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DFW

(54,436 posts)
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:09 PM Nov 2018

Meanwhile in Paris: Bus passengers won't make room for disabled man, driver kicks them ALL off

The driver yelled, "Terminus (end of the line)!" and ordered everybody off. Then the disabled passenger (the guy has multiple sclerosis) in a wheelchair and his helper were allowed onto the bus, which then continued on with them as the sole passengers.

Probably a little drastic, as I'm sure not ALL the passengers were consciously refusing to make room for the guy, but the driver is being labeled as a hero in France.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6341565/Paris-bus-driver-kicks-passengers-refused-make-room-wheelchair-user.html

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Meanwhile in Paris: Bus passengers won't make room for disabled man, driver kicks them ALL off (Original Post) DFW Nov 2018 OP
Sometimes EXTREME kindness is the remedy for creeping awfulness. Crutchez_CuiBono Nov 2018 #1
Agreed! If they're too morally dense to make room Corvo Bianco Nov 2018 #10
The only drastic thing is how kickass the driver is superpatriotman Nov 2018 #2
I wasn't there, but I've been on enough buses to know that it probably wasn't all the passengers Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #3
Yup. Peer pressure works. All for one and one for all sharedvalues Nov 2018 #5
Well shit, if group punishments are so effective and awesome, why don't we start using them for Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #16
clearly you don't live in a black neighborhood.... getagrip_already Nov 2018 #27
And I was previously under the impression that most DU'ers thought that was wrong. n/t Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #42
I'm not most du'rs - just one..... getagrip_already Nov 2018 #74
Yup. Everybody's always okay with it until it happens to them Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #76
I support group punishment in some situations, mostly in school situations. napi21 Nov 2018 #89
A bit of a fascist belief system, wouldn't you say? Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #90
What you are missing here..... getagrip_already Nov 2018 #93
This is not civil disobedience, that's a ridiculous comparison. Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #101
Using the word nark is very telling. MicaelS Nov 2018 #97
Are you serious? Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #100
You missed the point entirely. MicaelS Nov 2018 #102
Actually, you missed the point entirely Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #103
That's certainly what "they" say, anyways... LanternWaste Nov 2018 #96
+1 Crutchez_CuiBono Nov 2018 #86
I believe that is the origin of the word "decimate". When a soldier committed a crime erronis Nov 2018 #43
I tend toward your view, i.e. I tend to think you are right about the majority of the passengers DFW Nov 2018 #6
Exactly. If I'm sitting at the back of the bus and there's some commotion going on at the front Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #13
Wheelchair-bound Franois Le Berre's account is that Hortensis Nov 2018 #28
The father of a friend of mine was almost executed for defying such an order DFW Nov 2018 #38
Brave men faced with nothing they were raised to deal with. Hortensis Nov 2018 #57
My FIL was all of seventeen when he was drafted off his farm DFW Nov 2018 #62
hey DFW, good to see you steve2470 Nov 2018 #67
Hey, Steve, what's shaking? DFW Nov 2018 #69
sounds like things are great on your end, except for the huge amount of work steve2470 Nov 2018 #71
That's an amazing story, DFW! calimary Nov 2018 #94
With all the doors open to her, considering her brains and looks DFW Nov 2018 #99
the bystander effect orleans Nov 2018 #88
The story doesn't say the bus was crowded. nt. Mariana Nov 2018 #60
It was crowded DFW Nov 2018 #63
You're right atreides1 Nov 2018 #7
So let's punish everybody for that one person. Got it. Sounds fair. Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #8
I understand your point, but maybe the effect of this superceded the act LiberalLovinLug Nov 2018 #30
Well you have a point about the positive effect it might have on making people more aware Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #32
Hey, I'd be pissed too LiberalLovinLug Nov 2018 #34
Fair enough. Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #39
The story doesn't say how many there were. Mariana Nov 2018 #61
Other passengers could have spoken up. Lonestarblue Nov 2018 #9
Or the driver could have just done his fucking job Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #11
Maybe humans should do their job and help out another human in need. Kaleva Nov 2018 #36
And if they didn't know somebody was in need? Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #40
I agree with you. Kaleva Nov 2018 #41
Silence is acceptance. plimsoll Nov 2018 #12
And you know so well that they knew exactly what was going on at the other end of the bus Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #15
In your example plimsoll Nov 2018 #19
Yeah, that's because when you buy a bus ticket, you are Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #23
Be angry at yourself. You could have fessed up Drahthaardogs Nov 2018 #18
LOL. Yeah I sure could have, if I had any idea who had actually done it. Snort. Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #22
If not you, then someone else knew and it applies to them. Drahthaardogs Nov 2018 #25
Well given that somebody else always knows Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #31
Dude - can't believe you're still holding on to something from 7th grade hueymahl Nov 2018 #44
Um, I'm not Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #51
If nobody got up or made room then all of them were doing it. That's how it works TeamPooka Nov 2018 #82
Maybe, but not necessarily. Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #83
Laughed at it and loved it. efhmc Nov 2018 #4
I agree, the driver was a hero. demigoddess Nov 2018 #14
My hero cp Nov 2018 #17
Not sure if it was right to boot everyone off - but I bet people will be more aware of others needs 33taw Nov 2018 #20
I wasn't there, so I didn't see what happened. LibDemAlways Nov 2018 #21
Unbelievable...the a-holes. Not making room for someone w/MS in a wheelchair. Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #24
Given up traveling CountAllVotes Nov 2018 #37
You might want to contact Tammy Baldwin and /or Jim Langevin. They are co-sponsoring amendments suffragette Nov 2018 #45
Thank you CountAllVotes Nov 2018 #54
Of course you are still angry. You are entirely justified in feeling that way. suffragette Nov 2018 #58
I'm sorry to hear that. Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #53
This message was self-deleted by its author CountAllVotes Nov 2018 #55
The ableist snowflakes won't melt if they are forced to walk B Stieg Nov 2018 #26
That is so Paris. Ellen Forradalom Nov 2018 #29
The driver sure is a hero! lunamagica Nov 2018 #33
I ride the bus every day, from L.A. to the other side of Whittier. Iggo Nov 2018 #35
+10000000000 Little Star Nov 2018 #50
+1 Crutchez_CuiBono Nov 2018 #87
C'Est Si Bon SallyHemmings Nov 2018 #46
Looks like the RATP supports the driver's action. Good on him and on them. suffragette Nov 2018 #47
So the ones who were willing to make room got off as they would have. Warren_Pointe Nov 2018 #48
Good lesson. Kick tRump off the f*cking bus. TxVietVet Nov 2018 #49
I ride the bus and I have a question about this. LisaM Nov 2018 #52
There is no ADA there. But being polite and basically decent **should** be universal. FailureToCommunicate Nov 2018 #85
Agreed, and I see.things on my bus every day that rile me. LisaM Nov 2018 #91
I like this response. MuseRider Nov 2018 #56
What an amazing way to make an example of them all. Hekate Nov 2018 #59
Being disabled in Europe must be extremely difficult. GulfCoast66 Nov 2018 #64
It varies DFW Nov 2018 #65
I was just in Germany GulfCoast66 Nov 2018 #68
I always thought Freibug was more of an optical treat than Heidelberg DFW Nov 2018 #70
Just maintaining all those old buildings must be almost impossible GulfCoast66 Nov 2018 #72
Almost 1 AM here. DFW Nov 2018 #73
But all my friends who have never been to Europe GulfCoast66 Nov 2018 #75
I average 4 to 5 hous of sleep a night if I'm lucky. DFW Nov 2018 #77
As the merits of European Social democracies have become apparent GulfCoast66 Nov 2018 #79
I know. Best of both worlds and all DFW Nov 2018 #80
Apparently your thoughts echo mine. GulfCoast66 Nov 2018 #84
You are not wrong: apples and kumquats DFW Nov 2018 #92
This is what I love about Parisians. They are so efficient. McCamy Taylor Nov 2018 #66
I'll cut the driver slack because he didn't have the time in hindsight to sit back and think elocs Nov 2018 #78
Yeah for this bus driver Gothmog Nov 2018 #81
I grew up in Queens, an marybourg Nov 2018 #95
I'll bet that if this situation happens again the passengers themselves WON'T LET..... usaf-vet Nov 2018 #98

