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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 04:21 PM Sep 2018

A death in my family

Our son...



JEAN-BABETS, Stephen D. Age 30, of Amherst, formerly of Shutesbury, Greenfield, and Carver, Ma. unexpectedly passed away September 11, 2018. A graduate of Amherst Regional High School (2006), Stephen attended Fitchburg State College and was an aspiring lyricist. Beloved son of David H. Jean and Don Babets. Loving brother of Kenneth S. Jean-Babets of Greenfield; Patrick G. Jean-Babets of Hadley and George N. Jean-Babets of Newton. Much loved grandson of Henri and Doris Jean of Chicopee, Ma. and the late Donald J. and Betty L. Babets of Ohio. Adored godparent of Ylisia-Madison Caroline Stewart of Amherst. Nephew and cousin of family members in Maine, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Massachusetts, Georgia, Michigan, Tennessee, and Arizona. An ecumenical service in celebration of Steve's life will be held Sunday, September 23rd at 2:00 P.M. at the First Congregational Church in Amherst (165 Main St. Amherst, Ma).

In lieu of flowers, donations in Steve's memory can be made to help reduce funeral expenses at www.gofundme.com/steve-jeanbabets039-funeral-expenses

Memorial register at www.douglassfuneral.com

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A death in my family (Original Post) DonViejo Sep 2018 OP
So very sorry for your loss Va Lefty Sep 2018 #1
A terrible loss The Blue Flower Sep 2018 #2
My sympathies snowybirdie Sep 2018 #3
I'm sorry for your loss lagomorph777 Sep 2018 #4
Oh my gosh, my heart is just broken for you. I am so, so sorry for your loss Happyhippychick Sep 2018 #5
I don't have words, Don. I'm so very sorry backtoblue Sep 2018 #6
Sending hugs, deep condolences, and love. salin Sep 2018 #7
I'm so sorry. Different Drummer Sep 2018 #8
My thoughts go out to you. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #9
I am so sorry, this is way too young. Parents shouldn't out live their children uppityperson Sep 2018 #10
So sorry to hear this. Jim__ Sep 2018 #11
I'm very sorry to hear the sad news. NurseJackie Sep 2018 #12
Please accept my deepest condolences. MontanaMama Sep 2018 #13
Oh my dear DonViejo............. CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2018 #14
Oh no. My deepest sympathies for your loss. mountain grammy Sep 2018 #15
Deepest sympathy malaise Sep 2018 #16
Words are inadequate for a loss like this. greatauntoftriplets Sep 2018 #17
I am so sorry for you and your families loss. sheshe2 Sep 2018 #18
So, so sorry to read this. babylonsister Sep 2018 #19
Oh jeeze. I'm so sorry. Hassin Bin Sober Sep 2018 #20
My deepest sympathies leftynyc Sep 2018 #21
. spanone Sep 2018 #22
I'm so sorry. dewsgirl Sep 2018 #23
Oh, there are no words... nolabear Sep 2018 #24
I'm so sorry. I'm at a loss for words. NT mahatmakanejeeves Sep 2018 #25
I wish you Strength and Courage in the days ahead, DonViejo - ZZenith Sep 2018 #26
My condolences to you, your family and friends. oasis Sep 2018 #27
There are no words. I am so sorry. Solly Mack Sep 2018 #28
Oh, I'm so sorry TuxedoKat Sep 2018 #29
Deepest condolences. Such a nice looking and talented young man. Frustratedlady Sep 2018 #30
oh my gosh.... samnsara Sep 2018 #31
I am so sorry for your loss..... chillfactor Sep 2018 #32
I can't imagine your pain and the loss of such a young and promising life. My heartfelt condolences. alwaysinasnit Sep 2018 #33
My deepest sympathy,DonViejo stuffmatters Sep 2018 #34
I am so sorry. We should not have to bury our precious children! nt tblue37 Sep 2018 #35
Oh my... I am so sorry for the lost of your child. demmiblue Sep 2018 #36
I am so sorry. murielm99 Sep 2018 #37
So sorry for your loss KT2000 Sep 2018 #38
:( ffr Sep 2018 #39
So very sorry for your loss Andy823 Sep 2018 #40
I am so very, very sorry. diva77 Sep 2018 #41
I am so sorry. mnhtnbb Sep 2018 #42
Very sorry for your loss orangecrush Sep 2018 #43
My condolences. What a heart-breaking happening. hostalover Sep 2018 #44
Our hearts go out to you. Nature never intended our children to go before is. nt iluvtennis Sep 2018 #45
I'm so sorry. BadgerMom Sep 2018 #46
So sorry for your loss pruple Sep 2018 #47
Deepest Sympathies Leith Sep 2018 #48
Hopes BlueTexasMan Sep 2018 #49
Holding you and your family in my heart. Keep breathing. n/t TygrBright Sep 2018 #50
I am so sorry for your loss! smirkymonkey Sep 2018 #51
How sad. You have my sympathy. Vinca Sep 2018 #52
My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family... KCDebbie Sep 2018 #53
