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DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 09:59 AM Feb 2019

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"I'm looking around DU confused about why so many Liberal white people are comfortable with excusing away racism. I don't care who did it, there needs to be a standard. As a black woman, my heart hurts and my stomach is flipping. I doubt many people know what that feels like. My sister, who lives in Virginia, is devastated that she voted for someone who would do that. I hope he resigns and stops stretching this out. It's a painful reminder, at the beginning of the month that should celebrate African Americans, that we will still have a very long way to go."

-Anonymous Democratic Underground member



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Posted without comment (Original Post) DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 OP
I disagree with you. And I am anonymous to. The right of the people to have the govenor they voted wasupaloopa Feb 2019 #1
"Sometimes I think people need to get over themselves." DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #2
I don't understand why people don't get it Renew Deal Feb 2019 #4
No you don't get it. Get over yourself. wasupaloopa Feb 2019 #7
You basically prove Trumps point about shooting someone on 5th ave Renew Deal Feb 2019 #9
That's what I mean about porportion. You have no sense of it. Shooting someone and black face are wasupaloopa Feb 2019 #13
What about wearing a Klan hood and posting it in your yearbook? Renew Deal Feb 2019 #16
The year book is put together by a year book committee. wasupaloopa Feb 2019 #18
He said he was in the picture Renew Deal Feb 2019 #24
Or Anthony Weiner DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #20
Spitzer engaged in illegal activities. Inkfreak Feb 2019 #25
We could forgive Northam but still he needs to go. hot2na Feb 2019 #40
This message was self-deleted by its author LAS14 Feb 2019 #67
unreal that you are excusing OVERT racism Celerity Feb 2019 #80
No it is your standard. You don't get to hide behind a phrase like that! wasupaloopa Feb 2019 #10
I can do whatever I want. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #14
Where did I say it is acceptable. You again are being dishonest for your own edification. wasupaloopa Feb 2019 #19
Really? That's interesting. radical noodle Feb 2019 #29
Well that explains it then... bsiebs Feb 2019 #45
+1000 Alpeduez21 Feb 2019 #51
Sense of proportions do change. We live in today's world not yesteryear. I believe you are c-rational Feb 2019 #54
Yes, there is a sense of proportion hurple Feb 2019 #75
You think it is acceptable to have a governor that appeared in black face or klan robes whopis01 Feb 2019 #87
Would people have voted for him if they had they info they have now? Renew Deal Feb 2019 #3
That's one side of the coin, and the other is, someone had this but didn't use it previously. Why ? OnDoutside Feb 2019 #5
How does that mitigate his actions and alleviate the pain it has caused. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #11
Did I say it did ? This exposure of a presumably frat party photo, did not happen in isolation. As OnDoutside Feb 2019 #21
Don't be so sure Renew Deal Feb 2019 #12
Yes, that's what I don't get. Why now, and not during the election race ? OnDoutside Feb 2019 #22
Obviousely someone (GOP/Russia) had it a while and waited to use it at their most convenient time. GemDigger Feb 2019 #63
Luke 8:17 DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #83
Not arguing whether he was right because he was definately wrong. I was GemDigger Feb 2019 #85
They (Breitbart published it) waited for a time when Trump needed a blitz to distract (again). Grasswire2 Feb 2019 #97
Here are the exit polls DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #6
She needs "to get over herself?" EffieBlack Feb 2019 #37
Effie DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #42
Northam was a Registered Republican until 2007! crazytown Feb 2019 #43
I think that is the correct sentiment. whopis01 Feb 2019 #86
That's that part that has me incensed qanda Feb 2019 #66
Is it possible for someone to have been a worse version of themselves 35 years ago Algernon Moncrieff Feb 2019 #50
And I disagree with you, wasupaloopa Trueblue Texan Feb 2019 #53
Sometimes i think people need to put themselves in other shoes nini Feb 2019 #59
The poster is me. I wasn't anonymous when I wrote this qanda Feb 2019 #64