Corvo Bianco

(1,148 posts)
10. Agreed! If they're too morally dense to make room
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:43 PM
Nov 2018

They need a swift kick by anyone willing to kick! Off the bus!

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
3. I wasn't there, but I've been on enough buses to know that it probably wasn't all the passengers
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:16 PM
Nov 2018

doing it. I have no problem with him kicking off the guilty ones, but I've always hated group imposed punishments ever since I was in the 7th grade and our teacher made the entire class sit out lunch in detention for three days because ONE student threw something across the room and wouldn't confess until three days later. Most of us were way more angry at the teacher than we were at the guilty student.

I would not be calling this man a hero, unless I am wrong about the circumstances.

sharedvalues

(6,916 posts)
5. Yup. Peer pressure works. All for one and one for all
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:39 PM
Nov 2018

That’s why group punishments are so effective.
Especially when they are about offenses against civil society.
They discourage complacency.
Next time, the silent moderate may take some action to fix the situation.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
16. Well shit, if group punishments are so effective and awesome, why don't we start using them for
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:54 PM
Nov 2018

everything? Next time somebody gets murdered in your community, let's just go start randomly arresting folks until the guilty party confesses?

getagrip_already

(14,825 posts)
74. I'm not most du'rs - just one.....
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:53 PM
Nov 2018

I don't have a problem with throwing most people off the bus because it was just an inconvenience to them. They just waited for the next bus or walked to their destination.

We aren't talking about charging everyone in a protest with rioting because a couple of people got too roudy.

