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Gov. Northam should not resign (Original Post) Miigwech Feb 2019 OP
Never Franken Again! PubliusEnigma Feb 2019 #1
Yes! Miigwech Feb 2019 #13
No more Franken's. We stand by our own. Pepsidog Feb 2019 #36
I think it depends on the circumstances and we need to weigh each case on what happened and when. cstanleytech Feb 2019 #63
I agree. Just frustrating Pepsidog Feb 2019 #67
Aye it is and some of the people I have seen on other sites online calling for him to resign are cstanleytech Feb 2019 #69
No. Franken was innocent but this guy is a racist. Joe941 Feb 2019 #44
+10000000000. N/T angrychair Feb 2019 #56
Is that opinion based on recent actions of his or simply this one incident from 30+ years ago? cstanleytech Feb 2019 #65
So we should avoid judging based on a single incident? guillaumeb Feb 2019 #2
What if the sun dont rise? Eko Feb 2019 #3
I will cover myself with another blanket. guillaumeb Feb 2019 #6
Anyone who wishes to forgive him can do that, but he should still resign. irresistable Feb 2019 #4
He should resign. Goodheart Feb 2019 #5
We can insist all day long on clean histories for Republicans. LisaL Feb 2019 #7
True, but I choose to not be a hypocrite. Goodheart Feb 2019 #9
Are you human? atreides1 Feb 2019 #42
No. This was 35 very long years ago. EVERYONE did something dumb when much younger and long ago. LBM20 Feb 2019 #8
... said Chuck Grassley about Brett Kavanaugh, in so many words. Goodheart Feb 2019 #10
And where is Kavanaugh now? LisaL Feb 2019 #11
attempted rape and a racist costume are not equivalent Hermit-The-Prog Feb 2019 #14
+1000 n/t roamer65 Feb 2019 #25
Fine. What would you have said about Kavanaugh's fitness to serve fountainofyouth Feb 2019 #35
Kavanaugh lied NOW, acted like a child in the hearing NOW, and did crimes. VERY different. LBM20 Feb 2019 #23
+1 uponit7771 Feb 2019 #28
Hell, I think he was drunk at the hearing. n/t Mr.Bill Feb 2019 #40
NO !!! BK lied 3.5 months ago and not 35 years ago. If he had just done a GWB and said when he uponit7771 Feb 2019 #26
nobody insisted on clean history for republicans JI7 Feb 2019 #12
+1, the PRESENT is dirty has hell seeing they support an openly racist leader uponit7771 Feb 2019 #24
If they are republican their PRESENT is not clean seeing they support an openly racist leader of uponit7771 Feb 2019 #22
Insisting on clean histories for Republicans is one thing. Getting them is an entirely Autumn Feb 2019 #50
He should NOT resign. Sorry: onecaliberal Feb 2019 #15
Is defending him worth the triumph of bothsiderism? Brawndo Feb 2019 #16
Fine, but don't be upset when his voting base starts to look like one that doesn't... SaschaHM Feb 2019 #17
Should there be a statute of limitations on extreme stupidity and racism? Polybius Feb 2019 #18
Northham should resign at the same time in his term as George Allen did. Allen had a noose in his of keithbvadu2 Feb 2019 #19
This message was self-deleted by its author LibDemAlways Feb 2019 #59
For some reason he never asked for forgiveness for this in Jose Garcia Feb 2019 #20
Because it was never brought up and he led a life that shows he is not racist. Do you ask for LBM20 Feb 2019 #27
For me an apology is an act of contrition Miigwech Feb 2019 #54
It think this is the bigger issue; Northram new the picture was there and didn't apologize for it... uponit7771 Feb 2019 #29
Does no one think he's changed? bitterross Feb 2019 #21
of course he has changed. be has an actual record to look at JI7 Feb 2019 #32
Lets look at his record Miigwech Feb 2019 #33
Indeed!! Duppers Feb 2019 #46
If this was a GOP Governor we would be demanding they quit. nt USALiberal Feb 2019 #30
And they wouldn't. Mr.Bill Feb 2019 #43
He can ask for forgiveness, but he is not OWED it fountainofyouth Feb 2019 #31
I live in Virginia. He should and likely will resign. nt LexVegas Feb 2019 #34
Does anyone remember Prince Harry dressed up like a Nazis? LakeArenal Feb 2019 #37
Northam aka "Coonman" in his yearbook should resign Jarqui Feb 2019 #38
How ironic njhoneybadger Feb 2019 #52
A nice sentiment. I agree, this time. But it's not my state. nt Honeycombe8 Feb 2019 #39
He should only resign if Dems are committed to impeaching Kavenaugh for his lies. Pepsidog Feb 2019 #41
Yes, repubs never apologize for their racist shait Miigwech Feb 2019 #48
The Democratic Party is not the victim in this affair! fountainofyouth Feb 2019 #49
There is way for him to earn his job right now... zaj Feb 2019 #45
What he did was inexcusable. But.. mvd Feb 2019 #47
Charlottesville, VA Pachamama Feb 2019 #51
Gov Northam will have to resign. (Copied from another post) djacq Feb 2019 #53
The Decision is totally up to him, no one can force him to resign but the Lt Gov is yaesu Feb 2019 #55
Yes, it's hard angrychair Feb 2019 #57
This isn't about forgiveness EffieBlack Feb 2019 #58
Well said fountainofyouth Feb 2019 #61
Couple problems with staying. moondust Feb 2019 #60
Making a "mistake" zentrum Feb 2019 #62
If We Stay What We Really Think About This Thread.... LovingA2andMI Feb 2019 #64
His nickname was Coonman in his UNDERGRADUATE yearbook. WTF? greatbaldeagle Feb 2019 #66
If he was a republican, it would be 'locker room talk'. keithbvadu2 Feb 2019 #68

