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Robyn66

(1,675 posts)
Tue Aug 14, 2012, 07:44 AM Aug 2012

Hallelujah! I made a breakthrough with my Republican husband!!

Last edited Tue Aug 14, 2012, 06:24 PM - Edit history (1)

Actually he isn't that hard core, I think he actually voted for President Obama (although one never knows what happens in the voting booth)

He isn't really "political" but is Republican because his father is and just says ignorant things like "the Democrats want to pay people not to work bla bla meme meme meme" but last night I got through his thick republican skull.

I will preface this by saying. My husband and I are crazy in love. We have been together since we were 18, we are 46 now, married for 20 years and more in love every day. I almost died when we had our second child and I am three years out from having breast cancer. So women's health issues strike a serious chord with him.

Normally, he doesn't answer the phone, I don't like to either, we figure that is why we have children so we never have to answer the phone or clear the table again Occasionally, when I do answer the phone I get the Republican surveys or the odd republican phone call which I have fun with. He normally just has no interest talking to anyone anyway.

Anyway, I sat down with him and talked to him about Paul Ryan's stand on Person-hood for zygotes, and not saving the life of the mother and no birth control, and he just sat there listened and then said to me in his normal very soft spoken voice, "The next time the republicans call, I want to talk to them!"

I know he realizes this election is about much more than tax policy now. This is about the lives of women, and it is more important than ever that these people not get in to office!!!!

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Hallelujah! I made a breakthrough with my Republican husband!! (Original Post) Robyn66 Aug 2012 OP
The important thing is that he listens and he considers what you have to say. no_hypocrisy Aug 2012 #1
Heh Heh MooseTrax Aug 2012 #2
What kind of breakthrough? sellitman Aug 2012 #3
I think it's a creepy reference to sex catbyte Aug 2012 #5
It wasn't creepy lillypaddle Aug 2012 #7
yep, that damn creepy sex crap! snooper2 Aug 2012 #11
no answer yet... sellitman Aug 2012 #13
What???? Robyn66 Aug 2012 #16
Of course I am voting for our president Robyn66 Aug 2012 #15
Your husband sounds like he's a RINO (Republican in Name Only) who, once coalition_unwilling Aug 2012 #17
I meant to Moosetrax not you sellitman Aug 2012 #18
Ok :) Robyn66 Aug 2012 #20
Online we see the crazy right-wingers who are immune to reason and argument, drm604 Aug 2012 #4
I hope he gets to tell them what he thinks! lunatica Aug 2012 #6
Congrats :) - I think he's turning Dem because of you and that he loves you. mwooldri Aug 2012 #8
re:Hallelujah! I made a breakthrough with my Republican husband!! allan01 Aug 2012 #9
I'm happy for you! Kath1 Aug 2012 #10
Here's how I handled MY most recent push poll... HopeHoops Aug 2012 #12
Your message put a smile on my face... DonRedwood Aug 2012 #14
Once upon a time, I WAS a Republican husband derby378 Aug 2012 #19
Congratulations on your recovery! Robyn66 Aug 2012 #21
Inside every Republican, there's a Democrat trying to get out derby378 Aug 2012 #22
My First Wife And I Disagreed About Politics MooseTrax Aug 2012 #23

no_hypocrisy

(46,160 posts)
1. The important thing is that he listens and he considers what you have to say.
Tue Aug 14, 2012, 07:48 AM
Aug 2012

You are more important than the republican talking points.

Robyn66

(1,675 posts)
15. Of course I am voting for our president
Tue Aug 14, 2012, 05:39 PM
Aug 2012

My husband is a republican so even though he voted for Obama the first time I am having to work on him this time.

 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
17. Your husband sounds like he's a RINO (Republican in Name Only) who, once
Tue Aug 14, 2012, 05:48 PM
Aug 2012

he learns how batshit crazy the Repigs are, comes to his senses pretty quickly. If you'rei in the mood to tease him, you might tell him that he's now a "swing" voter (between crazy and sane

drm604

(16,230 posts)
4. Online we see the crazy right-wingers who are immune to reason and argument,
Tue Aug 14, 2012, 08:20 AM
Aug 2012

but that doesn't represent the general population. It's very important that we remember that. Most people can be reasoned with.

This is why when I see stupid right-wing arguments on places like FB, I often respond with cites or poke holes in their logic. It's not because I think I can sway them. It's because I think that I may be able to sway others who are also reading what they're saying.

Don't give up on reasoning with your Republican friends and family.

mwooldri

(10,303 posts)
8. Congrats :) - I think he's turning Dem because of you and that he loves you.
Tue Aug 14, 2012, 09:32 AM
Aug 2012

He's been there through good and bad with you. I think health issues period would strike a chord with anyone who has had to deal with them... and the health issues that one has to deal with personally are the ones that are closest to our hearts.

Congrats on surviving breast cancer. Congrats for having a wonderful family.

This is an important election, no doubt about it. I am also convinced Obama's plans are better for America overall. I would *love* for Romney to get less electoral votes than Mondale. I don't think that is going to happen though.

The more important thing than any of this IMO is family. Whilst there is no such thing as a "perfect family", it seems to me yours is filled with love. Meeting the fundamental basics - food, clothing, shelter, health, and security is an extremely close second. The Republican plan eats away at three of these five fundamentals. This threatens families. I will not stand for people eating away at the basics of life. If things turn extremely ugly I am fortunate that my family have an immediate "way out" to anywhere in the EU - but until then I'm going to do my little bit to keep America strong and fulfil my Bible verse in life (Luke 10:27)

All the best, Mark.

allan01

(1,950 posts)
9. re:Hallelujah! I made a breakthrough with my Republican husband!!
Tue Aug 14, 2012, 09:42 AM
Aug 2012

i have a lady friend who is deep seated republican but is voting for obama as she is fed up with the deadlock in congress. this is incuraging

Kath1

(4,309 posts)
10. I'm happy for you!
Tue Aug 14, 2012, 09:58 AM
Aug 2012

Sounds like he is seeing the light. I really think the women's healthcare issue is going to be key in this election and Obama is excellent in this regard. I know a middle-aged woman, formerly a McCain-Palin voter, who told me she is 100% for Obama because she is so sick of the GOP assault on women's rights.

DonRedwood

(4,359 posts)
14. Your message put a smile on my face...
Tue Aug 14, 2012, 12:10 PM
Aug 2012

not the republican stuff...the love stuff.



Thank you for sharing.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
19. Once upon a time, I WAS a Republican husband
Tue Aug 14, 2012, 08:34 PM
Aug 2012

But I was on my way out when I married ChickMagic in April 2000. My last GOP vote was cast that year for John McCain in the primary, and that was it.

Ginny was so patient with me. She was delighted when I finally turned Democratic in 2003.

Robyn66

(1,675 posts)
21. Congratulations on your recovery!
Tue Aug 14, 2012, 09:39 PM
Aug 2012

I think that my husband is much more Democratic than he admits. He is a very smart man and that does not match up with the nonsense of the Republican party. I dont know if he will ever admit out loud that he agrees with me, I think he has more fun getting me worked up! LOL! But when all is said and done he knows what is right and would never vote for any of these rethuglicans!

derby378

(30,252 posts)
22. Inside every Republican, there's a Democrat trying to get out
Tue Aug 14, 2012, 09:52 PM
Aug 2012

I have to keep believing that.

There are, however, certain exceptions...

MooseTrax

(62 posts)
23. My First Wife And I Disagreed About Politics
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 06:42 AM
Aug 2012

We parted after seventeen years.

My present wife and I are both Democrats and we've been together thirty two years.

I guess there's a moral there somewhere
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