This type of thing should happen more often.

napi21

(45,806 posts)
89. I support group punishment in some situations, mostly in school situations.
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 12:02 AM
Nov 2018

It's one of the few punishments that will work. Maybe not the first time, but when a circumstance occurs and the guilty party won't come forward, maybe the majority of the group won't want to pay the price for something they didn't do, they'll cop on the guilty ones.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
90. A bit of a fascist belief system, wouldn't you say?
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 12:12 AM
Nov 2018

Punishing everybody to get a few to turn into narks? Authoritarians everywhere would be proud. Guess I just subscribe to the belief that the innocent should not pay for the crimes of the guilty. There's a reason our species has largely ditched such punishment philosophies, except, apparently, for many people on this supposedly liberal discussion board.

getagrip_already

(14,825 posts)
93. What you are missing here.....
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 09:14 AM
Nov 2018

There was no CRIME. Nobody was arrested. Nobody was detained. Nobody was fined.

They had to wait for the next bus because they were not behaving in a way society would be proud of.

You can't even call it a punishment. It was an inconvenience. It made the country stop and think.

Think of it as a form of civil action.

Is it your position that demonstrators shouldn't be able to inconvenience a city? After all, they are snarling traffic for everybody. Police officers have to give up days off from their families to stand guard.

Civil Disobedience by definition inconveniences people who had nothing to do with why they are protesting.

Methinks you are too thin skinned for this world. You won't change anything by being polite to the majority. Sorry.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
101. This is not civil disobedience, that's a ridiculous comparison.
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 12:36 PM
Nov 2018

This is not about fighting da man. Don't blow it up into something it's not. My position in this has been the same from the beginning. The ones who wouldn't move should have been kicked off. I wasn't there and don't really know the specifics, and neither were you. However, I have ridden the bus enough to know that there are quite a few circumstances in which people on the bus may not have been aware of what was going on or were far enough removed from it to where they assumed the bus driver could handle it and deal with those responsible to where they didn't speak up, and if that is the case, I don't believe kicking them off was the right thing to do. And while you may just see it as a minor inconvenience, it can actually be a big deal if you make somebody late to work or miss an important appointment.

I get it. Things like this make you feel all warm and fuzzy on the inside because you get to feel a rush of satisfaction at seeing your idea of instant justice meted out on everybody who you perceive as being less woke and evolved than you. But me thinks you need to learn some temperance and objectivity and not turn everything in the world into an us vs. them scenario.

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
97. Using the word nark is very telling.
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 10:06 AM
Nov 2018

So no one should say anything to the authorities?

I bet if you were a victim of crime, you would sing a different tune.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
100. Are you serious?
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 12:21 PM
Nov 2018

I have been the victim of a crime. Several in fact. Never once did I want the police to go around and start punishing innocent people to get to the ones who did it to me.

Are you saying that you would be okay with that? You think the fact that you were victimized gives you the right to victimize others in your pursuit of justice?

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
102. You missed the point entirely.
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 03:47 PM
Nov 2018

At no point did I even infer that Innocents should be punished.

The point is, that you seem to be way bent out of shape over people informing on others who commits misdeeds. If people do not inform on those who do wrong, THEN Innocents can, or will be punished, and it will be no one's fault except those who keep their mouths shut. THAT is real injustice.

Once again.....the point you used the term "nark" is very, very telling.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
103. Actually, you missed the point entirely
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 04:04 PM
Nov 2018

Never ONCE did I say I had any objection to anybody voluntarily informing on others who commit misdeeds, and I challenge you to find a single post where I said any such thing.

I said I had an objection to imposing group punishments ON INNOCENT PEOPLE to force people to rat out and turn on others, especially those that could be their friends or family.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
96. That's certainly what "they" say, anyways...
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 09:58 AM
Nov 2018

No doubt, bumper stickers are often the best nuance we're capable of.

erronis

(15,328 posts)
43. I believe that is the origin of the word "decimate". When a soldier committed a crime
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 03:25 PM
Nov 2018

at least in the eyes of the authorities, the whole legion (battalion, troop, ?) was forced to kill 1/10th of its soldiers.

Nowadays, decimate is meant to reduce by 90%, not 10%.

DFW

(54,436 posts)
6. I tend toward your view, i.e. I tend to think you are right about the majority of the passengers
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:40 PM
Nov 2018

In a crowded bus, in which I have been many a time, the passengers on one end haven't the faintest clue what is going on at the other end. Unless the bus driver had specifically asked people at each door to make room somewhere for the guy in the wheelchair, and they ALL refused (the article didn't specify), his "a pox on all your houses" was not really justified. He let his disgust at the initial refusal to help the disabled guy guide his action. France being France, I'm sure there was a hefty decision among the passengers being kicked off the bus (those that understood what was going on, that is), with socio-political overtones dominating the heated discussion (Asterix comics are truly a running commentary on the French as well as historical entertainment for children).