nope, he has GOT to go, as a PoC, it is outrageous people like you are making excuses for Celerity Feb 2019 #79
"And if you label me racist, I don't give a shit." Atticus Feb 2019 #89
I'm white, and I feel the same way. cwydro Feb 2019 #8
Racism cannot be white-splained away... it needs to stop!! InAbLuEsTaTe Feb 2019 #15
But he has a D after his name. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #17
What he did was despicable, deplorable and cannot be forgiven Mr. Ected Feb 2019 #23
He went through a primary process radical noodle Feb 2019 #30
I'm white and do not live in Virginia. Let the black people of Virginia decide. MineralMan Feb 2019 #26
They would have voted for the Republican? When you weigh the Republican... LAS14 Feb 2019 #69
More likely, they would have stayed home and not voted. MineralMan Feb 2019 #71
He would have lost a Democratic primary (nt) muriel_volestrangler Feb 2019 #96
I think he should resign. mountain grammy Feb 2019 #27
Today's Standard, Yesterday's culture MagicPond Feb 2019 #28
Umm, I'm about the same age as the VA governor.... paleotn Feb 2019 #33
Agree with you, Anon and DemocratSinceBirth. Some of the opinions zentrum Feb 2019 #31
He needs to resign jmbar2 Feb 2019 #32
K&R. Here's the thing. The CASUAL DISMISSAL OF RACISM is the very thing bullwinkle428 Feb 2019 #34
Like the "Me Too" movement billh58 Feb 2019 #35
Gov Northam will have to resign. (Copied from another post) djacq Feb 2019 #36
I don't speak for anyone but myself MyNameGoesHere Feb 2019 #38
Thank you for posting this. EffieBlack Feb 2019 #39
I'm a White male and if he was my Governor I would want him to resign Snake Plissken Feb 2019 #41
He should resign. Taraman Feb 2019 #44
So people can not change and if they evolve into a better person we shouldn't forgive them. Ligyron Feb 2019 #46
At the end of the day... DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #55
No one is defending that treestar Feb 2019 #88
Northam is killing us. Everybody who is anybody in our party has called for him to step down. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #90
Perhaps people should wait more than a day to forgive lunatica Feb 2019 #60
Yeah, I'm disturbed by the unwillingness of people to look at the... LAS14 Feb 2019 #70
If he posed as Hitler and his friend posed as Anne Frank would it have been okay? DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #84
Evolving as a better person ibegurpard Feb 2019 #91
Larry Sabato said that Northam was octoberlib Feb 2019 #47
This isn't just "some person", this is the governor of Virginia Taraman Feb 2019 #48
A yearbook photo - 18/19 yrs. old asshole packman Feb 2019 #49
He was 25 DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #58
Old enough to be elected to Congress ... EffieBlack Feb 2019 #68
Someone needs to brush up on the story about stone casting packman Feb 2019 #77
Jesus also said DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #78
Stretching it out a bit aren't you? packman Feb 2019 #81
He can evolve as a private citizen DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #82
That had to leave a mark! Well done. nt Atticus Feb 2019 #92
I was instructed it wasn't a persuasive argument. Is this a better one? DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #93
It's good and it's true, but it lacks the "zing" of your other remark. Carry on. nt Atticus Feb 2019 #94
Thank you, sir. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #95
What's the Rush? Roy Rolling Feb 2019 #52
Let those without sin cast the first stone.... the_sly_pig Feb 2019 #56
"regardless of when it happened." I heartily disagree. LAS14 Feb 2019 #72
A lot of people use the he was a youngster argument Alpeduez21 Feb 2019 #57
This white boy Fuzzpope Feb 2019 #61
They hypocrisy is nauseating.... doompatrol39 Feb 2019 #62
I have had the same thoughts about some Republican, but can't remember who it was. LAS14 Feb 2019 #73
1984? doompatrol39 Feb 2019 #74
Thanks for sharing my thoughts qanda Feb 2019 #65
I sometimes think there are people on this board who are only here to stir the pot. wcast Feb 2019 #76
I suspect they 'let him stay in office' crowd had a little help from outside applegrove Feb 2019 #98
Spot on sellitman Feb 2019 #99
 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
1. I disagree with you. And I am anonymous to. The right of the people to have the govenor they voted
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 10:12 AM
Feb 2019

