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realmirage

(2,117 posts)
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 01:49 AM Jan 2019

Anyone here never really enjoy New Year's Eve?

Don’t want to be a bummer but I just never really enjoyed it. I like New Year’s Day and the feeling of starting fresh. But the night before is always just sort of weird. Lots of expectation and then a sad song they play...

Ok that’s all.

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Anyone here never really enjoy New Year's Eve? (Original Post) realmirage Jan 2019 OP
Not too much... wcmagumba Jan 2019 #1
I prefer twilight zone marathon : ) realmirage Jan 2019 #21
I prefer The Three Stooges marathon :-) seaglass Jan 2019 #69
They aren't a big deal for me, either. roamer65 Jan 2019 #2
A year older. Yeah forgot about that realmirage Jan 2019 #23
I prefer to call it another lap around the sun. n/t. airplaneman Jan 2019 #54
When I was young, maybe. I went to First Night in Boston then. rusty quoin Jan 2019 #3
New year is for the young realmirage Jan 2019 #24
Not really. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #4
Even when I was young it was lame realmirage Jan 2019 #25
Drunk obnoxious people who are Blue_playwright Jan 2019 #45
That would be me GusBob Jan 2019 #5
Glad I'm not the only one realmirage Jan 2019 #26
I celebrate it on April First. hunter Jan 2019 #6
Celtic New Year Cetacea Jan 2019 #11
And mine grantcart Jan 2019 #18
I thought October 31st - Nov 1 was Celtic New Year Raine Jan 2019 #96
Twilight Zone marathon on the tee vee box indoors..... Heartstrings Jan 2019 #7
Oh man I forgot about twilight zone realmirage Jan 2019 #27
No, I don't really enjoy it. It's just another night for me. smirkymonkey Jan 2019 #8
I surely hope it's better realmirage Jan 2019 #28
I don't like it anymore since there is too much pressure to be joyful. BigmanPigman Jan 2019 #9
That's what I don't like realmirage Jan 2019 #29
I feel like every holiday s like that. 2naSalit Jan 2019 #60
I have found that also. BigmanPigman Jan 2019 #94
NSM, not so much. By New Years many people are burned out from appalachiablue Jan 2019 #10
Yeah after the trauma of Xmas realmirage Jan 2019 #30
Loving all the responses. realmirage Jan 2019 #12
Nope. I don't. I hate having emotions pressured onto me. fierywoman Jan 2019 #13
This nails it realmirage Jan 2019 #17
Mostly it's me and memories for New Year NotASurfer Jan 2019 #14
Yeah same here realmirage Jan 2019 #31
I'll never like that song though realmirage Jan 2019 #33
Reminds me of many "fire fights." jaysunb Jan 2019 #15
That doesn't sound like my kind of picnic realmirage Jan 2019 #38
I get to stay home with my cat. love_katz Jan 2019 #16
Not getting up at 3 is always reason to celebrate realmirage Jan 2019 #37
sorta forced joviality fueled by alcohol. umm no thanx nt msongs Jan 2019 #19
Never been a drinker and never enjoyed it. grantcart Jan 2019 #20
Even when I was a drinker I didn't enjoy it realmirage Jan 2019 #36
St. Paddy's and NYE are amateur nights for a real drinker Mr. Quackers Jan 2019 #86
It's usually kind of bittersweet for me. StarryNite Jan 2019 #22
I agree. The best part is that it's over realmirage Jan 2019 #35
I don't want to be a bummer but Cha Jan 2019 #32
I don't begrudge others enjoying it realmirage Jan 2019 #34
Extra happy this year Cha Jan 2019 #42