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
13. Exactly. If I'm sitting at the back of the bus and there's some commotion going on at the front
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:50 PM
Nov 2018

I could very well not have the slightest idea what's going on, and I'm liable to do this radical thing called place my trust in the bus driver to know how to do his job and handle the situation accordingly.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
28. Wheelchair-bound Franois Le Berre's account is that
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:20 PM
Nov 2018

“No-one wanted to move despite the access ramp. When he saw that, the RATP driver quickly intervened. He got up and said, ‘everyone off’. “Everyone did it, but some people did grumble a bit.” Mr Le Berre said the driver told the passengers: “Everyone might need a wheelchair one day.”

At one time for medical reasons I used buses when I needed, carrying a small baby, and on a route with a bus along once an hour during daylight, with temperatures frequently over 100 degrees that summer. Tossing passengers off in THOSE circumstances would be very bad.

Here, though, my best guess without researching is that buses in Paris's 17th arrondissement are far more frequent. Every 10-15 minutes would not be unusual for an urban bus system. Just look at all the people on that street.




Btw, my other best guess, for why no one near the door(s) moved was because no one else did. Group behavior. Remember the terrible story of all those nice policemen who executed a whole village on Nazi orders because none of them broke the group silence to say he wouldn't?



DFW

(54,436 posts)
38. The father of a friend of mine was almost executed for defying such an order
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:41 PM
Nov 2018

He and his unit had captured a pair of partisan women in Russia or the Ukraine, and the officer ordered my friend's father to execute them. He said he was not going to fire upon two unarmed women. The officer said he could either shoot them, or join them when he found another volunteer. Another guy in the unit spoke up and said, hold on here, we are not going to start shooting our own guys, I'll do it. He took the women around the side of a barn they were at. No one saw what actually happened after that, but there was a burst of gunfire, and he came back and said the deed was done. My friend's father lived on to become the father of my friend. At least he came back in one piece. My own father in law was Göring's poor slob on the farm (" Why would some poor slob on a farm want to risk his life in a war when the best that he can get out of it is to come back to his farm in one piece?&quot . He did not return to his family farm in one piece.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
57. Brave men faced with nothing they were raised to deal with.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 05:32 PM
Nov 2018

Did the second one save those women as well as his felllows? Your FIL was no fool.

In the police station event, what I read was that the commander of the village police force (and perhaps another high-up) refused to lead the massacre but came out and explained the situation to the men, that they were to head out to massacre hundreds of people of all ages from somewhere else, and said to obey or not would be their choice. That was when the men standing silent in line just...continued to stand silent in line because that's what they were all doing. Once the massacre started, a couple or few ran off into the woods, but the others finished the job, which I think may have taken more than one day.

After the war this group was studied, and the main reason these very normal men all went out and murdered babies and children in their mothers' arms, the mothers, and everyone else, was loyalty to their comrades, to their group: They all didn't want to let down each other, and at the point of decision they were all standing silent waiting to see what their fellow officers would do. What happened to their commander, who in making his own decision had to leave them without leadership, wasn't in the account I read.

DFW

(54,436 posts)
62. My FIL was all of seventeen when he was drafted off his farm
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:07 PM
Nov 2018

He was sent as cannon fodder to Stalingrad where he lay dying in minus 40° cold, one leg blown off by a Soviet artillery shell. A retreating unit noticed he was somehow still alive, and got what was left of him out to field hospital. He returned to his farm at age 18, useless as a farmer. He studied to become a banker, and for the rest of his life, stayed with a small local bank, helping other farmers with loans so they could stay afloat. He was appreciated for it, too, because at his funeral in the tiny town in the farmland of northwestern Germany, FOUR HUNDRED people came, almost all of which were not friends or relatives.

The only thing he really hoped for out of life over which he had no control whatsoever was that all of his grandchildren should be girls, so they would never have to serve in the military (he got his wish, by the way).

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
67. hey DFW, good to see you
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:35 PM
Nov 2018

I remember you telling me part of that story. I hope MrsDFW and the kids are all doing well. With any good fortune, I'll make it back to Germany one day. Thanks to you and your ex-cop friend, I had a wonderful time. All the best

DFW

(54,436 posts)
69. Hey, Steve, what's shaking?
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:39 PM
Nov 2018

Mrs. and I just got back from a weekend in the Frankfurt area. Our younger daughter had a baby in May, so we get down there when we can.

I was in Berlin briefly 2 weeks ago, but I didn't see our mutual ex-BKA pal. Since he now does security for the German Jewish community, I suspect he has his hands full these days, unfortunately.

I can't believe we'll be leaving for the States in 7 weeks. It seems like I have about 3 months of stuff to do before then.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
71. sounds like things are great on your end, except for the huge amount of work
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:45 PM
Nov 2018

Things are the same for me, now paying off my trip but loved it.

Yes, I'm sure his hands are very full, sadly.

