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shockey80

(4,379 posts)
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 01:12 PM Jan 2019

I must clarify a recent post I wrote. Some people here took it the wrong way.

I stated I would never work without pay. A few people here got upset with me. I understood where they were coming from. That's the problem with posting on-line, people don't know the person who is posting. It could be someone talking shit, acting tough.

Here is the reason I would not work without pay. I have done it before. It was one of the most important lessons about life I have ever learned.

In 1994, our boss ordered us to work overtime without pay under the threat of being fired. Everyone was stunned. No one said a word.
This was 1994, I didn't think this could happen in America. The boss told us he was going to break the law and fire us if we did not agree.

After he told us this we all went back to work. I knew I was not going to do it. I had to figure out a way to win this battle without getting fired by 5pm. 5 pm I was going to punch out and go home. Like ever worker there I could not afford to lose my job and health insurance. I was going to refuse anyway.

The first thing I tried to do was talk to the workers. I asked them to unite with me and try to talk some sense to the boss. Every worker refused. They laid down, they were all going to work overtime for free. Because we were still getting paid for forty hours that made it LESS likely the workers would risk their jobs. This is when I learned I was cut from a different piece of cloth. I was on my own and I was not going to back down. The stress was off the charts.

All day I tried to come up with an idea, I failed. 5pm I stopped working and punched out. All the other workers stayed and worked for free. A crime was being committed against them and they went along because they were afraid.

I went home expecting to be fired they next day. When I got home I started to dry heave from the stress. It was horrible.

The next morning the boss called me in the office. Why did you punch out at 5pm, he was angry. I told him I can't work without pay. He did not fire me right then. He told me I had to do it and if I punched out again at five he would fire me. I went to work and I felt my entire spirit dying. I knew I was going to be fired. Then fate took over.

The district manager for the East coast branches paid a surprise visit. I stared at him asking myself this question, did he give that order to my boss or was my boss doing it on his own. I did not know, I decided to take a shot. I asked the district manager if I could talk to him alone. I went off and told him what my boss was doing, not knowing if he was the one who gave the order. DAM!

He listened, never said a word, turned and walked away. Oops. I went back to work and about an hour later they called me into the office. All of management was there except for the district manager. I thought I was fired. The boss said, starting today everyone will be paid for overtime. He also told me that they would be watching me. One mistake I would be fired. They would get me, it was just a matter of time. Then something happened I did not except. I no longer feared being fired, all the stress was gone because I had done what was right and I had won. I felt great.

I did not do this because I am tough guy who is fearless, no way. I was scared to death. I did this because that's how I am made. I can't change it. If I had done what the boss wanted everything I am inside would have been destroyed for the rest of my life. I would never be able to look in the mirror again. Thats the best I can explain it.

