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DISTURBING: A woman who's been in a vegetative state for at least 14 yrs, gave birth to a baby boy (Original Post) demmiblue Jan 2019 OP
I can't even put "voice" to what I believe that rapist deserves... hlthe2b Jan 2019 #1
OMFG malaise Jan 2019 #2
That's all the way around fucked up. Solly Mack Jan 2019 #3
It's a tough situation because she also could not consent to end the pregnancy. ExciteBike66 Jan 2019 #5
Who would an abortion be harming? Not the only person that mattered - the woman. Solly Mack Jan 2019 #6
They reportedly didn't know she was pregnant. LisaL Jan 2019 #18
How the hell would medical personnel not notice Proud Liberal Dem Jan 2019 #19
I have no clue either? LisaL Jan 2019 #21
Exactly Proud Liberal Dem Jan 2019 #39
Not the first time woman in vegetative state gave birth. LisaL Jan 2019 #44
Yes, the body could function, with proper nutrition -- which would have to be adjusted pnwmom Jan 2019 #71
That's not possible for a full term birth. How were the baby's caloric needs met? n/t pnwmom Jan 2019 #70
I think this is wrong. ExciteBike66 Jan 2019 #26
No way to know what she wants at this point, if she is in vegetative state she can't express LisaL Jan 2019 #31
I agree, which was why I think we cannot know that the pregnancy was "unwanted" ExciteBike66 Jan 2019 #43
Let's call it "non-consensual", then musette_sf Jan 2019 #47
I don't think we can make that assumption. ExciteBike66 Jan 2019 #48
Of course we can make that assumption. musette_sf Jan 2019 #50
"There is no sane defense for any of this." ExciteBike66 Jan 2019 #59
If a person in such a state were shot with a gun in the commission of a crime, musette_sf Jan 2019 #61
Your analogy doesn't hold, because bullets are often not removed NickB79 Jan 2019 #69
Pregnancy always has a possibility of being life-threatening. musette_sf Jan 2019 #73
You are right mercuryblues Jan 2019 #46
If the body lacks higher brain function Loki Liesmith Jan 2019 #53
Typically someone has authority for her care. Renew Deal Jan 2019 #13
I don't know, but even then it's a tough call for that person. ExciteBike66 Jan 2019 #24
Nobody made the call. Facility apparently had no clue she was pregnant until she started to give LisaL Jan 2019 #25
That is nuts. ExciteBike66 Jan 2019 #27
Boggles the mind. LisaL Jan 2019 #28
It can happen, my friend's sister hid a pregnancy from her family LisaM Jan 2019 #78
True but can't consent to an abortion either. Maybe she would have wanted her own genes to live on. lostnfound Jan 2019 #10
Presumably she has a guardian (parents?) who could have made the decision. LisaL Jan 2019 #23
She can't consent to an abortion either. LisaL Jan 2019 #15
Every male that works there safeinOhio Jan 2019 #4
yep, DNA tests all around... Thomas Hurt Jan 2019 #7
Not likely. The law requires a particularized suspicion that crime took place Ms. Toad Jan 2019 #9
Well in this case a woman in vegetative state is unable to consent and LisaL Jan 2019 #11
Volunteer, yes - Ms. Toad Jan 2019 #56
Condition of employment. safeinOhio Jan 2019 #62
Depends on terms of employment. Ms. Toad Jan 2019 #64
