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littlemissmartypants

(22,689 posts)
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 08:25 AM Feb 2019

Virginia first lady under fire for handing cotton to African American students on mansion tour

Virginia first lady under fire for handing cotton to African American students on mansion tour

By Gregory S. Schneider and
Laura Vozzella February 27 at 6:15 PM

A Virginia state employee has complained that her eighth-grade daughter was upset during a tour of the historic governor’s residence when first lady Pam Northam handed raw cotton to her and another African American child and asked them to imagine being enslaved and having to pick the crop.

“The Governor and Mrs. Northam have asked the residents of the Commonwealth to forgive them for their racially insensitive past actions,” Leah Dozier Walker, who oversees the Office of Equity and Community Engagement at the state Education Department, wrote Feb. 25 to lawmakers and the office of Gov. Ralph Northam (D).

“But the actions of Mrs. Northam, just last week, do not lead me to believe that this Governor’s office has taken seriously the harm and hurt they have caused African Americans in Virginia or that they are deserving of our forgiveness,” she wrote.

More at the link.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/virginia-politics/virginia-first-lady-under-fire-for-handing-cotton-to-african-american-students-on-mansion-tour/2019/02/27/e03dedbe-3ac4-11e9-aaae-69364b2ed137_story.html?noredirect=on&utm_term=.959a3d1dc5eb#click=https://t.co/OnktQrVx5X

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And so it continues, the Black History Month From Hell.
What is WRONG with these people?

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Virginia first lady under fire for handing cotton to African American students on mansion tour (Original Post) littlemissmartypants Feb 2019 OP
WTF? rusty quoin Feb 2019 #1
Exactly. nt littlemissmartypants Feb 2019 #2
Was it just the two black students? 3Hotdogs Feb 2019 #3
I Have Mixed Feelings About This Vogon_Glory Feb 2019 #4
My maternal grandparents and their children, including my mother, were sharecroppers Lars39 Feb 2019 #7
Glen Campbell picked cotton in his youth. louis-t Feb 2019 #29
It's incredibly hard work. Lars39 Feb 2019 #32
Lots of people picked cotton. The first lady reportedly told these children to imagine being slaves. WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2019 #9
That would be the case at Mt. Vernon treestar Mar 2019 #41
No, it was to all the Gov Pages obamanut2012 Feb 2019 #36
If it wasn't "targeting" the black students - what's the problem? harumph Feb 2019 #5
It's as if all those creative ways to teach treestar Feb 2019 #6
She handed the cotton to an African-American student EffieBlack Feb 2019 #8
teachers have gotten it for these types of things too treestar Feb 2019 #11
Teachers need to be more sensitive to minority students in these situations EffieBlack Feb 2019 #13
You're 100% correct EllenJ Feb 2019 #16
So doing away with Black History Month and integrating it treestar Mar 2019 #38
Black history is American history EffieBlack Mar 2019 #40
I don't think those subjects can be taught without offending someone BannonsLiver Feb 2019 #18
Yes, it can. Dave Starsky Feb 2019 #23
There have been teachers who tried to get creative with it who have been fired. BannonsLiver Feb 2019 #25
I just published a new apology because I thought you were being facetious. Dave Starsky Feb 2019 #27
That describes slavery in general treestar Mar 2019 #39
+1000 littlemissmartypants Feb 2019 #12
I absolutely agree. Not everyone knows how to teach. LisaM Feb 2019 #31
that is what happens at the real Holocost museum dsc Feb 2019 #15
But everyone who goes in is given this. A couple of kids aren't singled out. EffieBlack Feb 2019 #17
Yes, that's a glaring difference. LisaM Feb 2019 #33
inappropriate circumstance GeorgeGist Feb 2019 #10
Completely agree. nt littlemissmartypants Feb 2019 #14
What the actual hell? Next up: let's give some Chinese-American kids a pickaxe, Maru Kitteh Feb 2019 #19
You know what? Blue_Tires Feb 2019 #20
It sounds as if she handed the cotton to other non-black children too. Sapient Donkey Feb 2019 #21
Something a lot of poster in this thread are missing. rogue emissary Feb 2019 #22
But a teacher can't assume that. A teacher teaches everyone, regardless. Dave Starsky Feb 2019 #24
I'm using my own experience. rogue emissary Feb 2019 #30
And that is from your perspective. Dave Starsky Feb 2019 #35
I went to school at the end of segregation treestar Mar 2019 #42
My daughter has been taught about slavery in Virginia schools underpants Feb 2019 #26
I'd have to hear more of the context of the discussion to determine just how wrong this is ... mr_lebowski Feb 2019 #28
To my understanding, that's how it was presented. Dave Starsky Feb 2019 #34
It was presented that way obamanut2012 Feb 2019 #37
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Northam: At this point, YOU HAVE ONE JOB!!! bullwinkle428 Mar 2019 #43

3Hotdogs

(12,384 posts)
3. Was it just the two black students?
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 08:39 AM
Feb 2019

My wife was a 10th grade student in suburban N.J. One day, he distributed raw cotton to each student in her class and told them to take the seeds out. This was life before the cotton gin.

