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Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 11:58 AM Nov 2018

My brother man-splained to me about Pelosi....

He man-splained to me that Pelosi is so unlikable and horrid, that the Democrats should pick another speaker for the House that appeals to the broad public. (I'm not sure why rightwingnuts hate her...I'm afraid to ask. But my brother is not a rightwingnut; he's an independent who is socially liberal but fiscally conservative. He was talking about our parents' hatred for Pelosi and how they all agree; my father & stepmother are rabid, hate-mongering Trumpers.)

I woman-splained to him that it looks like Pelosi will be the speaker, and besides, the Democratic Party's Speaker doesn't need to appeal to the broad public. Her job is to represent the Democrats. When the right gets rid of McConnell and Paul Ryan, whose spine is missing, then we'll talk.



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My brother man-splained to me about Pelosi.... (Original Post) Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 OP
She may be tiny but she's mighty... sagesnow Nov 2018 #1
Post removed Post removed Nov 2018 #10
Paul Ryan Soxfan58 Nov 2018 #2
I'm happy to see the gavel back in her hand. She knows how to use it. Claritie Pixie Nov 2018 #3
' . . . then we'll talk' empedocles Nov 2018 #4
They hate her because she's effective... dchill Nov 2018 #5
I don't think republicans know WHY they say they hate Pelosi. pangaia Nov 2018 #30
Oh you are right PatSeg Nov 2018 #40
That seems to be the case for most of their issues. Mike Rows His Boat Nov 2018 #52
They are so easily programmed PatSeg Nov 2018 #60
Bill Mahr, "Why do you hate Hillary?" maddiemom Nov 2018 #53
they hate her part because she's a woman, part because she's effective and part because TeamPooka Nov 2018 #54
RWers seem to get their thinking out of a bottle,,,, lastlib Nov 2018 #69
I agree with you HurricaneWarning Nov 2018 #72
+++ agree. iluvtennis Nov 2018 #74
you are very right. right wing propaganda is anti female, and females are always demigoddess Nov 2018 #78
Right. NastyRiffraff Nov 2018 #83
The same reason they hated & vilified Hillary. GentryDixon Nov 2018 #48
limbaugh has led a chorus of hate against her - certainot Nov 2018 #56
And a "nasty" woman at that. LakeArenal Nov 2018 #70
It takes a strong woman to scare the Republicans. This she does very well. Brava. libdem4life Nov 2018 #6
I think the rightwingers lump Hillary, Nancy, Maxine and Liz Warren all together FakeNoose Nov 2018 #19
Absolutely PatSeg Nov 2018 #41
She is "unlikable and horrid"....TO REPUBLICANS !!!! CincyDem Nov 2018 #7
I was just about to say... Grammy23 Nov 2018 #14
As we see, not just Republicans have this pathology. Hortensis Nov 2018 #46
Very insightful and balanced post. Sunriser13 Nov 2018 #89
Pelosi is the number one fund raiser for the Democratic party. sarcasmo Nov 2018 #8
I predict she will play Trump like a fiddle nuxvomica Nov 2018 #9
Yeah, look how she took on Dubya! FiveGoodMen Nov 2018 #12
I am not specifically speaking about YOUR brother Ferrets are Cool Nov 2018 #11
Where I live that phrase means violetpastille Nov 2018 #21
BINGO! BamaRefugee Nov 2018 #55
And love guns... deurbano Nov 2018 #58
We must be virtual neighbors Pacifist Patriot Nov 2018 #81
Thank you! RoBear Nov 2018 #42
... Ferrets are Cool Nov 2018 #85
No kidding. If they were actually "fiscally conservative" they'd vote for Democrats. catbyte Nov 2018 #47
yah. Tell him Trump is horrid to dems, should GOP take into consideration our opinion when Demovictory9 Nov 2018 #13
LOL! He hates Trump, so that didn't occur to me. But yeah...that is true. nt Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #17
Pelosi was elected to represent people in her district dalton99a Nov 2018 #15
Exactly. I was surprised to find that all three of them... Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #20
If your brother hates tRUMP as you state, why does he care if Democratic reps appeal tRUMPERS? ChubbyStar Nov 2018 #63
That was partly his point. Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #75
Good job. "Woman-splained"...I like that. brush Nov 2018 #16
To be fair, I hate McConnell as much as anybody hates Pelosi. Just how things stand. dameatball Nov 2018 #18