That's terribly sad. sweetroxie Sep 2018 #54
I'm so sorry. yellerpup Sep 2018 #55
My condolences Submariner Sep 2018 #56
My condolences to you and your family sinkingfeeling Sep 2018 #57
So very sorry, Don. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. boston bean Sep 2018 #58
Terrible beyond words, but I am glad you feel you can share this Tom Rinaldo Sep 2018 #59
I am so sorry to hear this news. Please accept my sympathies. TheBlackAdder Sep 2018 #60
So sorry for your loss... tenderfoot Sep 2018 #61
So sorry for you and your family. progressoid Sep 2018 #62
deepest sympathy, Don rurallib Sep 2018 #63
My deepest sympathies n/t hibbing Sep 2018 #64
So very sorry. Tess49 Sep 2018 #65
so very sorry kanda Sep 2018 #66
Oh man, that's so sad, hang in there friend njhoneybadger Sep 2018 #67
Tragic JohnnyLib2 Sep 2018 #68
Too young. My sympathies go out to everyone affected by this loss. nt chowder66 Sep 2018 #69
so sorry Don Kurt V. Sep 2018 #75
I am so sorry. There are no words to express. ms liberty Sep 2018 #70
omg what a shock for you and your wife. BeckyDem Sep 2018 #71
Deepest sympathy to you and your family. skylucy Sep 2018 #72
. JI7 Sep 2018 #73
I am so very sorry. cate94 Sep 2018 #74
I'm so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss, Don. Cha Sep 2018 #76
My deepest sympathies and condolences Don... Docreed2003 Sep 2018 #77
Don, Ohiogal Sep 2018 #78
I'm so very sorry for your loss Metatron Sep 2018 #79
I'm so sorry DesertRat Sep 2018 #80
I'm so sorry for you loss. MelissaB Sep 2018 #81
i am so sorry. barbtries Sep 2018 #82
Deepest condolences, Don. dixiegrrrrl Sep 2018 #83
May his memory be eternal. Mme. Defarge Sep 2018 #84
Wow, I am so, so sorry. My sincere condolences. CaptainTruth Sep 2018 #85
So sorry. JDC Sep 2018 #86
I'm so very sorry, DonViejo catbyte Sep 2018 #87
I'm so sorry for your loss... mithnanthy Sep 2018 #88
Extremely sorry. colorado_ufo Sep 2018 #89
My condolences to you and your family. The Velveteen Ocelot Sep 2018 #90
How devasting. My deepest sympathy to you. Duppers Sep 2018 #91
I am so very sorry for your loss! pnwmom Sep 2018 #92
Condolences to you and yours bucolic_frolic Sep 2018 #93
Oh how heartbreaking! AwakeAtLast Sep 2018 #94
Oh, DonViejo, I didn't expect this dreadful loss Hortensis Sep 2018 #95
Stephen looks like a very beautiful soul, I am so sorry. BittyJenkins Sep 2018 #96
Heartfelt sympathy and deepest condolences to you and your family, DonViejo. Totally Tunsie Sep 2018 #97
I am so very sorry easttexaslefty Sep 2018 #98
I'm very sorry for your loss, Don. sl8 Sep 2018 #99
My sincere condolences to you and your family Mazeltov Cocktail Sep 2018 #100
My God, sorrow for your loss is hard to express. Kind of Blue Sep 2018 #101
. struggle4progress Sep 2018 #102
My deepest condolences DonaldsRump Sep 2018 #103
Oh Don.... I'm so sorry. lamp_shade Sep 2018 #104
I am so sorry. Chemisse Sep 2018 #105
... Equinox Moon Sep 2018 #106
I'm so so very sorry DonViejo sdfernando Sep 2018 #107
How horribly sad, DonViejo. I am so sorry for the loss of your son. Hekate Sep 2018 #108
I am so sorry for your loss, DonViejo. Lars39 Sep 2018 #109
I am so very sorry for your loss. yardwork Sep 2018 #110
You have my deepest condolences MrScorpio Sep 2018 #111
So very sorry to hear of your loss. Mrs. Overall Sep 2018 #112
My condolences to you along with heartfelt sympathy. Stay strong.. monmouth4 Sep 2018 #113
I am so sorry. TheOther95Percent Sep 2018 #114
So young ... lillypaddle Sep 2018 #115
So,so very sorry. bronxiteforever Sep 2018 #116
. NRaleighLiberal Sep 2018 #117
Thinking of you and you family. 💫✨ MLAA Sep 2018 #118
So very sorry. onecaliberal Sep 2018 #119
Oh, my... To outlive your chldren has to be so hard. hlthe2b Sep 2018 #120
I'm so sorry MissB Sep 2018 #121
With Deepest Sympathy Donkees Sep 2018 #122
I'm so very sorry. democrank Sep 2018 #123
I am so sorry about your loss. Maraya1969 Sep 2018 #124
Wow, what sad news! BigmanPigman Sep 2018 #125
OMG... Eliot Rosewater Sep 2018 #126
May his memory be eternal! k8conant Sep 2018 #127
Deepest sympathy. Scarsdale Sep 2018 #128
I'm so sorry catrose Sep 2018 #129
This is a sorrow none ever wish. His memory will live in DU land. Peace and love...nt SWBTATTReg Sep 2018 #130
Sending love to you and yours voteearlyvoteoften Sep 2018 #131
I'm so sorry! redwitch Sep 2018 #132
Condolences ... NanceGreggs Sep 2018 #133
Healing white light coming your way. Guilded Lilly Sep 2018 #134
My condolences. c-rational Sep 2018 #135
My deepest condolences cp Sep 2018 #136
I'm so sorry about the loss of your son. FuzzyRabbit Sep 2018 #137