cstanleytech

(26,319 posts)
63. I think it depends on the circumstances and we need to weigh each case on what happened and when.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:01 AM
Feb 2019

Considering his age at the time and the length of time we are talking about in this case though I am willing to give him the benefit of doubt providing he has not done anything that rose to similar level within the past 15 or so years.

cstanleytech

(26,319 posts)
69. Aye it is and some of the people I have seen on other sites online calling for him to resign are
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:31 AM
Feb 2019

making wonder if its another case of Russian bots being activated to try and exploit a potential weakness.

Goodheart

(5,340 posts)
5. He should resign.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:19 PM
Feb 2019

When we insist on clean histories for Republicans we should hold ourselves to the same standards or operate as hypocrites.

atreides1

(16,093 posts)
42. Are you human?
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:34 PM
Feb 2019

Because humans are flawed and far from perfect! People make mistakes, but in 35 years Northam has changed who he might have been, he is no longer that person!

Are you the same person you were 35 years ago, 15 years ago, 5 years ago?


I choose to be human with all of my flaws and to learn to be a better person, then who I was 35 years ago!!!

 

LBM20

(1,580 posts)
8. No. This was 35 very long years ago. EVERYONE did something dumb when much younger and long ago.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:23 PM
Feb 2019

fountainofyouth

(409 posts)
35. Fine. What would you have said about Kavanaugh's fitness to serve
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:24 PM
Feb 2019

If he appeared in a photo like this, instead of being accused of rape?

uponit7771

(90,364 posts)
26. NO !!! BK lied 3.5 months ago and not 35 years ago. If he had just done a GWB and said when he
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:19 PM
Feb 2019

... was young and stupid he was young and stupid

uponit7771

(90,364 posts)
22. If they are republican their PRESENT is not clean seeing they support an openly racist leader of
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:17 PM
Feb 2019

... their party

Autumn

(45,120 posts)
50. Insisting on clean histories for Republicans is one thing. Getting them is an entirely
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:48 PM
Feb 2019

different matter.

Brawndo

(535 posts)
16. Is defending him worth the triumph of bothsiderism?
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:31 PM
Feb 2019

Are you ready to be accused of hypocrisy? You can forgive him personally while insisting on his resignation.