They hate her because she is a woman who has done a better job as Speaker Caliman73 Nov 2018 #22
All points well taken. Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #29
It is a perception problem Zorro Nov 2018 #23
She s only hated because she is effective. And she is much more loved than hated for the same reason RelativelyJones Nov 2018 #24
They hate her because that is what they've been told to do. I dare they to get specific as to UniteFightBack Nov 2018 #25
Right. And why have they been told to hate her? GopherGal Nov 2018 #86
Excellent response from you! smirkymonkey Nov 2018 #26
Your brother's not alone. People are mansplaining about Pelosi right here on DU EffieBlack Nov 2018 #27
Tell him socially liberal but fiscally conservative is a senseless position. Garrett78 Nov 2018 #28
I saw Pelosi marching down Market street at a protest march earlier this year kimbutgar Nov 2018 #31
One more thing, folks; VERY IMPORTANT to consider. . . DinahMoeHum Nov 2018 #32
Oh, I forgot about that. :) nt Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #38
+ 1000 n/t Niagara Nov 2018 #87
Agreed. (nt) Sunriser13 Nov 2018 #90
"unlikable and horrid," Pelosi too? I thought that hate tag had been solely hung on Hillary! Bfd Nov 2018 #33
99% of people who don't like her only know 5 things about her (at most): RockRaven Nov 2018 #34
Great post. Fox and their minions have thoroughly convinced the rw that Pelosi & Hillary are demons Pepsidog Nov 2018 #66
Tell him that Speaker is not unlike the lady in charge of the "girls" at the office. Vinca Nov 2018 #35
They hate all of us no reason necessary Cary Nov 2018 #36
Whatever it takes to win Johnny2X2X Nov 2018 #37
The draft dodging thing is a BFD to me. Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #44
Have to beat him in the mud Johnny2X2X Nov 2018 #45
"socially liberal but fiscally conservative," eh? PETRUS Nov 2018 #39
Your knuckle head friend is thinking of Clinton, not Pelosi Bucky Nov 2018 #43
I now-splain Trump is so unlikable and horrid, that Americans should pick another President struggle4progress Nov 2018 #49
Fuck it. We are at war with gop bullshit thbobby Nov 2018 #50
I do wish we would pick someone younger. sfwriter Nov 2018 #51
tell him he sounds like limbaugh, or ask him if he knows who that is certainot Nov 2018 #57
Maybe so. Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #92
i'll bet that's where a lot of it comes from, directly or indirectly certainot Nov 2018 #95
I think so. And FB....FB is a YUGE thing for them... Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #96
the difference with radio is that certainot Nov 2018 #97
I'm not looking to play nice with the repugs. Hotler Nov 2018 #59
They hate her because they're told to hate her louis-t Nov 2018 #61
I always ask, what law did she pass that did something bad? shenmue Nov 2018 #62
Does he think slimy Ryan appealed to the public? sinkingfeeling Nov 2018 #64
Could you please refrain from using the term "mansplain"? SergeStorms Nov 2018 #65
Oh? Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #76
The fact that they hate her so much... karin_sj Nov 2018 #67
Cause there is actually a democrat Cosmocat Nov 2018 #68
They hate her because she is the most competent Speaker in twenty years. Marcuse Nov 2018 #71
I have heard from Democrats and the Rw, the exact same thing about HRC. Nothing specific Wintryjade Nov 2018 #73
Pelosi 26% favorable in Texas exit poll and 31% nationally Awsi Dooger Nov 2018 #77
As I told my son the other day... Pacifist Patriot Nov 2018 #79
Many men don't like her for the same reason they don't like Hillary Clinton. milestogo Nov 2018 #80
That's not a reason. That is a description of their illness. Press them for a reason. They can't allgood33 Nov 2018 #93
Mitch McConnell is the most unlikeable LeftInTX Nov 2018 #82
they hate women in powerful positions. the fact they hate HER says a lot about them JI7 Nov 2018 #84
The "Pelosi is to be hated without explaination ..." meme seems to jimlup Nov 2018 #88
exactly, because what other reason is there to hate her ? especially since these are people who JI7 Nov 2018 #91
Don't forget -- Republicans need to destroy confidence in our leaders Hortensis Nov 2018 #94
Well stated jimlup Nov 2018 #98

