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Tom Rinaldo

(22,913 posts)
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 10:32 AM Nov 2018

Message for Millennial Voting Cynics

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Climate change will wreak havoc on the world you will inhabit for a half century or more. Older voters, not so much, (we'll be long gone before the worst of it hits.) Only one political party cares about that

Older voters got higher educations back when it was still vaguely affordable. Higher education has to be affordable, a viable future depends on that. Only one political party cares about your past and future college debts.

America's future is either multi-cultural with Americans united for Justice for all, or it is multi-cultural with different groups and races increasingly at each other's throats. One party supports the former and the other is doing everything in its power to ensure the latter. Which America do you want to live in through your life?

If voting doesn't change anything, what is the downside to voting? You maybe wasted an hour or two of your life by voting. If voting can change things, what is the upside? A world you can thrive in for the rest of your life.

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Message for Millennial Voting Cynics (Original Post) Tom Rinaldo Nov 2018 OP
Yeah, keep talking to us like we're teenagers. Act_of_Reparation Nov 2018 #1
I wasn't trying to do that at all. That is why I specified "Voting Cynics" Tom Rinaldo Nov 2018 #2
Yet you keep doing it. Act_of_Reparation Nov 2018 #6
Actually I think there was a compliment in that Tom Rinaldo Nov 2018 #14
that's because this forum skews older crazycatlady Nov 2018 #25
Most likely because your bias prevents you from seeing anything that invalidates your narrative. LanternWaste Nov 2018 #26
Uh huh. Act_of_Reparation Nov 2018 #28
Are you going to vote? brush Nov 2018 #4
Is there a doubt? Act_of_Reparation Nov 2018 #5
Thanks. Your first response to the OP had me wondering though. brush Nov 2018 #9
I started voting in 2004. I haven't missed an election. Ever. Act_of_Reparation Nov 2018 #11
People in your age group who are politically involved, and there are many, are among the finest... Tom Rinaldo Nov 2018 #16
Thank you. Act_of_Reparation Nov 2018 #35
No problem, they are deserved Tom Rinaldo Nov 2018 #40
Anecdotally speaking... Act_of_Reparation Nov 2018 #42
It was pretty hard to not become political during my youth, between Civil Rights and the Vietnam War Tom Rinaldo Nov 2018 #44
Mature people don't get mad because they think someone isn't speaking to them like adults EffieBlack Nov 2018 #7
Thanks, Dad. Act_of_Reparation Nov 2018 #8
You're welcome EffieBlack Nov 2018 #10
Yes, you've made an excellent case for acting like a patronizing scold. Act_of_Reparation Nov 2018 #13
Thank you again. EffieBlack Nov 2018 #15
ima pull over and stop this car Hermit-The-Prog Nov 2018 #18
Pretty hilarious, isn't it? Coventina Nov 2018 #19
"No dog in the fight"? Act_of_Reparation Nov 2018 #30
Of course there was a Boomer/X thing. I never said there wasn't. Coventina Nov 2018 #31
Because they're not sniping at you anymore, you're just gonna run and hide in the corner? Act_of_Reparation Nov 2018 #32
Hey man, we grew up with Reagan in the White House, threatening war with the USSR Coventina Nov 2018 #33
I'm on the older side of Y Act_of_Reparation Nov 2018 #37
Much as you've made an excellent case for the petulant youth. LanternWaste Nov 2018 #27
The important part is you found a way to feel superior to both. Act_of_Reparation Nov 2018 #29
"But telling everyone else that THEY'RE doing it wrong" That's fucking rich. Cuthbert Allgood Nov 2018 #17
Actually, I wrote the OP Tom Rinaldo Nov 2018 #22
Didn't mean to sound like I have a problem with you. Cuthbert Allgood Nov 2018 #23
You seem to be under the misapprehension that anything short of a warm fuzzy embrace is "parental EffieBlack Nov 2018 #34
... LexVegas Nov 2018 #20
Here's my message for them. . . DinahMoeHum Nov 2018 #3
Many people still don't see we are facing full-blown anti-democratic fascism... JCMach1 Nov 2018 #12
Maybe a participation trophy for everyone? LexVegas Nov 2018 #21
How to Win the Hearts and Minds of Millennials 101, everyone. Cuthbert Allgood Nov 2018 #24
Maybe we draft them into a war. That seemed to motivate some boomers. progressoid Nov 2018 #38
Maybe, since Kavanaugh and the open fascism aren't enough for them. LexVegas Nov 2018 #39
Early voting by young people up 500% in Texas and Georgia progressoid Nov 2018 #41
It's a start. nt LexVegas Nov 2018 #43
Get off your ass and vote! dalton99a Nov 2018 #36