Possible civil case safeinOhio Jan 2019 #65
Not likely. Ms. Toad Jan 2019 #68
All employment is understood to be at-will absent contract or statute. Montana does have some WhiskeyGrinder Jan 2019 #67
Let's say they prove who did it.... Is the "father" then entitled to care for that child? Renew Deal Jan 2019 #12
Father entitled to care for the child? LisaL Jan 2019 #14
Agree, but there have been plenty of ugly cases like this in the past Renew Deal Jan 2019 #17
I hope she has parents that would take the child. LisaL Jan 2019 #20
Definitely lots of messy legal issues - Ms. Toad Jan 2019 #57
There was a similar case when I was living in Massachusetts years ago, and the rapist was identified Tanuki Jan 2019 #41
"asked" is the key. Ms. Toad Jan 2019 #58
Not that simple. There are visitors, delivery people, maintainace folks, temp medical staff, etc n/t FSogol Jan 2019 #30
Yep, could be lots of people needed to be tested. LisaL Jan 2019 #36
Reminds me of Kill Bill, and that was the creepiest part of Crutchez_CuiBono Jan 2019 #33
+1 2naSalit Jan 2019 #40
Any male that worked there or did maintenance or service runs there in the last year Blue_true Jan 2019 #80
OMG that is super messed up. Dem_4_Life Jan 2019 #8
Someone was watching Kill Bill Vol 1 PCIntern Jan 2019 #16
+1 Crutchez_CuiBono Jan 2019 #34
Yup. 2naSalit Jan 2019 #42
That didn't end well for the rapist. nt Blue_true Jan 2019 #81
This is not suspicion of a crime, but conclusive proof DFW Jan 2019 #22
Any male employee who had access to the room I would think. redstatebluegirl Jan 2019 #29
But there are also could be male visitors (not even to visit this woman specifically) but other LisaL Jan 2019 #35
Of course, but I was responding to the legality of DNA testing of employees. redstatebluegirl Jan 2019 #37
This may not please everyone, but Ferrets are Cool Jan 2019 #32
Cruel and Unusual punishment is unconstitutional maxsolomon Jan 2019 #51
Long-term care facilities in this country are due for an overhaul. WhiskeyGrinder Jan 2019 #38
This is a major plot element in the movie "Talk to Her" (2002) LeftinOH Jan 2019 #45
Yes, I couldn' think of the name of the movie. marybourg Jan 2019 #52
Almadovar is a genius. maxsolomon Jan 2019 #54
Used to work at a nursing home, honestly not surprised ansible Jan 2019 #49
There is something very odd about... Mike Nelson Jan 2019 #55
Beyond "disturbing'. It's fucking horrific backtoblue Jan 2019 #60
Well I hope the baby is OK lunatica Jan 2019 #63
Kill Bill? Luciferous Jan 2019 #66
The baby is healthy, supposedly. Someone was BATHING this woman. pnwmom Jan 2019 #72
Why on Earth would a person be maintained Codeine Jan 2019 #74
my thought, too Kali Jan 2019 #77
A friend of mine was like that for about 20 years nini Jan 2019 #82
Hyper religious guardians or just people that don't believe in turning off a respirator. Blue_true Jan 2019 #83
Very disturbing. aikoaiko Jan 2019 #75
This is one of the creepiest things I have ever heard Quixote1818 Jan 2019 #76
The person that did that to her should be jailed for life. Blue_true Jan 2019 #79
Rapist needs to be found and prosecuted shanny Jan 2019 #84

