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The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,887 posts)
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:00 PM Jan 2019

Waiting in line at the local sandwich shop I was eavesdropping on a couple of old white guys

... and they were talking and laughing about how "disgusting" Trump's hamburger meal for the football players was, and how impressed they were with Julian Castro. So maybe there's hope...

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Waiting in line at the local sandwich shop I was eavesdropping on a couple of old white guys (Original Post) The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 OP
I shall call you DU Jacob. nt Tommy_Carcetti Jan 2019 #1
You have to get out of the hipster coffee shop once in a while, lol jberryhill Jan 2019 #55
Wow ... That is encouraging. CatMor Jan 2019 #2
There is hope! My old white guy spouse hates Trump as much as I do! 50 Shades Of Blue Jan 2019 #3
My old white guy thinks we deserve him marlakay Jan 2019 #19
While all Trump supporters are white RAB910 Jan 2019 #4
OF course. But the Trump supporter stereotype is the old white guy. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #6
You don't need to use the stereotype becuse it exists. It is ageism. wasupaloopa Jan 2019 #13
How is it ageism if it is statistically true? The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #21
I'm not saying it's ageism Major Nikon Jan 2019 #61
Good Grief njhoneybadger Jan 2019 #78
I'm an old white woman, too wryter2000 Jan 2019 #26
Go figure. I'll never understand how that could happen. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #27
Kind of a collective female Stockholm syndrome flibbitygiblets Jan 2019 #81
Most Christians vote for him, too. Mariana Jan 2019 #96
Not all rump supporters are white. cwydro Jan 2019 #25
I work with a Millennial black guy who thinks LuvNewcastle Jan 2019 #75
Welcome to DU, RAB910! calimary Jan 2019 #58
It's a good thing the OP never said they were, isn't it? nt. Mariana Jan 2019 #92
I'm an old white guy. bluescribbler Jan 2019 #5
As I said above, all the old white guys I know hate Trump, but the *stereotypical* Trump voter The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #7
And I'm happy to hear what you heard! (I'm an old white chick.) fierywoman Jan 2019 #8
Here's an encounter. panader0 Jan 2019 #9
That is your defence of your ageism? You seem to be unable to see yourself as some others do. wasupaloopa Jan 2019 #16
I'm old, too; downright elderly. Probably older than the guys I mentioned. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #20
There seems to be a common misconception that all old white guys are Trumpsters. Arkansas Granny Jan 2019 #10
Of course not all are, but the voter statistics show that Trump won The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #14
And older white women Catch2.2 Jan 2019 #98
I'm an old pinkish/gray guy.... safeinOhio Jan 2019 #11
I'm that color, too, though more a sort of pale freckly beige. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #15
Nothing is black or white safeinOhio Jan 2019 #18
Yes many of us old white guys are not as stupid or right wing as the ageists on DU assumes we are. wasupaloopa Jan 2019 #12
Which was really the point I was trying to make: The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #17
I kinda thought your point was as obvious as could be. LanternWaste Jan 2019 #23
Thank you! I was trying to make the point that the stereotype *isn't* necessarily the reality. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #24
They are misconstruing the point because they want to. HubertHeaver Jan 2019 #43
I hate it when DUers jump on each other. It is very tiresome indeed. Cousin Dupree Jan 2019 #48
Agree. Makes me very uncomfortable. hostalover Jan 2019 #62
I don't think anyone is purposely misconstruing ... LakeArenal Jan 2019 #57
Some forget that diversity INCLUDES old white guys.. Beartracks Jan 2019 #80
This old white woman understands your point perfectly lunatica Jan 2019 #45
👏🏾 BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2019 #66