Tom Rinaldo

(22,913 posts)
2. I wasn't trying to do that at all. That is why I specified "Voting Cynics"
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 10:41 AM
Nov 2018

I do not believe most Millennials are voting cynics. By voting cynics I mean people who think voting doesn't make a difference. If that description doesn't fit you or those you know I wasn't talking about you.

There are voting cynics of all ages, but, for example, older voting cynics will not be the ones who suffer the most from what will happen to the Earth's climate over the course of their projected life times.

And surely you do not dispute that younger voters are less likely to vote in general than older ones? This country will change for the better when that fact changes.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
6. Yet you keep doing it.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 11:27 AM
Nov 2018

Boomers voting for Republicans is at least as big a problem as millennials not voting, and yet I only see these patrionizing posts pointed in one direction.

Millennials are not uniquely stupid. They are not the only age demographic behaving in a manner that is seemingly contrary to their own self interest. Also, we're not kids. I'm 35 years old, I have a job, a spouse, and a mortgage. You really think you're gonna get through to people in my demographic talking to them like a scolding parent? Good luck.

Tom Rinaldo

(22,913 posts)
14. Actually I think there was a compliment in that
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 11:41 AM
Nov 2018

When I say that when more younger people vote our nation will change for the better that explicitly means that I believe that younger voters in general have better values overall than older voters. I welcome the perspective and leadership of generations younger than my own. I count on the idealism and relative anti-materialism of youth to pull our nation back from the brink of disaster. Mostly I was thinking of people younger than yourself who choose not vote and the potential consequences over their lifetimes of that choice at this turning point in our history.

I am critical of older generations, my own included, for not being united enough against evils such as racism. Boomers voting for Republicans is a huge problem, but I am forced to assume that they do so because they agree with the Republican Party when they do so. If I could think of a new way to reach them I would, but if this Trump Administration hasn't turned them against Republicans by now I am not sure what will.

I am assuming that most young non voters DO NOT agree with what Trump is doing to our nation. They do not need to be de-brainwashed, they are not FOX viewers. I will put by trust in their votes if they actually cast them. And for the record, of course I assume that DU members of every age will be voting on election day. I do not think any DU readers are voting cynics.

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
25. that's because this forum skews older
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 12:13 PM
Nov 2018

I'd like to see apples to apples comparisons-- what were Boomer voting patterns like when they were in the same demographic?

I'm 38 years old. I don't have a husband or house, but I've been in the real world for awhile.

These 'kids' that many here complain about are actually Gen Z, the too young to remember 9/11 kids.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
26. Most likely because your bias prevents you from seeing anything that invalidates your narrative.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 12:20 PM
Nov 2018

"and yet I only see these patrionizing (sic) posts pointed in one direction..."

Most likely because your bias prevents you from seeing anything that invalidates your narrative. But those posts are there. I open them. I read them. I sometimes respond to them.

Good luck, indeed.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
11. I started voting in 2004. I haven't missed an election. Ever.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 11:33 AM
Nov 2018

People in my age group might be less politically engaged per capita, but those who are engaged are just as reliable. Don't believe the hype.

