabear

(41,963 posts)
48. Seriously. It's not about him. It's about us.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:16 PM
Aug 2018

The capacity for compassion makes us better and happier people.

pazzyanne

(6,556 posts)
113. Thank you for your voice of reason, EffieBlack!
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 04:41 PM
Aug 2018

When I watch the vitriol pouring out on this thread, it turns my stomach. There is more than enough hate to go around, but doing so under the present circumstances makes us no better as a human being. I somehow expected more from my fellow DUers. I appreciate those people with compassion. It separates us from the narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths of the world.

Kaleva

(36,301 posts)
37. It doesn't take the least bit of courage to post an OP like that.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:05 PM
Aug 2018

There's no chance that the OP will be alerted on and hidden nor is there the slightest chance that the DUer who posted the OP will be banned from here. Ergo, it took no courage to post it.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
42. And even if they did get alerted or banned, taking that risk is hardly a sign of "courage"
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:08 PM
Aug 2018

It’s an anonymous website - not posting on it is hardly an ordeal or life-altering event...

Jeez.

Kaleva

(36,301 posts)
121. As I have a very hard time remembering names, places, and dates amongst other things...
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 06:12 PM
Aug 2018

I have no recollection of having interacted with you before. I'd make a lousy witness at any trial.

GusBob

(7,286 posts)
59. Lol the courage of some random anonymous post! How brave,
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:36 PM
Aug 2018

I mean, compared to the USS Forrestal tragedy, the Hanoi Hilton, brain cancer.....

That takes real courage

Scruffy1

(3,256 posts)
31. I truly despise him.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 01:56 PM
Aug 2018

His hypocrisy is beyond measure. I have always assumed he was a controlled puppet. How the American press fell for his Maverick label is good reason to ignore the press. He is nothing short of a sociopath in my book. Whether dead or alive this man gets way to much of free ride over his military service, which was mainly bombing the shit of a poor populace. His war mongering and self aggrandizement were appalling.

eleny

(46,166 posts)
51. Adding a few more articles that I read long ago that illustrate his connections and rise to power
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:24 PM
Aug 2018

Just to consolidate it in this great thread.

Now It’s The Post Covering Up John McCain’s Mob Connections
http://www.americanfreepress.net/html/mccain_s_mob_connections_146.html

And this one from 2000, Haunted by Spirits
https://www.phoenixnewtimes.com/news/haunted-by-spirits-6438434

And one last one, Made Man from 2008
https://newrepublic.com/article/64809/made-man

eleny

(46,166 posts)
78. I found that one from 2000 way back then
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 03:04 PM
Aug 2018

But lost it in a pc crash. Recently, I went looking for it and it's still out there. The way back machine is still well oiled!

His father in law's story fascinates me. Prohibition whiskey guys of the west!

VOX

(22,976 posts)
109. The American Free Press is a far-right-wing, conspiracy-theory-pushing entity.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 04:22 PM
Aug 2018

The Southern Poverty Law Center considers it a hate group.

eleny

(46,166 posts)
119. Thanks! It's important to read the article through that lens
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 05:06 PM
Aug 2018

I'll have to see if the assertions are corroborated by trusted sources. Thx, again!

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
52. He is only a maverick when Mitch McConnell allows it.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:26 PM
Aug 2018

Like Susan Collins, another puppet of McConnell. The corporate media loves to portray both as independent and moderate, but both are loyal tools of McConnell.

spicysista

(1,663 posts)
54. I understand the OP.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:28 PM
Aug 2018

There is an urgency to the suffering of those that yet live. Where to start: Children are still being separated, Flint (and too many other places) still doesn't have clean water, Nazis and white supremacists are feeling froggy, snap has been slashed like a murder victim in a b movie, the voting rights act is still in tatters, dolt45 & co is still running things, the scotus is about to undergo a civil rights "make-under"......and too much other crap to list.
As a member of a military family, I will always have a special place for those that have served the country. I'm all for acknowledging Sen. McCain's life's achievements. But we should not kid ourselves about who he is in relation to progressive causes. He's danced the nasty polka of bigotry and prejudice to suit his own political purposes. The first thing I learned of John McCain, as a child, was that he was one of the folks that did not support establishing the national MLK holiday. There'll be plenty of folks brushing over his bald spots when he dies. I'll not participate in lionizing him before then. He can have his day, then, when he's no longer among the living. Until then, there're other folks to highlight.

History!


Miracles !


Superwoman!


Surviving!

Atticus

(15,124 posts)
64. If I survive a few more months, I'll begin my 70th year on this planet.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:39 PM
Aug 2018

I am at the age where the awareness of my mortality is a constant factor in how I view my world and it's inhabitants. It is an attitude that is not easy to explain to those much younger and unnecessary to explain to those who remember when Ike beat Adlai.

I did not like much that John McCain advocated, but I did respect his passion, his courage and, on most days, his bedrock decency. That he was not always kind, not always generous and not always right makes him a human, not a monster.

