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demmiblue

(36,875 posts)
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 08:37 AM Aug 2018

Utah woman's same-sex partner of 50 years died. Then a judge declared them legally married.



Bonnie Foerster knew within minutes of meeting Beverly Grossaint at a friend’s party in New York City in 1968 that they were meant to be together.

Foerster, then 24 and working for a poultry company, was married to an abusive husband who had blackened both her eyes and broken several of her ribs. She was wearing dark sunglasses to hide her bruises, when Grossaint, 31, “took off my glasses, looked at me with those deep blue eyes and told me that she could see my soul,” Foerster said in an interview with The Washington Post. “Just like that, we fell in love.”

Fifty years after that chance encounter, Foerster, now 74 and living in Salt Lake City, is mourning the loss of her partner, who died in May of pneumonia at age 82. The pair never married because they were suffering from various health problems in 2015, when same-sex marriage became legal nationwide.

Now, three months after Grossaint’s death, the couple has been declared legally married by a Utah court in an unusual case of a posthumous marriage union.

“I’m numb with happiness to finally be a married woman,” Foerster said.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/inspired-life/wp/2018/08/28/utah-womans-same-sex-partner-of-50-years-died-then-a-judge-declared-them-legally-married/?utm_term=.299743d02395&tid=sm_tw&__twitter_impression=true


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Utah woman's same-sex partner of 50 years died. Then a judge declared them legally married. (Original Post) demmiblue Aug 2018 OP
A very touching and beautiful story. nt Fla Dem Aug 2018 #1
good idea Angry Dragon Aug 2018 #2
posthumous marriage will really shake up estate planners bucolic_frolic Aug 2018 #3
a beautiful story. thanks for sharing. eom LittleGirl Aug 2018 #4
The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends towards justice mythology Aug 2018 #5
Hate may be rearing its' ugly head now... Initech Aug 2018 #6
I wish my great aunts could have had something like this. chowder66 Aug 2018 #7
 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
5. The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends towards justice
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 11:05 AM
Aug 2018

Congrats to her and well deserved.

Initech

(100,098 posts)
6. Hate may be rearing its' ugly head now...
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 11:08 AM
Aug 2018

But in the end love and justice will *ALWAYS* prevail over hate and bigotry. Congrats to her as well.

chowder66

(9,074 posts)
7. I wish my great aunts could have had something like this.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 02:28 PM
Aug 2018

They are both long gone and had to hide their love.
I listed them in our family tree as married as it really was the only thing I could think to do. I told my family I did this and no one complained which is good. Most are pretty liberal minded, even the ex-republicans in my family.

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