That's a blast of great news, so good to hear. Thanks for passing it along. n/t Judi Lynn Jan 2019 #22
I'm an old white guy. Mr.Bill Jan 2019 #28
I get that a lot! Ohiogal Jan 2019 #36
So glad to live in a deep blue area jberryhill Jan 2019 #56
My area is mostly blue. (Northern California wine country) Mr.Bill Jan 2019 #63
Define "old" please. Madam Mossfern Jan 2019 #29
In this case, over 70, like me. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #30
A digression .... Madam Mossfern Jan 2019 #34
Ha, I had the same feeling when I had to fill out a form that asked for my age. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #35
Yes! +1000 That's what I say too! Hey, my dad is 91 and he calls 75 year olds "young people". skylucy Jan 2019 #53
My 96 year old mother calls me LibDemAlways Jan 2019 #72
I'm 70 and since I feel no older than 50 lunatica Jan 2019 #47
Here's my range jayschool2013 Jan 2019 #82
Not sure how anyone could read "a couple of old white guys" and have it come out "ALL OWGS" LakeSuperiorView Jan 2019 #31
Yeah, I guess I should have been clearer about the point I was trying to make, The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #33
This happens every time this kind of subject comes up. Mariana Jan 2019 #93
old white guys going after Trump is the best JI7 Jan 2019 #32
I'm an old white guy and I HATE THAT MOTHERFUCKER Goodheart Jan 2019 #37
Which place? geardaddy Jan 2019 #38
Sunstreet Breads. Try them some time, they have great pastries. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #39
The one on Nicollet and 46th? geardaddy Jan 2019 #40
That's the one. Great food, nice people. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #42
My mom is an 87-year-old white woman and she loathes the Circus Peanut. n/t geardaddy Jan 2019 #41
Old White Guy countryken Jan 2019 #44
I think the world needs more guitar players. redwitch Jan 2019 #76
I'm an old White guy and Trump has disgusted me... NNadir Jan 2019 #46
If he could have put it on the WH budget (gov't money) he would have had it at the Trump Hotel or c keithbvadu2 Jan 2019 #49
Spam deleted by MIR Team merryberry Jan 2019 #50
I'm an old 'white guy'. Not sure why age and race matters here ? left-of-center2012 Jan 2019 #51
I was *trying* to make the point that a stereotype doesn't always reflect reality. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #52
Recommended. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #54
So, is Castro their mayor? Why Castro? Honeycombe8 Jan 2019 #59
No idea; they seemed to be talking about possible candidates The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #60
I know more about the one in Congress. Honeycombe8 Jan 2019 #64
Former Secretary of HUD for Obama. shanny Jan 2019 #79
Hey, I'm an old white guy. What are you suggesting? Nitram Jan 2019 #65
I am suggesting - apparently not very effectively - that The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #67
I gave you a smile, so that doesn't count as jumping all over your ass. Nitram Jan 2019 #68
Thank you. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #69
I thought it came through pretty clearly. smirkymonkey Jan 2019 #95
OK good reply but GET OFF MY LAWN grantcart Jan 2019 #70
You're chasing OLD PEOPLE off your lawn? The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #71
I am an old white guy Gothmog Jan 2019 #73
According to USA Today 29% of Hispanics at140 Jan 2019 #74
Hispanics who are here legally are very much against illegal entry. cwydro Jan 2019 #85
They probably think it could have been much worse! athena Jan 2019 #88
I'm a white middle-aged guy True Dough Jan 2019 #77
Not all Old White Men... Catch2.2 Jan 2019 #83
Yes. That was exactly the point. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #84
I missed your point Catch2.2 Jan 2019 #86
You seem to be suggesting athena Jan 2019 #87
That was my point Catch2.2 Jan 2019 #89
You made a bad analogy. Mariana Jan 2019 #97
Yes, the OP gave an example of exactly that. Mariana Jan 2019 #94
Some of us old white guys have been progressives much longer than most of you have been around flyingfysh Jan 2019 #90
Once again.... The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #91