And,so, at my age, I try to consider how I would react to this news about Mr. McCain if I were similarly situated, i.e., knowingly facing eminent death. Being a very flawed person, I'm not always successful, but today I am. I will be generous and tolerant and forgiving and say simply that I hope his passage is easy and painless and that he has time to leave no "I love you" unsaid.

When my time comes, I hope some will wish the same for me.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
68. "his bedrock decency"? please, be good enough to share examples of it, for those of us
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:52 PM
Aug 2018

who may have missed it.

sorry, at my advanced age, I find that I tolerate fools and hypocrites and utter scum (and, these days, that is pretty much all pukes and their supporters) less and less each passing day.

Atticus

(15,124 posts)
82. If you are looking for a fight, look elsewhere. If you cannot see the unnecessary cruelty
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 03:07 PM
Aug 2018

in your OP, I'm sure nothing I could say would enlighten you.

pazzyanne

(6,556 posts)
115. Thank you for your wisdom, Atticus!
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 04:48 PM
Aug 2018

Sometimes it seems that wisdom is in very short supply. Nice to know there are still people out there that possess it in abundance.

groundloop

(11,519 posts)
67. DO WE REALLY NEED THIS RIGHT NOW ?????
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:45 PM
Aug 2018

At some point it's time to have a bit of sympathy, even toward our enemies. I think we're at that point with Senator McCain. It's safe to say he won't be participating in politics any more, can't we just give it a rest for a bit? Posts like this make us sound like the hateful far right that we keep claiming we're morally superior to.

Chemisse

(30,811 posts)
69. It's a rare person who is all good or all bad.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:53 PM
Aug 2018

If you want to demonize McCain, it's easy to find things to say. He's a warmonger, 'bomb bomb Iran', and much more.

If you want to honor him, you'll look at his service record, and you'll also see the moment he refused to let a woman say that Obama was not an American.

Do you want to wallow in the bad, oozing anger and hatred like a mental bed sore, or celebrate the good, lifting your spirit to appreciate the nuggets of goodness that are in us all? I prefer the latter.

What you are doing is like going to a memorial service and listing all the rotten things the dead person has done. We all have a list; none of us are angels. And if anyone stands up and says, 'what about when he (insert something good here)?' You say, no, none of the good stuff matters because he did these bad things.

While there are a few people on this earth who are such horrific people that they deserve that blanket condemnation, McCain is not one of them.

While acknowledging the bad, I intend to honor the good in John McCain.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
73. I look at his voting record, his treatment of women, and the fact that he would not have HAD
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 02:56 PM
Aug 2018

a military career if it were not for his father and grandfather, because he was utterly incompetent.

plenty of others can lionize him, praise him. he doesn't need any platitudes from me.

womanofthehills

(8,709 posts)
85. In the majority of people I know, I do not have to acknowledge any bad
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 03:17 PM
Aug 2018

Compared to the lying Republicans who are out there now, McCain seems like a saner Republican. However, he has made some really bad choices that most rational people would not have made.

Chemisse

(30,811 posts)
132. I would never have wanted him to be president, and I disagreed with most of his opinions,
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 07:38 PM
Aug 2018

But he was true to his beliefs more often than most GOP politicians, and I really appreciated what he did in the health care votes last year.

Doodley

(9,091 posts)
81. I salute him for saving Obamacare. I salute him for correcting the woman
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 03:07 PM
Aug 2018

who was full of hate at a rally and called Obama a Muslim. I salute his service to our nation.

On all these points, he is the polar opposite to Trump. Trump wanted to destroy Obamacare and take away healthcare for 32 million people. McCain put a stop to that. Trump rose to political fortune by accusing Obama of being born outside America and therefore being an illegitimate president, whereas McCain stood up against bigotry towards Obama. And whereas McCain served our nation, Trump draft-dodged, attacked a Gold Star family and denigrated McCain's service.




The Liberal Lion

(1,414 posts)
83. I used to admire McCain, despite not agreeing with him on most things
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 03:07 PM
Aug 2018

that was until he foisted the hillbilly from Wasilla unto us.

Wash. state Desk Jet

(3,426 posts)
96. You know, given the circumstances ,sometimes, as it is,
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 03:55 PM
Aug 2018

if you have nothing good to say, better you should say nothing at all.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
99. What is the point here? Besides pre-grave-dancing, what is the goddamned point of this?
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 04:05 PM
Aug 2018

McCain will soon be history. He was who he was, and soon, he will not be around at all. There are much bigger (and far more dangerous) fish to fry than McCain's ghost. Let him die in peace.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
105. There's an old saying on DU .
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 04:18 PM
Aug 2018

"Haters gotta hate" -- It's the only "point" I can see, and I'm as disgusted by it as you seem to be.

pnwmom

(108,978 posts)
102. People change. And I am grateful that he was the deciding vote for Obamacare
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 04:15 PM
Aug 2018

and that he has been one of the very, very few GOP voices against Trump in the Congress.