Tom Rinaldo

(22,913 posts)
16. People in your age group who are politically involved, and there are many, are among the finest...
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 11:45 AM
Nov 2018

political activists I have ever known or met. Those who have chosen to be engaged are incredibly well informed and extremely effective at organizing. I greatly appreciate all that they are doing. It gives me real hope. More power to you, sincerely.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
35. Thank you.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 01:05 PM
Nov 2018

I appreciate the kind words. And I can appreciate the fact you posted this out of genuine concern for the future. I too hope more people in my age group will get out to vote Tuesday, but we need to be more serious about political disengagement in young people and how best to correct it, because what we have been doing for at least the three decades I've been conscious hasn't been successful.

Tom Rinaldo

(22,913 posts)
40. No problem, they are deserved
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 02:56 PM
Nov 2018

You wrote: "we need to be more serious about political disengagement in young people and how best to correct it."

I fully agree, and some big part of that falls on those who play significant roles in current political, media, and educational institutions. A democratic society bears some responsibility for instilling democratic values (small "d" democratic) in it's citizens. And a democratic society must be responsive to the concerns of citizens. On so many fronts today it is discouraging how often the opinions of our citizenry are ignored or overridden. : on gun safety, on abortion, on protecting "dreamers", on tax policy, and so much more.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
42. Anecdotally speaking...
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 03:28 PM
Nov 2018

...I didn't have an overtly politicized childhood. I didn't know my parents were Democrats until I became active in politics myself as an adult. They both came from a time and place where it was considered unseemly to talk politics openly, and while they were very civically active (they both voted regularly), they never endorsed candidates or parties in front of me or my siblings.

I got really involved after 9/11. Started protesting the war. Worked on a couple of campaigns. I imagine it mirrors the Boomers' Vietnam experience somewhat, though the stakes were much lower in my case.

I don't know. I think there's a lot going on with my generation contributing to the lack of civic engagement. I would like to think the biggest reason is we're still young (mostly) and still thinking about more immediate, provincial concerns that aren't really being addressed in tangible, meaningful ways, but I get the suspicion there are cultural aspects as well, and those will not be easily reversed.

Tom Rinaldo

(22,913 posts)
44. It was pretty hard to not become political during my youth, between Civil Rights and the Vietnam War
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 04:01 PM
Nov 2018

On top of that there was the "counter culture" which helped us form an oppositional identity. I would love to listen to a panel discussion among those more your age exploring some of the questions you raise here. Namely what were the cultural aspects of coming of age in or close to the 2000's etc. that effect civic engagement in various forms (I don't assume that those who do not prioritize voting are not in civically involved in other ways.)

I'll add that while I was a strong political activist through all of my adult life, I resisted significant involvement in electoral politics (aside from voting) until after 9/11 myself.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
7. Mature people don't get mad because they think someone isn't speaking to them like adults
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 11:27 AM
Nov 2018

They listen to what they have to say, consider it carefully and react accordingly.

But saying "Stop talking to us like we're teenagers" gets you nowhere, especially when that seems to be pushback to any criticism or attempt to educate - and, in fact, is the kind of response that immature people give whenever anyone tries to talk to them.

FYI - if you want to be treated with respect, acting respectfully toward others will get you much farther toward that goal. But telling everyone else that THEY'RE doing it wrong, THEY'RE talking to you wrong, THEY'RE approaching you wrong - while consistently complaining that THEY'RE not being nice enough to YOU - gets no one anywhere.

Hermit-The-Prog

(33,430 posts)
18. ima pull over and stop this car
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 11:49 AM
Nov 2018

You two get along now or I swear I'll pull over at the next scroungy rest stop and you can get over yourselves while staring at rotted picnic tables and overflowing trash cans.

You got the same britches to get glad in that you got mad in.


Coventina

(27,172 posts)
19. Pretty hilarious, isn't it?
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 11:50 AM
Nov 2018

Full disclosure: I'm Gen-X, so I have no dog in the Boomer/Millennial fight. But, it's interesting to watch.

Coventina

(27,172 posts)
31. Of course there was a Boomer/X thing. I never said there wasn't.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 12:45 PM
Nov 2018

I was speaking of Boomer/Millennial

One that FINALLY doesn't involve us.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
32. Because they're not sniping at you anymore, you're just gonna run and hide in the corner?
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 12:47 PM
Nov 2018

That's such an X thing to do.