Vogon_Glory

(9,118 posts)
4. I Have Mixed Feelings About This
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 09:44 AM
Feb 2019

Last edited Thu Feb 28, 2019, 11:35 AM - Edit history (1)

If it was just Afro-American students, I’d say it was insensitive as all get-out. OTOH, I think handing cotton balls to white and other kids would also have made sense. NOT ALL COTTON-PICKERS WERE AFRO-AMERICAN. There were a LOT of white cotton-pickers back in the days before machines took over, particularly migrant laborers and share-croppers, and learning the unpleasant and occasionally painful parts of picking cotton makes for a more rounded education.

Lars39

(26,109 posts)
7. My maternal grandparents and their children, including my mother, were sharecroppers
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 10:56 AM
Feb 2019

and picked cotton. Horrible work. The conversations between the siblings were sure eye openers.

louis-t

(23,295 posts)
29. Glen Campbell picked cotton in his youth.
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 05:58 PM
Feb 2019

He claimed one of his shoulders was lower than the other because of dragging a heavy bag around.

Lars39

(26,109 posts)
32. It's incredibly hard work.
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 06:25 PM
Feb 2019

I'll never forget the looks on my mother and aunt's faces when they were talking about it, or when they were discussing a neighbor
planting a few cotton plants in a flower bed because it was "pretty". <eyeroll>

treestar

(82,383 posts)
41. That would be the case at Mt. Vernon
Sun Mar 3, 2019, 12:03 PM
Mar 2019

What's wrong with the white children imagining that? Wouldn't that be desirable for them to learn? And for pete's sake, black children today know no more of it. I suspect now you will argue their disadvantages, and I see that, but they aren't still picking cotton or slaves.

harumph

(1,900 posts)
5. If it wasn't "targeting" the black students - what's the problem?
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 10:35 AM
Feb 2019

In other words, if white students got a piece of cotton and were told to
imagine "picking" it as slaves etc.., would there be a problem? Or,
should we have a custom curriculum for each and every student?

Let's say you're at a holocaust museum and are handed a number and
asked to imagine what it would be like to be reduced to a number.
History is replete with suffering. How do you get that across?
What teaching methods do you suggest that won't upset
some people?

Seriously...

treestar

(82,383 posts)
6. It's as if all those creative ways to teach
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 10:41 AM
Feb 2019

maybe should be given up during Black History Month. Stick to dry lectures.

A teacher in my family got away with dramatizing a slave auction in the 90s. Students of either race could take any of the parts. She was very popular and in sync with kids, so I guess that is how she got away with it. Now I'm thinking it would go viral and get her fired.

Hell, even a dry lecture about picking cotton would be taken amiss. But then skipping the entire subject would be offensive too, I predict.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
8. She handed the cotton to an African-American student
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 11:19 AM
Feb 2019

and asked them to imagine what it would have been like to be a slave picking cotton.

Maybe she would have done the same thing to a white student if they were standing closest to her. But it was tone-deaf and insensitive.

As a former black child, I remember those kinds of class trips and "learning experiences" and remember how mortifying it was to feel as if I was an exhibit. These things have to be handled very carefully and she blew it.

Perhaps the governors' spouses should leave these kinds of "learning experiences" to historians and teachers who know how to do them without making the children feel embarrassed or uncomfortable.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
11. teachers have gotten it for these types of things too
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 12:20 PM
Feb 2019

there have been those cases. How are kids to learn about the antebellum and Jim Crow era South and its practices? What is the ideal plan?

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
13. Teachers need to be more sensitive to minority students in these situations
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 12:30 PM
Feb 2019

It's very awkward and uncomfortable when they're made to feel as if they're on display or are being treated as Exhibits - especially since slavery and black history is usually not taught as part of the regular curriculum but often treated as something separate and distinct from the rest of American history.