GOPer House gone! Hermit-The-Prog Jan 2019 #49
YES! There's one of the Best Reasons on Cha Jan 2019 #51
thank you, and the same wishes to you, Cha! Hermit-The-Prog Jan 2019 #52
Thank You! And, absent Cha Jan 2019 #56
people keep telling me there was a 2017 Hermit-The-Prog Jan 2019 #63
I hear ya on 2017.. you were Cha Jan 2019 #64
+1 Crutchez_CuiBono Jan 2019 #91
New Year's Eve is fun, but what good is New Year's Day? Polybius Jan 2019 #68
Recovering from New Year's Eve? Cha Jan 2019 #93
My family never really observed it as a holiday. WhiskeyWulf Jan 2019 #39
Well, let me put it this way...my "When I'm 64" moment happens for me at midnight... GReedDiamond Jan 2019 #40
I do not like the fireworks and shooting off guns jcgoldie Jan 2019 #41
Yeah, that's probably the worst part about it. GoCubsGo Jan 2019 #66
To those that party hearty go for it. NoMoreRepugs Jan 2019 #43
Never a fan, I've never had someone to smooch at midnight n/t hibbing Jan 2019 #44
Sending a big old virtual kiss and hug coming your way. UniteFightBack Jan 2019 #55
Ciaphas Cain Jan 2019 #92
I'm with you. Not trying to be a bummer at all. bitterross Jan 2019 #46
I've never enjoyed New Year's since I reached adulthood. BlueStater Jan 2019 #47
12/31 has always felt like I'm just sitting there waiting for something to end. dgauss Jan 2019 #48
We usually stay home. We call it amatuer(sp?) night. shraby Jan 2019 #50
No never. It has always depressed me. I love Christmas, and it's over lunamagica Jan 2019 #53
I've never liked it, seems we're supposed to be happy and excited about it but Raine Jan 2019 #57
The most overrated holiday of the year for me RandySF Jan 2019 #58
I went to see a great bar band. JohnnyRingo Jan 2019 #59
Glad to know I'm not the only one. Paka Jan 2019 #61
its a meh. except getting to stay up later as a kid. now as an extreme night owl, pansypoo53219 Jan 2019 #62
Just another night to me. sinkingfeeling Jan 2019 #65
Nope. Nothing magical about it. GoCubsGo Jan 2019 #67
Many walk through these occurrences HAB911 Jan 2019 #70
We had an anti-New Years Eve party several years ago bif Jan 2019 #71
Gunshots in Detroit at midnight! bif Jan 2019 #72
LOL! llmart Jan 2019 #75
On an average summer evening you hear an occasional gunshot bif Jan 2019 #82
such a tradition there bigtree Jan 2019 #79
Noty really since Guy Lombardo whistler162 Jan 2019 #73
Use to enjoy NYE as kid, not so much as adult Hawaii Hiker Jan 2019 #74
I did when I was much, much younger. llmart Jan 2019 #76
That Mr. Quackers Jan 2019 #78
The whole New Years resolutions aspect tells people they have shortcomings that need to be worked on llmart Jan 2019 #84
Not in years The Genealogist Jan 2019 #77
Never have. Typically sleep through the changeover. Blue_true Jan 2019 #80
Same here Mr. Quackers Jan 2019 #87
I've been getting up for work at 3:15 for twenty+ years, Codeine Jan 2019 #81
new years eve pamdb Jan 2019 #83
No, but I don't drink or like parties. We had a family movie night instead :) Luciferous Jan 2019 #85
Mine have ranged from the deeply sad to the truly wonderful. This one was just quiet. /nt LongtimeAZDem Jan 2019 #88
I enjoy it a lot more now that I'm almost 60. Itchinjim Jan 2019 #89
Back when I was in college, I worked on NYE - evening shifts at the local hospital. KitSileya Jan 2019 #90
I have since I decided to stay home for it treestar Jan 2019 #95

