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I posted something earlier about the situation with Northam. Having spent the day reading the many wonderful and heartfelt posts from African American DUers I hold my hands up and say I am terribly sorry. I have to say that looking at the hurt people on this site feel, for those who have much more skin in this game than I, has made me re-examine my white privilege today in a way I have not done in a while. I believe I am normally an ally. I am anti-racist in my every day life, but I hesitated today to condemn obviously racist white male pale and stale bollocks, because democrat. That was just crap.
That is on me.
I apologise.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)Soph0571
(9,685 posts)Who have to live with this shit everyday. I became an apologist for a racist for a minute and that feels very bad to me. It is not who I am
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)Soph0571
(9,685 posts)That means a lot
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)We are all learning.
Soph0571
(9,685 posts)That means a lot coming from you
kag
(4,079 posts)"I hesitated today to condemn obviously racist white male pale and stale bollocks, because democrat. That was just crap."
I admit I hesitated a bit myself, though I didn't do any posting. And I, too, was touched by some of the discussions here on DU.
I think the debacle with Al Franken has a lot of Democrats a bit cowed about calling out bad behavior. That's not an excuse, just an observation. I know that's what entered my mind early in this particular scandal, and I immediately went to "let's have an investigation. I mean he was young. Maybe he's changed." That kind of crap.
I thought about positions I held when I was young, and am now embarrassed by. In my young, Catholic days I was...ahem...against abortion rights. Ugh. But then I realized that I never had my picture taken carrying a sign with pictures of dead fetuses, and if I had, and I were running for office, I would have brought it out early and explained my change and growth since then, and I would have brought out receipts from my donations to Planned Parenthood over the last three decades.
Northam has tried to hide his behavior, has tried to deny it, and has basically insulted everyone's intelligence the whole way. I don't trust that he isn't still a bigoted racist jerk. He needs to go.
Duppers
(28,127 posts)fountainofyouth
(409 posts)Many people flooded to this site here to announce their "forgiveness" for Northam, but it is not our (white people's) place to forgive when we were not the ones hurt most. I hope more readers will follow your example and realize that being a Democrat does not grant any particular person moral authority or superiority.