for, who did nothing so egregious that it warrants his resignation, trumps your feelings! There needs to be some sense of proportion in the calling of someone so racist that you get to decide their fate based on how you feel about it.

David Duke is one extreme and the Governor is at the other. Black face and lynching are racist but not in the same proportion.

Good people have done minor bad things in their lives. Some have made apologies. But it is wrong to deny society the benefit of there goodness today because of it.

Sometimes I think people need to get over themselves. And if you label me racist, I don't give shit. It means nothing to anybody who knows or lives with me or has ever spent time with me in my 72 years.

The rest of the world does not have to measure up to your standard.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
2. "Sometimes I think people need to get over themselves."
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 10:24 AM
Feb 2019

The poster who wrote that needs to get over herself?


"The rest of the world does not have to measure up to your standard."

It's not my standard. It's the progressive standard. Maybe you need to ask yourself why defending blackface and Klan regalia is a hill you want to die on.







Renew Deal

(81,871 posts)
9. You basically prove Trumps point about shooting someone on 5th ave
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 10:30 AM
Feb 2019

His supporters will excuse anything. Apparently we have people in our camp that will too

 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
13. That's what I mean about porportion. You have no sense of it. Shooting someone and black face are
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 10:32 AM
Feb 2019

not equal. The majority agreement here on this board does not make anything right or wrong.

That photograph and the deed itself do not fit the level of righteous outrage about it.

Renew Deal

(81,871 posts)
16. What about wearing a Klan hood and posting it in your yearbook?
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 10:35 AM
Feb 2019

Do you believe that Spitzer should have resigned?

Renew Deal

(81,871 posts)
24. He said he was in the picture
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 10:46 AM
Feb 2019

Are you OK with politicians in either party wearing racist gear? Also, do you think Spitzer should have resigned?

Would you vote for him knowing what you know now?

Inkfreak

(1,695 posts)
25. Spitzer engaged in illegal activities.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 11:03 AM
Feb 2019

making him a hypocrite of the highest order, being he was a DA.

hot2na

(358 posts)
40. We could forgive Northam but still he needs to go.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 11:41 AM
Feb 2019

and we should forgive him if he truly regrets what he did 35 years ago. But we should still demand his resignation.

He won the Virginia governorship with overwhelming support of the black voter base. They are who propelled him to victory over an anti immigrant campaign by his opponent. If we do not force Northam out, then we lose Virginia and we lose our biggest base of support, black voters.

Response to wasupaloopa (Reply #13)

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
14. I can do whatever I want.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 10:32 AM
Feb 2019

If you believe wearing blackface and/or donning a Klan uniform is acceptable there is nothing I can do to disabuse you of that notion.

 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
19. Where did I say it is acceptable. You again are being dishonest for your own edification.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 10:38 AM
Feb 2019

You are one of the leaders around here. You are aware of how these discussions go. I have actually been on DU longer than you.

You can get as many people you want to pile up on some one.

There are many decent people who agree with me about a sense of proportion and you know it. But saying so does nothing to support your esteem.

Why not just step aside once and watch the herd go over the cliff.

bsiebs

(688 posts)
45. Well that explains it then...
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:13 PM
Feb 2019

In your world, 2017 came before 2003 ... what color is the sky in your world?

If Northam had done this yesterday, I assume you would say it was unacceptable and he should resign... how about if he did it during the election? What if he did it 18 months ago? Where do you draw the “racism is acceptable to me” line? Apparently it is somewhere between now and 35 years... please advise when it becomes unacceptable and your reasoning for that timeframe. Thanks...

c-rational

(2,595 posts)
54. Sense of proportions do change. We live in today's world not yesteryear. I believe you are
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:31 PM
Feb 2019

displaying a significant lack of empathy. We are not about to go over a cliff, and many decent people have yet to truly understand this from a POC point of view.

hurple

(1,306 posts)
75. Yes, there is a sense of proportion
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:53 PM
Feb 2019

But, the photo is way over the line of what is acceptable to remain in office as governor.

If he had lynched someone, he wouldn't just need to go, he'd need to be prosecuted too.

Now, if he had just made some inanae, insensitive remark that would be different, I wouldn't be calling for resignation.

But the photo crosses a line. He needs to go.

whopis01

(3,523 posts)
87. You think it is acceptable to have a governor that appeared in black face or klan robes
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 06:37 PM
Feb 2019

if he stepped down, what is the worst that would happen? A black Democrat would become governor?

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
11. How does that mitigate his actions and alleviate the pain it has caused.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 10:31 AM
Feb 2019

Did someone go into the Hot Tub Time Machine and force Ralph Northam to wear blackface or don a Klan uniform.

OnDoutside

(19,970 posts)
21. Did I say it did ? This exposure of a presumably frat party photo, did not happen in isolation. As
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 10:41 AM
Feb 2019

it is, he's toast imo, but what concerns me, in general, (and I'm more looking back to the Franken knifing) is the purity rush to judgement. At least a positive is that Fairfax will take over.