hlthe2b

(102,260 posts)
1. I can't even put "voice" to what I believe that rapist deserves...
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 08:29 AM
Jan 2019

and only slightly less, the facility that failed to protect her. How horrific if that child has no family at all to care for him or who feel capable of caring for him.

Solly Mack

(90,765 posts)
3. That's all the way around fucked up.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 08:35 AM
Jan 2019

From the rape to the forced pregnancy and birth.

Can't consent to giving birth if you're in a vegetative state - so someone pushed for it. Forced it.

ExciteBike66

(2,357 posts)
5. It's a tough situation because she also could not consent to end the pregnancy.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 08:42 AM
Jan 2019

I doubt any doctor would perform an abortion in that situation (do no harm, and all) when there is no threat to the life of the mother (I assume there wasn't). A doctor probably would violate his oath performing an abortion under these specific circumstances.

Solly Mack

(90,765 posts)
6. Who would an abortion be harming? Not the only person that mattered - the woman.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 08:47 AM
Jan 2019

Even in a vegetative state - she was the only one that mattered.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
21. I have no clue either?
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:50 AM
Jan 2019

Wouldn't they at least notice she was getting a big belly? Unless she is very heavy? Which I kind of doubt, because in vegetative state one doesn't over eat.

Proud Liberal Dem

(24,412 posts)
39. Exactly
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 11:05 AM
Jan 2019

You would think that- in NINE MONTHS- somebody would notice SOMETHING? I'm really surprised that childbirth would even happen in a vegatative state. Our bodies are remarkable pieces of biological machinery.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
44. Not the first time woman in vegetative state gave birth.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 11:07 AM
Jan 2019

In vegetative state, person is brain damaged, but not brain dead.
The body could function just fine and therefore can sustain pregnancy. But how nobody notices she is pregnant when she is supposed to be getting nursing care is beyond my understanding.

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
71. Yes, the body could function, with proper nutrition -- which would have to be adjusted
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 07:38 PM
Jan 2019

due to the pregnancy.

ExciteBike66

(2,357 posts)
26. I think this is wrong.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:55 AM
Jan 2019

The question is not who is harmed, the question is what the woman wants. That is inherent in the "choice".

Pregnancy can only be considered a "harm" if it is unwanted, right?

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
31. No way to know what she wants at this point, if she is in vegetative state she can't express
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:58 AM
Jan 2019

her wishes. Unless she was specific about not wanting to have an abortion in any circumstance before she went into vegetative state.

ExciteBike66

(2,357 posts)
43. I agree, which was why I think we cannot know that the pregnancy was "unwanted"
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 11:06 AM
Jan 2019

And I want to be clear I am not talking about the rape. I mean that once she was pregnant by any means, it is unclear how she would feel about the pregnancy.

The prior poster had raised the question of "harm", but I think that we can only determine that the pregnancy is "harmful" if we know her wishes. Since we don't, then the pregnancy cannot be seen as "harmful".

Now, if there was a relative who purported to know her wishes, then we would rely on them, trusting that as a relative they were not misleading us.

musette_sf

(10,200 posts)
47. Let's call it "non-consensual", then
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 11:53 AM
Jan 2019

and assume the non-consensual pregnancy is harmful because it is non-consensual.

ExciteBike66

(2,357 posts)
48. I don't think we can make that assumption.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 12:25 PM
Jan 2019

For instance, what if the victim was very religious and against abortion to the point where she would not even get one in the case of rape? This is why we have living wills that let relatives make such decisions.

In the absence of such a decision-maker here, I think it would be wrong to assume she would want the abortion and do so without any type of consent. Furthermore, it would probably be against the doctor's oath to take the action of abortion without the patient or competent decision-maker giving consent (assuming no danger to the woman's life).

For me it comes down to the ethical difference between action and inaction. In this case, I feel it would be unethical to take an action such as an abortion, as opposed to remaining inactive. The fact that the pregnancy was initiated by rape doesn't change that calculation in my mind.

musette_sf

(10,200 posts)
50. Of course we can make that assumption.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 02:05 PM
Jan 2019

The rape was rape, i.e., non-consensual, therefore the pregnancy was non-consensual. There is no sane defense for any of this.

ExciteBike66

(2,357 posts)
59. "There is no sane defense for any of this."
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 02:50 PM
Jan 2019

I disagree, as I am providing one.

The rape was non-consensual, but that doesn't mean the woman automatically wishes to terminate the pregnancy. That is the meaning of the concept of "choice". We do not force women to undergo abortions in this country.

Thus, the vegetative woman's choice matters. Since she cannot make the choice, someone must choose for her. If there is a guardian who knows her wishes (or was entrusted by her to know them), then that person can make the choice. If there is no one so entrusted by her (or no close relatives who know what she would want), then the choice cannot be made (or rather, inaction must be chosen).

My point is that if the state is choosing, then the only ethical choice is to continue the pregnancy. It would be unethical to subject the woman to a medical procedure to which she did not consent (outside of an emergency situation). Any doctor who did it would probably violate their oath in doing so.

musette_sf

(10,200 posts)
61. If a person in such a state were shot with a gun in the commission of a crime,
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 04:00 PM
Jan 2019

the bullet would be removed and the medical condition would be remedied, no questions asked, and "consent"/"choice" would not be an issue.