DFW

(54,436 posts)
99. With all the doors open to her, considering her brains and looks
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 11:42 AM
Nov 2018

His daughter (my wife) decided that all she wanted to do was be a social worker. That came from somewhere.

orleans

(34,073 posts)
88. the bystander effect
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 11:37 PM
Nov 2018

"In 1964, Kitty Genovese was murdered outside her New York apartment building. Some of her neighbors heard her screams but didn't call for help. This lesson explains the social phenomenon known as the bystander effect, which helps to explain why Genovese's neighbors didn't help her."
https://study.com/academy/lesson/defining-the-bystander-effect-kitty-genovese-murder-research-by-latane-and-darley.html

DFW

(54,436 posts)
63. It was crowded
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:12 PM
Nov 2018

First off, if you know Paris, you know the buses are almost always crowded, and second, it it were only half full, there wouldn't have been an issue with space for a wheelchair. I found the incident depressing, because when I travel on public transportation here in Europe (in Paris, ALWAYS bus or Métro, taxis take forever in traffic and cost ten to twenty times a bus fare), people are ALWAYS making room for baby buggies, wheelchairs, whatever. This really stood out like a sore thumb, and I'm sure the driver thought the same.

atreides1

(16,091 posts)
7. You're right
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:40 PM
Nov 2018

You weren't there! And while some passengers were being jerks, the others didn't do anything to help the man or his helper...which makes them jerks, too!!!



In the 7th grade you didn't suffer because of what the teacher did...your class got detention because there was ONE asshole who didn't stand up and take responsibility for their actions!

LiberalLovinLug

(14,176 posts)
30. I understand your point, but maybe the effect of this superceded the act
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:22 PM
Nov 2018

That is, it shouldn't be the norm, but the fact that he did this, created a viral story, which brought attention to it. And probably lit a flame of awareness for Parisian bus passengers for future. So the end justified the means, in this one case.

But of course, I was thinking that there could have been seniors, or even other disabled persons on that bus that had nothing to do with it. It was an emotional decision by the driver. I agree with some here that think he could have just ordered out those in the front area that were not making room, let him board, then took off. Instead of the entire bus. But I still think the fact that the story and its message transcended that one incident, made it worthwhile.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
32. Well you have a point about the positive effect it might have on making people more aware
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:29 PM
Nov 2018

about the issue at hand. I can't argue that. But I know that if I'm on my way to work, and I get kicked off and left stranded because of what somebody else did, the last thing I'm gong to be thinking about is the positive message this will bring about. You know, I paid for my ticket, I work my job like a good citizen, just trying to get by, and I don't deserve to be made an example of because somebody else is an asshole. My rights matter too.

LiberalLovinLug

(14,176 posts)
34. Hey, I'd be pissed too
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:37 PM
Nov 2018

Especially at those front passengers. I may have a different viewpoint if I were one of those other riders too.
I was just saying that the overall result was probably a positive, in balance.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
61. The story doesn't say how many there were.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:05 PM
Nov 2018

There's absolutely no reason for these posters to jump to the conclusion that the bus was crowded. It may have been half a dozen people and driver did see them all.

Lonestarblue

(10,053 posts)
9. Other passengers could have spoken up.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:43 PM
Nov 2018

If you see that someone cannot get on a bus because passengers are blocking the access and refuse to move, wouldn’t you simply, and politely, point out the problem and ask them to make space? It’s understandable that people do not want to get involved, but I notice that people in this country get applauded for standing up for minorities who are being harrassed by white people.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
11. Or the driver could have just done his fucking job
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:48 PM
Nov 2018

And made those responsible move or get off. Radical solution I know. But knee jerk reactions are just so much more entertaining and fun to laugh about later, even if it means some of those people were late to work and potentially threatening their livelihoods.

Kaleva

(36,332 posts)
36. Maybe humans should do their job and help out another human in need.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:40 PM
Nov 2018

Or we could adopt the attitude so many Germans had when it came to the Jews. So many pleaded ignorance of the true purpose of the death camps or they knew or at least suspected but did nothing anyways.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
40. And if they didn't know somebody was in need?
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:49 PM
Nov 2018

I'm willing to admit that no one, including me, can make a final judgement here because it's hard to judge the particulars of this situation without having been there. If everybody on that bus was guilty of not getting out of the way, then they deserved to get kicked off.

I'm just saying that in my experience with buses, it's entirely possible that there were many people on that bus who either didn't understand what was going on or were far enough away from it to where they assumed that the driver would do his job and handle it accordingly, as he is paid to do.