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I must clarify a recent post I wrote. Some people here took it the wrong way. (Original Post) shockey80 Jan 2019 OP
Nice job you got there. Be terrible if sumthin' was to happen to it. ret5hd Jan 2019 #1
Being forced to work without pay is slavery. It's slavery. SharonAnn Jan 2019 #53
Horrible treatment by your ex boss. You did it because it was the right thing to do. ... SWBTATTReg Jan 2019 #2
Let me tell what I said to the other workers after I won back their overtime pay. shockey80 Jan 2019 #3
Really. I do believe we all have guardians watching over us all and not from a christian belief... SWBTATTReg Jan 2019 #4
It may also have been the way you were brought up. LisaM Jan 2019 #19
I saw problems... druidity33 Jan 2019 #38
A LARGE, not often mentioned......... MyOwnPeace Jan 2019 #52
? Smackdown2019 Jan 2019 #51
There are people who would work other people to death if they thought they could get away with it. 47of74 Jan 2019 #5
I've gotten what I needed in tight spot more than once. Living without fear changes everything. marble falls Jan 2019 #6
Great post. tomg Jan 2019 #7
K&R. I missed your original post but I'm glad you expanded on your thoughts and experience. alwaysinasnit Jan 2019 #8
Inspiring Shockey. I am made the same way and it has cost me many times. But,we are who we are. Power 2 the People Jan 2019 #9
you're last paragraph can be the same words every person who stood up for the greater good has said. Javaman Jan 2019 #10
Just my opinion, grain of salt saidsimplesimon Jan 2019 #11
I don't know what kind of a job it is, but I am glad that TSA and controllers continue to work question everything Jan 2019 #12
If they stopped working Trump and the GOP would cave. Same applies to the Coast Guard etc. TeamPooka Jan 2019 #31
Great story of courage! You showed it only takes one to push for the law. Your win sets the example. ancianita Jan 2019 #13
Thank you, shockey80 for your inspirational story. KY_EnviroGuy Jan 2019 #14
echoing #7 here. "because I had done what was right". yonder Jan 2019 #15
I work as a substitite teacher at a small suburban LibDemAlways Jan 2019 #16
I must be cut from the same cloth DirtEdonE Jan 2019 #17
Beautiful! JustAnotherGen Jan 2019 #30
Welcome to DU, DirtEdonE! calimary Jan 2019 #47
Thank you for posting that. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2019 #18
K&R backtoblue Jan 2019 #20
Excellent. You did the right thing. Always be true to yourself. CaptainTruth Jan 2019 #21
I am one of the workers billh58 Jan 2019 #22
Sounds to me like you should have called a union to organize. louis c Jan 2019 #23
Maybe he was in a dumbass "right to work" state. Nt raccoon Jan 2019 #27
You can still form a union in a RTW state... louis c Jan 2019 #28
You just cant leave this alone, can you? cwydro Jan 2019 #24
But this one is getting a much better response EffieBlack Jan 2019 #32
Lol. This story is much different from the original. cwydro Jan 2019 #33
You have no idea what you are talking about. shockey80 Jan 2019 #34
Dude, I read your previous threads too. Tipperary Jan 2019 #37
I don't know what you are talking about. shockey80 Jan 2019 #39
I'm with you. sandensea Jan 2019 #40
You have no idea what you are talking about. shockey80 Jan 2019 #35
Come on, is this necessary? uppityperson Jan 2019 #36
I want to tell you a similar story.. mountain grammy Jan 2019 #25
Good for you! My experience too has been that many workers raccoon Jan 2019 #26
I've Given Various Bosses The River Jan 2019 #29
I was sort of a minor critic of your OP's...since there were several. I had no problem understanding dameatball Jan 2019 #41
Well said EffieBlack Jan 2019 #43
My hat is off to you, good sir. man4allcats Jan 2019 #42
This is one reason why unions are great Blue Owl Jan 2019 #44
Solidarity! jimlup Jan 2019 #45
I worked for a guy who "stole" customer contact information from a competitor of his... George II Jan 2019 #46
Nice post. PatrickforO Jan 2019 #48
This is such a sad story... StarzGuy Jan 2019 #49
Way to go Ohioboy Jan 2019 #50

SWBTATTReg

(22,144 posts)
2. Horrible treatment by your ex boss. You did it because it was the right thing to do. ...
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 01:24 PM
Jan 2019

Unfortunately some can't take the risk and not go to work, but you did. I wonder if any of then later expressed their thanks to you?

Thanks for posting this. I didn't see your original post in that you rec'd some grief on, sorry to hear this. It does happen on DU, but that's our community here, give and take, but overall, its a support for all of us.

Take care and thanks for posting your story, and sticking up for your beliefs.

 

shockey80

(4,379 posts)
3. Let me tell what I said to the other workers after I won back their overtime pay.
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 01:37 PM
Jan 2019

I walked into the lunch room and told all of them, the next time you get your pay check, I did that. Every one of them sat there looking down. They couldn't look me in the face.

I forgot to say this. A few weeks after all this happened, I had not been fired yet, I got a letter in the mail. It was from a job I had applied to 5 years earlier. They hired me. It was a fucking miracle. I must have a guardian angel.