For example, when I was a kid, I can remember holding my breath and the heat rising to my face during Black History Month when the teacher started talking about some aspect of slavery or brought up one of the three black people we always covered almost exclusively - Frederick Douglass, Booker T. Washington and Martin Luther King (sometimes Harriet Tubman made it in there) - knowing that all of the white students would turn and look at me for my reaction and that I would likely get called on to offer my perspective. It was horrible to be singled out that way.

It's better now, but it still happens too often.

It takes sensitivity and skill to discuss these issues with young people and can't just rely on good intentions.

One way to learn about the antebellum and Jim Crow era South is for it to be taught as an integral part of American history, not some special, standalone lesson that ends up putting minority students on the spot.

EllenJ

(12 posts)
16. You're 100% correct
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 12:41 PM
Feb 2019

I work with a historical museum that does a lot of teaching about slavery and the docents all have extensive training in how to handle this history with young people. Among other things, they're very skilled at walking the fine line between encouraging empathy and understanding on one hand, and making young black people feel awkward and embarrassed and white youngters feel guilty, on the other.

For example, they would know not to single out kids - be they black or white - by handing them cotton and asking them to imagine what it was like to be a slave. There's nothing wrong with asking them to step into someone else's skin. There's nothing wrong with using cotton as a visual aid. But to hand it to a couple of students was tone-deaf. Kids aren't adults. They react to these things very differently and children who are in racial minorities are particularly sensitive to theae kinds of things because they're ALWAYS singled out by and among their peers, often unintentionally and sometimes without anyone actually doing anything but just by being present in their different skin color.it may be hard for anyone who isn't, as you described yourself, "a former black child," to understand, but it's very real.

Thanks for trying to explain it.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
38. So doing away with Black History Month and integrating it
Sun Mar 3, 2019, 11:55 AM
Mar 2019

with American History rather than as a special standalone lesson. Would that be any improvement, when the subjects still came up? Just mentioning Frederick Douglas puts the minority students on the spot and makes them feel like an exhibit. I imagine not every black student feels this way as there are probably as many different reactions as there are black people.

Our schools were de facto segregated still (a busing order started when I had already graduated) and we had one black family only (they lived in the district). There was no Black History Month then. I don't think we learned about it except as it came up from the civil war. I didn't know our one black student that well to know if he had any issues in his classes. That sounds like your situation? But after integration, where there would be a number of black students in the class and it might not have be as bad a feeling.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
40. Black history is American history
Sun Mar 3, 2019, 12:01 PM
Mar 2019

Carter G. Woodson started Black History Month in 1926 because black history was ignored in school curricula.

It's long past time for black history to be integrated into ordinary history classes as a natural part of American History and not segregated out as some strange, separate aspect of out past and only recognized one month a year.

BannonsLiver

(16,387 posts)
18. I don't think those subjects can be taught without offending someone
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 12:57 PM
Feb 2019

Probably best to leave it as independent study at this point. Assign some books, have the students read them, and then write reports only they and the instructor see to make sure they have learned the material and then move on. I think given the times we live in it’s probably the safest route.

Dave Starsky

(5,914 posts)
23. Yes, it can.
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 04:30 PM
Feb 2019

Last edited Thu Feb 28, 2019, 05:43 PM - Edit history (1)

Just give every kid, regardless of color, a generic, meticulous, backbreaking, and mindnumbing task and have them do it for a few minutes. Tell them they need to complete x units in y time. Have a stopwatch handy.

The task can be anything. Bending over, reaching down, and assembling Lego into certain configurations. Bending over, reaching down, and crafting pieces of paper on the floor into specific shapes which mustl be put into a bucket.

Let the students know how they did on the exercise. Let them also know that, historically, they would have been whipped, beaten, or otherwise punished severely if they didn't complete x units in y time.That's what slavery, in any form, is all about.

On edit: I see now that you were being facetious. My apologies.

BannonsLiver

(16,387 posts)
25. There have been teachers who tried to get creative with it who have been fired.
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 05:44 PM
Feb 2019

Basically if you’re a history teacher in an American school first off you’re probably feeling under appreciated because there is almost no value placed on history as a subject in our schools, but you’re also tempted to stick to the textbook exclusively on controversial subjects because it’s a mine field.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
39. That describes slavery in general
Sun Mar 3, 2019, 12:00 PM
Mar 2019

Your suggestion is not a non-offensive way to teach black history to students, black and white. Your suggestion would make the black students feel like they were on the spot.

The state first lady tried to do just that, at least in imagination. It was about picking cotton, which white people did too, though not at Mt. Vernon. Your suggestion parallels hers.

littlemissmartypants

(22,689 posts)
12. +1000
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 12:30 PM
Feb 2019

Completely tone deaf to the students. Very poor judgement! The first family of Virginia seems to be out of their depth with lots of privilege showing. Handing out free cotton samples with a historic brochure would have been better, but not by much.