Kaleva

(36,332 posts)
41. I agree with you.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:52 PM
Nov 2018

At this point, we can only speculate as to how many of the passenger's were aware of what was going on.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
15. And you know so well that they knew exactly what was going on at the other end of the bus
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:52 PM
Nov 2018

Also, some might choose to remain silent because they actually have this crazy notion that it's the bus driver's job to handle these situations accordingly without going apeshit.

plimsoll

(1,670 posts)
19. In your example
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:56 PM
Nov 2018

they still relinquished control to another. So I think you're proving my point. They objected to their own inconvenience, the inconvenience of others not so much.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
23. Yeah, that's because when you buy a bus ticket, you are
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:00 PM
Nov 2018

relinquishing your control to another who is legally and morally responsible for getting you to your destination and your safety. It is his job. And if he doesn't want to do that, find another job.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
18. Be angry at yourself. You could have fessed up
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:55 PM
Nov 2018

Instead you sat there and took someone else's punishment because you wouldn't speak up. You chose to be part of the problem and NOT the solution, probably because it would have been uncomfortable for you. Called a snitch? Teacher' pet?

You made your choice willingly by protecting someone who broke the rules. You have no right to be angry. You had free will and chose what you saw as the more comfortable route.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
22. LOL. Yeah I sure could have, if I had any idea who had actually done it. Snort.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:59 PM
Nov 2018

Love the assumptions you make here. Not only did I not I not know who had thrown the object, I didn't even see it being thrown, and neither did the overwhelming majority of the class. But don't let that stop you from talking out your ass.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
25. If not you, then someone else knew and it applies to them.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:16 PM
Nov 2018

Fix the cause not the blame.

You said you were all more angry with the teacher instead of your classmates, so yes, it does apply to you.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
31. Well given that somebody else always knows
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:25 PM
Nov 2018

Let's just punish people at random every time there's a crime because we must fix the cause as you say. And if innocent people get caught up in the dragnet, it's their own fault for being angry about it, because there's fixing the cause to be done.

hueymahl

(2,510 posts)
44. Dude - can't believe you're still holding on to something from 7th grade
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 03:28 PM
Nov 2018

Let it go.

The bus drive did the right thing. People need to wake up to what is going on around them. The bus drive had limited options - I think he chose a good one.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
51. Um, I'm not
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 04:08 PM
Nov 2018

I just used it as an example. Drahthaardogs decided to get all righteous about it, so I responded to demonstrate a principle, not because I'm still fuming about it.

33taw

(2,447 posts)
20. Not sure if it was right to boot everyone off - but I bet people will be more aware of others needs
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:57 PM
Nov 2018

In the future.

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
21. I wasn't there, so I didn't see what happened.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:59 PM
Nov 2018

However, for the driver to be so mad that he kicked everybody else off, there had to be a good reason. I'll defer to the judgment and actions of the driver on this one.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
24. Unbelievable...the a-holes. Not making room for someone w/MS in a wheelchair.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:14 PM
Nov 2018

Good for the driver! (I guess the bus didn't have an area at front set aside for wheelchairs? I've been on some buses with that.)

I've been on buses where the men didn't give up their seats to an elderly or pregnant woman, if you can believe it. So I did. And the men felt no shame, from the looks of it.

CountAllVotes

(20,878 posts)
37. Given up traveling
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:40 PM
Nov 2018

I have this condition as well. The last time I traveled, it was sheer hell.

I ended up in an airport as the connecting flight was missed.

Their plan for me was to park me in a wheelchair in the boarding area overnight.

After much bitching, they (UA) finally arranged a room overnight in a city that was 40 miles away.

When I got home, I sued UA and received a coupon for a free drink and $100!

I noted when I got home that my foot was all swollen and red. I ended up at the ER. They thought my foot had become infected from a cut that I got trying to board a shuttle. They IV'd me fearing the worst.

I still have the guy's name that claimed I was "just fine".

Just fine.

Yeah right!!



suffragette

(12,232 posts)
45. You might want to contact Tammy Baldwin and /or Jim Langevin. They are co-sponsoring amendments
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 03:31 PM
Nov 2018

to the Air Carrier Access Act because treatment such as you received shows that substantive changes are still needed. I’m certain they would appreciate hearing your personal experience at being treated so terribly.

What happened to you is wrong.

More info here:

https://www.unitedspinal.org/wp-content/uploads/AIR-CARRIER-ACCESS-AMENDMENTS.pdf

suffragette

(12,232 posts)
58. Of course you are still angry. You are entirely justified in feeling that way.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 05:44 PM
Nov 2018

No one should be subjected to such uncaring treatment.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
53. I'm sorry to hear that.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 04:26 PM
Nov 2018

I suppose a person in that situation needs someone else to fight for them during travel. Travel is bad enough for non-disabled (non-challenged?) people...everyone's tired, in a hurry, can get pushy. I can only imagine if you have an issue that gets in the way of them.

Response to Honeycombe8 (Reply #53)

B Stieg

(2,410 posts)
26. The ableist snowflakes won't melt if they are forced to walk
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:16 PM
Nov 2018

Although group punishments--the shifting of responsibility from the guilty to all--always create resentment amongst the innocent...

VOTE 2018!