My condolences DonViejo denbot Sep 2018 #138
Oh, no, I'm so very sorry. StarryNite Sep 2018 #139
It's so raw RussBLib Sep 2018 #140
Devastating. So sorry to hear about your infinite loss. Lucky Luciano Sep 2018 #141
I am so very sorry UpInArms Sep 2018 #142
Sorry for your loss uponit7771 Sep 2018 #143
So sorry....... panader0 Sep 2018 #144
My heart aches for you. williesgirl Sep 2018 #145
My condolences. I can't understand how some can leave us so soon. n/t Liberal In Texas Sep 2018 #146
I'm so sorry. defacto7 Sep 2018 #147
I feel very deeply for you. I can imagine no greater loss than to lose a son. NNadir Sep 2018 #148
So very sorry samplegirl Sep 2018 #149
So sad to hear this, DonViejo. calimary Sep 2018 #150
my condolences. Demovictory9 Sep 2018 #151
🕯 sprinkleeninow Sep 2018 #152
My condolences... peace be with you. InAbLuEsTaTe Sep 2018 #153
Don Viejo, I'm so, so sorry you and your family are going through so much pain lunamagica Sep 2018 #154
I am so sorry. Let us know if we can help Hamlette Sep 2018 #155
So sorry, my deepest condolences peacebuzzard Sep 2018 #156
I'm so sorry for your loss nini Sep 2018 #157
I'm so sorry karin_sj Sep 2018 #158
One more voice who can't find any adequate words... 3catwoman3 Sep 2018 #159
My sincere sympathy bdjhawk Sep 2018 #160
Peace to him - and to all of you. mahina Sep 2018 #161
My sincere condolences! mecherosegarden Sep 2018 #162
I'm so very sorry. Silver Gaia Sep 2018 #163
I can only repeat what the rest have said: no parent should have to suffer this DFW Sep 2018 #164
I am so very sorry, he sounds like an outstanding young man Rhiannon12866 Sep 2018 #165
I am so sorry for your loss. (eom) StevieM Sep 2018 #166
Deepest sympathies DonV ... sorry for your family's loss ... mr_lebowski Sep 2018 #167
I'm so sorry. area51 Sep 2018 #168
I'm so sorry, Don. Squinch Sep 2018 #169
I am so sorry for your loss DonViejo. May your love for him and many memories help you and CentralMass Sep 2018 #170
Oh no! BumRushDaShow Sep 2018 #171
...condolences... N_E_1 for Tennis Sep 2018 #172
My heart goes out to you and your family... Phentex Sep 2018 #173
My condolences to your family and you. TexasTowelie Sep 2018 #174
Sincere condolences to you and your family. peekaloo Sep 2018 #175
My sympathies to you and your family. (nt) Paladin Sep 2018 #176
I'm very sorry for your loss. gulliver Sep 2018 #177
Sorry for your loss.. Stuart G Sep 2018 #178
What a heartbreaking loss for you and your family. Peace be with you all. Fla Dem Sep 2018 #179
Dear David and Don, Raine1967 Sep 2018 #180
My heart aches for you. Ilsa Sep 2018 #181
Dear Don, my heart goes out to you and yours. Zoonart Sep 2018 #182
Hugs sellitman Sep 2018 #183
RIP H2O Man Sep 2018 #184
My thoughts are with you and your family. (nt) ehrnst Sep 2018 #185
So very sorry for your loss. Enoki33 Sep 2018 #186
Oh, Don, I am so sorry. My deepest sympathy to you and your family and all who knew Stephen. sueh Sep 2018 #187
Oh, Don, I'm so sorry. What a heartbreaking loss. My deepest condolences to you and highplainsdem Sep 2018 #188
Words fail. kag Sep 2018 #189
So sorry, Don..... Bayard Sep 2018 #190
Please accept my condolences. n/t malthaussen Sep 2018 #191
What a loss....Deepest sympathy farmbo Sep 2018 #192
There are no sufficient words. Voltaire2 Sep 2018 #193
My deepest condolences to BlueMTexpat Sep 2018 #194
Deepest condolences to you and your family Danmel Sep 2018 #195
I am so sorry to hear of your son's passing. CottonBear Sep 2018 #196
Oh DonViejo MuseRider Sep 2018 #197
I am so very sorry janterry Sep 2018 #198
I'm so sorry Bettie Sep 2018 #199
I am so so sorry Arazi Sep 2018 #200
I know your pain DonViejo lunatica Sep 2018 #201
I am so very sorry for your loss. Words seem inadequate to express my jrthin Sep 2018 #202
so sorry to hear this steve2470 Sep 2018 #203
So very sorry, tazmaniac Sep 2018 #204
To yourself, family and friends, we extend our condolences and deepest sympathy, DV yonder Sep 2018 #205
I'm so very sorry for your loss Alliepoo Sep 2018 #206
Dearest DonViejo Niagara Sep 2018 #207
Please accept the heartfelt condolences of this stranger... Harker Sep 2018 #208
I wish I could offer more to comfort you and your family. Julian Englis Sep 2018 #209
deeply sorry for your loss JHan Sep 2018 #210
I'm so sorry Raine Sep 2018 #211
Thinking of you and your family tonight, and lifting this thread to the top of this evening's chain. TheBlackAdder Sep 2018 #212
It doesn't make a bit of sense. His photo reveals a very good, bright, kind person. Judi Lynn Sep 2018 #213