Response to sagesnow (Reply #1)

Claritie Pixie

(2,199 posts)
3. I'm happy to see the gavel back in her hand. She knows how to use it.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:02 PM
Nov 2018

We need someone with experiential gravitas in that position - she has it. Best part - she will be a constant thorn in Trump’s side.

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
30. I don't think republicans know WHY they say they hate Pelosi.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:32 PM
Nov 2018

In fact, I don't think they really hate her.
They are told to hate her so they push the hate button. But with no reason behind it, it is just sleep walking hatred, if there is such a thing.

It's like so much else the think, feel and do. They are....asleep.

"Sleepers, awake!"



PatSeg

(47,482 posts)
40. Oh you are right
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:46 PM
Nov 2018

They don't know why they hate her. I remember my Fox-watching sister make some disparaging remark about Pelosi years ago. Later I realized she didn't have a reason, she heard people on Fox make nonspecific derogatory remarks about "liberal Nancy Pelosi" and of course, San Francisco. Well republicans and right-wing media just repeated it over and over again, until people believed they hated her, but with no apparent reason.

Of course, they did the same thing to Hillary Clinton. It is so much easier to demonize women politicians it would seem.

 

Mike Rows His Boat

(389 posts)
52. That seems to be the case for most of their issues.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 01:03 PM
Nov 2018

It’s like a knee jerk response to the various imaginary grievances.

PatSeg

(47,482 posts)
60. They are so easily programmed
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 01:19 PM
Nov 2018

though I think for many, they were looking for confirmation of their own misogyny.

maddiemom

(5,106 posts)
53. Bill Mahr, "Why do you hate Hillary?"
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 01:03 PM
Nov 2018

S.E. Cupp, "Because you can't trust her." Crickets (end of discussion).

TeamPooka

(24,228 posts)
54. they hate her part because she's a woman, part because she's effective and part because
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 01:03 PM
Nov 2018

she's from San Francisco and she is used as a symbol of hatred of LGBTQ acceptance in our society.
Her home region is the reason they started on her years ago, long before she became speaker.

lastlib

(23,239 posts)
69. RWers seem to get their thinking out of a bottle,,,,
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 01:51 PM
Nov 2018

and only Rush/RW radio and Fox have the supply of bottles.....

My theory, FWIW....

demigoddess

(6,641 posts)
78. you are very right. right wing propaganda is anti female, and females are always
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 03:42 PM
Nov 2018

one of those horrible liberals, who are to blame for everything they don't like. Face it, the
republicans are male centered and they can't stand women having any power. Even the right to say no to men.

NastyRiffraff

(12,448 posts)
83. Right.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 06:28 PM
Nov 2018

If you asked the people who think she's horrible why they dislike her, most of them aren't able to give a coherent answer. Or some, any answer. They think what they're told to think.

 

certainot

(9,090 posts)
56. limbaugh has led a chorus of hate against her -
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 01:09 PM
Nov 2018

democrats cannot collectively say they're getting their reps' backs as long as we continue the idiocy of ignoring talk radio

now limbo leads them attacking election officials in florida - they're creating ballots, they're and there's no response

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
6. It takes a strong woman to scare the Republicans. This she does very well. Brava.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:05 PM
Nov 2018

Let her chew them up and spit them out first. She knows all the tricks ... theirs and ours.

FakeNoose

(32,639 posts)
19. I think the rightwingers lump Hillary, Nancy, Maxine and Liz Warren all together
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:16 PM
Nov 2018

... and see them as one big-ass scary woman! Misogyny anyone?