I also remember that moment during one of his Town Halls where a woman disparaged candidate Obama and McCain stood up for Obama -- and the truth.

And I think now, while he is actively dying, is not a time we should be attacking him.

We are better than that. Or we should be.

AZmikey

(7 posts)
103. Should be "the dark side of niyad"
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 04:15 PM
Aug 2018

Ugly post....holy crap. I’m guessing you were looking to drive a wedge here. Didn’t learn a thing about McCain here, but I learned a little about you.

Response to AZmikey (Reply #103)

Crutchez_CuiBono

(7,725 posts)
104. Too soon. Can't we talk about this next week?
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 04:16 PM
Aug 2018

Good grief. Surprised.
Besides, it's Friday for all of us, and we look to be winning today. Have a good weekend Du!

ObamaKerryDem

(1,466 posts)
107. Wow, writing this OP made you feel really good, didn't it?
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 04:22 PM
Aug 2018

Frankly, this is incredibly tacky. The time to evaluate him as a candidate was a decade ago - unless you live in AZ - but either way, that is the past now. Of course, as with any political career, particularly a long one like McCain's, there is a lot that could be said but this OP seems to go even beyond that. It just feels like very smug grave dancing (and the poor guy is not even gone yet). If anything is 'loathsome', it's that. Not much better than a lot of what we see from the far right.

It's not even about politics in this instance - it's about being able to show even a drop of compassion, even for one second, in what is simply a very sad moment.

We can do better than this.

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
108. I can't post what I would really like to say.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 04:22 PM
Aug 2018

I thought about sending you a nasty PM, but decided not to.

You are not a nice human being.

I wish we still had Unrec.

rrze

(20 posts)
110. this post is a really bad idea
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 04:31 PM
Aug 2018

We have the momentum. We are on the right side of history. Why throw fuel into the fire of the dying GOP? McCain...flawed man. In today's GOP, he's an extreme moderate for them. He will die, wondering why he allowed a buffoon like Sarah Palin to come so close to the White House. He hates Trump, too. And his ignorance paved his way. McCain's legacy. Not much.

struggle4progress

(118,282 posts)
114. He's dying. I have never much agreed with him. But
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 04:45 PM
Aug 2018
No man is an Iland, intire of it selfe; every man is a peece of the Continent, a part of the maine; if a Clod bee washed away by the Sea, Europe is the lesse, as well as if a Promontorie were, as well as if a Mannor of thy friends or of thine owne were; any mans death diminishes me, because I am involved in Mankinde; And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; It tolls for thee

BlueStater

(7,596 posts)
118. You're not telling anyone anything they didn't already know.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 05:00 PM
Aug 2018

His war service was honorable, his political career far less so.

BigDemVoter

(4,150 posts)
122. Thank you.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 06:35 PM
Aug 2018

Just because somebody is dead or dying doesn't make them a saint. And criticizing somebody who's dead or dying doesn't make one indecent either. . . . Let's not forget that John McCain would have been perfectly happy to foist Sarah Fucking Palin on us as VP. . .

Captain Stern

(2,201 posts)
126. All that may well be true, and it could've/should've been posted...
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 07:11 PM
Aug 2018

.....sometime in the last few years.

But today, of all days?

Very bad form.

50 Shades Of Blue

(9,993 posts)
128. Yeah.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 07:20 PM
Aug 2018

I never wished him ill and I'm sorry for his suffering.

But IMO he did way more harm than good in his political career and I won't mourn him one bit.

tirebiter

(2,537 posts)
130. No, sir. This is the West, sir
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 07:25 PM
Aug 2018

When the legend becomes fact, print the legend.

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TomSlick

(11,098 posts)
136. My suggestion is that we allow history to reach its conclusions about McCain with a few years remove
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 08:51 PM
Aug 2018

In the meanwhile, he is a dying man with a grieving family. In the short-term, the accolades offered do us no harm. We currently have plenty of other people against whom we can focus our ire.

Let the man die in peace and do not begrudge him or his family such comfort as others may offer.

Mc Mike

(9,114 posts)
139. You I always liked. Him I seldom liked.
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 09:17 PM
Aug 2018

I'd rather have you in as Prez or VP than McCain or Palin in.

I just can't waste time attacking him, now, as opposed to attacking the rabid nazi tRump repugs who are attacking him, while he's a dying very flawed person.

In the long run, his negatives will still exist to be discussed.

True Dough

(17,305 posts)
140. I certainly won't put McCain on a pedestal
Fri Aug 24, 2018, 10:20 PM
Aug 2018

But nor will I bash him while he's on death's doorstep. His voting record is public. His statements are public. Many of his actions are on the public record.

We've spent a lot of years being critical of his positions, for good reason, and occasionally he's given us reason to cheer.

Farewell, Mr. McCain.

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