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obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 09:52 AM Aug 2012

Ex-Texas teacher guilty of having sex with 5 of her students

Last edited Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:37 AM - Edit history (1)

A Texas jury convicted a 28-year-old former teacher of having had sex with five of her 18-year-old students last year while her husband was stationed elsewhere, the Fort Worth Star-Telegram reports.

Brittni Colleps, a former Kennedale High School English teacher and a mother of three children, was found guilty of 16 felony counts of improper relationship between an educator and student. She faces 20 years in prison and a $10,000 fine on each count. Her bond was revoked and she was taken to jail to await sentencing.

Four of the former students testified -- all using pseudonyms -- as did Colleps' husband and her mother. Three of the students said they did not consider themselves victims and did not want to see Colleps prosecuted.

"This is a victimless crime," defense attorney Lex Johnston said during closing arguments this morning. "I didn't hear from any children. These are grown men that are old enough to go to war."

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http://content.usatoday.com/communities/ondeadline/post/2012/08/ex-texas-teacher-guilty-of-having-sex-with-5-of-her-students/1#.UC-bYtR_U4s


I know I'll piss off some people, but this is ridiculous. The students she -- and her husband -- had sex with were not children, they were legally adults. Should she have been fired? YES. Should she be barred from teaching? Yes. Should she have been arrested, and now convicted and sent to prison? NO. Everyone involved were adults, and it was consensual. This should not be a criminal case at all, let alone one involving felonies and a sexual offender charge.

(Her husband wasn't charged because he was in the service, not a teacher.)

Also, why were pseudonyms used? They are all adults.

And, yes, I would say this about a male teacher, too.

on edit: I misread the two articles I read: her husband states he and his wife often had group sex, but he did not have sex with the group mentioned in the articles. He has no problem with what his wife did.

