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Soph0571

(9,685 posts)
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 06:19 PM Feb 2019

Mea Culpa

I posted something earlier about the situation with Northam. Having spent the day reading the many wonderful and heartfelt posts from African American DUers I hold my hands up and say I am terribly sorry. I have to say that looking at the hurt people on this site feel, for those who have much more skin in this game than I, has made me re-examine my white privilege today in a way I have not done in a while. I believe I am normally an ally. I am anti-racist in my every day life, but I hesitated today to condemn obviously racist white male pale and stale bollocks, because democrat. That was just crap.

That is on me.

I apologise.

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Mea Culpa (Original Post) Soph0571 Feb 2019 OP
Lol. Good. nt cwydro Feb 2019 #1
This takes courage. eom guillaumeb Feb 2019 #2
Not as much courage as the DU'ers Soph0571 Feb 2019 #3
Those who read your posts know it is not who you are. eom guillaumeb Feb 2019 #4
Thank you :-) Soph0571 Feb 2019 #5
Mea culpas aren't easy, so I really appreciate your thoughtfulness and willingness to engage EffieBlack Feb 2019 #6
Thanks Effie Soph0571 Feb 2019 #7
I like this part of your post: kag Feb 2019 #8
Posted mine in the wee a.m. hours. nt Duppers Feb 2019 #9
Black voices matter fountainofyouth Feb 2019 #10

Soph0571

(9,685 posts)
3. Not as much courage as the DU'ers
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 06:29 PM
Feb 2019

Who have to live with this shit everyday. I became an apologist for a racist for a minute and that feels very bad to me. It is not who I am

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
6. Mea culpas aren't easy, so I really appreciate your thoughtfulness and willingness to engage
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 06:41 PM
Feb 2019

We are all learning.

kag

(4,079 posts)
8. I like this part of your post:
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 07:28 PM
Feb 2019

"I hesitated today to condemn obviously racist white male pale and stale bollocks, because democrat. That was just crap."

I admit I hesitated a bit myself, though I didn't do any posting. And I, too, was touched by some of the discussions here on DU.

I think the debacle with Al Franken has a lot of Democrats a bit cowed about calling out bad behavior. That's not an excuse, just an observation. I know that's what entered my mind early in this particular scandal, and I immediately went to "let's have an investigation. I mean he was young. Maybe he's changed." That kind of crap.

I thought about positions I held when I was young, and am now embarrassed by. In my young, Catholic days I was...ahem...against abortion rights. Ugh. But then I realized that I never had my picture taken carrying a sign with pictures of dead fetuses, and if I had, and I were running for office, I would have brought it out early and explained my change and growth since then, and I would have brought out receipts from my donations to Planned Parenthood over the last three decades.

Northam has tried to hide his behavior, has tried to deny it, and has basically insulted everyone's intelligence the whole way. I don't trust that he isn't still a bigoted racist jerk. He needs to go.

fountainofyouth

(409 posts)
10. Black voices matter
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 08:02 PM
Feb 2019

Many people flooded to this site here to announce their "forgiveness" for Northam, but it is not our (white people's) place to forgive when we were not the ones hurt most. I hope more readers will follow your example and realize that being a Democrat does not grant any particular person moral authority or superiority.

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