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Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 08:19 AM Oct 2018

My middle son turned 18 yesterday. The very first thing he did when he woke up on his birthday...

was check his voter registration status on-line. I'm completely serious about that. He told me he checked before he even got out of bed.

He pre-registered in May, but his voter registration wasn't showing in the system so he was...a little...distraught. (Majorly mellow kid so any sign of pique means he's freaking out.) I pointed out it was a federal holiday, the office was closed, and systemic things aren't necessarily real time things. If he didn't show up in the system this morning, I promised to get him out of school today and take him to the Supervisor of Elections office to make sure he was registered in time.

The first thing I did when I woke up today was look up his registration on my phone, take a screen snap of the confirmation, and text him the photo. Boy do I love modern parenting! The boy was all grins when I saw him at the breakfast table.

Yes, I know he's an anomaly being raised in a politically aware household, but he's not alone. I take photos for the music programs at his high school, and the election was a huge topic of conversation when I took the senior portraits last Friday. I don't know about nation-wide, but these kids are motivated to vote. They are positively chomping at the bit. It's a beautiful thing to see.

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My middle son turned 18 yesterday. The very first thing he did when he woke up on his birthday... (Original Post) Pacifist Patriot Oct 2018 OP
Good for him bdamomma Oct 2018 #1
I've got a 14yr old daughter Codeine Oct 2018 #2
I reminded him that his first visit to the polls was in a sling at four weeks old. Pacifist Patriot Oct 2018 #3
Kewl! I see a lot of parents around here bring their kids to the polls. The kids are our future... TreasonousBastard Oct 2018 #8
She is lucky to have you - I wish more parents brought their kids to the polls! FM123 Oct 2018 #6
same with my daughter (back when she was still a kid) orleans Oct 2018 #24
You taught him well! SallyHemmings Oct 2018 #4
Lovely malaise Oct 2018 #5
You should be very proud of your son FM123 Oct 2018 #7
My 17 year old is Bettie Oct 2018 #9
I love those young people! vlyons Oct 2018 #10
If it wasn't for a different mercuryblues Oct 2018 #11
nice! study war no more Oct 2018 #12
I did nearly the same thing on my birthday, 38 years ago. Throckmorton Oct 2018 #13
When I turned 18 My Dad Drove me Dr Vegas Oct 2018 #14
I remember pre-registering myself the winter before I turned 18. 47of74 Oct 2018 #15
You raised him right leftynyc Oct 2018 #16
Do 18 year olders still have to register Submariner Oct 2018 #17
Congratulations it does work and lasts! gordianot Oct 2018 #18
Where do these magical young people live? Red state or blue? Urban, suburban, rural? pnwmom Oct 2018 #19
Good for you and him. In 2016 I took my 4 adult children ages 18-25 to vote telling my 2 daughters Pepsidog Oct 2018 #20
My son turned 18 in May budkin Oct 2018 #21
My daughter texted me her absentee form today grantcart Oct 2018 #22
Please urge him to tell his friends to register and vote too. GREAT STUFF! LBM20 Oct 2018 #23
I pulled out my phone Olafjoy Oct 2018 #25
good news Demovictory9 Oct 2018 #26
You done good! nt Laffy Kat Oct 2018 #27
Good for him. Doreen Oct 2018 #28
A beautiful thing MFM008 Oct 2018 #29

bdamomma

(63,917 posts)
1. Good for him
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 08:20 AM
Oct 2018

and you. They have to learn that is their right to vote. I taught my three the importance of voting.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
2. I've got a 14yr old daughter
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 08:20 AM
Oct 2018

who cannot WAIT to cast her first ballot. She goes with me whenever I vote and is quite aware for someone her age. Kids rule!

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
3. I reminded him that his first visit to the polls was in a sling at four weeks old.
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 08:22 AM
Oct 2018

My husband took him to the polls in 2016 and let the boy cast his vote for Hillary. That's permissible here. He was so thrilled. LOL!

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
8. Kewl! I see a lot of parents around here bring their kids to the polls. The kids are our future...
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 08:30 AM
Oct 2018

I just hope we leave them something to work with.

orleans

(34,070 posts)
24. same with my daughter (back when she was still a kid)
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 11:04 PM
Oct 2018

as soon as she hit sixteen (or was it 17?) she was phone banking for tammy duckworth and began working as an election judge when she was 17 or 18. she's 30 now, full time job & busy household of her own--no time or energy left for being an election judge the past few years. a couple weeks after she got married both her and her husband cast their votes for hillary. she did manage to find a day to walk and door knock last weekend with her friend for a local congressional dem trying to beat out the incumbent repuke. (i'm so proud of her!)

just wanted to share this.