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Ex-Texas teacher guilty of having sex with 5 of her students (Original Post) obamanut2012 Aug 2012 OP
I'm mystified by this charge alcibiades_mystery Aug 2012 #1
My exact thoughts obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #2
If you are wondering about colleges... jberryhill Aug 2012 #5
It's because she's female and sexually nasty Warpy Aug 2012 #103
Not a big deal IMO... and this thread needs pics (is she hot?)! OneTenthofOnePercent Aug 2012 #3
There's a photo of her at the link obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #10
She is not wholly unattractive. Aristus Aug 2012 #91
Sick. WTF is wrong with adults, that they cannot seem to be able to control themselves or deny TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #4
4 of the students testified and said they did not consider themselves victims. Travis_0004 Aug 2012 #7
They're also teenage boys in high school, and perhaps do not realize how they were taken TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #9
They are adults, not teenaged boys obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #14
It's criminal because it's the law in Texas. Ignorance of the law is not an excuse, either. TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #28
+1 lunasun Aug 2012 #83
they are all 18 and were 18 at the time. they are adults in the eyes of the law and cali Aug 2012 #16
She used her position to prey on them. It is against the law in Texas. TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #21
It was consensual sex obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #23
The relationship between a high schooler and a teacher is not really consensual, in the eyes of TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #31
that's ridiculous. it varies from state to state- or do you actually think cali Aug 2012 #34
When a kid has not completed his high school education (his sole reason for contact TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #82
In the eyes of Texas law. In plenty of jurisdictions, this would not be illegal muriel_volestrangler Aug 2012 #41
thanks for posting that. cali Aug 2012 #56
Whoopee doo. I hope she has plenty of time to sit and think about what she did... TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #70
I think we can all agree that this is what the law states alcibiades_mystery Aug 2012 #44
I don't see it as weird. I think this sort of behavior should be subject TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #71
Why? alcibiades_mystery Aug 2012 #73
Difference between high school and post high school. TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #75
In the eyes of the Texas law, that's irrelevant. Kaleva Aug 2012 #36
more ridiculous so criticizing a law is pointless. wow. got it. cali Aug 2012 #42
I don't feel sorry for her. She knew what the law was. Kaleva Aug 2012 #50
what the hey does feeling sorry for her have to do with it? cali Aug 2012 #52
You have your opinion and I have mine. Kaleva Aug 2012 #61
you still fail to grasp that this isn't all about her. really, it's not. cali Aug 2012 #68
Of course this is about her. She's the topic of discussion. Kaleva Aug 2012 #69
lol. yeah, my thread entitled "should sex between consenting adults be illegal" cali Aug 2012 #72
I bet many 14 year olds would not consider themselves victims either MattBaggins Aug 2012 #32
Thank you. n/t whathehell Aug 2012 #109
A horny 18-year-old boy would screw a knot in a tree. aquart Aug 2012 #113
Slippery slope there obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #13
Prisoners and guards? Divorce lawyers and clients? What about those? kelly1mm Aug 2012 #84
I have a big problem with someone going to jail for consensual sex with other adults villager Aug 2012 #76
This is the first I've heard about the husband being involved too. Starry Messenger Aug 2012 #6
Even some mansluaghter and attempted murder sentences aren't that long obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #15
I think she showed an appalling lack of judgement. Starry Messenger Aug 2012 #35
She got 5 years. Kaleva Aug 2012 #39
Still appalling. Starry Messenger Aug 2012 #48
Her husband was not involved in sex with the students. LisaL Aug 2012 #49
My reply was before the edit to the OP. Starry Messenger Aug 2012 #53
If "sex" is in the headline, you know it's going to be a guilty verdict. russspeakeasy Aug 2012 #8
Her husband wasn't involved tammywammy Aug 2012 #11
I can see why these laws exist. aikoaiko Aug 2012 #12
Why should a supervisor be fired for dating an employee? obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #17
I was asking for your rationale for supporting her being fired, aikoaiko Aug 2012 #26
I already answered that obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #27
It says right in the original OP he/she thinks she should be fired... madmom Aug 2012 #19
Thanks obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #25
It wasn't clear in your OP that you did think this act was an abuse of authority. aikoaiko Aug 2012 #33
It was perfectly clear in my OP obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #55
The phrase "abuse of authority" does not appear in your OP. aikoaiko Aug 2012 #63
Perhaps I wasn't clear. I was asking the OP for his/her rationale for supporting her being fired. aikoaiko Aug 2012 #29
It is possible gollygee Aug 2012 #43
I agree that unethical /= unlawful. I'm simply asking for the OPs rationale aikoaiko Aug 2012 #51
I guess this is an agree to disagree situation obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #18
At once? n/t RZM Aug 2012 #20
Texas executes people who in all likelihood are innocent, so I mean, coalition_unwilling Aug 2012 #22
I have really bifurcated feelings about this etherealtruth Aug 2012 #24
I don't think anyone on this thread thinks this was okay obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #30
not necessarily in this thread ... etherealtruth Aug 2012 #40
Thanks for the info! obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #57
I guess one of the points in this jack ass' defense is that the age of consent in ... etherealtruth Aug 2012 #66
Actually the legal age of consent in Texas is 17 Horse with no Name Aug 2012 #100
18-year-olds are adults obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #112
It is criminal. There is a penal code that says so. MattBaggins Aug 2012 #38
Yes, you are correct, in Michigan it is etherealtruth Aug 2012 #46
Other consensual sex was also illegal in Texas until a few years ago obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #58
This, however, is a great law MattBaggins Aug 2012 #64
Can't she meet men after work? KurtNYC Aug 2012 #37
Good point. There are other fish in the sea treestar Aug 2012 #54
She had access to horny immature teenage boys. Real grown men aren't so easily TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #77
She's a real hands on kind of teacher. morningfog Aug 2012 #93
As long as the law is the way it is, the jury had no choice but to convict her. LisaL Aug 2012 #45
Her husband didn't have sex with the students. LisaL Aug 2012 #47
i am aware of that obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #60
Stupid Law. Regardless of their relationship, adults should be free to consentually fuck whomever. OneTenthofOnePercent Aug 2012 #59
So a shrink and a patient-all good in your book? LisaL Aug 2012 #62
in my book, it's not good, but it shouldn't be criminalized cali Aug 2012 #67
Is that illegal now? alcibiades_mystery Aug 2012 #74
morally acceptable and legally criminal are two VERY different things. OneTenthofOnePercent Aug 2012 #85
God this is hot. inner lite Aug 2012 #65
At age 18 they are old enough to die for their country. Why are they not old enough to have sex? appleannie1 Aug 2012 #78
This isn't having sex with peers, freely entered into and on equal footing. TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #80
Wonder if JFK ever slept with any 18yr olds... OneTenthofOnePercent Aug 2012 #86
Um...I have no idea what your post means. TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #98
lol. cali Aug 2012 #88
I guess I"m missing the prudery and bizarreness of thinking that a gang bang TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #97
Workplaces, schools, and other situations in which one partner may have more power over another redqueen Aug 2012 #79
Under 18? Send her away. But they are adults. NYC Liberal Aug 2012 #81
I agree completely. morningfog Aug 2012 #94
Yup obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #106
I have to wonder... 99Forever Aug 2012 #87
If they were 18, I'd feel precisely the same. fire the teacher. ban him from the profession. cali Aug 2012 #89
Like the Air Force training sergeants at Lackland AFB JustABozoOnThisBus Aug 2012 #90
Perhaps... 99Forever Aug 2012 #99
As I said in my OP, tehy would be exactly the same obamanut2012 Aug 2012 #107
And I agree. 99Forever Aug 2012 #108
Prison for doing what consenting adults do? How very..Victorian. Tierra_y_Libertad Aug 2012 #92
I dont' think she should face criminal charges. They were consenting adults. morningfog Aug 2012 #95
Not only she was charged, she was already convicted. LisaL Aug 2012 #96
It's a violation of public trust. pipoman Aug 2012 #105
I don't agree with this PD Turk Aug 2012 #101
She's female LadyHawkAZ Aug 2012 #102
Not tinkering with her students' bodies is one of the requirements of the profession she chose. WillowTree Aug 2012 #104
We have ourselves a winnah!! renie408 Aug 2012 #110
No sympathy! Are_grits_groceries Aug 2012 #111
 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
1. I'm mystified by this charge
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 09:58 AM
Aug 2012