SaschaHM

(2,897 posts)
17. Fine, but don't be upset when his voting base starts to look like one that doesn't...
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:31 PM
Feb 2019

believe in accountability for past racist incidents. His political career is over. No reason to let him drag the VA Dem party down with him because make no mistake the people most hurt by this revelation are the reason candidates like Ed Gillispie and Corey Stewart get and will continue to be defeated.

Polybius

(15,481 posts)
18. Should there be a statute of limitations on extreme stupidity and racism?
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:35 PM
Feb 2019

Some people change 100%. Not saying he did or not, but asking an honest question.

keithbvadu2

(36,910 posts)
19. Northham should resign at the same time in his term as George Allen did. Allen had a noose in his of
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:10 PM
Feb 2019

Northham should resign at the same time in his term as George Allen did.
Allen had a noose in his office and it was no secret.

Response to keithbvadu2 (Reply #19)

 

LBM20

(1,580 posts)
27. Because it was never brought up and he led a life that shows he is not racist. Do you ask for
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:20 PM
Feb 2019

forgiveness for all your past misdeeds when they are in the past and you have moved well past them and don't do those things anymore? We are human. Your standard is unrealistic.

uponit7771

(90,364 posts)
29. It think this is the bigger issue; Northram new the picture was there and didn't apologize for it...
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:21 PM
Feb 2019

... before now.

 

bitterross

(4,066 posts)
21. Does no one think he's changed?
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:15 PM
Feb 2019

Is it too much to allow for the possibility he's changed in the last 30 years?

fountainofyouth

(409 posts)
31. He can ask for forgiveness, but he is not OWED it
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:22 PM
Feb 2019

The NAACP says he should resign. Sounds like they're not in a "forgiving" mood. I don't blame them.

LakeArenal

(28,845 posts)
37. Does anyone remember Prince Harry dressed up like a Nazis?
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:27 PM
Feb 2019

Last edited Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:03 PM - Edit history (1)

Is that who anyone believes Prince Harry is? A Nazis?

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
38. Northam aka "Coonman" in his yearbook should resign
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:29 PM
Feb 2019

I can examine forgiveness later.

For now, he's lost his moral authority to be a governor.

I'm fed up with "excuses" for hate.

 

Miigwech

(3,741 posts)
48. Yes, repubs never apologize for their racist shait
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:41 PM
Feb 2019

and they get away with it everyday. Here, we have a Democratic Gov. giving a full apology and taking total responsibility .

fountainofyouth

(409 posts)
49. The Democratic Party is not the victim in this affair!
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:48 PM
Feb 2019

You realize there are actual minority citizens of Virginia who have this man as governor? We should hold Northam accountable for their sake, not the Republicans'.

 

zaj

(3,433 posts)
45. There is way for him to earn his job right now...
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:35 PM
Feb 2019

He can call a press conference and talk honestly and vulnerably. Lead by example. Speak about his shame. How long ago he learned the pain. How it's understandable that people of all types need to disassociate from acts like that. How he's one of them, but cant ever undo that moment. And how he is a better man because he learned years ago how his upbringing was failed. And how he is happy to be the poster child of what never to let happen again.

Worst case scenario is you say all of those things while the world watches, and you still resign, but you leave a lasting legacy about how to handle these moments with honor and sincerity..

mvd

(65,180 posts)
47. What he did was inexcusable. But..
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:37 PM
Feb 2019

people do change. I can see both sides. But we resign and ask our own to resign more than the Repukes do. For that reason, I urge caution.

djacq

(1,634 posts)
53. Gov Northam will have to resign. (Copied from another post)
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:00 PM
Feb 2019

As an African American and a Virginia Resident, I and my family "was" proud voters for Northam. The African American vote, especially with black women, brought Northam that win.

Doesn't matter if it was 35 years ago. Doesn't matter if he is of good character now. He's a good governor and I'm quite sure Northam is a good man, a good doctor, a good veteran, and NOT a racist.