CincyDem

(6,363 posts)
7. She is "unlikable and horrid"....TO REPUBLICANS !!!!
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:06 PM
Nov 2018


And that, along with strategic, tenacious, focused, (and more)...is why I support her.

Grammy23

(5,810 posts)
14. I was just about to say...
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:11 PM
Nov 2018

All the more reason to support her! Take those asshat Republicans to the woodshed, Nancy. Some of us will cheer you on!

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
46. As we see, not just Republicans have this pathology.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:55 PM
Nov 2018

Pelosi is the woman who has achieved the highest rank in American history. Hillary is the woman who a majority of Americans voted to be president right now. It's no coincidence that both, and all other high-ranking women in the Democratic Party, are villified by people who claim to respect them, but! The "but" is usually that we have to get rid of them.

What we have to do is recognize, but not accept, that some Democrats are knuckledraggers on this subject, just as some are racist, often both. The OP's brother isn't just losing superiority over minorities but, worse, over half the human race; is widespread resentment, including into our party, really a surprise?

Sigh for that reality and that, obviously, not just some men but some women are misogynistic, somehow threatened by and resentful about women in authority. Anyone who hasn't lived life in a closet has met many of those latter. They're typically older now and unlikely to change before they finally drop dead, but at least most will have stopped posting long before then. Maybe after a few demented years hissing "Nanceee" and "Hillllareee" from their recliners, but that's their caretakers' problem.

Sunriser13

(612 posts)
89. Very insightful and balanced post.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 11:56 PM
Nov 2018

We need Nancy Pelosi right now. She has the proven chops to do what needs to be done. She has the experience that a rookie can't possibly possess.

With thirty some-odd new House members, wet behind the ears so to speak, the guidance of the more experienced folks is imperative. It's easy to barrel in all gung-ho, ready to DO something, but take a breath, people.

Look, Listen, and Learn first. Then you'll be ready to take on the world...

nuxvomica

(12,426 posts)
9. I predict she will play Trump like a fiddle
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:09 PM
Nov 2018

That's why she's feared. She's smart, effective and full of that scary personal decency that flim-flammers can't deal with.

Ferrets are Cool

(21,106 posts)
11. I am not specifically speaking about YOUR brother
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:10 PM
Nov 2018

but I abhor that term "socially liberal but fiscally conservative". So, as a "socially liberal but fiscally conservative" independent, one would assume that they "sometimes" votes for people who are not Democrats. Anyone who doesn't vote for a Democrat is voting for a Repug. Therefor, someone I abhor.
YMMV

RoBear

(1,188 posts)
42. Thank you!
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:47 PM
Nov 2018

You framed my response for me. I absolutely agree.

(BTW, I also comprehend that many men don't like her because she has real courage, not courage fabricated in SOME men's tiny little minds that their testicles make them more intelligent. They perhaps are being led around by their nuts, but those things are pretty poor devices for THINKING! I can testify [no pun intended] to that.)

catbyte

(34,393 posts)
47. No kidding. If they were actually "fiscally conservative" they'd vote for Democrats.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:56 PM
Nov 2018

Clinton & Obama were the only Presidents in the last 40 years to actually reduce the deficit & even Mango Mussolini once said that the economy does better under Democratic presidents. It just another lie.

Demovictory9

(32,457 posts)
13. yah. Tell him Trump is horrid to dems, should GOP take into consideration our opinion when
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:10 PM
Nov 2018

picking their nominee?

dalton99a

(81,513 posts)
15. Pelosi was elected to represent people in her district
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:12 PM
Nov 2018

and by fellow Democratic members in the House to represent them.

She has no obligation to cater to dumb fucks across America.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
20. Exactly. I was surprised to find that all three of them...
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:16 PM
Nov 2018

all three of them seemed to think it was the Democrats' job to appoint representatives that appeal to Trumpers, but it doesn't occur to them how abhorrent we find Turtle and Ryan. (I should've added...there is NO Democrat that Trumpers will find acceptable, anyway.)