20 years in prison for what used to be an administrative matter. Does the same apply for colleges? How about graduate school? If not, why not?

Weird Texas law.

obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
2. My exact thoughts
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:02 AM
Aug 2012

Termination, which is a guarantee she won't ever teach again, and that's it.

I am wondering about colleges, too. The article says there is no gray area in the law: it is a felony for a teacher to have consensual sex with a student. And, if they are 18, it is consensual.

Again, I do NOT think teachers should be doing this, but I don't think it is criminal.




 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
5. If you are wondering about colleges...
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:10 AM
Aug 2012

...then it may be that newspaper articles are not a good way to know what a law says.

This one, Texas Penal Code 21.12 is limited to "an employee of a public or private primary or secondary school".

Warpy

(111,358 posts)
103. It's because she's female and sexually nasty
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 06:47 PM
Aug 2012

You see, sex is the worst sin women can commit. It's always been this way and it's the reason for such a harsh sentence for what is undoubtedly either well controlled kink or a psychiatric disorder requiring treatment.

If it had been a man with adult women, he'd have been a stud.

Aristus

(66,467 posts)
91. She is not wholly unattractive.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 03:28 PM
Aug 2012

What I want to know is: where were all these horn-dog teachers when I was a student?

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
4. Sick. WTF is wrong with adults, that they cannot seem to be able to control themselves or deny
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:10 AM
Aug 2012

themselves from indulging their urges--ESPECIALLY adults who are supposed to be in a position of trust? I have no problem with her going to jail.

 

Travis_0004

(5,417 posts)
7. 4 of the students testified and said they did not consider themselves victims.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:15 AM
Aug 2012

I don't think she will get anything close to 20 years, but her spending time in jail is just a waste of money. Fire her, revoke her teaching license for life, and be done with it.

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
9. They're also teenage boys in high school, and perhaps do not realize how they were taken
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:21 AM
Aug 2012

advantage of by this woman. It's really not hard for a pretty lady to convince some super-horny teenagers to sleep with her, I'm sure. But the law is the law, she preyed on her students, and I have no problem with the outcome.

obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
14. They are adults, not teenaged boys
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:30 AM
Aug 2012

We cannot, as a society, have it both ways: allow 18-year-olds to vote, marry, sign contracts, buy Playboy and cigarettes, sign up for Selective Service, join the military, etc., but yet tell them they are not able to have consensual sex with another adult. Which is it?

Why is the teacher a "predator"? And are you saying all laws are good laws? Gay sex was also a felony in Texas until the USSC said it wasn't. Consensual sex again.

I also think 18-year-olds should be allowed to buy alcohol. If you can marry, vote, and be drafted, you should be able to buy a six-pack.

Why is this criminal?

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
28. It's criminal because it's the law in Texas. Ignorance of the law is not an excuse, either.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:42 AM
Aug 2012

And as the mother of a kid this age, I am glad none of his teachers preyed on him and his insecurities, raging hormones, etc. when he was still in high school. You can argue that 18 is an adult, but if the kid's still in HS, he's still in HS, and students and parents should expect no sexual relationships to occur between teachers and students.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
16. they are all 18 and were 18 at the time. they are adults in the eyes of the law and
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:32 AM
Aug 2012

free to fuck anyone they wish who consents to sex with them. this is horrifying and stupid. are you actually going to claim that sex at 18 is so damaging to young people that we should criminalize some people who engage in it with them?