FM123

(10,054 posts)
7. You should be very proud of your son
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 08:29 AM
Oct 2018

and of yourself too - growing up in a politically aware household is not something every kid gets to have.

Bettie

(16,118 posts)
9. My 17 year old is
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 08:31 AM
Oct 2018

really annoyed that he will not be old enough to vote this year.

He is, however, extremely excited to be one of the people who will vote the thing in the White House (or his successor, Taliban Mike) out.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
10. I love those young people!
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 08:37 AM
Oct 2018

I'm a 71 yr retired senior, and I love their energy and enthusiasm and curiosity. They are just beginning to step into adulthood and come into their own time to explore the world, fall in love, get their hearts broken, fall down, and get up again and again. I'm am reminded of when I was a young woman just beginning to step out into the world on my own. When I meet them, I ask "Why can't we have nice things like the people in Denmark, Spain, Sweden, Canada, etc? Why can't we have free college education, and healthcare for all, and 4 weeks paid vacation, and minimum job wage of $15/hr? A lot of other countries have that stuff. Why can't we?

Get them thinking about the possibilities of their future.

mercuryblues

(14,537 posts)
11. If it wasn't for a different
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 08:47 AM
Oct 2018

birthdate, I would think our sons were separated at birth. I tell my son he is so chill, chill wants to be him. Mine never complains, so when he does, I know it is important to him and listen. He is also very politically aware.

We had a discussion the other day about the old people making laws for them and how he thought they needed to go. I had to explain to him about looking at how they vote on issues that are important to you. IE: I would vote for a Nancy Pelosi over a young Lindsey Graham.


Mine won't turn 18 until July, 4th. If you ever see a redhead, born on the 4th of July, running for president - vote for him.

Throckmorton

(3,579 posts)
13. I did nearly the same thing on my birthday, 38 years ago.
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 09:23 AM
Oct 2018

There was a major budget referendum 7 days after my birthday and I wanted to vote. Left school and walked to the city clerks office, where the registrar of voters office was located. I registered as a democrat that afternoon, and was given a notice of voter registration (which I still have).

Oh, and the referendum was to fund construction of a new K-5 elementary school, to replace the building built in 1921, the referendum passed.

Bravo for your son!!!!!!



Dr Vegas

(456 posts)
14. When I turned 18 My Dad Drove me
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 09:30 AM
Oct 2018

Down to the Post Office to sign up for the Draft. He wanted to witness me signing the card.

 

47of74

(18,470 posts)
15. I remember pre-registering myself the winter before I turned 18.
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 09:39 AM
Oct 2018

My first election after turning 18 was a school board election on a rainy September morning.

I vote in every election I can. Even the tiny local ones. And usually early too.

Submariner

(12,506 posts)
17. Do 18 year olders still have to register
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 09:49 AM
Oct 2018

with the Selective Service?

If your son can avoid doing that then he should, because Trump is going to try and start his war with Iran in the run up to 2020 so he can call Democrats traitors for objecting to another ME war.

pnwmom

(108,990 posts)
19. Where do these magical young people live? Red state or blue? Urban, suburban, rural?
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 10:29 AM
Oct 2018

Wherever you are, thanks for sharing!

Pepsidog

(6,254 posts)
20. Good for you and him. In 2016 I took my 4 adult children ages 18-25 to vote telling my 2 daughters
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 11:02 AM
Oct 2018

how historic it was to elect the first female president. As election results came in I was shocked at how affected my daughters were that Hillary lost. They were never very political but for a week or two the household had the feeling like someone had died. I think, or at least hope, a valuable lesson was learned that night to never take anything for granted.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
22. My daughter texted me her absentee form today
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 03:41 PM
Oct 2018

She is 27 and apolitical

This time she believed me

Which can mean only one thing

Her boyfriend told her that her Dad was right.

Olafjoy

(937 posts)
25. I pulled out my phone
Wed Oct 10, 2018, 01:20 AM
Oct 2018

To take a picture of my 18 year old voting for the first time. Poll worker started yelling at me.
I pretended like I put phone away but I took picture really quick. Documenting another milestone in life. Next one in the book after graduating from high school and before the one sitting on bed in college dorm room.

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
28. Good for him.
Wed Oct 10, 2018, 05:13 AM
Oct 2018

Registering to vote. Now there is a true right of passage into adulthood for any young person.

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