This victim was "shot" in the commission of a crime, with "bullets" from the weapon chosen by the criminal to commit the crime.

If the state is "choosing" in this horrible scenario, then the only ethical choice in this specific scenario, in which is it abundantly clear that the victim could not consent to be assaulted, is to remedy the medical condition that was done to the victim by the criminal's weapon of choice. Both pregnancy, and gunshot wounds, are medical conditions that carry risks up to and including permanent disability and/or death.

In this specific sad and awful scenario, the rights of the victim to be made as whole again as possible, after a violent criminal assault, should be the guiding principle. Otherwise, what the state would in effect be doing, would be "choosing" to confer nonexistent "rights" upon a gestating entity, that unlike the victim, is not a person invested with rights at birth as our laws provide for.



NickB79

(19,236 posts)
69. Your analogy doesn't hold, because bullets are often not removed
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 07:13 PM
Jan 2019

If the removal of the bullet is deemed more risky than leaving it where it's at, which does actually happen with surprising frequency.

And if the "bullet" the rapist left in her wasn't life-threatening, removal of said "bullet" becomes moot in this argument.

musette_sf

(10,200 posts)
73. Pregnancy always has a possibility of being life-threatening.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 09:40 PM
Jan 2019

And bullets are left in place in scenarios in which more damage/injury would result were they to be removed.

The analogy holds up quite well. No one would dream of withholding care from a shooting victim to make the victim as whole as possible after the violent assault - but *some* think it's justifiable to withhold care from an innocent victim that was criminally impregnated.

mercuryblues

(14,531 posts)
46. You are right
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 11:39 AM
Jan 2019

But the family member who has control over her care has to authorize an abortion. It could also be the staff did not realize she was pregnant until it was too late for an abortion.

Loki Liesmith

(4,602 posts)
53. If the body lacks higher brain function
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 02:14 PM
Jan 2019

It’s hard for me to see that there is a person to be harmed either way, except in the sense of a convenient fiction that any marginally functioning human body is a person in the legal sense.

Renew Deal

(81,856 posts)
13. Typically someone has authority for her care.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:39 AM
Jan 2019

Is she married? Are her parents still around? I’m sure that there is someone that can make the decision.

ExciteBike66

(2,357 posts)
24. I don't know, but even then it's a tough call for that person.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:53 AM
Jan 2019

I guess the best we can hope for is that whoever made the call knew what she would have wanted.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
25. Nobody made the call. Facility apparently had no clue she was pregnant until she started to give
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:54 AM
Jan 2019

birth.

LisaM

(27,810 posts)
78. It can happen, my friend's sister hid a pregnancy from her family
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:08 PM
Jan 2019

until she went to the hospital to give birth. She just didn't really show. If they weren't testing for pregnancy, I can see there's a possibility they might not know she was pregnant. I have no clue what the woman looks like, etc.

lostnfound

(16,179 posts)
10. True but can't consent to an abortion either. Maybe she would have wanted her own genes to live on.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:32 AM
Jan 2019

So shocking and horrible.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
23. Presumably she has a guardian (parents?) who could have made the decision.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:52 AM
Jan 2019

But apparently (from reading other sources) staff had no clue that the woman was pregnant until she started giving birth.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
15. She can't consent to an abortion either.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:43 AM
Jan 2019

And by the way, sounds like the staff there didn't even know she was pregnant.

safeinOhio

(32,675 posts)
4. Every male that works there
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 08:36 AM
Jan 2019

will soon be spitting in the bottle. DNA test for the guys. How sick is that?

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
9. Not likely. The law requires a particularized suspicion that crime took place
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:30 AM
Jan 2019

and a particular person committed it.

Compelling DNA form males based solely on coincidence of working in a particular location at a particular time is an unreasonable search.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
11. Well in this case a woman in vegetative state is unable to consent and
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:37 AM
Jan 2019

she didn't produce the baby on her own. So is there a doubt a crime took place?
They can ask men to volunteer their DNA, they have done this in other cases. Of course one doesn't have to agree, but if everybody else agrees and somebody doesn't, well, that's going to raise some red flags.