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
21. She used her position to prey on them. It is against the law in Texas.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:36 AM
Aug 2012

I have a hard time believing they're going to look back on their group sex activities with their teacher with fondness in about 10 years. They're going to realize that they were led into something by a woman in a position of trust and authority that they probably would not have done of their own initiative.

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
31. The relationship between a high schooler and a teacher is not really consensual, in the eyes of
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:44 AM
Aug 2012

the law. It doesn't really matter what you think.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
34. that's ridiculous. it varies from state to state- or do you actually think
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:47 AM
Aug 2012

that there's a federal law? And this may come as a shock to you but just because something there's a law against something that doesn't make it just. And of course sex between an 18 year old hs student and a teacher can be consensual, or do you think all 18 year olds are idiot babies who need to be protected.

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
82. When a kid has not completed his high school education (his sole reason for contact
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 01:28 PM
Aug 2012

with this teacher), he should be protected from being harrassed, manipulated, enticed, threatened, etc. into situations where he may not have the power to refuse, or may not have the emotional maturity to cope. This wasn't a boy in the backseat with his girlfriend or boyfriend, navigating a normal sexual experience with a peer. This was a videotaped group of boys banging their teacher. Suppose this woman threatened to fail any of these kids for refusing to participate, or telling others? Just because their 18th birthdays happened to fall before their graduation dates doesn't mean they're suddenly subject to come-ons from teachers who might prevent them from graduating. I think the duty to protect them until they graduate is so important that it warrants criminal penalties for those who violate the students'--and public's--trust.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,368 posts)
41. In the eyes of Texas law. In plenty of jurisdictions, this would not be illegal
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:55 AM
Aug 2012

This isn't a cut-and-dried case; people are saying they think the Texas law is wrong.

For instance, the Arkansas Supreme Court struck down a similar law this year:http://www.reuters.com/article/2012/03/30/us-usa-crime-arkansas-idUSBRE82T00G20120330

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
44. I think we can all agree that this is what the law states
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:58 AM
Aug 2012

It is the law's logic and its application that is odd, at the very least. If anything, I would think a high school senior already 18 - in, let's call it February of his or her senior year - would have more maturity and leverage in a situation than that same student, say, six months later as a first-year college student. In the first case, the student would be established in the school and community, would be functioning at the top level of a hierarchy of institutional and local knowledges, and would generally have more accesses to resources for redress and outlets for advice and judgment. In the case of the new college freshman, she may very well be isolated and away from home for the first time, unaware of the standards and surroundings, grappling with new and scary complexities, ignorant of institutional and community resources, and so forth. But we are to believe that the high school teacher having consensual sex with the 18 year old senior is taking advantage of a position more so than a college professor having consensual sex with an 18 year old freshman? It would seem to me rather the opposite.

Now, granted, these are both limit cases, but the case under consideration is a limit case. There should obviously be some sort of sentencing/criminal enhancement for a teacher who has sex with an underage student. That's obvious, and beyond dispute. The abuse of the position in such cases does strike me as an aggravating factor to be considered for sentencing purposes. But this law attempts the enhancement through a completely new charge, and it's one that doesn't make a whole lot of sense at the limit cases, and that's a problem.

So, we can certainly shut down discussion immediately and say, "Well, the law is the law and that's that." OK, fine. I think what people are responding to, however, is the deep weirdness of the law in these kinds of cases.

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
73. Why?
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 12:51 PM
Aug 2012

Like I said, I see the sentencing enhancement option for underaged students, but I detailed the problems in the last post on this applying to adult high school students but not adult college students. The law fails at its limit cases, as here. It's clear you think otherwise. It's not clear, however, why.

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
75. Difference between high school and post high school.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 01:02 PM
Aug 2012

High school is an important part of the community, and a rite of passage, where kids should be safe from adult sexual situations perpetrated by those in authority. High school years are crucial in terms of emotional development. I don't care if the kids are 16 or 18--they have not completed their education until they graduate, therefore the school's role--and community's role-- of protecting the student does not change until they graduate. These adults are in a position of trust--parents and students need to trust this institution and its employees to NOT harm the students, physically or emotionally. She couldn't wait until they were no longer in her class and under her authority as a teacher before going after them. She's a predator, and she's where she belongs now.