ChubbyStar

(3,191 posts)
63. If your brother hates tRUMP as you state, why does he care if Democratic reps appeal tRUMPERS?
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 01:24 PM
Nov 2018

That doesn't make any sense.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
75. That was partly his point.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 02:50 PM
Nov 2018

That we needed to pick someone that had broad appeal. Including people like himself, more moderate or independent. I was baffled that they would think the speaker of the House is supposed to appeal to everyone, anyway. That's not the Speaker's job. Although if s/he does, that's great, I suppose. But that doesn't happen these days. And how it didn't even occur to them that Turtle and Ryan don't have broad appeal. You can even make the case that not only don't they have broad appeal, they don't even do their checks and balance jobs.

brush

(53,782 posts)
16. Good job. "Woman-splained"...I like that.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:14 PM
Nov 2018

And you're exactly right. If Pelosi was popular with repugs I'd want her gone immediately. But since she's not, IMO that means she's doing a good job, as evidenced by what just happened in the election.

I include Perez in that as well because many were calling for his ouster earlier too.

They were also wrong as he delivered the actual blue wave that some Dems even have been reluctant to acknowledge.

Caliman73

(11,738 posts)
22. They hate her because she is a woman who has done a better job as Speaker
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:18 PM
Nov 2018

than any man in at the very least, modern US history. She is the first woman to ever serve in the role, a role that most conservatives believe should be a man's job, and she has done it better than any of them. When she was Speaker, she put forward more legislation than her predecessors, much of which was filibustered by Republicans.

I seriously doubt that they even know who Nancy Pelosi is. They don't hate her, they hate the concept of her, they hate the caricature of her that has been fed to them by the brainwashing right wing media.

No offense to you or your brother/family but "independent" my ass. Independents to me, are just people who have already picked a side but are afraid to defend policies and practices that make them uncomfortable.

Fiscally conservative? WTF does that even mean anymore? Who in the Republican party is fiscally conservative that your brother supports? Donald Trump? Paul Ryan? Rand Paul? Those POS ballooned the deficit to over a trillion dollars. Fiscal conservative in my opinion is just code for "spend whatever you like on the military and tax breaks for the wealthy, just don't spend anything protecting the vulnerable people in our society."

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
29. All points well taken.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:31 PM
Nov 2018

I do think that Pelosi being female is part of it.

It's like after Obama was elected, all the racists came out of the closet, and exposed their hatred for all to see, whereas before, many had hidden it. Now after the women issues in the past two years, we are seeing the previously somewhat hidden hatred of women who exerted their rights and power, spill forth.

As for Independents, I have different views about that. I take what I can get, tho. He hates Trump, and though he didn't like Hillary, he said he could never vote for Trump. He's entitled to his views. And I'm entitled to mine. That's how we get along.

Zorro

(15,740 posts)
23. It is a perception problem
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:22 PM
Nov 2018

No matter how competent Pelosi is as a Democratic leader, she has been demonized for over a decade by the Republicans.

I think that may limit affect her effectiveness as Speaker and her ability to rip Trump a new asshole.

 

UniteFightBack

(8,231 posts)
25. They hate her because that is what they've been told to do. I dare they to get specific as to
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:24 PM
Nov 2018

exactly WHY they hate her.

GopherGal

(2,008 posts)
86. Right. And why have they been told to hate her?
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 10:07 PM
Nov 2018

Because she's effective.

Their Adelson/hate radio overlords are afraid of her and rouse the rabble against her.

kimbutgar

(21,155 posts)
31. I saw Pelosi marching down Market street at a protest march earlier this year
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:32 PM
Nov 2018

She walked at least a mile in low high heels. If she’s that tough and brave I look forward to her kicking repuke ass in the house. You never see repukes on the streets with real people.

DinahMoeHum

(21,794 posts)
32. One more thing, folks; VERY IMPORTANT to consider. . .
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:35 PM
Nov 2018

. . .before you dismiss her or otherwise throw her away. . .

The Speaker of the House is the 2nd in line of succession to the POTUS position
POTUS
VPOTUS (1st in succession)
Speaker of the House (2nd in succession)

Democrats better make damn sure they have someone who is qualified for that possibility,
and that possibility may not be that far-fetched.

Remember, we are not living in normal times right now.

