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Still want to know--who in the world keeps calendars for so many years? (Original Post) bobbieinok Sep 2018 OP
An incredible packrat/hoarder, I guess. But pretty hard to fathom. hlthe2b Sep 2018 #1
a friend of my mom's still has calendars from the 80's. JHan Sep 2018 #2
Serial killers keep trophies.....maybe this was the start of something for Kav Lucinda Sep 2018 #3
I was thinking the same thing. blueinredohio Sep 2018 #14
yes, I was thinking, too, that these calendars are trophies of glory days, perhaps CharleyDog Sep 2018 #34
Mommie enid602 Sep 2018 #4
Well, my wife has been keeping detailed journals for decades. MineralMan Sep 2018 #5
and imagine how much more you would need all of that if you and your wife were blackout drunks. irresistable Sep 2018 #24
Kavanaugh already SCREAMED that explanation... lame54 Sep 2018 #6
Proof by Intimidation, as we called it Retrograde Sep 2018 #10
That's why I believe Sean Spicer when... lame54 Sep 2018 #18
Someone with an inflated sense of their importance? Retrograde Sep 2018 #7
I'm going for the "box of stuff in the attic" theory. StatGirl Sep 2018 #8
Anyone notice snowybirdie Sep 2018 #9
I saw what you did there. Lochloosa Sep 2018 #13
Boofiful post Roland99 Sep 2018 #20
That was going to be my answer. llmart Sep 2018 #21
I saw it but I simplified it thinkingagain Sep 2018 #35
Due to the electronic age, I have mine back to 2012. treestar Sep 2018 #11
I have a relative who never throws anything away The Genealogist Sep 2018 #12
I know someone who does. She keeps them with her journals janterry Sep 2018 #15
My theory is he kept this so his parents wouldn't know what he was up to CanonRay Sep 2018 #16
Poor memory? moondust Sep 2018 #17
run some carbon dating on the paper nt msongs Sep 2018 #19
I'm a huge sentimentalist. I kept nothing like for more than a few yrs Roland99 Sep 2018 #22
I have some... Mike Nelson Sep 2018 #23
Someone who thought they would be VERY famous one day and every little shit they'd made would go fierywoman Sep 2018 #25
Serial killers blue cat Sep 2018 #26
my wife keeps them getagrip_already Sep 2018 #27
Mothers do! JohnnyLib2 Sep 2018 #28
Having them, OK. Finding them?! That's tougher. flor-de-jasmim Sep 2018 #29
I had a journal, a scrapbook, a little box of momentos tavernier Sep 2018 #30
so sorry about your home!! I totally related about the duffle bag... samnsara Sep 2018 #33
i had a 12 month at a glance wall calender during my college years.... samnsara Sep 2018 #31
Someone who's planning to write marybourg Sep 2018 #32
I did dumbcat Sep 2018 #36
Call me a skeptic pecosbob Sep 2018 #37
They said that's task number 1, the calendar forensics democratic friend Sep 2018 #38

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
3. Serial killers keep trophies.....maybe this was the start of something for Kav
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:10 PM
Sep 2018

can't imagine what though...

It actually seems innocuous as just a calendar on the surface...so it must track something that mattered to him...could be hanging with the cool kids ?

CharleyDog

(758 posts)
34. yes, I was thinking, too, that these calendars are trophies of glory days, perhaps
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 04:10 PM
Sep 2018

in their code are reminders of his "conquests"

MineralMan

(146,336 posts)
5. Well, my wife has been keeping detailed journals for decades.
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:14 PM
Sep 2018

She writes in them daily. There's a big stack of them in a bookcase. Occasionally, she consults them. It's a habit for her and a way to recall activities on any particular date.

She says I can read them if I wish, but I don't. She doesn't care, one way or another.

I keep almost no records, although I have all of my emails, outgoing and incoming, since 1995. From time to time, I search them to find a bit of information and its exact timing. I've been using remote email clients since that time, so they're stored on those servers, somewhere. If they disappeared, though, it wouldn't really matter.

lame54

(35,328 posts)
6. Kavanaugh already SCREAMED that explanation...
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:14 PM
Sep 2018

And we must accept it due to the extreme volume in which he presented it

Retrograde

(10,163 posts)
10. Proof by Intimidation, as we called it
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:17 PM
Sep 2018

in math classes. It's also a debate technique that's useful when your case doesn't have a leg to stand on.

lame54

(35,328 posts)
18. That's why I believe Sean Spicer when...
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:29 PM
Sep 2018

He SCREAMED that Trump's inauguration was the biggest ever PERIOD!

Retrograde

(10,163 posts)
7. Someone with an inflated sense of their importance?
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:15 PM
Sep 2018

A high school student who is so convinced he's going on to great things that he keeps all his papers with his future biographers in mind? Someone with a mild form of packratism?

My husband keeps and files any papers that come with appliances and gadgets, although he does get rid of them when we no longer have the item. And we do go through the papers periodically and get rid of things we no longer need. If there are any old calendars around the house they're ones that fell behind the filing cabinet and have been forgotten.

