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Took someone to the ER today (nothing too serious) and have just one thing to say (Original Post) RandySF May 2019 OP
100% Tripper11 May 2019 #1
I 100% agree! So much respect for them! Nt USALiberal May 2019 #2
Listen to the doctors but trust and believe the nurses Brother Buzz May 2019 #3
Make the best GF... safeinOhio May 2019 #4
I've never been anyone's girlfriend. tymorial May 2019 #13
If your leg falls off IronLionZion May 2019 #32
My kids might agree. hunter May 2019 #33
Same here IronLionZion May 2019 #36
+ 10,000 MBS May 2019 #34
This Is So True RobinA May 2019 #48
As the system works now... Maxheader May 2019 #5
They have helped us out enough for me to say: DFW May 2019 #6
Definitely unsung heroes Hav May 2019 #27
Doctors are trained to have a "quarterback" mentality FakeNoose May 2019 #46
Absolutely! lunatica May 2019 #7
Took someone to the ER today (nothing too serious) and have just one thing to say ffo May 2019 #8
$50 RandySF May 2019 #10
Thanks! As a retired nurse who worked a good number of years in emergency rms it means a lot Thekaspervote May 2019 #9
Me too. I eventually went in another direction but I miss the ER sometimes tymorial May 2019 #14
Had a nodule removed from my thyroid... mbusby May 2019 #11
Yes we do! tymorial May 2019 #12
I wish I could say that about my experience Crunchy Frog May 2019 #15
Add me to the list of patients bluecollar2 May 2019 #16
Yes they do but hospitals don't yaesu May 2019 #17
I was in ICU for two weeks once long ago wryter2000 May 2019 #18
"Those ICU nurses saved my life." mitch96 May 2019 #28
YES! They Do! Aristus May 2019 #19
I'm surprised they weren't all too busy with their card game and whatnot... Volaris May 2019 #20
just brought my partner handmade34 May 2019 #21
Thanks! I think so, too! flying_wahini May 2019 #22
My oldest son is engaged to a nurse, and she is amazing! 11 Bravo May 2019 #23
Nurses are the best! nt DesertRat May 2019 #24
The good ones sure do. Harker May 2019 #25
YES YES YES. LakeArenal May 2019 #29
This RN would also like to add that CNA's are GROSSLY UNDERPAID for the work they do. Maru Kitteh May 2019 #44
I went to the ER on March 29. Gore1FL May 2019 #26
I wouldn't blame the nurses for that. hunter May 2019 #38
I don't. As I said, Nurses Rock. Gore1FL May 2019 #40
I had a hospital stay last year charliea May 2019 #47
Yes they do. I worked part time for two years in an emergency room (clerical, during college).... George II May 2019 #30
Yes they do seta1950 May 2019 #31
I've been married to one for 24 years. Mr.Bill May 2019 #35
I have a functioning arm today as a result of the outstanding work they do pecosbob May 2019 #37
Holy shit what a story! Codeine May 2019 #43
Guess we both learned a lesson pecosbob May 2019 #50
Totally and completely agree! Stonepounder May 2019 #39
i need to go one winter wee hours. turns out i was allergic to my anti-biotic. i was not let go til pansypoo53219 May 2019 #41
...when they're not playing cards..... lastlib May 2019 #42
...Having had 3 titanicdave May 2019 #45
When you get to see one zipplewrath May 2019 #49

Tripper11

(4,338 posts)
1. 100%
Mon May 20, 2019, 02:33 PM
May 2019

Nurses are the backbone of healthcare. They put up with and deal with more in a day than a lot of people could in a lifetime!

Brother Buzz

(36,469 posts)
3. Listen to the doctors but trust and believe the nurses
Mon May 20, 2019, 02:42 PM
May 2019

The BEST advice I received from someone I trusted explicitly. Someone in the medical field.

tymorial

(3,433 posts)
13. I've never been anyone's girlfriend.
Mon May 20, 2019, 03:31 PM
May 2019

Well I have been called girlfriend but that was just gay slang

hunter

(38,328 posts)
33. My kids might agree.
Mon May 20, 2019, 06:37 PM
May 2019
Okay, it is what it is, and we'll deal with it. Not the worst shit we've seen.

And I've nephews and nieces with the same sort of parents.

IronLionZion

(45,542 posts)
36. Same here
Mon May 20, 2019, 07:21 PM
May 2019

My heart would have to stop beating before they'd take me to the ER. They've always seen much worse.