50 Shades Of Blue

(10,062 posts)
3. There is hope! My old white guy spouse hates Trump as much as I do!
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:05 PM
Jan 2019

If it were possible to hate Trump more than I do - he'd hate Trump more!

marlakay

(11,500 posts)
19. My old white guy thinks we deserve him
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:43 PM
Jan 2019

Since the country is in the toilet. He’s become an old grump in his old age, like kids get off my lawn kind of guy. Not sure where all the anger came from but got worse after retirement so i think some men feel worse after they quit.

I know he believes like I do, still watches Bill Maher and John Olliver with me, think just frustrated like the rest of us.

RAB910

(3,517 posts)
4. While all Trump supporters are white
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:11 PM
Jan 2019

while the vast majority are men

while the majority of them are old

Not all old white guys are Trump supporters

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,887 posts)
6. OF course. But the Trump supporter stereotype is the old white guy.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:16 PM
Jan 2019

And Trump did get more votes from old white guys than Hillary did. Being an old white woman, I know a number of old white guys, and all of them hate Trump.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
61. I'm not saying it's ageism
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 06:39 PM
Jan 2019

But stereotypes typically are supported by statistics. That doesn’t justify using them to generalize people.

wryter2000

(46,083 posts)
26. I'm an old white woman, too
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:54 PM
Jan 2019

And, unfortunately, more than 50% of white women (of all ages) voted for the creep.

flibbitygiblets

(7,220 posts)
81. Kind of a collective female Stockholm syndrome
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 12:23 PM
Jan 2019

They've been oppressed so long that freedom looks scary and unfamiliar. So they do the "safe^ thing and defer to the men.

This describes my MIL to a T.

Mariana

(14,861 posts)
96. Most Christians vote for him, too.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 07:27 PM
Jan 2019

Not just the Evangelicals, but the majority of all Christian voters.

LuvNewcastle

(16,860 posts)
75. I work with a Millennial black guy who thinks
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 06:57 AM
Jan 2019

Trump is good for the country because his antics get people to discuss current events. I told him that Hitler got people in Germany and the rest of the world discussing current events, too. Besides that, I don't really see a lot of discussing going on. People on both sides are yelling at each other, and a lot of them are really pissed. I don't know what some of these kids are thinking.

calimary

(81,523 posts)
58. Welcome to DU, RAB910!
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 06:24 PM
Jan 2019

I am pleased to add that they're not ALL like that, fortunately enough!

My husband is one. But he's the most enlightened and liberated man I ever encountered - especially when the first time was in the 1970s...!

Not only that, but you know that old cliche - "the older you get, the more conservative you get"? Not around casa de calimary!

bluescribbler

(2,123 posts)
5. I'm an old white guy.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:13 PM
Jan 2019

The first vote I ever cast was in the 1972 Presidential Primary, when I voted for Shirley Chisholm. I'm chair of my Ward Democratic Committee, and vice chair of my Democratic City Committee. I used to call myself a Kennedy Democrat. Now, I'm a Warren Democrat. Don't prejudge old white men.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,887 posts)
7. As I said above, all the old white guys I know hate Trump, but the *stereotypical* Trump voter
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:18 PM
Jan 2019

is the old white guy. So I'm always glad to encounter Trump-hating old white guys.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
9. Here's an encounter.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:22 PM
Jan 2019

Of my old white guy buddies, two are Trumpies, two are haters, and
a couple are not interested in politics. Only one, a hater, is truly informed.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,887 posts)
20. I'm old, too; downright elderly. Probably older than the guys I mentioned.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:43 PM
Jan 2019

You could also accuse me of stereotyping men or white people, which are the other parts of that demographic. Are you?

Arkansas Granny

(31,535 posts)
10. There seems to be a common misconception that all old white guys are Trumpsters.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:27 PM
Jan 2019

This is not necessarily the case. Stereotypes can be very misleading.

 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
12. Yes many of us old white guys are not as stupid or right wing as the ageists on DU assumes we are.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:33 PM
Jan 2019

72 year old white guy here. Still doing what we did in the 60's.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,887 posts)
17. Which was really the point I was trying to make:
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:40 PM
Jan 2019

The thread title was intended to raise the assumption that the old white guys discussing politics were pro-Trump, and they weren't. QED. The fact that this occurred in the People's Republic of Minneapolis might have been a factor as well.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
23. I kinda thought your point was as obvious as could be.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:50 PM
Jan 2019

Scratching my head why people are misconstruing it as something other than what it is. That is, I *hope* they're simply misconstruing the obvious rather than willfully and consciously looking to be oppressed by something... anything. Even something as benign as your sentiment.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,887 posts)
24. Thank you! I was trying to make the point that the stereotype *isn't* necessarily the reality.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 04:52 PM
Jan 2019

I'm glad somebody got it rather than choose to feel oppressed by something that was never intended at all.

HubertHeaver

(2,522 posts)
43. They are misconstruing the point because they want to.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 05:36 PM
Jan 2019

They look for a perceived weakness and try to amplify it. Quite common and tiresome.