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
56. Volunteer, yes -
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 02:24 PM
Jan 2019

but there are legal issues with taking absence of voluntary consent as a suggestion to support a warrant.

safeinOhio

(32,675 posts)
62. Condition of employment.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 04:36 PM
Jan 2019

Legally you don’t have to take any test without reasonable cause. However, as a “condition of employment” they may fire you for refusing.

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
64. Depends on terms of employment.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 06:33 PM
Jan 2019

If there is no employment contract, and the state is an at-will state, yes. In that case, since you can be fired at will, testing can be imposed as a condition of continued employment. But not all states are at-will states, and soem employees have employment contracts. Either would likely make mincemeat out of your propsal.

safeinOhio

(32,675 posts)
65. Possible civil case
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 06:40 PM
Jan 2019

if one male refuses. Civil case allow more evidence, like polygraph. Plaintive can demand DNA and if he refuses, judge or jury could decide quilt on refusal of test. State could then demand support. Leaned a lot from my lawyer, she was great.

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
68. Not likely.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 06:56 PM
Jan 2019

Civil discovery is broader than search warrants, but generally does not extend that far.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,336 posts)
67. All employment is understood to be at-will absent contract or statute. Montana does have some
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 06:53 PM
Jan 2019

wrongful termination language, but "at-will state" doesn't really mean anything.

Renew Deal

(81,856 posts)
12. Let's say they prove who did it.... Is the "father" then entitled to care for that child?
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:37 AM
Jan 2019

And is she married? Lots of messy legal issues.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
14. Father entitled to care for the child?
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:42 AM
Jan 2019

I presume father will be entitled to a prison sentence, not care for the child.

Renew Deal

(81,856 posts)
17. Agree, but there have been plenty of ugly cases like this in the past
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:44 AM
Jan 2019

Where rapists are permitted to see their children. And the mother is incapacitated in this case so that leaves him.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
20. I hope she has parents that would take the child.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:49 AM
Jan 2019

If not he child could be adopted. Apparently the child is healthy.

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
57. Definitely lots of messy legal issues -
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 02:27 PM
Jan 2019

Yes, he is obligated to financially support the child - and they would have to prove him an unfit parent to terminate his parental rights and, in at least some states, the fact that he raped the mother is not sufficient to establish that. (There are women who are forced to permit the child to visit the rapist father. https://nypost.com/2017/10/09/convicted-rapist-gets-joint-custody-of-victims-child/

Tanuki

(14,918 posts)
41. There was a similar case when I was living in Massachusetts years ago, and the rapist was identified
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 11:06 AM
Jan 2019

by DNA testing of the nursing home's male employees.

https://www.southcoasttoday.com/article/20000212/News/302129980

"A former nursing home aide who raped and impregnated a comatose patient was sentenced yesterday to 11 years in prison.

Israel Moret pleaded guilty in Essex Superior Court, admitting he raped the woman. The woman later gave birth prematurely to a baby who suffered severe brain damage. The baby now needs round-the-clock care just as her mother does.

.........

Police asked for male employees of the nursing home to submit blood samples and, using DNA matching, identified Moret as the father of the baby. He admitted yesterday to the judge that he was guilty." (more)

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
58. "asked" is the key.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 02:28 PM
Jan 2019

The legal issues (as to obtaining the samples) come if one or more refuse to cooperate.

FSogol

(45,484 posts)
30. Not that simple. There are visitors, delivery people, maintainace folks, temp medical staff, etc n/t
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:57 AM
Jan 2019

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
36. Yep, could be lots of people needed to be tested.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 11:00 AM
Jan 2019

Police can ask them to voluntarily submit DNA.