Kaleva

(36,354 posts)
36. In the eyes of the Texas law, that's irrelevant.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:51 AM
Aug 2012

You might as well try and argue "But she has brown hair!".

Kaleva

(36,354 posts)
50. I don't feel sorry for her. She knew what the law was.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 11:04 AM
Aug 2012

She didn't care one damn bit about what emotional harm could happen to her own children if her activities were to be discovered.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
52. what the hey does feeling sorry for her have to do with it?
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 11:06 AM
Aug 2012

I don't give a shit about her. I do care about the rights of consenting adults to enter into sex.

Kaleva

(36,354 posts)
61. You have your opinion and I have mine.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 11:15 AM
Aug 2012

Last edited Sat Aug 18, 2012, 11:51 AM - Edit history (1)

If you don't give a shit about her, then she's probably not the best example you could use to argue your main point.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
68. you still fail to grasp that this isn't all about her. really, it's not.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 12:05 PM
Aug 2012

it's about the rights of consenting adults. why is that so difficult for you to grasp?

Kaleva

(36,354 posts)
69. Of course this is about her. She's the topic of discussion.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 12:09 PM
Aug 2012

If this was just a generic discussion on the rights of consenting adults, it'd probably have sunk off the 1st page already.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
72. lol. yeah, my thread entitled "should sex between consenting adults be illegal"
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 12:50 PM
Aug 2012

only got 147 replies. And a thread is about what the responders make it about as much as anything else. Clearly the op about this woman is about whether sex between consenting adults should be criminalized as much as it's about anything.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10021151534

MattBaggins

(7,905 posts)
32. I bet many 14 year olds would not consider themselves victims either
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:45 AM
Aug 2012

thankfully the law does not care and will prosecute the predators that violate them.

aquart

(69,014 posts)
113. A horny 18-year-old boy would screw a knot in a tree.
Sun Aug 19, 2012, 10:49 AM
Aug 2012

And you call him a victim for getting to do it with a woman? That's insane.

obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
13. Slippery slope there
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:25 AM
Aug 2012

She isn't a mental health doctor or therapist. That is the only category I can see an adult going to prison for having consensual sex with another adult, and then the odds are good the one adult wasn't able to give real consent.

The "victims" are also adults, so what should their punishment be?

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
84. Prisoners and guards? Divorce lawyers and clients? What about those?
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 02:59 PM
Aug 2012

It is about the inherent power imbalance.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
76. I have a big problem with someone going to jail for consensual sex with other adults
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 01:05 PM
Aug 2012

But we're in a very jail-happy culture, and some have forgotten how to question that...

Starry Messenger

(32,342 posts)
6. This is the first I've heard about the husband being involved too.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:15 AM
Aug 2012

All the stories made it sound like she'd done this all on her own. I don't think she should have been teaching teens, but 20 years in prison for having sex with 18 year olds is ridiculous. Rapists don't get that much time, do they?

obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
15. Even some mansluaghter and attempted murder sentences aren't that long
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:31 AM
Aug 2012

And, 50K in fines.

I agree she should have been fired and had her license taken.

Starry Messenger

(32,342 posts)
35. I think she showed an appalling lack of judgement.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:49 AM
Aug 2012

I think someone in a position of power shouldn't have sex with their students. Even college teachers, until after the student has left their classes, etc. But criminal charges just seem really Puritanical. 18 year olds are adults.

Starry Messenger

(32,342 posts)
48. Still appalling.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 11:01 AM
Aug 2012

I think the 18 year olds will be more traumatized that their having sex with her put her in jail.

aikoaiko

(34,184 posts)
12. I can see why these laws exist.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:25 AM
Aug 2012

Let's face it, losing one's job is small price to pay for a predator to access and groom minors until their 18th birthday. I'm not saying that is what Brittni Colleps did, but I can see the reasonable motivation for this law.

Even the husband called her actions morally and ethically wrong. Sometimes we make those things unlawful as well.

I don't think the husband was involved with the sex with students, but rather other group sex events with his wife.

I find it strange that she would risk these criminal and professional penalties.

Let me ask: why do you think she should have been fired?

obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
17. Why should a supervisor be fired for dating an employee?
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:33 AM
Aug 2012

Or a pastor for having sex with a congregant?

Being fired isn't the same as being sentenced to 20 years for consensual sex. Ridiculous.

aikoaiko

(34,184 posts)
26. I was asking for your rationale for supporting her being fired,
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:40 AM
Aug 2012

I agree she should be fired, too. I'm also OK with her being charged with a crime.