Renew Deal

(81,871 posts)
12. Don't be so sure
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 10:32 AM
Feb 2019

It’s a pretty small school with a pretty small graduating class. If people wanted to benefit from it, they could have used it in an election

GemDigger

(4,305 posts)
63. Obviousely someone (GOP/Russia) had it a while and waited to use it at their most convenient time.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:59 PM
Feb 2019

They waited for him to say something or want to do something that they did not approve of and slam this shit on his head.

The thing about secrets is that your enemies love your secrets.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
83. Luke 8:17
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 02:42 PM
Feb 2019

For there is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed, and nothing concealed that will not be known or brought out into the open.

GemDigger

(4,305 posts)
85. Not arguing whether he was right because he was definately wrong. I was
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 04:07 PM
Feb 2019

stating how I think it came to light.

Grasswire2

(13,571 posts)
97. They (Breitbart published it) waited for a time when Trump needed a blitz to distract (again).
Sun Feb 3, 2019, 01:15 AM
Feb 2019

And there are likely more such bombs in the arsenal of the RW Trump surrogates. It's going to get worse before it gets better.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
6. Here are the exit polls
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 10:28 AM
Feb 2019
https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/2017-election/VA

Ralph Northam received 42% of the white vote. African Americans gave him 87% of their votes and with it his margin of victory.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
42. Effie
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 11:47 AM
Feb 2019

Would it be fair to say Ralph Northam is likely not the person now he was then but he has still has to go because of the horrible message countenancing such behavior would send?

crazytown

(7,277 posts)
43. Northam was a Registered Republican until 2007!
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 11:56 AM
Feb 2019

Voted W in 2000, 2004. Ex GOPers do not deserve the benefit of the doubt. Period.

At the very least he should of declared his 1984 yearbook in 2017.

whopis01

(3,523 posts)
86. I think that is the correct sentiment.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 06:26 PM
Feb 2019

I don’t know if he is or was racist. He may be a good guy who did something dumb long ago. But it doesn’t matter.

This isn’t about him. It is about the office of the Governor. Someone else needs to be in it.

qanda

(10,422 posts)
66. That's that part that has me incensed
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:08 PM
Feb 2019

How dare they tell me to get over myself? How dare they? That takes next level nerve.

Algernon Moncrieff

(5,790 posts)
50. Is it possible for someone to have been a worse version of themselves 35 years ago
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:22 PM
Feb 2019

...and to have grown and changed.

Trueblue Texan

(2,440 posts)
53. And I disagree with you, wasupaloopa
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:30 PM
Feb 2019

Clearly, your standards for egregious conduct are not the same as mine and others and you are certainly entitled to them. Good thing we are too. Very true the other side has demonstrated worse conduct with no consequences. Most of us here on this site are trying to raise the crashing standards of this nation, not conform. For most of those folks, the governor should resign.

nini

(16,672 posts)
59. Sometimes i think people need to put themselves in other shoes
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:44 PM
Feb 2019

to try and understand their point of view. I'd take that before the 'get over yourself' approach.


qanda

(10,422 posts)
64. The poster is me. I wasn't anonymous when I wrote this
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:01 PM
Feb 2019

I posted it as myself in a subthread. I was a member of DU while Northam was voting for Dubya. I was marching against the Iraq war with my children, who are now 20 and 22, on my shoulders. I stand for the rights of others while those same people tell me to get over myself. So, if you have an issue with what I said, here I am. I'm not anonymous. I gave my whole name on a DU thread over 15 years ago when Dubya, thanks in part to people like Northam, won re-election and we all stood arm in arm to declare that we weren't afraid of the future. And, I stand today to say that I'm still not afraid. Not of you or anyone else.

Celerity

(43,497 posts)
79. nope, he has GOT to go, as a PoC, it is outrageous people like you are making excuses for
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 02:32 PM
Feb 2019

pure racism.

Mr. Ected

(9,670 posts)
23. What he did was despicable, deplorable and cannot be forgiven
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 10:42 AM
Feb 2019

He also ran against a Republican. Knowing then what we know now, who would you have voted for?

MineralMan

(146,329 posts)
26. I'm white and do not live in Virginia. Let the black people of Virginia decide.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 11:14 AM
Feb 2019

I think we all know what they would say, or we should, at least.

Would they have voted for him had they known about that photo? I think not.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
69. They would have voted for the Republican? When you weigh the Republican...
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:15 PM
Feb 2019

.... political agenda against a 40 year old example of egregious, but non-criminal, racism, I'm confident that many of the POC that I'm acquainted with would take the practical approach.