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
2. They aren't a big deal for me, either.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 01:51 AM
Jan 2019

2000 was cuz of the odometer change. Now it just means I’m a year older cuz my b-day is in January.

 

rusty quoin

(6,133 posts)
3. When I was young, maybe. I went to First Night in Boston then.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 01:52 AM
Jan 2019

Now it is just about remembering the year on checks and such.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,783 posts)
4. Not really.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 01:53 AM
Jan 2019

I haven't been to a New Year's Eve party in years and years, and even then it wasn't that much fun - just a bunch of people drinking too much. I'd rather stay home with the cats and binge-watch stuff on Netflix.

Blue_playwright

(1,568 posts)
45. Drunk obnoxious people who are
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 03:09 AM
Jan 2019

Trying really hard to have big fun and party... I’ve never understood it. It always feels like awkward forced gaiety.

GusBob

(7,286 posts)
5. That would be me
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 01:54 AM
Jan 2019

It’s an important holiday celebrated across the world but NYE has never been my favorite part of it

Cetacea

(7,367 posts)
11. Celtic New Year
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 02:05 AM
Jan 2019

Also my birthday (And Rachel Maddow's) Tonight its just a bunch of fireworks that scare my cats.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
8. No, I don't really enjoy it. It's just another night for me.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 01:57 AM
Jan 2019

I just watch old movies, like I am doing now (just taking a little break to check into DU). I am pretty happy to see 2018 over though. Hoping 2019 will be a better year for us and a worse year for Trump and the republicans.

BigmanPigman

(51,615 posts)
9. I don't like it anymore since there is too much pressure to be joyful.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 02:00 AM
Jan 2019

The same goes for Valentine's Day with me. It is like society pressures you into having a good time but ends up having a negative affect and I feel disappointed instead.

2naSalit

(86,691 posts)
60. I feel like every holiday s like that.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 04:44 AM
Jan 2019

I often refer to all or any of them as Hallowe'en just because of the creep factor in the joyful expectation area.

BigmanPigman

(51,615 posts)
94. I have found that also.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 08:32 PM
Jan 2019

When I taught 6 year olds it was the way it is supposed to be...all of those happy expectations that were sincerely meant. It was just fun and happiness(pure and simple). It is mostly like that with kids and those around them. When we get older and more experienced about the real world then we aren't as easily, ignorantly joyful, simple and pure.

appalachiablue

(41,159 posts)
10. NSM, not so much. By New Years many people are burned out from
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 02:03 AM
Jan 2019

Xmas hoopla, and nobody much wants to party the older we become.

But New Years Day can be fun and healthy; visiting, cooking good food, starting off the new year in a positive way.

NotASurfer

(2,153 posts)
14. Mostly it's me and memories for New Year
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 02:14 AM
Jan 2019

Mrs calls it a night way early

It's just me and one loyal cat

And I think back on New Year growing up, food we had "for luck" after midnight, hell I think I hear the ghosts of Guy Lombardo's entire orchestra playing tonight on a phantom black-and-white TV, while dad - since departed - smooched mom

But sad? The memories are good!

And it depends on how you play that song. This sets it right for me:



StarryNite

(9,456 posts)
22. It's usually kind of bittersweet for me.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 02:27 AM
Jan 2019

This year wasn't so great so I'm actually glad it's almost over, about half an hour to go here in AZ.

Cha

(297,446 posts)
32. I don't want to be a bummer but
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 02:34 AM
Jan 2019

I love it!.. and New Year's Day Tomorrow!

Maybe I shouldn't post that.. but it is kicking your thread

 

realmirage

(2,117 posts)
34. I don't begrudge others enjoying it
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 02:37 AM
Jan 2019

Glad when anyone is having a happy time : )

That just isn’t me on NYE. But party on!

Cha

(297,446 posts)
42. Extra happy this year
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 02:44 AM
Jan 2019

because of the Blue Wave, House Democratic Majority!

The last two New Years were not so happy come to think of it.

Hermit-The-Prog

(33,384 posts)
49. GOPer House gone!
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 03:26 AM
Jan 2019

This is a reason to celebrate -- the GOPers no longer have the House to twist government into doing their insane work.

Cha

(297,446 posts)
51. YES! There's one of the Best Reasons on
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 03:32 AM
Jan 2019

Earth to celebrate this Year!

A Very Healthy Happy, Blue-Wave New Year's to You and Yours, Hermit!

Hermit-The-Prog

(33,384 posts)
52. thank you, and the same wishes to you, Cha!
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 03:35 AM
Jan 2019

We start this year with hope that was absent a year ago, because of the big blue wave!

Hermit-The-Prog

(33,384 posts)
63. people keep telling me there was a 2017
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 05:02 AM
Jan 2019

I think they're just trying to trick me.

Had to go look at photos to make sure there was such a year. I spent it immersed in wood working.