StatGirl

(518 posts)
8. I'm going for the "box of stuff in the attic" theory.
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:15 PM
Sep 2018

Especially if his parents have a big house. It's easier to shove everything into a box than to go through it all and figure out what to keep and what to toss.

snowybirdie

(5,240 posts)
9. Anyone notice
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:17 PM
Sep 2018

how he straightened his nameplate on the table and his papers several times before sitting down? Obsessive/compulsive for sure, with a bit of anal thrown in for good measure.

The Genealogist

(4,723 posts)
12. I have a relative who never throws anything away
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:19 PM
Sep 2018

I was at her house helping her organize her voluminous piles of paperwork, and there was a random piece of paper with only a name written on it. She'd not throw it away, it might be important. She has old bills 50 plus years old, kept in case someone tries to "come back on" her. I'd guess she has calendars well older than this one. Some people are just horders.

In this case, however, it seems interesting that he was able to produce a 36 year old calendar almost immediately.

 

janterry

(4,429 posts)
15. I know someone who does. She keeps them with her journals
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:23 PM
Sep 2018

She's in her late 40's, but she has records and journals from when she was in HS. She likes to look back and she what she was doing, how she was feeling - and how she has changed.

It's sort of how she sees herself in the world (as a writer, and an introspective thinker)

CanonRay

(14,119 posts)
16. My theory is he kept this so his parents wouldn't know what he was up to
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:26 PM
Sep 2018

chock full of workouts and studying and everything else is coded; skis, ralphing, beach, etc. that would be pretty meaningless to his parents. Why he kept it? Who knows, maybe he's just a packrat, maybe he was proud of his handiwork.

Roland99

(53,342 posts)
22. I'm a huge sentimentalist. I kept nothing like for more than a few yrs
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:35 PM
Sep 2018

High school stuff went away at some point during college. College stuff went away at some point after being married and living on my own.

Mike Nelson

(9,970 posts)
23. I have some...
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:36 PM
Sep 2018

…. did it to track my exercises/work-outs, finals & midterms. They ended up in a box of school stuff. My mom saved it... as a preteen mom or someone threw away some comic books of mine. I was so distraught, I think she decided not to throw anything away. Mom saw the comics as "Funnies" newspaper - read and toss... there are a few gems in the box of school stuff.

fierywoman

(7,696 posts)
25. Someone who thought they would be VERY famous one day and every little shit they'd made would go
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:39 PM
Sep 2018

into their Yale archive...

getagrip_already

(14,864 posts)
27. my wife keeps them
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:47 PM
Sep 2018

She is a type a personality. I'm a type z and can't find a receipt I know I kept from last week.

They are small day-minder type books. Easy to keep.

They came in very handy when I went through the process to get a security clearance. I needed to know every trip I took out of the country, with specific dates, locations, and contacts made for the past 10-20 years (I think).

I would have beed dq'd if she didn't have those books.

tavernier

(12,409 posts)
30. I had a journal, a scrapbook, a little box of momentos
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 03:52 PM
Sep 2018

in a small duffle bag that somehow made it through all my moves and travels, going back to high school. I guess I thought it would be fun to look and reminisce someday. Last year I lost my home to hurricane Irma and I was packing up any salvageable items when I ran across the bag. I briefly scanned the items which felt more like a journey through a dusty old attic than anything pleasurable, and hoisted them in the dumpster, 50 years later. One less thing my kids have to toss someday.

samnsara

(17,650 posts)
33. so sorry about your home!! I totally related about the duffle bag...
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 04:02 PM
Sep 2018

..when mom passed last yr I went thru 50 years of crappola in her house. Lots of my HS stuff....which I read and tossed...except for my Beatles Bobble Heads. I told hubby im gonna see some of our crap on Antiques Roadshow!

samnsara

(17,650 posts)
31. i had a 12 month at a glance wall calender during my college years....
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 04:00 PM
Sep 2018

..I kept track of my very young dtrs school events and impt appts as well as my college events and tests on it as well. I have them all rolled up in a tube somewhere. When I die and my dtr has to clean my garage she will get a kick out of reading them....for about 5 minutes.. then she will toss them. Maybe thats how Judge got facts for his books and whatever it is he does. what the hell DOES he do where he needs a publicist?......and speaking engagements?...about what?

dumbcat

(2,120 posts)
36. I did
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 04:11 PM
Sep 2018

I’m just a nerdy engineer and not a judge, but I still have every tax return I ever filed going back to high school over 50 years ago. I also have the daily , weekly and monthly planners I have used since high school ( mostly the DayTimer brand.). I also have kept a journal on and off for the last 50+ years.

I don’t think it was as rare as some younger people think.

pecosbob

(7,545 posts)
37. Call me a skeptic
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 04:19 PM
Sep 2018

but if I worked for the FBI I would suggest a forensic exam of the documents for evidence of recent provenance...

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