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MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
Thu Mar 14, 2019, 03:58 PM Mar 2019

College Admission - The Rich Kids Have Different Rules

Thus has it always been. Legacy kids get in because, well, they're legacy kids. Daddy and Grandpa went there, so Sonny can go there, too. Of course, as successful alumni, the Daddies are expected to be very generous in their donations and even bequests to the school, so that's OK, see. That's how the "Old Families" do it. If Sonny Legacy needs help with academics, well, there are tutors, you understand, and classes especially designed for such legacy kids.

No legacy? Well, then you'll need to talk to the school. Perhaps they need a new building or an endowed professorship. That will help Sonny Richboy get accepted, as long as he meets some special relaxed admission standards and your donation is adequate. Of course, there's no connection between Sonny's admission and your donation (wink, wink, nudge, nudge). On the other hand, if Sonny graduates, as some do, eventually, his children will be legacies, so there's that.

Are you a celebrity? A well-known politician with significant clout? Then, there's a good chance our University will find a place for your child. An actor? Suzy Thespian is welcome to apply to the Drama Department or one of the artistic departments. A little publicity would be nice, of course. Your publicist will understand what to do. A Senator or prominent House member? A President or notable cabinet member? We'd love to meet your offspring. We're sure your daughter Liberty will do very well here. Did I mention the research we are doing into (name the parent's special interest). We hope you'll consider supporting our current grant proposal. It's very important research, indeed.

None of those? Well, we encourage your son or daughter to apply for admission as well. Being a National Merit Scholar is a big help. A 36 ACT score is also nice. Are there news clippings of your child's extraordinary accomplishments in a major newspaper? Is your child part of a state championship athletic team? Yes? Then, let us put you in touch with Coach Johnson. Perhaps he will take an interest. We are also looking for a few students who stand out in other ways, as part of our commitment to diversity. We can discuss that further, after receiving the application.

Each year we admit many, many accomplished new scholars without consideration of their family's means, and have scholarship programs that cover many areas. We also can show you how you can take out student loans to cover our exorbitant tuition and other fees. However, our admission standards are extremely high, so we encourage your son or daughter to apply to other schools as well.

Thank you for your interest in our renowned university.



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College Admission - The Rich Kids Have Different Rules (Original Post) MineralMan Mar 2019 OP
As a I friend of mine (who has a pretty well connected client base) once famously said underpants Mar 2019 #1
Even if they're not famous, they can pay for college prep classes. LisaM Mar 2019 #2
I got accepted at Cal Tech in 1963. MineralMan Mar 2019 #3
Yes,but,remember, Wellstone ruled Mar 2019 #4
Yes, exactly. MineralMan Mar 2019 #5
Mine was $1350 for the full year. Wellstone ruled Mar 2019 #7
Well, I dropped out in my sophomore year. MineralMan Mar 2019 #8
Dropped out after three years. Wellstone ruled Mar 2019 #9
When I went back, I was 24 years old and a third-year student. MineralMan Mar 2019 #10
Chemical Engineering here. Wellstone ruled Mar 2019 #11
Just another example of "If you have money you can do anything in America" walkingman Mar 2019 #6

underpants

(182,829 posts)
1. As a I friend of mine (who has a pretty well connected client base) once famously said
Thu Mar 14, 2019, 04:11 PM
Mar 2019

"Look there are kids being born today at St. Mary's who with go the St. Catherine's or St. Christopher's or Collegiate or Benedictine and then go to UVA or Hampden-Sydney or Washington & Lee or wherever the family goes. It's pre-determined. Those slots are theirs the day they are born".

*if they screw up really badly at those private schools they can always go to Randolph-Macon and (at one time) learn economics from Dave Brat.

LisaM

(27,813 posts)
2. Even if they're not famous, they can pay for college prep classes.
Thu Mar 14, 2019, 04:12 PM
Mar 2019

There are a variety of ways the influential and the affluent come out on top in our system. I knew people growing up whose kids could have gotten into school and whose families wouldn't pay the tuition, and I've known kids who took out student loans and banked them (because they really didn't need them) because of the low interest, essentially earning interest money on those loans.

This is just one more of a long list of things that influential people can do to get their kids into college. Maybe businesses need to stop fixating on the name of the school where someone got a degree and focus on the candidate herself.