So I'm interested in your rationale that would support being fired, but not support being charged.

madmom

(9,681 posts)
19. It says right in the original OP he/she thinks she should be fired...
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:35 AM
Aug 2012

"Should she have been fired? YES. Should she be barred from teaching? Yes."



obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
25. Thanks
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:39 AM
Aug 2012

I tried to make it really clear I don't think people in authority should abuse the authority, but I don;t think it's criminal. I wouldn't even have a problem with the students suing her in civil court -- that's what it's for.

Also, the husband doesn't think what she did was wrong -- he says that. As per his own statements, they often engaged in group sex, and doesn't think what she did was criminal.

aikoaiko

(34,184 posts)
33. It wasn't clear in your OP that you did think this act was an abuse of authority.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:46 AM
Aug 2012

I think people can reasonably disagree about whether abuses of authority should be unlawful or not.

I'm not a big advocate for this law, but I don't think it a bad law either.

aikoaiko

(34,184 posts)
63. The phrase "abuse of authority" does not appear in your OP.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 11:34 AM
Aug 2012

You said she should be fired and I inquired to your rationale for that judgment.

aikoaiko

(34,184 posts)
29. Perhaps I wasn't clear. I was asking the OP for his/her rationale for supporting her being fired.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:43 AM
Aug 2012

I'm interested why many of those people who don't think she should be prosecuted think she should be fired if it was a victimless, consensual act between adults.



gollygee

(22,336 posts)
43. It is possible
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:56 AM
Aug 2012

for something to be unethical due to the relationship as student/teacher, but not illegal due to both being of an age to consent. Not everything unethical needs to be illegal. Obviously this is unethical AND illegal in Texas, but I don't agree with the law. Unethical, yes. To make it illegal seems puritanical, and the level of punishment for sex between legal adults seems ridiculous.

obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
18. I guess this is an agree to disagree situation
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:35 AM
Aug 2012

I have to go do things now, so this isn't a semi hit-and-run.

 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
22. Texas executes people who in all likelihood are innocent, so I mean,
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:37 AM
Aug 2012

really what do you expect?

Sentencing her to be stoned to death would not at all surprise me.

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
24. I have really bifurcated feelings about this
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:38 AM
Aug 2012

I definitely think that a high school teacher having sex with his or her students is abominable (an elementary school teacher doing this , without doubt, is criminal).

I strongly disagree with those that find nothing wrong with this .... I can only imagine that most teachers find this appalling ... When a similar situation arose at the high school my daughter attended the accused teacher (in the end there was overwhelming evidence, including hotel security camera imagery showing him checking in with the 17 year old girl) .... his co-workers reacted with disgust (they had actually had suspicions about his behavior and brought them to administration, but had no no hard evidence in the years before this incident).

I guess at the end of the day (in this situation) I agree with you ... while this teacher's behavior was unethical ... despicable ... it was deserving of firing (and preventing this person from ever teaching again) ... but, lots of despicable actions are not necessarily criminal (i.e. not deserving of prison).

obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
30. I don't think anyone on this thread thinks this was okay
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:44 AM
Aug 2012

Just not criminal.

I have taught with people having sex with their very adult students, and disagreed with that, because they were teaching them at the time, and these were people in their 30's.

What happened to the teacher with the 17-year-old?

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
40. not necessarily in this thread ...
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:55 AM
Aug 2012

... but in other threads.

The teacher in question was convicted and sentenced to three years (?) in prison.

He was a high school history teacher and the girls varsity soccer coach (my daughter was on his team). A quick search:

http://www.mlive.com/news/detroit/index.ssf/2010/04/center_line_high_s.html

"Center Line High School teacher convicted of having sex with 17-year-old student"

obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
57. Thanks for the info!
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 11:10 AM
Aug 2012

There is a legal difference between 17 and 18, that's for sure. People are idiots, including the woman in the OP.

And yet, he got less time than the woman in the OP, even if you times 3 x 5.

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
66. I guess one of the points in this jack ass' defense is that the age of consent in ...
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 11:43 AM
Aug 2012

... Michigan is that the age of consent is 16. Had this tool had any other relationship with this 17 year old his actions would not have been criminal.

I understand that you are in no way stating that what this teacher (in Texas) did was OK (or anything less than unethical) ... in my own experience these actions undermine the student/ teacher relationship severely. This relationship is so important .... this is where my bifurcated feelings come from ... In this situation the relationship is different than almost any other ... an 18 year old adult in high school is treated like a 16 year old "kid" and held to the same rules.