Happyhippychick

(8,379 posts)
5. Oh my gosh, my heart is just broken for you. I am so, so sorry for your loss
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 04:24 PM
Sep 2018

Your beloved son was loved by many. I wish I had some better words to comfort you but I hope his memory will be a blessing.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,648 posts)
14. Oh my dear DonViejo.............
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 04:36 PM
Sep 2018

How terrible a loss this is. My heart goes out to you and yours as you absorb this shock.

Should you feel the need, please visit our Bereavement Group: https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=forum&id=1234

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
21. My deepest sympathies
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 04:47 PM
Sep 2018

No parent should ever have to bury their child. I will put you all in my prayers.

ZZenith

(4,125 posts)
26. I wish you Strength and Courage in the days ahead, DonViejo -
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 04:56 PM
Sep 2018

We lost our son. It seems an insurmountable loss, though it is not.

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
30. Deepest condolences. Such a nice looking and talented young man.
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 04:59 PM
Sep 2018

There are no words that can make your loss easier to bear. May sweet memories help you and your family and friends get through this period of grief.

BadgerMom

(2,771 posts)
46. I'm so sorry.
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 05:14 PM
Sep 2018

My thoughts are with you at this devastating, life-altering moment. May peace find you again.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
51. I am so sorry for your loss!
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 05:16 PM
Sep 2018

What a sweet looking young man. He has such a kind face. I can't imagine your devastation. You and your family are in my thoughts.