SWBTATTReg

(22,144 posts)
4. Really. I do believe we all have guardians watching over us all and not from a christian belief...
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 01:42 PM
Jan 2019

but my belief. Life has karma...karma has mysterious ways of awarding those who deserve it.

Thanks and take care of yourself!!

LisaM

(27,815 posts)
19. It may also have been the way you were brought up.
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 03:09 PM
Jan 2019

Last edited Thu Jan 24, 2019, 08:37 PM - Edit history (1)

My boyfriend's sister did this, at a restaurant she worked at. She looked up the law, found out that everyone had been stiffed on OT, and turned the management in. Everyone got back pay because of her. But what made her this way? Her family (like mine) brought her up to walk picket lines, to take the side of workers and unions, and to know what the law was all about. The other workers weren't bad people for working longer hours. They weren't educated to know differently.

This was in a small town on an island that thinks of themselves as liberal, but I'd call more libertarian - and it just wasn't built into the people to fight these fights.

druidity33

(6,446 posts)
38. I saw problems...
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 08:22 PM
Jan 2019

and organized my small Co-op into a Union shop. In our 3rd round of contract negotiations now. Working with Interest Based Bargaining... a non adversarial bargaining process. We'll see how it goes.

Solidarity!

K&R

MyOwnPeace

(16,929 posts)
52. A LARGE, not often mentioned.........
Fri Jan 25, 2019, 01:27 PM
Jan 2019

problem that has been going on since the "Raygun" years has been the Republican destruction of unions.

 

47of74

(18,470 posts)
5. There are people who would work other people to death if they thought they could get away with it.
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 01:56 PM
Jan 2019

tomg

(2,574 posts)
7. Great post.
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 02:12 PM
Jan 2019

Thanks. The most vital line in all of it. "I did not do this because I am tough guy who is fearless, no way. I was scared to death." That, to me, is when you know you are doing what is right: when you are scared, but you can't do anything else and stay yourself. Seriously, thanks for reminding me to stay that kind of scared.

alwaysinasnit

(5,066 posts)
8. K&R. I missed your original post but I'm glad you expanded on your thoughts and experience.
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 02:28 PM
Jan 2019

And yeah, what you did took guts.

Power 2 the People

(2,437 posts)
9. Inspiring Shockey. I am made the same way and it has cost me many times. But,we are who we are.
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 02:38 PM
Jan 2019

What I have learned is, most people talk a good game but when it comes time to stand up they fade into the background hoping someone else will do it for them. I'm always reminded of this quote from MLK:

Javaman

(62,531 posts)
10. you're last paragraph can be the same words every person who stood up for the greater good has said.
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 02:39 PM
Jan 2019

you are an inspiration.

the most important things in life are done because they are difficult, not because they are easy.

question everything

(47,493 posts)
12. I don't know what kind of a job it is, but I am glad that TSA and controllers continue to work
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 02:49 PM
Jan 2019

because, well, they feel responsible.

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,492 posts)
14. Thank you, shockey80 for your inspirational story.
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 02:55 PM
Jan 2019

All of our youth in America should read this. Too many are brainwashed to worship the corporate world.....

Keep repeating your story every chance you get!......

yonder

(9,668 posts)
15. echoing #7 here. "because I had done what was right".
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 02:56 PM
Jan 2019

That's is all anyone can do: a guidepost for living life with both tough and easy choices. And everyone with a conscience is constantly challenged to stay true to that path. You did well back in 1994 - I'm not sure I could've done the same.

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
16. I work as a substitite teacher at a small suburban
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 02:58 PM
Jan 2019

district in Southern California. I am 66 years old, retired from fulltime teaching years ago, and do it for the extra income. What some of you may not know is that for the most part substitute teachers are public employees who are generally not represented under union contracts. This allows school districts to treat substitutes like shit. Pay varies throughout the country. My district currently pays $120/day and half that for a half day. Paychecks are withheld for a minimum of an entire month, and a day worked may not be paid for nearly two months. If I work 9/1, for example, I will not see pay for that day until 10/31. Of course, needless to say, we receive no benefits. The district requires that substitutes be fully credentialed teachers. I earned a Bachelor's degree Magna Cum Laude from a state university and a teaching credential valid in K-12. As a substitute, I am expected to be "on call" and drop everything at a moment's notice to take over for a teacher or aide at any grade level and in any subject. It's a high stress job with a considerable amount of responsibility, and there is no good reason why substitutes, who perform a vital service, are consistently kicked to the curb.