MineralMan

(146,329 posts)
71. More likely, they would have stayed home and not voted.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:19 PM
Feb 2019

That's how Virginia has elected lots of Republicans.

That's still not my point, though. The black voters of Virginia are the ones who are affected by this exposure. I'm sure many of them feel betrayed by Northam's past behavior. I think he should listen to them when they tell him he has lost their trust.

 

MagicPond

(26 posts)
28. Today's Standard, Yesterday's culture
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 11:16 AM
Feb 2019

I know nothing about the governor. Nor am I here to defend his actions. But I do want to say we need to stop applying today's standards to the standards of yesteryear. They say at 25, he should have known better. The picture was in the yearbook, which tells me it must have been accepted at the time. I used to be a heavy smoker. It was very acceptable at the time. I've been quit for 15 years now. Different society, different norms now. Point being, I would hate to be held accountable for the norms of 30 years ago today

paleotn

(17,956 posts)
33. Umm, I'm about the same age as the VA governor....
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 11:23 AM
Feb 2019

and I remember those days quite well. It wasn't appropriate then and it's not appropriate now. We knew such stuff was racist as hell. Geezus folks, it's not like it's from the fucking 19th century.

zentrum

(9,865 posts)
31. Agree with you, Anon and DemocratSinceBirth. Some of the opinions
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 11:21 AM
Feb 2019

.....here are deeply disturbing. Shocking. BTW, I'm white.

That blindness and tone-deafness, even, or especially, among liberals, is lethal and what the hell are we going to do about it?

This is really disturbing and stomach churning.

No surprise to black people I know.

Maybe the white women here can be made to understand if the image had been of a bloody and terroized woman "posing" with her rapist? And it was being given a pass as just "youthful". Would that make it clear?

It was made in 1985 for God sakes. He was training to be a doctor. This was long after the 1960's Civil Rights movement. Every damn educated white person knew.

jmbar2

(4,906 posts)
32. He needs to resign
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 11:22 AM
Feb 2019

He should follow Al Franken's example. We must walk our professed values. There is a good man in the Lt Gov's role that can step in. In the long term, this is better for our party and the nation.

If you have skeletons in the closet, don't run. If you are reformed, there are plenty of other roles you can play. Our nation is drowning in dishonesty and corruption. We need to focus on cleaning up, and we need squeaky-clean leaders to live by the values we wish in our society.


- Old white lady

bullwinkle428

(20,630 posts)
34. K&R. Here's the thing. The CASUAL DISMISSAL OF RACISM is the very thing
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 11:25 AM
Feb 2019

that put this utterly despicable motherfucker INTO THE WHITE HOUSE!!

Look, it's a huge stretch to suggest that everyone of the 62 million people that voted for Mango Mussolini has a fucking Klan robe and hood in their closet! I know a number of these people. I have some in my extended family....probably hard to find someone at DU that doesn't have one of these in their lives. But it's almost guaranteed that every one of these voters is quick to dismiss the idea that racism played a role in their vote, at least on the subconscious level.

I've been here for 14 years, and can honestly say this is one of the low points at DU for me - to see so many willing to simply hand-wave it away, in the name of "team politics", "whataboutism" re: Chump, "maybe it was the Russians or Roger Stone", etc. ENOUGH!! We need to draw a line in the sand at some point.

billh58

(6,635 posts)
35. Like the "Me Too" movement
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 11:29 AM
Feb 2019

racism is finally receiving the attention and scorn it deserves. Yes, blackface and KKK costumes are despicable and this bigot needs to resign.

djacq

(1,634 posts)
36. Gov Northam will have to resign. (Copied from another post)
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 11:30 AM
Feb 2019

As an African American and a Virginia Resident, I and my family "was" proud voters for Northam. The African American vote, especially with black women, brought Northam that win.

Doesn't matter if it was 35 years ago. Doesn't matter if he is of good character now. He's a good governor and I'm quite sure Northam is a good man, a good doctor, a good veteran, and NOT a racist.

But that image is there and we all see it. But you also can't dismiss the images of African Americans during Slavery, Reconstruction, and Jim Crow. Watch the 60 Minutes segment on Lynching and The National Memorial for Peace and Justice. Look at the images of unarmed young men being killed.