Tom Rinaldo

(22,913 posts)
59. Terrible beyond words, but I am glad you feel you can share this
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 05:29 PM
Sep 2018

profound core loss with us. You know we deeply wish you any comfort and strength you can find to help get you and yours through this

TheBlackAdder

(28,209 posts)
60. I am so sorry to hear this news. Please accept my sympathies.
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 05:29 PM
Sep 2018

.

You are experiencing my greatest fear.

.

kanda

(175 posts)
66. so very sorry
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 05:39 PM
Sep 2018

I am so very, very sorry for your loss. A parent should never have to bury a child, and yet it happens. It's horribly unfair. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Hold each other close. Be together. Love one another. Blessings of peace.

cate94

(2,812 posts)
74. I am so very sorry.
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 05:44 PM
Sep 2018

Sending thoughts, prayers and hugs, to you and your family at this very difficult time. I’m sure your heart is breaking.

Docreed2003

(16,866 posts)
77. My deepest sympathies and condolences Don...
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 05:46 PM
Sep 2018

I cannot begin to imagine your loss. All my love and support in this difficult time for you and yours...know that you have so many here on DU to lean on, as superficial as that may seem. We love you and our hearts are with you.

Ohiogal

(32,015 posts)
78. Don,
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 05:47 PM
Sep 2018

This is something no parent should have to experience. My sincerest, heartfelt sympathies to you and your family.

Duppers

(28,125 posts)
91. How devasting. My deepest sympathy to you.
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 05:59 PM
Sep 2018

Having lost a child I can empathize. Stephen was a most handsome young man.



Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
95. Oh, DonViejo, I didn't expect this dreadful loss
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 06:01 PM
Sep 2018

on opening this message. As parents, this is always our worst fear of course. I'm so sorry for your poor son and all who love him.

BittyJenkins

(411 posts)
96. Stephen looks like a very beautiful soul, I am so sorry.
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 06:03 PM
Sep 2018

A candle is burning for Stephen, you and your loved ones.

Totally Tunsie

(10,885 posts)
97. Heartfelt sympathy and deepest condolences to you and your family, DonViejo.
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 06:04 PM
Sep 2018

How terribly sad it is to lose a child.

Kind of Blue

(8,709 posts)
101. My God, sorrow for your loss is hard to express.
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 06:12 PM
Sep 2018

I just hope that peace and comfort will surround you and your family now.

Chemisse

(30,813 posts)
105. I am so sorry.
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 06:22 PM
Sep 2018

I can't fathom how hard it is to cope with such a tragic loss. I am thinking of you during this hardest of times.

sdfernando

(4,935 posts)
107. I'm so so very sorry DonViejo
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 06:24 PM
Sep 2018

I just can’t imagine what you and your loved ones are going through.

Peace and love to you all.

hlthe2b

(102,304 posts)
120. Oh, my... To outlive your chldren has to be so hard.
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 06:41 PM
Sep 2018

I'm so very sorry, DonV. I'll be thinking of you and your family at this very difficult time.

May the time when all the good memories come before any sadness-- arrive very soon.

BigmanPigman

(51,613 posts)
125. Wow, what sad news!
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 07:00 PM
Sep 2018

This is terrible for you. I feel so badly. Please remember to take care of yourself during these days and months ahead. Surviving the loss of a love is so difficult. Don't try to do too much and be kind to yourself.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
128. Deepest sympathy.
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 07:15 PM
Sep 2018

No words can make it any easier. I know, having lost my 45 year old son several years ago. So very sorry for your loss. Sylvester Stallone put it clearly after he lost his son "We join a club that nobody wants to join" So true. Our children should never go before us. So much life left to live. Deeply sorry.

RussBLib

(9,025 posts)
140. It's so raw
Fri Sep 14, 2018, 10:35 PM
Sep 2018

Losing a close family member is one of the worst things, especially if they are young.

No platitudes will help. Only time. Cry. Let it go.

calimary

(81,350 posts)
150. So sad to hear this, DonViejo.
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 01:06 AM
Sep 2018

I’m so sorry.

Your precious boy.

Words fail, dear friend. But we will sit and share the vigil with you. You do not mourn alone. Remember what our own Skittles said - “someone’s always here.”

peacebuzzard

(5,175 posts)
156. So sorry, my deepest condolences
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 01:30 AM
Sep 2018

To you and your family. This is tragic, no words can express such a horrible loss.

nini

(16,672 posts)
157. I'm so sorry for your loss
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 01:32 AM
Sep 2018

I can't even begin to imagine the pain of losing a child. Sending sympathies to all who loved him.

karin_sj

(810 posts)
158. I'm so sorry
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 01:50 AM
Sep 2018

It's the hardest thing for a person to go through. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

3catwoman3

(24,013 posts)
159. One more voice who can't find any adequate words...
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 01:59 AM
Sep 2018

...for the worst loss of all.