Ellen Forradalom

(16,160 posts)
29. That is so Paris.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:20 PM
Nov 2018

I can tell you that the inhabitants can be a little grumpy and ungracious, and the person requesting the solution can get very demanding. I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess that the passengers still didn't get it and grumbled that they were treated rudely and will be late for their destinations. It isn't all wine and roses in the City of Lights.

Iggo

(47,564 posts)
35. I ride the bus every day, from L.A. to the other side of Whittier.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:39 PM
Nov 2018

Not sure how it usually goes in France, but here in L.A. when a disabled, injured, ancient, or otherwise needy person needs one of the front seats, the bus doesn't move 'til somebody moves out of those seats.

suffragette

(12,232 posts)
47. Looks like the RATP supports the driver's action. Good on him and on them.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 03:41 PM
Nov 2018

https://www.ctvnews.ca/world/bus-driver-ejects-passengers-who-wouldn-t-make-room-for-man-in-wheelchair-1.4158774

RATP, the operator of Paris’ public transit system, reached out as well, with a spokesperson saying the agency wanted to help recognize the driver for his actions.

When asked if the request was a smokescreen for an attempt to identify the driver so they could be punished for kicking passengers off a bus, another RATP spokesperson said the agency would not discipline a driver who had acted in the best interests of a passenger.

Warren_Pointe

(328 posts)
48. So the ones who were willing to make room got off as they would have.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 03:56 PM
Nov 2018

And those who wouldn't make room were punished by being made to get off. Sounds like an equitable solution. The decent people were not punished; they were going to get off anyway. The swine were punished because they did not want to get off.

LisaM

(27,827 posts)
52. I ride the bus and I have a question about this.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 04:16 PM
Nov 2018

On my bus, there is a certain section of seats that are accessible and designated for seniors and disabled. There is a sign advising that people in those seats need to move if necessary. Is it different in France? Why did everyone need to get off the bus?

LisaM

(27,827 posts)
91. Agreed, and I see.things on my bus every day that rile me.
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 12:35 AM
Nov 2018

In general, it's younger riders, mostly tech company workers, sitting while people who are obviously much older stand. I once gave up a seat to a person with a cast while people clearly twenty years younger than I am sat there on their devices. One morning when I was really tired and the bus was an hour late, a young woman beat me to an open seat and I had to.stand.the whole way. I said something to her when we got off and instead of showing any sympathy she just spat at me that I should have asked!! No.....you should always offer a seat to someone who looks as if they need it more.

MuseRider

(34,115 posts)
56. I like this response.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 05:09 PM
Nov 2018

Even if I had been on the bus wanting the help them get on I would gladly leave just to see this happen.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
64. Being disabled in Europe must be extremely difficult.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:21 PM
Nov 2018

You do not see the accommodations that are common here. Of course many of their buildings and roads are hundreds of years old.

I find the French no less polite than Americans. And like the US the level of politeness increases as the city/town gets smaller. Granted they are more private and standoffish, but the live in a very crowded environment.

Those critiquing the bus drive should keep a few things in mind. The French would, in my somewhat limited experience, take exception to being told individually to get off the bus. But when the driver said Terminus they knew what that meant. I could be all wrong here. But I have learned that the French culture, and all other European cultures I have visited are way different than ours.

I learned the hard way not to judge their cultural practices through my Americans lens.

DFW

(54,436 posts)
65. It varies
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:27 PM
Nov 2018

Here in Germany, many cities have their own local ordinances. My wife and I were just down in Frankfurt for the weekend. The trams there have extended, street-level platforms that open when the doors open, so that wheelchairs and baby strollers can roll right off. Where we live in Düsseldorf, they are SOL on the trams, although the trains, even the local trains, have wheelchair ramps and the personnel to set them up. Curiously, they rarely, if ever, have anyone around to help with luggage. And if you're in any way disabled, don't even THINK of visiting Brussels.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
68. I was just in Germany
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:35 PM
Nov 2018

Munich, Freiburg and Heidelberg. Like in France, in which I have more experience, I seem to remember that new public construction and transportation had some accommodations. Nothing like the US. But I can’t imagine getting around those old cities while disabled.

By the way, Freiburg is a hidden gem. Heidleberg is great, but hardly hidden.

DFW

(54,436 posts)
70. I always thought Freibug was more of an optical treat than Heidelberg
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:43 PM
Nov 2018

Heidelberg gets all the fame because it's an hour's train ride from the Frankfurt airport, and Freiburg needs some planning to get to. Europe in general was behind the USA in accommodating the disabled. Some places are trying to make up for it full speed, and some are struggling with the fact that their cities are over 1000 years old, and some catching up is defying their logistics.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
72. Just maintaining all those old buildings must be almost impossible
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:47 PM
Nov 2018

Trying to make them accommodating? Wow.

Have a nice evening. Pretty late over there.