LakeArenal

(28,855 posts)
57. I don't think anyone is purposely misconstruing ...
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 06:22 PM
Jan 2019

Why is it folks get upset over ethnic stereo typing or sexism but not for stereo typing old white guys. I don’t think it was meant to be insulting but some took it that way. Don’t minimize someone’s feelings or opinions.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
45. This old white woman understands your point perfectly
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 05:42 PM
Jan 2019

Purists are going to be the undoing of DU! They’re really irritating because they think everything, and I mean everything, is about them.

If you’re a older woman, be it white, black, brown or yellow you fucking get it! You get ageism and sexism and second classism!

Mansplaining is so yesterday!



Mr.Bill

(24,334 posts)
28. I'm an old white guy.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 05:05 PM
Jan 2019

I find it hilarious when other old white guys who I don't even know just walk up to me and start talking like we were both at the Trump rally last night. The soon find out that was a mistake.

Ohiogal

(32,106 posts)
36. I get that a lot!
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 05:25 PM
Jan 2019

Even though I am a *ahem* young looking 62 and female.

If you’re older than 50, and white, they just approach you like you’re one of them.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
56. So glad to live in a deep blue area
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 06:18 PM
Jan 2019

That assumption is certainly not common in my area (Delaware - home of old white guy, Joe Biden).

That would drive me bananas.

Mr.Bill

(24,334 posts)
63. My area is mostly blue. (Northern California wine country)
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 06:58 PM
Jan 2019

That's why they have to seek out total strangers to talk politics to. There's far more of us than them. I never walk up to total strangers and start talking politics. I already have plenty of friends and family who think like I do.

Madam Mossfern

(2,340 posts)
34. A digression ....
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 05:15 PM
Jan 2019

I was getting a PET scan and the imaging center put a hospital bracelet on me.
While I was in the waiting room, I glanced at what it said - It had my name and then F 70.
Freaked me out. It's true, but I don't think of myself as old except when I saw my age
printed on that band. It was just so strange. My husband had the same experience when he
was in for a kidney stone.

I think the new "old" is 85 - at least for me.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,887 posts)
35. Ha, I had the same feeling when I had to fill out a form that asked for my age.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 05:17 PM
Jan 2019

Damn, am I really that old? So now "old" is any age that's at least 10-15 years older than mine.

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
72. My 96 year old mother calls me
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 11:36 PM
Jan 2019

(age 66) and my brother (age 57) "kids." It's all a matter of perspective.

jayschool2013

(2,313 posts)
82. Here's my range
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 01:32 PM
Jan 2019

0-22 = Youth
22-45 = Young Adulthood
45-65 = Middle Age (I'm rapidly coming to the end of this period)
65-90 = Old Age
90+= Bonus Time

 

LakeSuperiorView

(1,533 posts)
31. Not sure how anyone could read "a couple of old white guys" and have it come out "ALL OWGS"
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 05:09 PM
Jan 2019

It must be like the "I see dead people" thing, they only see what they want to see.

SMH.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,887 posts)
33. Yeah, I guess I should have been clearer about the point I was trying to make,
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 05:15 PM
Jan 2019

which was that because there is a statistical likelihood that a random old white guy voted for (or still likes) Trump, it's easy to assume that all old white guys are Trump fans - and that that assumption is not correct, and it's heartening to see that it's not correct.

Mariana

(14,861 posts)
93. This happens every time this kind of subject comes up.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 07:15 PM
Jan 2019

There's an element of defensiveness, I'm sure. It's a fact that most voters over 45 cast ballots for Trump. It's a fact that most men voted for him. It's a fact that most white voters did. It's a fact that most Christians did.

Pointing out these facts doesn't imply in the slightest that all the members of those various groups voted for Trump, but certain people will insist upon taking it that way.

countryken

(114 posts)
44. Old White Guy
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 05:38 PM
Jan 2019

This Old White Guy thinks Individual One is an awful human being. Most Old White Guys I know feel likewise. However most Old White Guys I know play the guitar, so my sample might be skewed.

redwitch

(14,948 posts)
76. I think the world needs more guitar players.
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 07:03 AM
Jan 2019

And musician in general. With a few awful exceptions like Ted nugent they are interested in people and enjoy diversity. Plus, they make music. I think music is one of the best things we humans do.

keithbvadu2

(36,949 posts)
49. If he could have put it on the WH budget (gov't money) he would have had it at the Trump Hotel or c
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 05:49 PM
Jan 2019

Donald says he paid for the fast food himself.