Just sayin'

 

Bfd

(1,406 posts)
33. "unlikable and horrid," Pelosi too? I thought that hate tag had been solely hung on Hillary!
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:37 PM
Nov 2018

Gee. Guess we see a pattern here.
To break the center's strongest link, one must select their strongest to target since it worked so well with Hilary, why not move on too the next strong link, Pelosi.

You see all the "Pelosi must go"! posts daily, its because of the orchestrated method of weakening the stronghold of the center balancing point of a Democracy.

You see where this chant is coming from. Its no difficult task to trace it back to it's origin.

RockRaven

(14,972 posts)
34. 99% of people who don't like her only know 5 things about her (at most):
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:40 PM
Nov 2018

1) She's a woman
2) She's old-ish
3) She's a Democrat
4) She's been House Speaker and Minority Leader
5) She's elected by San Francisco, CA

Beyond that they can't tell you anything *substantive* about her. Why? Because they're just repeating vacuous, vague or plainly-false talking points they've heard on the radio or cable news or seen on the internet.


Look at the last Speaker from each party. Look at how they wrangled votes on difficult bills, or failed to. Look at how they balanced the needs and wants of the various members of their caucus, or failed to. Look at whether they passed meaningful legislation, or failed to.

Right wingers don't like her because right wing politicians and pundits speak of her as if she's a bogeyman. And they do that because she is effective.

Pepsidog

(6,254 posts)
66. Great post. Fox and their minions have thoroughly convinced the rw that Pelosi & Hillary are demons
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 01:46 PM
Nov 2018

Vinca

(50,273 posts)
35. Tell him that Speaker is not unlike the lady in charge of the "girls" at the office.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:41 PM
Nov 2018

I don't know why there is such a warped view of Pelosi, but if you put it in the sexist terms the right wing seems comfortable with they might not have so much angst about her.

Johnny2X2X

(19,066 posts)
37. Whatever it takes to win
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:41 PM
Nov 2018

If Pelosi gives us the best chance to win in 2020, keep her as speaker.

That Republicans hate her is great. Don't care 1 bit what they think. If swing voters don't like her that's a problem and the party needs to assess and address that.

Personally, I doubt swing voters care much about who the Speaker is. Run the right candidate in 2020 and it doesn't matter. I'd love to see a military vet at the top of the ticket and have that person hammer Trump mercilessly for his cowardly draft dodging.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
44. The draft dodging thing is a BFD to me.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:50 PM
Nov 2018

The fact that the war mongering far right lets that slide is baffling. I think it should be hammered home, esp since he talks so tough but has no appreciation of what war is.

The biggest problem I have with his draft dodging is that it wasn't because he was against the war. He was in favor of OTHERS going to war. Just not him. So his privileged status got him out of it.

He's also never had a job, as far as I know. He started "working" for Dad at a young age and never had to report to work, tow the line, compete for bonuses, or anything that a normal person has to do. I think that's a BFD, too. He has lived in a bubble all his life & doesn't know what it's like to be what they would call a common American.

A vet would have standing to attack him on those issues.

Johnny2X2X

(19,066 posts)
45. Have to beat him in the mud
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:54 PM
Nov 2018

Trump is going to be unhinged and say terrible things, have to hit him back on a few key issues, but then be able to stay above the fray still.

PETRUS

(3,678 posts)
39. "socially liberal but fiscally conservative," eh?
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:46 PM
Nov 2018

One would think such a person would appreciate Pelosi.

Bucky

(54,013 posts)
43. Your knuckle head friend is thinking of Clinton, not Pelosi
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:48 PM
Nov 2018

Which makes a stupid kind of sense, since they're running the same baseless smear on Pelosi that they ran on Clinton.

The question is are we going to let stupid dictate our choices?

thbobby

(1,474 posts)
50. Fuck it. We are at war with gop bullshit
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 12:57 PM
Nov 2018

gop has waged a decades-long hate campaign against her and smart, strong women. Case in point, the hate job on Hillary. If Dems back down because of gop hate campaigns, it will enable future hate campaigns.