DFW

(54,436 posts)
73. Almost 1 AM here.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:51 PM
Nov 2018

I have decided to do the unheard of tomorrow (take the day off). I was supposed to fly up to Denmark, but I had maybe 4 days "off" in October, and only one of them was on a weekend. I need a breather.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
75. But all my friends who have never been to Europe
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 08:02 PM
Nov 2018

Say you guys never work!




Tuesday night will be my long night!

Good night.

DFW

(54,436 posts)
77. I average 4 to 5 hous of sleep a night if I'm lucky.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 08:07 PM
Nov 2018

Right, no one ever works over here. We have two hundred million invisible Mexicans who do all the work for us, and we just sit in cafés all day long and complain about the weather. How DID they figure that out if they have never been here? Did they hear it on Fox Noise? THAT must be it!

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
79. As the merits of European Social democracies have become apparent
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 08:17 PM
Nov 2018

The more republicans have rhetorically attacked Europe.

Don’t get me wrong, I do not think Europe is inherently better. Been there enough to know they have their own intractable problems. Unlike some liberals who see it as a paradise.

But you social Democracy is worth playing with here.

DFW

(54,436 posts)
80. I know. Best of both worlds and all
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 08:23 PM
Nov 2018

But asking for common sense practicality is about as effective in countries with three times as many civil "servants" as they need, with jobs and pensions guaranteed for life, as it is when asking it of Republicans.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
84. Apparently your thoughts echo mine.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 09:31 PM
Nov 2018

It is pretty apparent that government is a way to often used to keep people employed in the European countries I have visited. I guess I have spent about 6 months there between work and vacations. Not much I know. But more than most Americans. And I speak some French. Not much, but enough.

But it is also obvious that they really want to insure their folks have a decent life, or at least don’t live in squalor, although I have seen examples where that has failed in rural France and Italy.

But republicans want the opposite. They are happy to have our people live in squalor if the rich folks taxes stay low and the rural poor remain convinced that god is for small government.

My thoughts in the migrant crisis you are having would not be popular on DU. Suffice to say, in my experience, it is not at all analogous to the situation we have with South America although most Americans of both parties can’t see the difference. Perhaps you disagree? Would be interested in you correction if I am wrong.







DFW

(54,436 posts)
92. You are not wrong: apples and kumquats
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 04:22 AM
Nov 2018

Syria is not Honduras, never was. Some thirty years ago, I was on a Swissair fight from Zürich to Boston sitting next to a brilliant, well-educated Syrian businessman who was urging me to learn Arabic and visit his civilized, culturally rich country, which was an island of stability in the Middle East. When it was already on its way to falling apart in 2010, Obama reached out to Putin and specifically asked him if he was willing to work together to prevent Syria from becoming a total catastrophe, and Putin told him to fuck off, since Syria had long been in the Russian sphere of influence (and, not coincidentally, the only Mediterranean warm water port where his warships were always welcome). Obama told me this personally in 2012, and things didn't exactly improve since then. Putin never was famous for his humanitarian tendencies. Any American who doesn't understand that this is completely different from Central America is either too lazy to find out what's what, or is a Republican and therefore fully indifferent.

There is plenty of squalor in Europe, though in the west, most of it is hidden, and it is definitely not considered "acceptable" as it is in the U.S. There are parts of the Balkans that have traditionally been basket cases, and remain so.

As for the refugees here in Western Europe, Merkel adopted the rare stance of pragmatism, and was left to twist in the wind by her EU partners. These people were coming no matter what. The two choices were to build concentration camps for those didn't die on the way, or try to accommodate the coming hoard. None of the European countries were staffed with the necessary thousands of Arabic-speaking social workers needed to explain the rules of society here, and none of the countries' justice systems were prepared to treat offenders equally under their own justice systems, preferring "tolerance and leniency" toward violent offenders. With that, they therefore played into the hands of the European radical right, who danced with joy with every rape or violent assault committed by a refugee, giving them both a free cause célèbre and a boost at the polls that was neither intended nor justified. Sweden was an extreme example, and the number of skinheads there (proportionally) is nothing short of alarming.

elocs

(22,597 posts)
78. I'll cut the driver slack because he didn't have the time in hindsight to sit back and think
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 08:16 PM
Nov 2018

he should do like we have the leisure of doing here. I'm sure he did what he thought was right in the heat of the moment.
Perhaps it would have been better to stop the bus and refuse to move until room was made for the disabled man.

marybourg

(12,634 posts)
95. I grew up in Queens, an
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 09:27 AM
Nov 2018

outer bourough of NYC. We were frequently thrown off buses and trains, sometimes in horrendous weather, usually with no explanation. We endured. Never made the news. Maybe that's why we were called the "silent generation". It was the decade following WWII. We were just grateful to be at peace.

usaf-vet

(6,200 posts)
98. I'll bet that if this situation happens again the passengers themselves WON'T LET.....
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 10:57 AM
Nov 2018

their fellow passengers refuse to make space and help a disabled passenger.

They have been given notice that "Terminus" might be just one driver away from making space.

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