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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsFor your own mental health, take a news break
Feelings of outrage, virtual helplessness, and all-consuming anger are hazardous to your health. Given the ongoing non-stop insanity in our country, many of us here on DU are spending much of our time being way beyond pissed off. But trust me on this: -- Thats bad for your mental health and, in turn, affects your physical well being.
Those who are doing their best to destroy our freedoms and our democracy, feed on red-meat-hatred. And they love and welcome our outrage and anger. They know that their words and deeds are driving sane people to the edge. And theyre enjoying it.
Speaking for myself, I find that if I spend too much time online, or watching breaking news, my blood pressure probably goes well over whatever is considered healthy. And my anger reaches a point that is hazardous to my own well being.
Turn your TV to a movie or some show, or read a book, or take a walk, or drive to your favorite spot, or make love, or do whatever it is you enjoy doing most. Let go of the stress for a while. Give your mind and body a rest from the endless, daily bombardment of negativity.
Being dead is forever. But while youre alive, try to enjoy what you can. Dont let those who are deranged and live on hatred steal moments/hours/days/months from your lifetime.
Take a break from smelling the daily bullshit. Smell the freshness after the rain, the pizza, clean sheets, or maybe even the flowers.
Roland99
(53,342 posts)Im done for the day now
Watching some football
About to take my daughter driving for more practice for her.
Reading news might be less stressful! lol
I kid. Shes doing well so far
hlthe2b
(102,375 posts)I'm also into British murder mysteries/detective serials. They are so much more intellectual than the gritty violent detective shows of the US. Of course, British comedy too.
WhiskeyWulf
(569 posts)For several months, I was in a state of near-panic when I thought about what had just happened to us. I couldn't even watch Rachel, & she's usually the one person who can make politics palatable for me.
This is good advice & I hope people take it to heart. We have to stay aware of what's going on, but there's a point where it becomes unhealthy.
Wounded Bear
(58,713 posts)and more sparing of my time in front of the TV machine.
Life's too short. I know who I'm voting for come November, and who I'm voting against.
BootinUp
(47,188 posts)Yurovsky
(2,064 posts)and why let others - no matter how vile, disgusting, or evil - steal your joy and ruin your health?
Stay informed and involved, but dont obsess over things you cant change. Theres still a lot of good in the world. Seek it out and celebrate it.
Ilsa
(61,698 posts)I don't watch tv news. I have to have a break from the voices, especially IQ45's.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)I try to take breaks every now and then to watch movies that have nothing to do with politics (although I did watch "Active Measures" recently and it was very good) .
It's really good to un-plug and just ignore the madness, even if it just for a few hours. Rest assured, it will still be there when you come back.
Fritz Walter
(4,292 posts)Starting tomorrow, I'm taking an "unplugged" vacation. While I'll still have access to all the on-line and mass-media distractions and annoyances, I plan to eschew them.
To re-charge my batteries.
To regain a healthy perspective.
To (borrowing a phrase from my SCUBA training) decompress. Fellow divers would acknowledge that proper and healthy decompression requires several stages over a period of time, and that's exactly what I'm planning to do.
I'll be back in seven days.
Hope the rest of y'all don't get the bends in the meantime!
elmac
(4,642 posts)enjoy the season, count your blessings and, something new I've found, put on a good pair of headphones and relax with some ASMR streams on youtube.
hunter
(38,328 posts)No news, no commercials.
Back in the twentieth century, I decided television news was bad for my mental health.
Silver Gaia
(4,546 posts)Being semi-retired, it would be easy to fall into a news-watching rut, but I do my best to limit it. Rachel Maddow is a daily must-see for me, and sometimes Lawrence O'Donnell after or Chris Hayes before. I check in at DU and Twitter several times throughout the day just to make sure I haven't missed something important. That's pretty much it. I refuse, of course, to have FOX News sliming my TV, and I rarely look at CNN, either. I don't read any sites online where right-wingers post, don't read comments on news articles, and rarely read them on Twitter. I have a list of trusted sources that I follow there, but I don't say a word on there, and reject any follower requests (because WHY when I never say anything?). This keeps me informed, but relatively sane (I think? I hope).
My husband and I have a nightly "date" to watch something entertaining on TV for at least an hour. Other than this, I garden when I can, fix stuff, or try to write. I do have a problem with reading fiction that I wish I could get past. I used to love reading before bed every night, but so far, have been unable to do so since election night 2016. My mind just will not focus on a fictional world now. I read a few paragraphs, then the *real* world (which feels so totally UNreal to me) creeps back in. I have at least a dozen books waiting for me to read them. I keep buying them anyway, hoping that I will feel relaxed enough to read them sometime soon.
I think this, being unable to lose myself in a fictional world, is what hurts the most. Despite all my efforts to limit my exposure to the stress of the constant bombardment of the news, and to engage in pleasant pastimes, this persists. I haven't yet found the key to overcoming this one thing that I have used all my life to relax and escape for a while. It does hurt. *sigh*
Claritie Pixie
(2,199 posts)Youll feel calmer and clearer afterwards.
Nay
(12,051 posts)allowed me to get out my frustrations with this nutty country.