Recently, fire swept through this area and schools were closed. Every employee and family of a student in the district received notification by phone. Everyone, that is, except substitute teachers. Another substitute and I subsequently arranged a meeting with an administrator to discuss why we had been left out of the loop. What an eye opener that was. She told us we were not "real" employees and did not deserve notification.

I also used the meeting to ask why substitutes were not paid for mandatory training we were required to take earlier in the year. Federal and state law requires that mandatory training be paid. The woman looked at me like I had two heads and dared me to show her the law. That night I located the statute and e-mailed it to her, again asking to be paid. Her response: crickets. I have subsequently filed a complaint with the state labor board and am awaiting a response. I hate that it's come to this over a lousy few dollars, but it's the principle of the thing. This is a wealthy district in which many teachers earn in the six figures. The info is available on the Transparent California website, and it pisses me off that we are thought so little of, they barely see fit to pay us at all.

I applaud you for refusing to work without pay. Employers should never expect anyone to work without monetary compensation. If the Federal employees working without pay followed your lead, this shutdown would be over.

 

DirtEdonE

(1,220 posts)
17. I must be cut from the same cloth
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 02:59 PM
Jan 2019

Hi. I joined Democratic Underground today just to reply to this thread.
I worked at a major food hauler for many years back in the last century. We were unionized and we had a master freight contract which means we received top Teamster pay and benefits. We were a division of the largest food hauler in North America at the time.
When the parent company fired the president of our division and replaced him with a Wall St. "wizard" we all knew it was the beginning of the end. Within five years they started closing union divisions and opening non-union shops to take up the former union work which was a direct violation of our contract.
To make matter worse, our contract was up at the time and the company refused to re-negotiate. We were forced to choose to work without a contract or go home. They were selling the division to a smaller competitor, period. But we had the company in the palm of our hands. Supermarkets up and down the East Coast depended on us for on-time food deliveries of most of the products on their shelves. We could have refused to work without a contract and stopped the deal in its tracks.
Yet when the time came to stand together and stop the company from their illegal actions forcing us to work without a contract and ultimately axing all of of our jobs, none of our over 500 union employees stood together.
I talked to a labor lawyer who could stop the entire deal in its tracks within a week but he needed $7K to go to court.
NONE of my union brothers and sisters would even chip in a measly $50 a piece to start a war chest to take on the criminals at corporate.
I felt exactly what you felt, Shockey. I'm no tough guy either. I was scared too. But I can't change the way I'm hard-wired.
I came out on top. The rest of them are still trying to recover after over 25 years. Because I was true to my beliefs and I wouldn't be blackmailed by corporate crooks. I read my contract and I knew my rights.
I just pray that the USA is hard-wired the same way so we can rid ourselves of this fake corporate curse in the White House instead of capitulating like cowards.
Good for you, Shockey. Never change.

JustAnotherGen

(31,828 posts)
30. Beautiful!
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 05:26 PM
Jan 2019


Welcome to DU! I'm a bit more MIA these days than in the past - but every once in awhile I pop on here and read something makes me say -


Aaaaah - there's my 'tribe'.

calimary

(81,350 posts)
47. Welcome to DU, DirtEdonE!
Fri Jan 25, 2019, 02:52 AM
Jan 2019

Sounds like an excellent way to start up!

When I read shockey80's post, what saddened me most about the OP was that evidently nobody said thank you. If somebody had gone to the mat so I could get paid for the overtime I put in, that's the first thing I'd want to do.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,865 posts)
18. Thank you for posting that.
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 03:02 PM
Jan 2019

It's important to stand up to people like that boss and refuse to work without pay. Or at the very least report the business to whatever agency is in charge.