Cheapskate billionaire springs for fast food.

If he could have put it on the WH budget (gov't money) he would have had it at the Trump Hotel or catered by his hotel... and it would have been first class.

Response to The Velveteen Ocelot (Original post)

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,887 posts)
60. No idea; they seemed to be talking about possible candidates
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 06:36 PM
Jan 2019

and they both remarked that they were impressed with him.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
64. I know more about the one in Congress.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 06:59 PM
Jan 2019

The Castro brothers have an interesting history. Being a mayor of a non-huge city isn't a very high position. Could be he'd be a good V.P. choice.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,887 posts)
67. I am suggesting - apparently not very effectively - that
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 08:13 PM
Jan 2019

despite the stereotype of old white guys being Trump supporters (and statistically, any random old white guy was more likely to have voted for Trump than for Clinton), they aren't, necessarily. I am trying to point out that the stereotype isn't always the reality and that it's nice to see that borne out in real life. Even on DU there has been a lot of old-white-guy bashing (e.g., certain members of Congress and even Joe Biden) and I am actually standing up for old white guys. So please don't jump all over my ass and assume facts not in evidence.

Nitram

(22,900 posts)
68. I gave you a smile, so that doesn't count as jumping all over your ass.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 08:30 PM
Jan 2019

No one likes to be lumped into a class of Trump voters.

at140

(6,110 posts)
74. According to USA Today 29% of Hispanics
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 02:05 AM
Jan 2019

Last edited Wed Jan 16, 2019, 12:53 PM - Edit history (1)

Hispanics voted for tRump in 2016! Can some one explain why, when he wants to build a wall on Mexico border?

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
85. Hispanics who are here legally are very much against illegal entry.
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 02:17 PM
Jan 2019

I lived in south Florida for years.

Every Cuban I knew was a Republican.

athena

(4,187 posts)
88. They probably think it could have been much worse!
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 02:23 PM
Jan 2019

We could have had a woman leading us!

I hope that answers your question, not just about Hispanic people but also about lots of other people who also voted for Trump. I knew a Jewish woman who voted for Trump. Sexism runs deep, and not just in men.

True Dough

(17,337 posts)
77. I'm a white middle-aged guy
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 07:11 AM
Jan 2019

but if I were an old white guy I would be so offended at this thread! I would expect The Velveteen Ocelot to explain for the 18th time that she didn't mean ALL old white guys are Trump voters, just that statistically many of them fall into that category.

Catch2.2

(629 posts)
86. I missed your point
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 02:19 PM
Jan 2019

Like others on here did. Maybe it could have been made a little better as it read as though you were saying that the majority of old white guys are racist trump supporters, thank god there's a couple that aren't.

athena

(4,187 posts)
87. You seem to be suggesting
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 02:19 PM
Jan 2019

that most women are “weak” and “emotional”. They are not. But most white men did vote for Trump.

Please try not to perpetuate sexist stereotypes.

Mariana

(14,861 posts)
97. You made a bad analogy.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 07:38 PM
Jan 2019

It's a fact that most old people, most white people, and most men voted for Trump. Those old white men who didn't vote for him are the minority of old white men. The OP wrote about a couple of members of that minority of old white men.

It isn't a fact that most women are weak, emotional, etc. You made a bad analogy.

Mariana

(14,861 posts)
94. Yes, the OP gave an example of exactly that.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 07:21 PM
Jan 2019

The OP illustrates that not all old white men are evil, racist, misogynist, etc.

flyingfysh

(1,990 posts)
90. Some of us old white guys have been progressives much longer than most of you have been around
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:43 AM
Jan 2019

(I will be 73 this year). Among other things, I was at a huge March on Washington to protest Vietnam during the Nixon era. I remember they had buses parked end to end all around the White House, and there were snipers stationed on rooftops. Nixon chose to be out of town for that.

Don't assume that just because we look like some Trump people, then we must be Trump people.

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