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just looking at k's bio-- he was almost 40 (and still a virgin???) when he married gwb's personal (Original Post) niyad Oct 2018 OP
The 40-Year-Old Virgin Zing Zing Zingbah Oct 2018 #1
snort!!!! niyad Oct 2018 #2
He didn't say that he waited for marriage. n/t demmiblue Oct 2018 #3
no, he didn't. that was why the question mark. one wonders when he did surrender his virginity, niyad Oct 2018 #5
Ack, not going there. Brain bleach. demmiblue Oct 2018 #9
I am sorry!! wading in the sewer that is the puke party these days does that!! niyad Oct 2018 #11
I got that feeling during his opening statement Control-Z Oct 2018 #4
every time I hear him spouting that bs, the line "methinks thou doth protest too much" comes to niyad Oct 2018 #7
I wish someone would post the clip with him talking malaise Oct 2018 #18
He still is Liberalhammer Oct 2018 #6
snort!! niyad Oct 2018 #8
With good education and employment, he must have been a real creep for him not to be married unitedwethrive Oct 2018 #10
a most excellent point. niyad Oct 2018 #12
As a 37 year old guy who has a good education, a good job, owns my condo mythology Oct 2018 #22
Good to know ChubbyStar Oct 2018 #27
You should know that the rules are different here depending on the topic. 7962 Oct 2018 #30
some people don't get married early. maxsolomon Oct 2018 #13
I tend to agree. Ilsa Oct 2018 #14
just looking at his bio, after listening to his tearful bs. it is true that many people marry late niyad Oct 2018 #15
But are those people right wing Christians? treestar Oct 2018 #25
Maybe he was a virgin till then because he was always drunk and his dick was always limp donkeypoofed Oct 2018 #16
I am glad I wasn't drinking anything. niyad Oct 2018 #17
Are we accusing him of pedophilia now? pintobean Oct 2018 #19
not accusing him of anything. but, given his religious views, his views on women, and drink, niyad Oct 2018 #20
So yes but without the conviction to admit it. mythology Oct 2018 #23
don't put words in my text. there are a LOT of problems that can happen. niyad Oct 2018 #24
Yup. pintobean Oct 2018 #28
Kavanaugh Turbineguy Oct 2018 #21
Now don't issue a challenge to the Orange Creep! treestar Oct 2018 #26
I think... Mike Nelson Oct 2018 #29
Irish American culture MaryMagdaline Oct 2018 #31
thank you for your excellent post. interesting information! niyad Oct 2018 #32

niyad

(113,527 posts)
5. no, he didn't. that was why the question mark. one wonders when he did surrender his virginity,
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:34 PM
Oct 2018

all those MANY, MANY YEARS after high school.

niyad

(113,527 posts)
11. I am sorry!! wading in the sewer that is the puke party these days does that!!
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:38 PM
Oct 2018

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Control-Z

(15,682 posts)
4. I got that feeling during his opening statement
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:32 PM
Oct 2018

Last edited Tue Oct 2, 2018, 03:12 PM - Edit history (1)

on the very first day of hearings. All that talk about his mom, the Catholic Church, and coaching his girls' sports teams.

His blubbering testimony at the latest hearing with Dr. Ford sealed the deal for me. Creepy guy. Ick.

Edit to change blundering to blubbering. Damn autocorrect.

niyad

(113,527 posts)
7. every time I hear him spouting that bs, the line "methinks thou doth protest too much" comes to
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:36 PM
Oct 2018

mind.

so, as a matter of fact, does the name ted haggard, a truly hypocritical holier-than-thou scumbag religionist.

unitedwethrive

(1,997 posts)
10. With good education and employment, he must have been a real creep for him not to be married
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:38 PM
Oct 2018

until his late 30s. In repub circles (used to families with just one wage earner), one would think he should have been seen as a 'catch'.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
22. As a 37 year old guy who has a good education, a good job, owns my condo
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 03:11 PM
Oct 2018

And who not only isn't married but has no viable prospects for getting married any time soon, that's rather insulting.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
30. You should know that the rules are different here depending on the topic.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 03:40 PM
Oct 2018

Certain groups are FINE to attack, others alert at any mere perceived slight

maxsolomon

(33,384 posts)
13. some people don't get married early.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:39 PM
Oct 2018

there's plenty more to disqualify him without your unsavory implications.

Ilsa

(61,697 posts)
14. I tend to agree.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:42 PM
Oct 2018

He may have been looking for a certain "type" or a woman with exceptional patience.

niyad

(113,527 posts)
15. just looking at his bio, after listening to his tearful bs. it is true that many people marry late
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:42 PM
Oct 2018

he is one hypocritical,, lying sob.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
25. But are those people right wing Christians?
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 03:18 PM
Oct 2018

Judging by their standards it seems that he was not seen as the great catch he should have seemed to be in their circles.

donkeypoofed

(2,187 posts)
16. Maybe he was a virgin till then because he was always drunk and his dick was always limp
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:44 PM
Oct 2018

Just sayin' that they don't work right when the owner is all drunky-drunk like that.

niyad

(113,527 posts)
20. not accusing him of anything. but, given his religious views, his views on women, and drink,
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:50 PM
Oct 2018

I worry about his daughters.

Turbineguy

(37,364 posts)
21. Kavanaugh
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:54 PM
Oct 2018

has contributed to a definite decline in the national conversation. He may even have surpassed trump's efforts.


Mike Nelson

(9,966 posts)
29. I think...
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 03:33 PM
Oct 2018

… he probably had a "born again" moment. A lot of people who can't stop drinking will hit bottom and find Jesus. Also, deeply religious people take the "washing away of sin" like they really are a new person. It must be hard to live with the awful person one was - but being "born again" makes it better. What I think is strange is that he still appears to be a drinker... although I admit I'm not an expert and can't say for sure... he just looks and acts like one.

MaryMagdaline

(6,856 posts)
31. Irish American culture
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 04:08 PM
Oct 2018

It is not uncommon in Irish culture, even watered down Irish American culture, for straight males to marry late or not at all. “ Irish batchelor” is a saying. It is an indulgence allowed both male and female, but more particularly male. (See JFK/married late) Large families in Ireland meant there was no way to make a living unless you were oldest and inherited the land. Marrying late or not at all became a trend. Also, less pressure to reproduce since other siblings in large families would produce grandchildren. It is rarer and rarer today, but still common in my extended Irish family, to marry late.

Kavanaugh was an only child in an Irish Catholic family ... very rare. Still, the social pressure to marry young would not be as great as in other cultural groups. He would have felt pressure, however, to achieve academically and in sports. In an Irish family, to have a “scholar” or athlete in the family causes parents to overlook serious problems like alcohol, gambling, carousing.

I’m not saying that Kavanaugh is a prototypical Irish American; I’m just saying his personal situation would never raise any eyebrows amongst my older Irish American relatives. The only non-Irish thing about him is the name “Brett.”

Didn’t know how different we were culturally until I attended Baptist-affiliated college. Baptists like to marry their kids off early to avoid sin. Irish Catholics, in my day, had to avoid divorce at all costs, and were extremely keen on higher education, so it could be celibacy or many one night stands to avoid serious commitments until after graduate school.

So... he could be a rapey incel but the status of unmarried at 37 would not necessarily raise questions in his family. Just not that unusual.


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