Should I tell my two adult black children to dismiss the images of their heritage? So, why should I or any DU member here should easily dismiss images of Northam in either of the two individuals.

I can't take back my vote but Northam can do the right thing and resign.

 

MyNameGoesHere

(7,638 posts)
38. I don't speak for anyone but myself
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 11:33 AM
Feb 2019

I have never:
Wore black face
Wore kkk klan attire
Posed with a flag of slave states
Thought people from African countries lived in shit holes
Supported lynching people of color
Posted photos of Obama as a monkey
Referred to African Americans or anyone as apes monkeys etc.

I am sentient enough a being to know that any of these things would disqualify me from leading anything other than a Klan meeting. All of these things and much more would prevent me from voting or supporting any politician that did this or similar obvious racist acts.

I would with deep passion and commitment call for and work towards ending anyones political career for these actions.

I call myself a decent human being and a Democrat. That's who and what I am.
If you can support racism in any form, by anyone, at any time, you may want to examine what you are.

Snake Plissken

(4,103 posts)
41. I'm a White male and if he was my Governor I would want him to resign
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 11:43 AM
Feb 2019

Racism should not be normalized or tolerated under any circumstances

Taraman

(373 posts)
44. He should resign.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:10 PM
Feb 2019

This isn't like some Covington kid who has been immersed in racist schooling. Northam was an adult in medical school. 1984! I am so DONE with this racist crap.

Ligyron

(7,639 posts)
46. So people can not change and if they evolve into a better person we shouldn't forgive them.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:14 PM
Feb 2019

Got it.

Maybe we should put this standard into the party platform.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
55. At the end of the day...
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:33 PM
Feb 2019

At the end of the day the only question you should be asking yourself is defending blackface and donning Klan outfits a hill you want to die on.

African Americans are our most loyal constituency and have provided us with our margin of victory in every presidential election since 1964. I'm not going to throw them under the bus for some trifling politician.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
88. No one is defending that
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 07:14 PM
Feb 2019

Straw man - the person you responded to did not defend the actions - you can say he could be forgiven without defending the action. In fact thinking there is anything to be forgiven for condemns the action.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
60. Perhaps people should wait more than a day to forgive
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:51 PM
Feb 2019

what’s the hurry? Even a court of law must take its time in order to weigh the preponderance of guilt or innocence.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
70. Yeah, I'm disturbed by the unwillingness of people to look at the...
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:19 PM
Feb 2019

... intervening 40 years. Knee jerk self-righteousness is not a good thing.

ibegurpard

(16,685 posts)
91. Evolving as a better person
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 08:07 PM
Feb 2019

would entail changing your behavior and admitting to it before you run for the highest office in a state... and then allowing that full disclosure to determine whether people believe you and still want to put their trust in you.
Not covering your ass after being called out for previously unknown behavior.

octoberlib

(14,971 posts)
47. Larry Sabato said that Northam was
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:19 PM
Feb 2019

all set to resign at 1pm today. He must have come up with this bright idea over night. It’s killing the party, he needs to resign.

Taraman

(373 posts)
48. This isn't just "some person", this is the governor of Virginia
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:20 PM
Feb 2019

that everyone looks to for role modeling and leadership. I wish him all the "evolution" life grants him, but he doesn't have to be a leader.

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
49. A yearbook photo - 18/19 yrs. old asshole
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:21 PM
Feb 2019

If you believe that growth, knowledge, wisdom, and compassion and maturity doesn't change you and he is still the same person he was back in his stupid adolescent years - make him pay for it. Make him resign. If you believe, as I do, that as people age they shed baggage such as prejudice and having a very narrow view of society, then you must believe he is not the person he was 35 years ago. Something about casting the first stone comes to mind.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
58. He was 25
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:42 PM
Feb 2019

" Something about casting the first stone comes to mind."


If your argument is let he or she who hasn't put on blackface or donned a Klan uniform cast the first stone you really need to brush up on your rhetorical skills.


 

packman

(16,296 posts)
77. Someone needs to brush up on the story about stone casting
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 02:29 PM
Feb 2019

My interpretation is that no-one is without fault and we - ALL - need to remember that one's life is a constant change. We need to look at the path one is on now rather than the dark road they stumbled from.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
78. Jesus also said
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 02:30 PM
Feb 2019

Jesus also said "For you will be treated as you treat others. The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged."

I am very comfortable in asserting I never mocked black peoples pain by putting on blackface or donning a Klan uniform.

