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Stormy Daniels @StormyDanielsThank you @JillFilipovic for not only the article but for being one of the very few journalists to respect and use my preferred name.
from Jill Filipovic at NYT:
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Mr. Trump has built his image on gold-plated decadence and acts of dominance and degradation; in a sexist society, money and power continue to be the blunt masculine equivalents of the more enigmatic female sex appeal (which itself is largely measured and rewarded by men). Theres little cost to men flaunting their wealth as extravagantly as Mr. Trump has.
But for women, there is a significant cost to advertising sexual availability and expecting dollars be handed directly over. Women who monetize their attractiveness through conventional acting or modeling, like Mr. Trumps wives, may be seen as less deserving of their resources than a man who was, like Mr. Trump, born rich, but they are generally in the clear. Younger, beautiful women who marry rich men might be princesses (beautiful women, classy women, per Mr. Giuliani), trophy wives or gold-diggers (the calculating woman who refuses to sign the prenuptial agreement because she is expecting to take advantage of the poor, unsuspecting sucker shes got in her grasp, as Mr. Trump put it in Trump: The Art of the Comeback).
Women who have affairs with married men, whether those women are Ms. Daniels or Mr. Trumps second wife, are held more culpable as seductresses than the men who, like Mr. Trump and Mr. Giuliani, actually broke their vows. But its women who cross the line from looking sexy for pay to having sex for pay, like Ms. Daniels, who face the most judgment. The men who pay for it, or pay to watch it, are generally unremarkable.
We are far from transcending the pervasive assumption that a womans sexual decisions are decisive of her character and her integrity. In many swaths of the country, Ms. Daniels continues to be written off as a pole-dancing Hester Prynne a woman not to be trusted.
But the country is also watching her dogged refusal to be quiet and her unflagging insistence that she isnt the one who should be embarrassed. Were seeing a woman who refuses to wear either a scarlet letter or a superwoman cape, and she stands in sharp contrast to a self-aggrandizing president who may face serious consequences once this all unspools. The potential triumph of a deeply imperfect woman over a powerful man wont exactly break a glass ceiling. But it could put a little crack in a stereotype just as tough to shatter.
read more: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/24/opinion/sunday/stormy-daniels-michael-cohen-feminist-hero.html
GreenPartyVoter
(72,377 posts)dalton99a
(81,488 posts)Hortensis
(58,785 posts)After all, even a new hire at your county DA's office would know to go after Cohen when his boss is the target.
But this is the U.S. DoJ, the Mueller investigation and the FBI. The gang that can't stop shooting itself in the gut is hopelessly outmatched.
What Daniels/Avenatti did was make some information public that we wouldn't otherwise have because the Mueller investigation isn't revealing anything about this. That's all.
niyad
(113,306 posts)2naSalit
(86,612 posts)Tucker08087
(621 posts)Thank you. I wish I had made the connection myself. Its exactly right.
Farmer-Rick
(10,170 posts)I despise Malania, ever since she refused to hug or help the immigrant children being torn apart from their families by her husband. That she wore a cheap jacket that told the world she didn't care about the small children she was there to observe only rubbed salt into the wound.
world wide wally
(21,743 posts)aikoaiko
(34,170 posts)Dr Hobbitstein
(6,568 posts)jaxind
(1,074 posts)I couldn't stand Malaria ever since she was a birther! (Never had respect for her though even before that because of her marrying someone just for their money)!
Pepsidog
(6,254 posts)PatrickforO
(14,574 posts)Stormy Daniels has nothing whatever to be ashamed of. She made herself a successful career in a tough, exploitative industry.
Trump is the fucking snake.
MontanaMama
(23,314 posts)pretended to be anyone other than who she is. She didnt lie, steal or cheat anybody out of anything. The article states that she might be deeply imperfect...who of us isnt? I applaud her courage.
mythology
(9,527 posts)She isn't courageous in any meaningful sense. She literally has nothing to lose and can gain a great deal of attention/money.
Just because she doesn't like Trump doesn't change who she is.
MontanaMama
(23,314 posts)I dont applaud her having an affair by any means. The author is correct that she was deeply flawed....my point is, who isnt?