Crutchez_CuiBono

(7,725 posts)
33. Reminds me of Kill Bill, and that was the creepiest part of
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:59 AM
Jan 2019

a very creepy movie. It's sick. The DNA tests will out the culprit. We can be a very sick society.
In the movie, there was revenge.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
80. Any male that worked there or did maintenance or service runs there in the last year
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:39 PM
Jan 2019

should be tested. I would assume the baby has already gotten it's blood tested, the markers from that likely will help investigators narrow the list of potential rapists.

DFW

(54,372 posts)
22. This is not suspicion of a crime, but conclusive proof
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:50 AM
Jan 2019

Any DA would be remiss in NOT collecting DNA from male employees. The protection of the helpless patients must be the prime concern. They have the means. Do the tests.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
35. But there are also could be male visitors (not even to visit this woman specifically) but other
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:59 AM
Jan 2019

patients.

maxsolomon

(33,336 posts)
51. Cruel and Unusual punishment is unconstitutional
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 02:13 PM
Jan 2019

Like Prison Rape, vengeance cannot be part of a sentence.

Except when it can, like Capital Punishment.

LeftinOH

(5,354 posts)
45. This is a major plot element in the movie "Talk to Her" (2002)
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 11:15 AM
Jan 2019

As in - this is exactly what happens in the movie. Except, in the movie, pregnancy result in a stillborn baby - but it brings the woman out of a coma.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Talk_to_Her


 

ansible

(1,718 posts)
49. Used to work at a nursing home, honestly not surprised
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 12:29 PM
Jan 2019

Lots of fucked up shit goes on there that you will never hear about

Mike Nelson

(9,954 posts)
55. There is something very odd about...
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 02:23 PM
Jan 2019

… this story. Never been to AZ, and I don't know their TV news. Are we really to believe this woman being pregnant was not known until the baby was born? What kind of health care is this? Who could survive 14 years under such care? Was the woman married? Who is her power of attorney? I'm guessing - only guessing - she is unmarried and parents make the decisions? If they've kept her alive in a vegetative state for 14 years I'm guessing they are pro-life. However, nobody decided anything, because they did not know she was pregnant! After 14 years, I would expect being grossly overweight is not an issue. Also, what staff are there? Everyone with access to her needs to be screened as a possible rapist... there are, perhaps, multiple rapists... I hope the discover what happened.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
63. Well I hope the baby is OK
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 04:42 PM
Jan 2019

They can find out who the rapist is with DNA testing and put him away. Hopefully if she has family they will want to take the baby.

Jesus!

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
72. The baby is healthy, supposedly. Someone was BATHING this woman.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 07:42 PM
Jan 2019

Someone was providing nutrition to this pregnant woman -- enough nutrition so the baby was healthy.

There is NO WAY this woman went through a full term pregnancy and no one noticed.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
74. Why on Earth would a person be maintained
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 09:45 PM
Jan 2019

in a vegetative state for that long? There’s a lot of fucked-up shit in this story, and that part isn’t being discussed.

Kali

(55,008 posts)
77. my thought, too
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:03 PM
Jan 2019

I mean raping someone in that condition is horrific, but not letting them die for FOURTEEN years??!!!

nini

(16,672 posts)
82. A friend of mine was like that for about 20 years
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:46 PM
Jan 2019

before pneumonia finally got him.

Nothing special was done for him other than routine care. He was a great guy.. so sad.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
83. Hyper religious guardians or just people that don't believe in turning off a respirator.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 10:47 PM
Jan 2019

The Terry Sciavo case is Florida was in court for about that long as the parents fought the husband's request to have her respirator turned off.

Quixote1818

(28,930 posts)
76. This is one of the creepiest things I have ever heard
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 09:54 PM
Jan 2019

Right behind someone like Ted Bundy or some of the other crazy murderers who have sex with the people they kill and wear their skin.

 

shanny

(6,709 posts)
84. Rapist needs to be found and prosecuted
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 11:16 PM
Jan 2019

but how FUCKED UP is a health care system that keeps someone alive in a "persistent vegetative state" for 14 FUCKING YEARS?

Yes, I'm yelling. And I bet the answer will be found in who profits from it.

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