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tenderfoot

(8,437 posts)
Sat Jan 19, 2019, 12:10 PM Jan 2019

NYC upscale restaurant bans women from eating at the bar because they may be Escorts

Upper East Side Restaurant Nello Bans Single Women From Eating At The Bar



Because, apparently, the owners consider all of us escorts, and they have "special" seating rules for them.

And yes, this is as disgustingly ridiculous as it sounds, so let's backtrack.

This week, in an essay titled "The Night I Was Mistaken for a Call Girl," jet-setting creative executive Clementine Crawford shared her dehumanizing (in more ways than one) experience at her favorite uptown eatery upon a recent trip to New York.

"I perched at my favourite seat at the bar and started to respond to all the emails that had arrived on the flight over," she explains. "A waiter approached – a familiar face, but oddly hesitant on this occasion. He advised – with evident embarrassment – that I was no longer permitted to eat at my usual spot and that I must now sit down at a table."

When she returned a few days later, she was told to move yet again. Then, from her new table, she watched as a fellow regular - a male one, that is - was served his meal without incident while perched on a stool at the bar. After rightfully speaking up, Crawford learned "that the owner had ordered a crackdown on hookers" and assumed management believed "upscale escorts working the bar lowered the tone of the place and would be less obvious if escorted behind a table."

She spoke to an owner, explained that she had been misidentified, and he responded "that he could run his business as he pleased, and that [she] was no longer welcome to eat at the bar, only at a table."

https://guestofaguest.com/new-york/restaurants/upper-east-side-restaurant-nello-bans-single-women-from-eating-at-the-bar

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NYC upscale restaurant bans women from eating at the bar because they may be Escorts (Original Post) tenderfoot Jan 2019 OP
Future News Story Headline - "Upper East Side Bistro Closes Suddenly" MineralMan Jan 2019 #1
Newsflash: not all sex workers are women. Girard442 Jan 2019 #2
Stupidity is one of the only forces in the world 100% free from discrimination. nycbos Jan 2019 #7
This infuriates me. cwydro Jan 2019 #3
Well, there are reviews on Yelp and TripAdvisor MineralMan Jan 2019 #5
Thanks! I'll try to find them. cwydro Jan 2019 #18
Sick of this riverwalker Jan 2019 #4
Is this the fucking 1950s? How the fuck do you expect to get away with this shit? bullwinkle428 Jan 2019 #6
women have to deal with a lot of shit Hermit-The-Prog Jan 2019 #8
This place should be renamed NULLO. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #9
Or Incello NightWatcher Jan 2019 #11
LOL! The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #12
I have a NYC trip planned in the near future. Paladin Jan 2019 #10
Sex worker discrimination is still a big problem in the US. Oneironaut Jan 2019 #13
If they are worried about call girls why are the Johns MaryMagdaline Jan 2019 #14
Very Saudi of the owner superpatriotman Jan 2019 #15
He's Romanian. A descendent of Vlad the Impaler. smirkymonkey Jan 2019 #20
Protest outside his business MagickMuffin Jan 2019 #16
I never get mistaken for a call guy! panader0 Jan 2019 #17
so why not ban the Johns, too? librechik Jan 2019 #19

MineralMan

(146,319 posts)
1. Future News Story Headline - "Upper East Side Bistro Closes Suddenly"
Sat Jan 19, 2019, 12:21 PM
Jan 2019

Stupid Owner - Stupid Rules! Now Out Of Business!

Running a restaurant in NYC is an iffy proposition, at best. Even well-financed, popular eateries close almost daily there. Now, this moron who owns this restaurant has done his best to kill his own business.

Why does he even care who eats at the bar? People come in, order some food and a drink, and then they leave. But, no...this moron decides that pretty women who sit at the bar are hookers, so no more of that nonsense.

Well, he'll soon be looking for a new location for a restaurant with a new name. NELLO is done.

MineralMan

(146,319 posts)
5. Well, there are reviews on Yelp and TripAdvisor
Sat Jan 19, 2019, 12:29 PM
Jan 2019

They're not, shall we say, complimentary.

The news media has also picked up the story. NELLO will soon be NOLLO! Its owner is a moron, to say the least.

riverwalker

(8,694 posts)
4. Sick of this
Sat Jan 19, 2019, 12:26 PM
Jan 2019

The reason I like airports, is it’s the only time I can go up to a bar and have a drink without being self conscious, or guys thinking I’m there to get picked up.
It’s a simple luxury men have.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,776 posts)
9. This place should be renamed NULLO.
Sat Jan 19, 2019, 12:47 PM
Jan 2019

"Privilege" is basically a list of shit a person doesn't have to put up with. Male privilege includes being able to eat a meal at a bar without being assumed to be a prostitute.

Paladin

(28,267 posts)
10. I have a NYC trip planned in the near future.
Sat Jan 19, 2019, 12:56 PM
Jan 2019

I know one restaurant I won't be patronizing. A guy has to maintain his standards, after all.

Oneironaut

(5,509 posts)
13. Sex worker discrimination is still a big problem in the US.
Sat Jan 19, 2019, 01:10 PM
Jan 2019

It's also a culturally-accepted form of discrimination.

MaryMagdaline

(6,855 posts)
14. If they are worried about call girls why are the Johns
Sat Jan 19, 2019, 01:21 PM
Jan 2019

Allowed to sit at the counters? Just move them to tables so it will be harder for them to make a connection.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
20. He's Romanian. A descendent of Vlad the Impaler.
Sat Jan 19, 2019, 02:12 PM
Jan 2019

Seriously. Look him up - Nello Balan. He looks like a big pig. I am SURE he has never hired a sex worker.

MagickMuffin

(15,944 posts)
16. Protest outside his business
Sat Jan 19, 2019, 01:36 PM
Jan 2019

WE ARE NOT WHORES

WE ARE NOT CALL GIRLS

WE ARE NOT ESCORTS

WE ARE BUSINESS PROFESSIONALS


And better yet write your thoughts down on those very lovely linens on the tables!!!


Or a large group of women take over the bar. No room for the men.










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