RobinA

(9,894 posts)
48. This Is So True
Tue May 21, 2019, 02:21 PM
May 2019

And not an especially good thing. Not because they let you die, they don’t. But because it’s so invalidating to be told your sliced finger doesn’t really hurt, since it’s not like you chopped your arm off or something. I STILL don’t know when it’s OK to be upset, and I’m 60!!!

Maxheader

(4,374 posts)
5. As the system works now...
Mon May 20, 2019, 02:49 PM
May 2019

the phds' would be nothing without the rns'..The docs are heros out on the battle field, but in today's system, its all about closing out one patients appointment, so they can work on someone else..The nurses are the ones I can get a hold of if I have a question...

DFW

(54,445 posts)
6. They have helped us out enough for me to say:
Mon May 20, 2019, 02:59 PM
May 2019

They sure do!!

I have been in hospitals, and my wife has been in them more than she ever hoped to need to be. Two rounds of heart trouble for me, two LONG rounds of cancer for her.

Nurses ABSOLUTELY rock.

Whenever we check out of a hospital (and we never go in unless it's something really serious, which it has been WAY too often for us), we always leave €40 or €50 in the nurse station's "Kaffeekasse (coffee fund)" so they can buy occasional treats for the nurses in the station. They are there day and night for us, and never once unload their personal problems or weariness from the long hours on us.

Definitely in the unsung heroes category of people.

Hav

(5,969 posts)
27. Definitely unsung heroes
Mon May 20, 2019, 04:56 PM
May 2019

but it seems not only outside the hospitals. In TV series (at least American ones), they are often shown as in a very strong position in comparison to doctors. In a stark contrast, when I had short internship during my studies in hospitals, it was at times shocking to see how some doctors, a surgeon in particular, behaved. So I'm pretty sure they value these little signs of appreciation because there is no question they have to deal with alot.

FakeNoose

(32,777 posts)
46. Doctors are trained to have a "quarterback" mentality
Tue May 21, 2019, 01:00 PM
May 2019

I don't know about other parts of the world, but in the US doctors are trained to listen to nobody else. It's partly a sexist attitude because the vast majority of nurses and technicians are women. But really it's more of an "I'm the boss" behavior than anything, whether the doctor is male or female.

I don't know how the nurses can bite their tongues and work near them, or for them.

ffo

(15 posts)
8. Took someone to the ER today (nothing too serious) and have just one thing to say
Mon May 20, 2019, 03:07 PM
May 2019

Goes w/out saying.
But how about that bill? How much and for what?

tymorial

(3,433 posts)
14. Me too. I eventually went in another direction but I miss the ER sometimes
Mon May 20, 2019, 03:37 PM
May 2019

Waves of controlled chaos.

mbusby

(823 posts)
11. Had a nodule removed from my thyroid...
Mon May 20, 2019, 03:23 PM
May 2019

...for testing back in the day. A nurse came in with a morphine dose and said "enjoy it while it's legal..."


yaesu

(8,020 posts)
17. Yes they do but hospitals don't
Mon May 20, 2019, 03:44 PM
May 2019

my last ER visit was like 3k out of pocket for an ultrasound exam & urine test, about an hour stay.

mitch96

(13,926 posts)
28. "Those ICU nurses saved my life."
Mon May 20, 2019, 05:10 PM
May 2019

I've seen more nurses save DOCTORS from making serious mistakes in ICU... They are with the patient 8-10-12 hours a day and know what's going on. The eyes and ears of the unit..
m

Harker

(14,041 posts)
25. The good ones sure do.
Mon May 20, 2019, 04:43 PM
May 2019

CNAs, too.

In fact, good people who do their best to help those in need all rock.

LakeArenal

(28,847 posts)
29. YES YES YES.
Mon May 20, 2019, 05:14 PM
May 2019

CNAs are so under appreciated.

Specialty nurses. Neonatal. Watching the sick babies. Emergency (my sis in law). what they see..

Then my SIL nursed her mother until she passed.

I don’t know how the do the work and then eat lunch or decide on dinner.

Thank YOU for your service.

Maru Kitteh

(28,343 posts)
44. This RN would also like to add that CNA's are GROSSLY UNDERPAID for the work they do.
Tue May 21, 2019, 12:00 PM
May 2019

It's demanding, emotionally exhausting and hard on their bodies. Also true of nursing, but CNA's paychecks are truly woeful in most areas.

Gore1FL

(21,152 posts)
26. I went to the ER on March 29.
Mon May 20, 2019, 04:48 PM
May 2019

I'm insured with a PPO from work. So far the bills are in excess of $1000, and that doesn't count any of the post-care.

I considered going again this weekend based on symptoms, but opted out. I guess it was worth the gamble because I am still here and have the $1000 I guess I would have spent.