Coventina

(27,172 posts)
33. Hey man, we grew up with Reagan in the White House, threatening war with the USSR
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 12:54 PM
Nov 2018

We never thought we'd see adulthood, so we were programmed from the start to believe in our own life's futility.

Any day we're not dead is a mildly pleasant surprise.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
37. I'm on the older side of Y
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 01:10 PM
Nov 2018

So my experience isn't wildly different from those on the younger side of X. I remember the tail end of the 1980s, but that's about it.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
27. Much as you've made an excellent case for the petulant youth.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 12:22 PM
Nov 2018

Six of one, half a dozen of the other... and each as without merit as the other.

Congratulations, indeed...

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,965 posts)
17. "But telling everyone else that THEY'RE doing it wrong" That's fucking rich.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 11:48 AM
Nov 2018

Why didn't you say that to the OP? Or to yourself.

And I'm at the top of the Gen X age demographic (52) and even to me you sound like a parental scold. And that never works well.

Tom Rinaldo

(22,913 posts)
22. Actually, I wrote the OP
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 11:53 AM
Nov 2018

I've added to what I wrote a couple of times since then during the discussion. I am just as critical of people my own age who are worried about the direction our nation is taking, but not voting, as I am of those in younger generations. There are relatively fewer of them though, and at this point in their lives, they are pretty set in their (IMO) counter productive ways.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,965 posts)
23. Didn't mean to sound like I have a problem with you.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 12:02 PM
Nov 2018

I realize you have changed it and that indicates an understanding of how your tone came across. That's noble.

I just thought the person scolding people for doing things wrong telling people that they are doing things wrong was an ironic gold mine.

I teach high school. These kids are way more politically active than I was (Gen X) at their age and I was pretty active.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
34. You seem to be under the misapprehension that anything short of a warm fuzzy embrace is "parental
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 01:02 PM
Nov 2018

scolding" while young people lecturing and instructing and complaining about what everyone else is saying or doing or not saying or doing or the tone of what they're saying or doing is simply speaking truth to power and must be heeded without comment or feedback.

As I said, mature people can listen to advice and criticism without whining that they're being subjected to "parental scolding." And if they are so sensitive to their perception of the tone or content of what people are saying to them makes them that they disengage from the political process, well ...

Frankly, I've already got mine. I'll be fine whoever is in power but am fighting for those who aren't fine and aren't going to be fine. And I've been doing this for decades and know a little something about it - largely because I listened to and learned from those who came before me and didn't accuse them of being "scolds" or reject their advice when they told me their honest truth. But if anyone feels that this is personal and that they need to disconnect from the process that impacts them because they don't like something I've said on an online discussion board, again, well ...

DinahMoeHum

(21,809 posts)
3. Here's my message for them. . .
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 10:45 AM
Nov 2018
If you don't vote, Republicans win.

If you vote 3rd party, Republicans win.

If you write in candidates, Republicans win.

Any vote that is not for a Democrat, Republicans win.

Too many people are preaching, not enough people are leading.

We need leaders first, activists second.

Vote Democratic. Simply put.

Vote Democratic.


progressoid

(49,999 posts)
38. Maybe we draft them into a war. That seemed to motivate some boomers.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 01:15 PM
Nov 2018

Of course participation dropped as soon as the war was over.



progressoid

(49,999 posts)
41. Early voting by young people up 500% in Texas and Georgia
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 03:18 PM
Nov 2018
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/midterms-2018-election-early-voting-texas-georgia-beto-orourke-ted-cruz-trump-a8609916.html

Early voting among young people in key US midterm battleground states has surged dramatically, the latest data shows, suggesting a potential jump in enthusiasm for Democratic candidates.

With six days to go until election day, Texas and Georgia, two traditionally Republican-leaning states, have increased their early vote rate among 18-29 year-olds by nearly five times or more compared to 2014.

...

In Pennsylvania, Nevada, Florida and Arizona – all traditional battleground states – young voting so far has at least doubled, and in the case of Pennsylvania, is up four-fold.
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