Pelosi is smart, strong, and extremely competent. She will kick trump's ass while the gop is whining and waging their campaign of hatred. We need women like Pelosi. Strong women like her, Kamala Harris, and many more are exactly what we need representing American Values and Democrats, in general.

 

certainot

(9,090 posts)
57. tell him he sounds like limbaugh, or ask him if he knows who that is
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 01:10 PM
Nov 2018

you might find out he's been listening to talk radio on his commute or at work

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
92. Maybe so.
Sun Nov 11, 2018, 01:07 AM
Nov 2018

He mentioned Limpballs once to me, so he must listen to that talk radio station at least on occasion. I didn't let that slide, of course. He looked surprised when I called him Limpballs. My brother got involved with Republican views during Obama's first term. He fell for the birther thing and the Muslim thing. He didn't follow news closely, so just heard this stuff, and fell for it. I set him straight, or tried to. He started accepting Obama by the second term & even thought he was okay.

So I wouldn't be surprised if he still turns on that radio station sometimes.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
96. I think so. And FB....FB is a YUGE thing for them...
Sun Nov 11, 2018, 09:41 AM
Nov 2018

my stepmother is on FB a lot and exchanges those rightwingnut stories with others, and email and texting has in the past been, and still is, a way to spread their hatred. I've gotten a few emails over the years somehow...one from a relative by marriage who I guess assumed I was like them.

They really have this spreading of hate down to a science. It's everywhere. On the land, in the air, in the sea, so to speak.

 

certainot

(9,090 posts)
97. the difference with radio is that
Sun Nov 11, 2018, 12:27 PM
Nov 2018

it's the only medium with no competition/correction of the other side of the spectrum - 20-1 monopoly

all the other mediums provide 'alternatives' a click away so there's a choice

republican radio has a huge 'captive' audience where there are no free easy alts and a massive secondary and tertiary audience including those stuck to those stations for weather, traffic, sports etc and disinterested people who get it around the bar, or at work, etc

Hotler

(11,425 posts)
59. I'm not looking to play nice with the repugs.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 01:18 PM
Nov 2018

I'm looking for a serious kick ass offense, some stand-our-ground toughness. I do not feel that Madam Speaker has that. It's not Nancy. We are dealing with a whole new breed of repugs and we need a rough and tumble leader that is willing to get ugly in a fight. By all means we do need Nancy as a coach.

louis-t

(23,295 posts)
61. They hate her because they're told to hate her
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 01:21 PM
Nov 2018

by right-wing radio, Hannity, Limbaugh and every fuckhead Republican on the planet. They don't need a reason. I've asked many a repug troll why they hate her. They have no answer.

SergeStorms

(19,201 posts)
65. Could you please refrain from using the term "mansplain"?
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 01:41 PM
Nov 2018

If I wrote something derogatory like that about women I'd be alerted on in a nano-second. Different people have different explanations for things, man, woman, young, old. There's no need to treat men like we're some alien beings.

Thank you.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
76. Oh?
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 03:34 PM
Nov 2018

I've not heard that referred to as objectionable. It's sort of a humorous description of what is a real thing. I did also say in my post..."woman-splaining." So I referred to both in the same way - humorously. But I certainly don't want to be offensive (really). I'll read up on that to see if that is male bashing or anything close. I love my brother...he "explains" things to me all the time. Like "explaining" to me about Pelosi. I'll ask him about that word. He'll be honest with me.

Here's where I heard it first. From a male-to-female Transgender in a Ted Talks video about her experiences as a female vs male. It's a really funny video and not too long, if you want to watch it. The "man-splaining" part starts at about 8:00. This is a great video, not too long, and funny. Followed by a video of Jimmy Kimmel - Hillary Clinton skit on what Kimmel calls "mansplaining." It's hilarious.








karin_sj

(810 posts)
67. The fact that they hate her so much...
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 01:47 PM
Nov 2018

... and desperately want Democrats install someone else, ANYONE else, as her replacement just reinforces the fact that she absolutely needs to stay as speaker! Especially now, when her experience, knowledge, and expertise is so very needed.