There is plenty of blame to go around here. Our system is messed up. We dwell too much on credentialism as it is. Not everyone even needs a college education.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
3. I got accepted at Cal Tech in 1963.
Thu Mar 14, 2019, 04:48 PM
Mar 2019

My parents told me, quite plainly, that they couldn't afford it. And that was that. So I went to a state college, which was just fine. It didn't really matter. I got the education, without the stress. I suppose, for some business careers, the school matters, but not for most professions, really. It's what you do after that really matters, unless you are only mediocre in your abilities.

On Wall Street and in the law, I suppose your school matters. Elsewhere, abilities matter more.

 

Wellstone ruled

(34,661 posts)
4. Yes,but,remember,
Thu Mar 14, 2019, 05:32 PM
Mar 2019

Your State was Number One in promoting College Education and had a relatively inexpensive cost system until Reagan blew that up.

We in Wisconsin had a somewhat similiar system at that same time frame which was blown up by Republican Governors in later decades.

And if you were in the top 10% of your Graduating Class,you could apply for and most likely were accepted at any of the State Colleges or State University.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
5. Yes, exactly.
Thu Mar 14, 2019, 05:39 PM
Mar 2019

At the time, there was no tuition for state residents. Fees for each semester were about $100. I remember, too, that my dorm room and board, per semester, was $600. We need to return to that model. Seriously.

 

Wellstone ruled

(34,661 posts)
7. Mine was $1350 for the full year.
Thu Mar 14, 2019, 05:53 PM
Mar 2019

Was able to do work study plus carry a extended or what was called a accelerated program which got you out the door in three years rather than four.

Like you mention,that model worked extremely well for you and I.

Here is what seemed to blow things up. Vietnam and the S2 program,saw this first hand,State Politico's and those with bucks were abusing the College entrance as a method of keeping Junior out of the Service.

At that time,living in Wisconsin your chances of a Draft Call Up a few days after your 18 th B-Day was a certainty , and Wisconsin had a County Draft Board System that rewarded Draft Board Members with Perks by pumping up the numbers of Draftees.

So if you maintained a 1.75 or higher GPA,your S2 stayed alive.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
8. Well, I dropped out in my sophomore year.
Thu Mar 14, 2019, 06:10 PM
Mar 2019

It didn't take long for my draft notice to show up. But, I fooled them! I enlisted in the USAF for four years.

I went back on the GI bill in 1969. New major, same school. I stayed there, including grad school until the money ran out. Good times!

 

Wellstone ruled

(34,661 posts)
9. Dropped out after three years.
Thu Mar 14, 2019, 06:57 PM
Mar 2019

One semester short,had to help support my family. Got my Draft Notice two weeks after returning home. Flunked the Phys,but got called up four times more and the same results.

Finished up at the U of M as a Weekend Student . Hey,there were several old timers doing the same at the time.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
10. When I went back, I was 24 years old and a third-year student.
Thu Mar 14, 2019, 08:31 PM
Mar 2019

I had been an electronics engineering major, and had a year's worth of credits from Syracuse University from the 24/7 total immersion Russian Language school the USAF sent me to at SU. I re-enrolled as an English major, and for two years, the only classes I took were in the English Department. I had fulfilled all my other requirements earlier and in the USAF, including 3 units of Russian History and 3 units of Political Science. So, about all I did for two years was read and write papers for English professors. It was very easy.

Then, I still had another year of eligibility on the GI bill. So, I went on there in their Master's program. I finished almost all the Master's requirements, but the GI Bill money stopped, so I stopped too. I didn't care. I was back in school killing time, really, until I decided what I wanted to do.

 

Wellstone ruled

(34,661 posts)
11. Chemical Engineering here.
Thu Mar 14, 2019, 08:53 PM
Mar 2019

So much for all the Lab Explosions,loved the Sales Business and never looked back. Honestly,have zero clue where my Sheepskin is. Still one of those experiences one can ever have. No friggin regrets,sure met a ton of great folks along the way.

walkingman

(7,628 posts)
6. Just another example of "If you have money you can do anything in America"
Thu Mar 14, 2019, 05:45 PM
Mar 2019

but not a surprise to me. For decades alumni donations have gotten children accepted to schools. Athletes have lower standards than "regular" students. There are countless ways to play the system and many a $$$ related.

The big question is "Why is it so important for students to attend a particular college"? I think that says a lot about our society.

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