Wife and I had our traditional New Year's toast of homemade wine. That's the extent of the partying here.


(Can't sleep -- some kind of respiratory infection. Big dog's snoring is making me sleepy, but it's easier to breathe sitting up, so I might as well read).

Cha

(297,446 posts)
64. I hear ya on 2017.. you were
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 05:39 AM
Jan 2019

immersed in wood working(sounds nice) and I took a 5 month news black out from July to December to entertain two of sisters visiting the Island at different times. And, I moved to a new town.

The Ignorance is Bliss was in full bloom.

That's awesome you and your wife enjoy your home made wine on New Year's Eve!

It's what I do when I can't sleep.. I roll over and fire up my laptop. Good luck getting back to breathing better!

Cha

(297,446 posts)
93. Recovering from New Year's Eve?
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 06:07 PM
Jan 2019

So going back to work is easier the next day?

Talking about earlier years.

GReedDiamond

(5,314 posts)
40. Well, let me put it this way...my "When I'm 64" moment happens for me at midnight...
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 02:43 AM
Jan 2019

...and I got carded less than a year ago for buying a beer.

So I'm stickin with 39, like Jack (Benny).

And I no longer enjoy being another year closer to my ultimate demise..?

jcgoldie

(11,635 posts)
41. I do not like the fireworks and shooting off guns
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 02:43 AM
Jan 2019

It scares my livestock and my LGDs... really cant stand 4th of July either.

GoCubsGo

(32,086 posts)
66. Yeah, that's probably the worst part about it.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 09:59 AM
Jan 2019

The idiots in my neighborhood start at around 8:00, and noise doesn't stop until around 1 AM. So much for a good night's sleep...

 

bitterross

(4,066 posts)
46. I'm with you. Not trying to be a bummer at all.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 03:17 AM
Jan 2019

Maybe it's the way I was raised. New Year's eve was not a big deal in my family. It was just the day before Jan 1st. When we'd all forget to write the current year on our documents for about a week.

It never held the same family togetherness or other sort of significance to us as Thanksgiving or Christmas.

Maybe, after Thanksgiving and Christmas we were just tired of holidays by then.

I don't think that makes you dull, or a bummer at all.

BlueStater

(7,596 posts)
47. I've never enjoyed New Year's since I reached adulthood.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 03:19 AM
Jan 2019

It's actually something I dread. Transitioning into a new year always feels stressful to me. Then it takes me at least a few days to get used to the fact that the year changed.

I'm with you completely.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
57. I've never liked it, seems we're supposed to be happy and excited about it but
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 03:55 AM
Jan 2019

it's always depressed me. I can't be happy about another year passing that hasn't lived up to anything I hoped it would. Each year just another year of unmet expectations. Even when I was a kid I found it a sad occasion. I guess I spend too much time dwelling on things and being too introspective.

RandySF

(59,052 posts)
58. The most overrated holiday of the year for me
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 04:23 AM
Jan 2019

But it's a huge day for my wife who is an immigrant from Asia.

JohnnyRingo

(18,638 posts)
59. I went to see a great bar band.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 04:35 AM
Jan 2019

I sure enjoyed my New Years Eve.

Now my ears are ringing in the new year.

HAB911

(8,909 posts)
70. Many walk through these occurrences
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 10:54 AM
Jan 2019

without really thinking about what they are doing or "celebrating", it's just what everyone does. I question lots of what "everyone" does

bif

(22,730 posts)
71. We had an anti-New Years Eve party several years ago
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 10:59 AM
Jan 2019

Everyone had to turn in their watches and I stopped all the clocks in the house. And the tv was off. I hate New Years Eve. This year was perfect. A couple friends came for dinner. We ate and they left by 10. I was asleep by 11:30.

bif

(22,730 posts)
72. Gunshots in Detroit at midnight!
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 11:03 AM
Jan 2019

We live about 5 houses from Detroit proper. At midnight, Detroit's go outside and fire off their guns into the air. It sounds lie a war zone for about 20 minutes. And no, those aren't firecrackers.

llmart

(15,545 posts)
75. LOL!
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 11:31 AM
Jan 2019

How can you tell New Years Eve from any other night in Detroit?