Here's an opposite story. When my sons were teens they worked at the local movie theater, six screens. One day they were both off and we'd gone there to see a movie. When we arrived, a good 15 minutes before the movie was to start, the manager said, "Hey, guys, I've just gotten a shipment of stuff, and would you be willing to help bring it into the theater?" They both said yes and the next words out of his mouth were, "Thanks. Go clock in now."

He was a good manager, and they'd have done that task on their own time, and it probably took all of ten minutes to accomplish the chore. But he was not about to take advantage of them.

More bosses should be like him.

billh58

(6,635 posts)
22. I am one of the workers
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 04:01 PM
Jan 2019

who is currently out of work because of the shutdown. Although I admire your spirit there is a difference between your story and what is happening to those government workers who are being forced to work without pay.

Your position was not classified as "essential" by the US Government. Government workers whose jobs have been classified as essential to the public interest may not refuse to come to work and can (and most likely will) be fired for refusing to work.

Your position did not come with a guarantee of paid back wages for working without pay.

Because of those reasons, certain government workers can not simply refuse to work without pay, and this has been held up in various courts.

 

louis c

(8,652 posts)
28. You can still form a union in a RTW state...
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 04:36 PM
Jan 2019

...all right to work does is allow union members to retain membership without paying dues.

You still can have a union. By way of example, Nevada is a RTW state and yet some of the strongest unions in America are located in Las Vegas

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
24. You just cant leave this alone, can you?
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 04:07 PM
Jan 2019

What’s this? The fifth thread on how much superior you are to federal workers?

What happened to your story about the sympathetic doctor who kept you out of work?

Amazing how this story keeps changing.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
37. Dude, I read your previous threads too.
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 08:19 PM
Jan 2019

People are going to question when they see a different story each time. I mean, come on.

 

shockey80

(4,379 posts)
39. I don't know what you are talking about.
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 08:26 PM
Jan 2019

If I told another story it was because it was about something else. I don't make up different stories about the same thing. Strange. I may have been talking about something that happened at another job. I have been through lots of battles at work, at different jobs.

sandensea

(21,640 posts)
40. I'm with you.
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 08:41 PM
Jan 2019

You were sharing an intense personal story of courage in the face of power and redemption - and one that many, if not most, of us can relate to.

It may not be exactly like what many federal employees are going through with Idi Trumpin. But it definitely speaks to the abuse and callous disregard he's subjecting them to.

That's how I wish everyone read it.

To me, their current dilemma - and your story - speaks to this wider trend we're seeing in the erosion of our rights as workers, if we happen to be employed. Corporate America in general - and even many smaller employers - are constantly floating trial balloons to see just how much they can get away with.

I for one am glad you shared that. Here's hoping they can stand up to this and win.

mountain grammy

(26,630 posts)
25. I want to tell you a similar story..
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 04:08 PM
Jan 2019

my son was working for a pizza chain, I think Dominos but it might have been Pizza Hut. He was 16. He was diligent about getting to work on time and had a great work ethic. then it started to change.. for several days we had to remind him it was time to go to work and he went reluctantly. Finally, one day he says, doesn't matter if I get there on time the boss won't let us punch in until it gets busy.

My husband stopped dead in his tracks. Say that again? My son repeated it, said it had been going on for a couple of months. My husband said, how much do you want to keep that job, cause I'm calling everyone up the chain. My son said no problem. Husband got to the regional manager and asked why they were stealing from their employees and he was going public.

Needless to say, everything changed at the store, but the manager made my son's life miserable and he eventually found a new job. Now, granted, this wasn't really a livelihood like your's was, but our kid was demoralized by the sheer dishonesty of it all. it's amazing what they'll get away with if they can and nobody better to push around than people who won't stand up and do what's right.

You did it. I admire you for that.

raccoon

(31,111 posts)
26. Good for you! My experience too has been that many workers
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 04:21 PM
Jan 2019

are so docile. Most of them won’t stand together for anything.