Mercifully, most teachers are appalled by these aberrant behaviors .... it's news when it happens because it is an aberration (thankfully).

Horse with no Name

(33,956 posts)
100. Actually the legal age of consent in Texas is 17
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 06:41 PM
Aug 2012

So does that still make it okay for teachers to fuck 17-yr olds?

obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
112. 18-year-olds are adults
Sun Aug 19, 2012, 10:40 AM
Aug 2012

17-year-olds aren't. 17-year-olds can't vote, be drafted, sign a contract, etc.

And, I don't believe I ever once said it was okay for a teacher to have a relationship with an adult student. Just like with a supervisor at work, the teacher should have been fired and had her license pulled, because this was an ethical issue. I do not believe consensual sex between adults is criminal. I know of circumstances where adult children meet a parent for a first time and have sex with them (ie the bio The Kiss). I think that is horrifying, to me, but again, isn't criminal.

Could you please link to where I said it's okay for a teacher to have sex with students? As I have said in another post within this thread, I teach in higher ed, and don't agree with instructors having a relationship with students they teach or probably will be teaching. Again, please supply me with the link.

obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
58. Other consensual sex was also illegal in Texas until a few years ago
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 11:11 AM
Aug 2012

Just because there is a law saying something is criminal doesn't mean it is good law.

MattBaggins

(7,905 posts)
64. This, however, is a great law
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 11:40 AM
Aug 2012

There is nothing wrong with a clause in the law that says teachers may not have sex with the students.

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
37. Can't she meet men after work?
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:53 AM
Aug 2012

The high school as employer is not a hook up service. What kind of education did she deliver while sizing up her next shag? How did the other students feel about being a student in her own personal harem? Suppose her husband comes home from the war and guns down one of these guys.



treestar

(82,383 posts)
54. Good point. There are other fish in the sea
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 11:08 AM
Aug 2012

In fact I suppose it would be OK even with 18 year olds who were not her students. Some people live to such excess.

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
77. She had access to horny immature teenage boys. Real grown men aren't so easily
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 01:06 PM
Aug 2012

led and manipulated against their own common sense, and real grown men might even be dangerous, or demanding.

LisaL

(44,974 posts)
45. As long as the law is the way it is, the jury had no choice but to convict her.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 10:59 AM
Aug 2012

There is a videotape of it, for crying out loud.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
67. in my book, it's not good, but it shouldn't be criminalized
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 12:04 PM
Aug 2012

fire the shrink. take away his license.

 

OneTenthofOnePercent

(6,268 posts)
85. morally acceptable and legally criminal are two VERY different things.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 03:02 PM
Aug 2012

Just because someone is in a position of authority (or subordination) does not mean they shouldn't be allowed to have sex with another person. In your opinion, should it be illegal for people in authority positions to have sex with persons they preside over?

IMO, this teacher's behavior was immoral and and unbecoming of her position. For that she should be fired as there was likely a breech of the terms of her employment contract. However, her actions should not have her on trial facing multiple 20 year sentences. That's fucked up.

 

inner lite

(12 posts)
65. God this is hot.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 11:41 AM
Aug 2012

Dang!

But as for the charge, you cannot have sex with your students. Should anyone go to jail? Of course not. But being professionally disciplined is not beyond the pale.

appleannie1

(5,070 posts)
78. At age 18 they are old enough to die for their country. Why are they not old enough to have sex?
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 01:08 PM
Aug 2012

Yes, she should lose her job but to be sent to prison is stupid. If they were 15, I could understand the charge but at 18 they are legally adults.

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
80. This isn't having sex with peers, freely entered into and on equal footing.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 01:11 PM
Aug 2012

This is a kid in high school, who presumably wants to complete his education, and now a teacher is enticing him into sex--for a grade? Who knows?

 

OneTenthofOnePercent

(6,268 posts)
86. Wonder if JFK ever slept with any 18yr olds...
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 03:06 PM
Aug 2012

As the president, he is in a position of almost ultimate authority... in your world, perhaps he should have been thrown in jail.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
88. lol.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 03:21 PM
Aug 2012

really? you think all sexual relationships with peers are "on equal footing"? And yes, they all testified that they entered into this willingly.


sheesh. the prudery and the bizarre thinking that you're employing are just sad.