Marcuse

(7,487 posts)
71. They hate her because she is the most competent Speaker in twenty years.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 02:31 PM
Nov 2018

A low bar perhaps, but absolutely true.
The Honorables Ryan, Boehner, Hastert, Livingston* and Gingrich. Where are they now?

 

Wintryjade

(814 posts)
73. I have heard from Democrats and the Rw, the exact same thing about HRC. Nothing specific
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 02:38 PM
Nov 2018

and if so, so irrelevant like, .... emails. Two strong smart capable successful women sitting in power, for a lot of years, with a strong voice and totally independent in their empowerment. Ya, what would be the issue. As liberal as some of us are, it is still hard for some to see a woman in a leadership role. We are that conditioned. It is hard seeing a woman hold the gravel and dictate rule and proceeding. It reminds us of the power our mothers had over us. And it simply is not a woman's role.

 

Awsi Dooger

(14,565 posts)
77. Pelosi 26% favorable in Texas exit poll and 31% nationally
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 03:39 PM
Nov 2018

I love how we delight in Trump's low approval rating but rationalize around the world and beyond that it doesn't matter with Nancy Pelosi.

It should be impossible to have a 31% approval rating nationally in an exit poll with your voters a huge portion of that split, and you just won big on the night the exit polling was done. This is hardly a depressed sample amidst a cycle slanting toward the other side.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
79. As I told my son the other day...
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 04:31 PM
Nov 2018

"appeal to the general public" and "excite youth" are not essential job functions of the Speaker of the House.

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
80. Many men don't like her for the same reason they don't like Hillary Clinton.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 04:36 PM
Nov 2018

She's intelligent, powerful, and does not exist to please them in any way. She's been demonized almost as badly as Clinton.

 

allgood33

(1,584 posts)
93. That's not a reason. That is a description of their illness. Press them for a reason. They can't
Sun Nov 11, 2018, 01:35 AM
Nov 2018

give a reason beyond," I just don't like her."

LeftInTX

(25,363 posts)
82. Mitch McConnell is the most unlikeable
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 05:23 PM
Nov 2018

He's horrid, but look what he's done for Republicans.

He refused Merick Garland. He got Gorsuch in.He's an F'n grinch. But if they had some nice, charismatic guy as Senate majority leader, we would have Garland.

We are at war. We need a figjhter", not a "personality"

jimlup

(7,968 posts)
88. The "Pelosi is to be hated without explaination ..." meme seems to
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 11:23 PM
Nov 2018

have developed for its political utililty without even a small factual basis. It is typical mysogony. She's mostly hated because she is a woman who holds her positions which counter what those "decent" republican men say.

JI7

(89,250 posts)
91. exactly, because what other reason is there to hate her ? especially since these are people who
Sun Nov 11, 2018, 01:01 AM
Nov 2018

mostly support trump.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
94. Don't forget -- Republicans need to destroy confidence in our leaders
Sun Nov 11, 2018, 07:25 AM
Nov 2018

in order to weaken and eventually take them out. We wouldn't use misogyny as a weapon even if Republicans had women in party leadership positions.

Misogyny is, though, a major weapon for Republicans, used to destroy confidence in our Democratic Party's female leaders -- as a first step. It was a hugely important to derailing the election of our first woman president by weakening Democratic support for her. It'll fail to keep her from becoming our speaker of the house, but they did successfully convince many useful fools to despise her.

Maxine Waters has been under vicious attack (low IQ) in preparation for the day when she becomes chair of the house financial services committee. (!) It will increase dramatically. Democratic control of this committee strikes genuine fear in the greedy and/or criminal Republican and donor classes, and being who they are they naturally consider her gender a weak point for attack; after all, many believe it makes her genuinely unfit for office.

Nita Loway. Almost never mentioned now, but we can expect gullible DUers to learn that her appointment is yet more proof of Democratic incompetence. She'll be as well known and despised by useful fools and misogynists as Dianne Feinstein. Because Ms. Loway is going to be chair of the very powerful house appropriations committee.

And so on. Btw, our women in congress are now numerous enough to develop wedge issues around. Expect these poisonous cultures to be brought here and passionate factions developed by malicious agents and gullible tools from the usual sources.

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