The River

(2,615 posts)
29. I've Given Various Bosses
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 04:49 PM
Jan 2019

the middle finger more than 80 times during my 45+ years of
working. I'd rather drink muddy water and live in a hollow
log before putting up w/workplace shit. When it came to jobs
I was like a Honey Badger; I just didn't give f*ck.

dameatball

(7,399 posts)
41. I was sort of a minor critic of your OP's...since there were several. I had no problem understanding
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 09:36 PM
Jan 2019

your message and I did not need any explanation, although l appreciate the fact that you tried. Let me be as honest as you. I thought your characterization of federal employees that did not toe your line as "sheep" was insulting and uncalled for. In fact, your repeated posts on the same subject seemed to me to be more of an ego trip than anything else. I'm glad you came back and explained things as it is indeed common to misunderstand the written words on a website. But you did come across as a holier than thou jerk.

Meanwhile, hundreds of thousands of government employees are faced with difficult decisions and your constant ranting on how they should make those decisions is quite insulting to them. Do not assume that you understand their particular circumstances.


I quit a job once not long after we had our first born child. It was scary. But I do not condemn those who choose otherwise, nor do I refer to them as sheep. I honestly believe that most of us on DU are like minded. Calling names is not helpful. Please do not think that your experience is unique and a model for the behavior of others.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
43. Well said
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 10:52 PM
Jan 2019


The “if only government employees were as fearless as I am” posts are pretty sickening.

man4allcats

(4,026 posts)
42. My hat is off to you, good sir.
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 10:48 PM
Jan 2019

I am also the type of person that just can't knuckle under to Injustice. It's not that I'm a hero. Getting into these kinds of fights has always scared me to death. The only thing I feared more was walking away from them. At times, it did cost me, but I always slept well.

Kudos to you for doing the right thing.

Blue Owl

(50,448 posts)
44. This is one reason why unions are great
Thu Jan 24, 2019, 10:56 PM
Jan 2019

They have your back when it comes to issues like this...

Props to you for handling your situation like a pro, and not a pee-on!

George II

(67,782 posts)
46. I worked for a guy who "stole" customer contact information from a competitor of his...
Fri Jan 25, 2019, 12:23 AM
Jan 2019

...who was also a friend/colleague of his.

The person he stole it from knew about it and knew me (I previously worked for him for 2 years), and he asked me to be deposed by his attorney and tell him everything I knew. I agreed.

The guy who stole it from heard about that and told me if I went to the deposition he'd fire me.

I did it, and that night called him and said, "I did it, fire me." Which he did. I was unemployed but I felt great that I did the right thing. Hah! Two weeks later I got a great job, the best I ever had up until then.

PatrickforO

(14,582 posts)
48. Nice post.
Fri Jan 25, 2019, 03:09 AM
Jan 2019

Not everyone has your intestinal fortitude, and that is sad.

If we all put our hands in our pockets for a couple weeks, we could right a lot of wrongs.

That said, I don't know if I would have done that. When I was young, but not now, I think.

StarzGuy

(254 posts)
49. This is such a sad story...
Fri Jan 25, 2019, 12:18 PM
Jan 2019

...but doesn't surprise me in the least. The demise of worker unions began with Saint Ronny Reagan and just continued with repuke rule of our government. It was not just with federal government but also with just about all levels of government. The Fate is now complete with the stolen election of trump.

Speaking just for me I would never take a job with no union representation. But, even then I found that sometimes, maybe all the time now a days the union bosses are just as corrupt and disrespectful towards those they represent as those corporate bosses that continue to flaut employment laws to the benefit for their million and billion -aires stock owners.

Isn't a little union workers party a good thing?

Ohioboy

(3,243 posts)
50. Way to go
Fri Jan 25, 2019, 01:04 PM
Jan 2019

Thankfully there are labor laws in this, already great before Trump, country of ours. Let's make sure such labor laws are never done away with. Republicans and their ilk would love to do just that.

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