Yes, nurses rock.

hunter

(38,328 posts)
38. I wouldn't blame the nurses for that.
Mon May 20, 2019, 08:04 PM
May 2019

I've suffered ER visits that multiplied into unpayable bills over $10,000. That's after supposedly "good" insurance paid.

I once made the mistake of showing a hospital my VISA card. I haven't had a credit card since, and I don't want one.

You can blame that on the shitty health care system of this nation.


charliea

(260 posts)
47. I had a hospital stay last year
Tue May 21, 2019, 01:04 PM
May 2019

I thought I had the flu until a rash showed up the next day, spent 6 days in the hospital with IV antibiotics for cellulitis, had a private room too (could have been infection concerns), Nurses were great! I too have good insurance from my employer, but between the rising deductibles and a long stay I was on the hook for 10% of the total charge, or about $3K.
Six months later I had a recurrence, but I recognized the symptoms more quickly and started antibiotics earlier, no hospital required.

George II

(67,782 posts)
30. Yes they do. I worked part time for two years in an emergency room (clerical, during college)....
Mon May 20, 2019, 05:35 PM
May 2019

...and can attest to the professionalism and dedication of nurses who put patient comfort and treatment above all else.

I should say that my wife is a nurse, too! I know.

Mr.Bill

(24,330 posts)
35. I've been married to one for 24 years.
Mon May 20, 2019, 07:19 PM
May 2019

My stepdaughter is an RN/Administrator who runs two departments in our hospital. She's the fourth generation nurse in the family.

Something nurses say amongst themselves:
You what's the first thing they teach you in nursing school? How to keep doctors from killing patients.

pecosbob

(7,545 posts)
37. I have a functioning arm today as a result of the outstanding work they do
Mon May 20, 2019, 07:45 PM
May 2019

Near cut my arm off in a work accident falling off of a roof onto an iron fence with spikes last summer here in Las Vegas. Had to tie my belt around my arm to keep from bleeding to death. The EMTs took me straight to the Trauma ward instead of the Emergency Room and I was on an operating table within hours. I'm sixty and yet the surgeons and nurses were able to restore full use of my arm. I will forever remain in debt to these people. Think I'm going to hold on to this belt also...

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
43. Holy shit what a story!
Tue May 21, 2019, 11:18 AM
May 2019

I remember when I was about eight I climbed a chain link fence, slipped off, and was hanging upside down from the wire that was dug deep into the side of my groin for several minutes until someone happened along to rescue me. My story rather pales in comparison to yours, however!

Stonepounder

(4,033 posts)
39. Totally and completely agree!
Mon May 20, 2019, 08:34 PM
May 2019

Awhile back I had open heart surgery. It's not a lot of fun, and after the surgery you really don't feel like eating. The nurses try and coax you into eating, since you really need calories because your body is working like a mule trying to help you heal. One morning breakfast arrived and I just couldn't eat it. My nurse suggested just some toast fingers and I agreed I would try. I didn't realize until she showed back up with the toast that it wasn't the kitchen that had made the toast, it was my nurse who had gone back to their break room and toasted it herself, and then cut it into strips to make it easier to eat. They are angels.

My doctors have all been professionals, but they are concerned only with my physical condition. My nurses have been concerned with both my physical and my mental condition.

Nurses make hospital stays bearable and I have never, ever met a grumpy nurse!

pansypoo53219

(21,000 posts)
41. i need to go one winter wee hours. turns out i was allergic to my anti-biotic. i was not let go til
Tue May 21, 2019, 05:50 AM
May 2019

i was past the time schedule. they did have low light + it was quiet.

lastlib

(23,309 posts)
42. ...when they're not playing cards.....
Tue May 21, 2019, 11:11 AM
May 2019


(I still can't believe that idjit GOPher legislator actually had the nerve to say that!)

titanicdave

(429 posts)
45. ...Having had 3
Tue May 21, 2019, 12:50 PM
May 2019

.....spine surgeries over a 16 month period and each one requiring a hospital stay of varied lengths, I can honestly say that the RN's are far and away the very best and they are the people who keep the hospitals humming and keeping everything as it should be......a great big.......THANK..... YOU....NURSES......YOU.....ROCK !!!!

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
49. When you get to see one
Tue May 21, 2019, 02:27 PM
May 2019

Last 3 hospital stays in which I was involved, I was surprised by how little the nurse was "seen". Everyone that came in was a "technician" or "specialist". Most of them under 25 as well. If everything is going to plan, one just doesn't get to actually see the nurse that much. I guess it's because their time is too valuable for the routine stuff.

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