Wishing you strong people to lean on as you find your way throught this dreadful change.

Silver Gaia

(4,545 posts)
163. I'm so very sorry.
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 02:34 AM
Sep 2018

Losing a child is the most difficult loss. I watched my mother and father bear this grief. My heart goes out to you. May you find peace.

DFW

(54,414 posts)
164. I can only repeat what the rest have said: no parent should have to suffer this
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 02:51 AM
Sep 2018

The fact that his short life seems to have been a full one can't compensate for it having ended so early. I hope you have a LOT of shoulders to lean on. I know I would have needed them.

Rhiannon12866

(205,610 posts)
165. I am so very sorry, he sounds like an outstanding young man
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 02:53 AM
Sep 2018

Sending deepest sympathies to you and your family, words seem inadequate, but please remember that your DU family is thinking of you and is always here.

CentralMass

(15,265 posts)
170. I am so sorry for your loss DonViejo. May your love for him and many memories help you and
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 05:54 AM
Sep 2018

Last edited Sat Sep 15, 2018, 12:13 PM - Edit history (2)

David, family and friends through this difficult time.

BumRushDaShow

(129,165 posts)
171. Oh no!
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 06:25 AM
Sep 2018


So sorry to see this. Didn't realize you all were in my old college stomping grounds.

Many condolences to your family and hopes that you will heal after losing someone so young. He will always be in your memories.

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
180. Dear David and Don,
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 09:31 AM
Sep 2018

I am so very sorry for the loss of your son.

I am so sorry for his brothers and the rest of your beautiful family.

Raine

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
181. My heart aches for you.
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 09:38 AM
Sep 2018

Such a handsome young man. I'm so sorry he didn't have more time with us. I'll pray for your family.

My MIL lives with us. She lost her daughter to a brain aneurysm eight years ago. It hurts even now.

sueh

(1,826 posts)
187. Oh, Don, I am so sorry. My deepest sympathy to you and your family and all who knew Stephen.
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 10:35 AM
Sep 2018

(((hugs)))

highplainsdem

(49,006 posts)
188. Oh, Don, I'm so sorry. What a heartbreaking loss. My deepest condolences to you and
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 11:16 AM
Sep 2018

David, your family and all of Steve's loved ones.

kag

(4,079 posts)
189. Words fail.
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 11:23 AM
Sep 2018

Language is so frustratingly inadequate at this time. Just know that we are all thinking about you and sending warm, healing thoughts to you and your dear family.

MuseRider

(34,112 posts)
197. Oh DonViejo
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 01:46 PM
Sep 2018

my heart, all my being is aching for you. I cannot imagine the pain. I am so very sorry to see this. I think every one of us would take a bit of it if we could so you did not have to bear it all.

Find peace when you can. I so wish there was more we could all do for you.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
201. I know your pain DonViejo
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 03:19 PM
Sep 2018

I lost my son too. There is no way to describe the grief.

But in time you will be filled with the memories of the best times and not the day he died. You will know profound gratitude to have had him in your life. I promise.

jrthin

(4,836 posts)
202. I am so very sorry for your loss. Words seem inadequate to express my
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 03:20 PM
Sep 2018

sorrow for you and your family.

Alliepoo

(2,221 posts)
206. I'm so very sorry for your loss
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 04:55 PM
Sep 2018

Please accept my deepest sympathy. I know your hearts and souls are shattered. We lost our oldest daughter when she was 19. I’m so very sorry for your loss. If you ever need to talk-I’m here. ((HUG))

Niagara

(7,632 posts)
207. Dearest DonViejo
Sat Sep 15, 2018, 05:05 PM
Sep 2018

You and your family are in my heart and mind.

Sending my love and deepest sympathies.



Judi Lynn

(160,555 posts)
213. It doesn't make a bit of sense. His photo reveals a very good, bright, kind person.
Sun Sep 16, 2018, 10:07 PM
Sep 2018

People with gifted creativity are in short supply on this planet. He will be so missed, clearly.

Hoping you and your loved ones will Find a way to live with this tragedy, and to heal, with time.

You have so many friends here, and without a doubt you will be in all their thoughts. Please take care of yourself during this passage.

So sorry you have had to move through this, Don Viejo.

The son you lost was truly special.

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