LisaM

(27,813 posts)
31. I absolutely agree. Not everyone knows how to teach.
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 06:24 PM
Feb 2019

I was actually aghast when I heard this story.

dsc

(52,162 posts)
15. that is what happens at the real Holocost museum
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 12:36 PM
Feb 2019

it might be both the name and number but you are given details of a person as part of your ticket.

LisaM

(27,813 posts)
33. Yes, that's a glaring difference.
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 06:26 PM
Feb 2019

I went to a Titanic exhibit once, same thing, everyone was given the name of a passenger on the way in and could learn that person's fate at the end (not that being on the Titanic compared to slavery or the Holocaust, but it was an egalitarian exercise).

Maru Kitteh

(28,340 posts)
19. What the actual hell? Next up: let's give some Chinese-American kids a pickaxe,
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 01:03 PM
Feb 2019

and ask them to demonstrate laying some rail line.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
20. You know what?
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 01:36 PM
Feb 2019

At this point just lock the Northams in the Governor's Office by day and the Governor's Mansion in the evenings and don't let them out until the 2021 election...

Ralph doesn't need to be out in public to sign/veto legislation and Pam doesn't need to be in public to perform philanthropic works...

Sapient Donkey

(1,568 posts)
21. It sounds as if she handed the cotton to other non-black children too.
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 01:45 PM
Feb 2019

Based on this part of the article:

“I will give you the benefit of the doubt, because you gave it to some other pages,” the girl wrote to Pam Northam. “But you followed this up by asking: ‘Can you imagine being an enslaved person, and having to pick this all day?’, which didn’t help the damage you had done.”


I'm wondering if the best course of action would have been for her to ignore the black children and not include them in the discussion, or if it would have been best to simply not discuss the horrors of slavery at all.

rogue emissary

(3,148 posts)
22. Something a lot of poster in this thread are missing.
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 03:22 PM
Feb 2019

Her question is problematic, cause it assume the black kids haven't thought about slavery.

No matter their age. they've thought about and been exposed to the history before a teacher covered it. Black parents can't depend on Virginia's school curriculum. If they want their children taught the truth about the civil war and slavery. They have to do it themselves.

Dave Starsky

(5,914 posts)
24. But a teacher can't assume that. A teacher teaches everyone, regardless.
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 05:18 PM
Feb 2019

When I first entered this thread, I thought it was about a teacher who handed cotton to two black students and left it at that. That, apparently, is not the case. It seems like the lesson she was trying to teach was equitable to all of the students.

rogue emissary

(3,148 posts)
30. I'm using my own experience.
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 06:13 PM
Feb 2019

I can't remember a time where I didn't know about slavery and the civil war to some degree. My mom made sure to teach me things she felt the school didn't properly cover about our history.

Dave Starsky

(5,914 posts)
35. And that is from your perspective.
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 06:53 PM
Feb 2019

Amazingly, a lot of people newly minted and growing up in the 21st Century don't know about this and can't even comprehend what it was like to be a slave in early America. I mean, we all know that slavery happened, but we don't KNOW how terrible it was.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
42. I went to school at the end of segregation
Sun Mar 3, 2019, 12:05 PM
Mar 2019

I know we learned about it, but probably not that much. It was likely a lot more about battles and causes of the War that included the states rights' and other such issues. What I know I have picked up on my own as an adult. In fact, in high school the biggest race question was the impending possible busing order. I was for it, I recall, but there were students dead set against it. I think we were allowed to discuss it in class. It was more of a current event.

underpants

(182,824 posts)
26. My daughter has been taught about slavery in Virginia schools
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 05:46 PM
Feb 2019

Since the third grade at least. The civil rights movement and massive resistance.

Christopher Columbus is fully covered as is the ugly truths about Jamestown/Pocahontas

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
28. I'd have to hear more of the context of the discussion to determine just how wrong this is ...
Thu Feb 28, 2019, 05:51 PM
Feb 2019

"Imagine being a slave and having to do XYZ" is potentially a worthwhile means of illustrating an educational point, as long as the same is being to told to everyone ... black, white, asian, etc.

POTENTIALLY.

bullwinkle428

(20,629 posts)
43. Dear Mr. & Mrs. Northam: At this point, YOU HAVE ONE JOB!!!
Sun Mar 3, 2019, 12:18 PM
Mar 2019

And that would be, try not to do anything at all that may come across as potentially racially insensitive!

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