But that image is there and we all see it. But you also can't dismiss the images of African Americans during Slavery, Reconstruction, and Jim Crow. Watch the 60 Minutes segment on Lynching and The National Memorial for Peace and Justice. Look at the images of unarmed young men being killed.

Should I tell my two adult black children to dismiss the images of their heritage? So, why should I or any DU member here should easily dismiss images of Northam in either of the two individuals.

I can't take back my vote but Northam can do the right thing and resign.

yaesu

(8,020 posts)
55. The Decision is totally up to him, no one can force him to resign but the Lt Gov is
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:06 PM
Feb 2019

an African-American 39-year-old Democrat who is a supporter of the Affordable Care Act, prison reform, tighter gun control, campaign donation limits, and increased taxes for infrastructure. Justin Fairfax could also run for Governor at the end of his term, bucking the one term law.

angrychair

(8,733 posts)
57. Yes, it's hard
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:30 PM
Feb 2019

1984 was just a handful of years from the time of eugenics and forced sterilization. The president at the time would openly demonize people of color getting welfare. PoC were going to jail for crack and white people were getting parole for cocaine. At the end of the day, nothing makes it right or excusable.

He knew that image was in his yearbook but never admitted it nor dealt with it. I think it damages the mantle of leadership that he needs to be an effective leader and he should bow out and concede that role to Lt Governor Fairfax, sooner rather than later.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
58. This isn't about forgiveness
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:34 PM
Feb 2019

He can be forgiven. But that doesn't mean he should keep the job - which he won under false pretenses.

Black folk and our allies busted their butts to elect him. If this not-so-youthfuk indiscretion had come out this way during the primary or general elecion campaign, he would not have won. He hasn't earned the right to keep the job. He should step down and turn the job over to his Lieutenant Governor.

moondust

(20,006 posts)
60. Couple problems with staying.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:40 PM
Feb 2019

Cloud hanging over him going forward: maybe hecklers and distractors harassing him and possibly the Democratic Party for not getting rid of him. Isolated case but would be used by some as a false equivalency tool to excuse the systemic racism of Trump and the Republican Party.

Sends a bad message to young people that bad behavior is okay when you're young because later in life you can just say you're sorry and move on.

I'd personally leave it up to Virginians but I don't know how they would get a vote on it.

zentrum

(9,865 posts)
62. Making a "mistake"
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:52 PM
Feb 2019

....about the KKK is not forgivable. Especially with a blackface cohort to complete "the gag". As a 25 year old---you're old enough to not be making this "joke". No excuses at that age.

Does anyone know his expressed thought processes and excuses for even thinking this was funny? How does he explain this?

35 years ago is way past the civil right era---so he knew. He knew. His sentiments had to been deeply racist to think, even for one minute, that this was funny.


LovingA2andMI

(7,006 posts)
64. If We Stay What We Really Think About This Thread....
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:03 AM
Feb 2019

We will be kicked off DU. So....We Will Say This....

It Was 1984, Not 1884 -- He Knew.

Blackface and a KKK Uniform -Hell even Drump has not been pictured with that-- Yet.

Governor Justin Fairfax has a DAMN GOOD Ring To It -- And Must Happen. PERIOD!!!

Bye Ralph

greatbaldeagle

(157 posts)
66. His nickname was Coonman in his UNDERGRADUATE yearbook. WTF?
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:08 AM
Feb 2019

He should resign right now. His political career is toast. His racism goes back at least 3 years before the black face photo.

"After the governor issued his statement, CBS News, citing a 1981 Virginia Military Institute yearbook, reported that Mr. Northam had been known as “Coonman” as an undergraduate student there. The governor has not addressed the nickname, which contains a racial slur."

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/01/us/politics/ralph-northam-yearbook-blackface.html

https://archive.org/details/bomb1981virg/page/90

keithbvadu2

(36,910 posts)
68. If he was a republican, it would be 'locker room talk'.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:26 AM
Feb 2019

If he was a republican, it would be 'locker room talk'.

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