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
81. Stretching it out a bit aren't you?
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 02:36 PM
Feb 2019

Tell you what - I'll continue to believe people can change and evolve and you believe what you want.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
82. He can evolve as a private citizen
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 02:40 PM
Feb 2019

I'm not going to trade a constituency that provides us with up to nearly 30% of our presidential popular vote while being only thirteen percent of the population for a trifling politician.

It's not a hill the Democratic party is prepared to die on. That is why everybody in it who is anybody has called for his resignation from NARAL to the NAACP to former Vice President Joe Biden.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
93. I was instructed it wasn't a persuasive argument. Is this a better one?
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 08:13 PM
Feb 2019

Every day this is in the news it portrays our party in a negative light and takes the focus off Trump.

Roy Rolling

(6,933 posts)
52. What's the Rush?
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:26 PM
Feb 2019

Most see an immediate resignation as the only punishment for a 1984 photo. I understand both sides, is it too much to not be forced to make a judgement immediately?

And, like it or not, who really gives a rat's ass what an out-of-stater like me thinks about Virginia's own elected governor? My judgement means little or nothing.


the_sly_pig

(741 posts)
56. Let those without sin cast the first stone....
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:36 PM
Feb 2019

That being said, Democrats must be seen as the party actually punishing people for their bad behavior regardless of when it happened. I slept on it and have determined that he must resign.

The problem being is that while Democrats hold themselves to a higher standard, will anyone notice?

We have a traitor in the White House who is a thief, a liar, a philanderer and whose minions are being prosecuted. 4 of 10 people in this country support these clowns. I find that hard to reconcile.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
72. "regardless of when it happened." I heartily disagree.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:22 PM
Feb 2019

Let whoever is without sin cast the first stone. Yes, this racism was egregious. But what's happened over the last 40 years? It is certainly grounds for examining his recent behavior more closely than we might otherwise. But, hey... Whoever is without sin...

Alpeduez21

(1,755 posts)
57. A lot of people use the he was a youngster argument
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:40 PM
Feb 2019

Would this same argument apply to Kavanaugh?

I think Northam should resign. I also thought it was right for Franken to resign. We can't claim the mantle of not tolerating racism or misogyny and then fail to enforce those morals in our own party.

The argument that blackface and lynching aren't the same would be true if the person in question held a much less important position. I would be embarrassed for my mail carrier if this were a photo of them but I don't think they should stop driving a mail truck. I do question whether a person who so glibly expressed racist tolerance was capable of deciding public policy.

Please stop confusing 1984 with 1884, too. 1984 wasn't so far in the past that blatant racism was 'just how things were.'

 

Fuzzpope

(602 posts)
61. This white boy
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:55 PM
Feb 2019

Stands with you.

Actually I'm more of a dirty white boy, maybe that has something to do with why I'm not a racist piece of crap.

 

doompatrol39

(428 posts)
62. They hypocrisy is nauseating....
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:57 PM
Feb 2019

It's horrifying to know that we have this many racism apologists on our side simply because it's a Democrat.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
73. I have had the same thoughts about some Republican, but can't remember who it was.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:25 PM
Feb 2019

I'm not defending the behavior at all. It was egregious racism. But when decades old bad behavior causes knee jerk self-righteousness I think it is a bad thing regardless of the target.

 

doompatrol39

(428 posts)
74. 1984?
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:39 PM
Feb 2019

I was only a teenager then but even I knew that wearing a KKK hood and/or blackface was outright fucking racist. As someone in their 20's Northam sure as fuck should have known better. That's not being self righteous that's just holding a public figure to the same standard I would hold myself, even though I was much younger at that time.

We're not talking Robert Byrd in the 50's here.

wcast

(595 posts)
76. I sometimes think there are people on this board who are only here to stir the pot.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 02:15 PM
Feb 2019

Reading some of the comments in this thread is disheartening. Of course wearing black face and/or posing in a Klan robe and hood is horrible. He should resign.

The same is true with other posters who routinely post about moderating progressive policies to win over so called Obama Democrats, or post negatively every time AOC is mentioned.

While I don’t agree with a rush to judgement until facts are know, ala Al Franken, Northam admitted it was him in the picture. If we as a party can overlook this, we are no better than the other side.

applegrove

(118,778 posts)
98. I suspect they 'let him stay in office' crowd had a little help from outside
Sun Feb 3, 2019, 03:58 AM
Feb 2019

the Democratic party if you know what I mean.

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