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
97. I guess I"m missing the prudery and bizarreness of thinking that a gang bang
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 04:26 PM
Aug 2012

with your English teacher while you're still in high school is a pretty big, sad, sick deal. It's OK, you don't have to see it the same way. But either way, she's got a lot of free time to enjoy her memories, LOL. Of that, I am glad.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
79. Workplaces, schools, and other situations in which one partner may have more power over another
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 01:10 PM
Aug 2012

bring into question the issue of possible coercion. For this reason organizations usually have policies to prohibit such situations. It's not a great sacrifice to wait till after graduation, if it's real love, or to find someone else to fuck if it's not.

I'm sure someone else has already mentioned this, probably more than one. Just adding my voice to theirs.

NYC Liberal

(20,136 posts)
81. Under 18? Send her away. But they are adults.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 01:13 PM
Aug 2012

For those who say "But teachers shouldn't have sex with their students!" Sure, that's a valid point and I'd agree with you. But it should be treated like any other legal-but-unethical behavior: as workplace policy, violations of which are dealt with by the employer (in this case, the school).

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
87. I have to wonder...
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 03:07 PM
Aug 2012

.. if this were a male teacher and 5 female students, how much it would change the comments being said here.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
89. If they were 18, I'd feel precisely the same. fire the teacher. ban him from the profession.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 03:23 PM
Aug 2012

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
99. Perhaps...
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 06:29 PM
Aug 2012

.. but I'm not clear that there were threats and intimidation in this OP's case, but it does show how sex when one of the people has sway over the other is very poor judgment at it's very best. But criminal (outside the military)? I'm not so sure of that.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
108. And I agree.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 08:33 PM
Aug 2012

My question wasn't directed at you or any other at a personal level. it was merely a question based on my experiences when this kind of subject arises.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
95. I dont' think she should face criminal charges. They were consenting adults.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 03:36 PM
Aug 2012

This is an ethical and employment issues, not criminal, imo.

They were 18 years old. 18 is albeit and artificial and arbitrary demarcation for adulthood, but it is what we currently use. THey were 18 and consented.

 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
105. It's a violation of public trust.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 07:00 PM
Aug 2012

I'm sure it is in the manual. There are many, many examples of otherwise legal activity being a criminal violation under specific circumstances...

PD Turk

(1,289 posts)
101. I don't agree with this
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 06:41 PM
Aug 2012

Firing her and revoking her teaching license? I'm fine with that, but criminal penalties for sex between consenting adults? Nope, that's way too draconian and authoritarian for me.

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
102. She's female
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 06:47 PM
Aug 2012

She was having icky hetero sex with multiple men (not kids). That she wasn't married to. Probably in non missionary positions. And not for procreation. And she ENJOYED it!

For some people that's all it takes to call her a sexual predator and applaud sending her to jail. Even the progressive community isn't immune from that attitude yet.

WillowTree

(5,325 posts)
104. Not tinkering with her students' bodies is one of the requirements of the profession she chose.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 06:54 PM
Aug 2012

And she knew it. It's also against a law she was certainly fully aware of. No sympathy for the woman here.

Are_grits_groceries

(17,111 posts)
111. No sympathy!
Sun Aug 19, 2012, 08:49 AM
Aug 2012

I taught school. I know 2 male teachers who were fired for having sex with two 18 year old students. The kids considered them hot. This was in Northern Virginia.

BRIGHT LINE!
I don't care if they are of age and it's consensual. A teacher should never have sex with a student. Period! Call me Victorian. I don't care.

The problems it can create in a culture of a school can be hard to deal with. The students know. The story gets out in some form, and all teachers and all rules are suspect. The kids don't care about consensual or whatever. They hear the basics and understand that there is a rule and they know what the law says. Will they be cut some slack over some other rule they break because of some extenuating circumstance in their minds.

Try parsing this out with a group of ninth graders. It becomes a tangled argument about age, law, what rules mean, what punishment means, and what the dawg drug in. It creates more than a ripple. And those kids remember.

You can argue about the harshness of the punishment, but every jurisdiction spells it out. It's not a secret. Work to change the penalies if you disagree.

If you cannot control yourself so that you are unable to avoid sex with a student, then get out of education. I don't care if they are 18. They are considered to be under the aegis of the educational system. Until they graduate, they are students bound by certain restrictions. The teachers are too.

Flame me or whatever. It is an effing mess that I have seen up close. The ramiications aren't confined to those individuals charged. Then add to that another favorite teacher who has dalliances with students but is able to avoid getting caught by the law.

Lawd what a hot mess. I never want to go through that again.

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