(I say that as someone who lives in the 'burbs of Detroit.)

bigtree

(86,005 posts)
79. such a tradition there
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 11:39 AM
Jan 2019

...was at a house party there once where everyone was told to seriously duck when the hour struck, for fear of stray bullets through the windows.

Hawaii Hiker

(3,166 posts)
74. Use to enjoy NYE as kid, not so much as adult
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 11:30 AM
Jan 2019

When i was kid (early 1980's) we would usually see a movie then go all night bowling.....That was popular back in the day, the place had about 48 lanes all packed w/people that night....

llmart

(15,545 posts)
76. I did when I was much, much younger.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 11:32 AM
Jan 2019

Now I don't really enjoy "forced" holidays - those that marketers tell you how to behave and what to buy and what to do on any specific holiday. Too contrived for me. There's a reason that suicides rise during the end of the year holidays. Too many expectations that never materialize.

 

Mr. Quackers

(443 posts)
78. That
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 11:37 AM
Jan 2019

and for probably lots of people, the holidays are a painful reminder of how alone you are.

I always turn my thoughts to the elderly, the alone, the sick, the incarcerated, the marginalized, the vulnerable, etc. during the holiday season.

It's almost like people are mentally checked out from Thanksgiving until the first or second week of January.

llmart

(15,545 posts)
84. The whole New Years resolutions aspect tells people they have shortcomings that need to be worked on
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 11:43 AM
Jan 2019

We all know that few of us are going to keep those resolutions from past experiences.

The Genealogist

(4,723 posts)
77. Not in years
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 11:37 AM
Jan 2019

Too jaded. The Great Recession pretty much put the kibosh on it for me. I used to really get into it, but after several years of no money for anything other than being thankful just to have a roof over my head, I got out of giving a damn about getting plowed and raising a ruckus just because a calendar says it is a different year.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
80. Never have. Typically sleep through the changeover.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 11:39 AM
Jan 2019

If I were married or had kids, then I might go out.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
81. I've been getting up for work at 3:15 for twenty+ years,
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 11:40 AM
Jan 2019

so the odds of me staying awake for midnight are in the neighborhood of non-existent. Add in the fact that I don’t drink and the whole thing becomes quite meaningless to me.

I’m a Thanksgiving guy. Other holidays are wasted on me.

pamdb

(1,332 posts)
83. new years eve
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 11:42 AM
Jan 2019

After we moved into our new (new to us) house in Feb. of 2010, that winter I realized NYE was going to fall on a Saturday and we decided to have a party, more as an open house than anything, to show off the house (which was still being redecorated but what the hell) I don't know if we were in a party vortex or what but EVERYBODY showed up,
bunch of old friends and current friends, brother and his wife from Muskegon, and my sister in law's 90 year old grandmother who sat on the couch drinking sour apple martinis. We had people everywhere, in the living room, the fireplace room, the dining room. I've never had a party since that turned out that great. Weather cooperated, being Michigan. But last night husband and I had chicken fajitas followed by ice cream and watched a Columbo from the 90's, big hair and 3 piece suits galore. Took the dogs out and in bed by 9:00 with iPads and books. Fine with me.

Itchinjim

(3,085 posts)
89. I enjoy it a lot more now that I'm almost 60.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 12:02 PM
Jan 2019

There's no pressure to have to have a good time so therefore it's much more enjoyable.
Plus there is no crushing hangover on New Year's day.

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
90. Back when I was in college, I worked on NYE - evening shifts at the local hospital.
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 12:25 PM
Jan 2019

So I never got into the habit of partying on New Year's Eve. After I started working full-time, it was just so irritating to get my circadian rhythms all out of whack at the very end of the break - I'm a teacher - just in time to start getting up early again. I have a tradition of watching all the three extended editions of LotR on NYE, and I watched most of them yesterday, but this year, I donned my noise-cancelling Boze headphones and went to bed before midnight. Gasp!

treestar

(82,383 posts)
95. I have since I decided to stay home for it
Tue Jan 1, 2019, 08:35 PM
Jan 2019

or stay overnight at sister's house. I stay up for the countdown.

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