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Demovictory9

(32,475 posts)
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 04:34 AM Aug 2019

They are the least "familial" First Family in our lifetimes

Babies make excellent political props — so useful for a quick kiss and cuddle during campaign stops, instant humanizers of even the stiffest politicians. But the Trumps are different. We rarely see them with babies. They are the least “familial” First Family in our lifetimes, despite (or perhaps because of) having created the most family-centered, nepotistic, mob-dynasty-style administration in history. We detect no family warmth from this president (save his unsettling attachment to Ivanka). No spousal affection. But also so little acknowledgment of any of his other children, of the fact of being a father (and grandfather) at all. Where is Barron, for example? We never see him or receive even the most anodyne updates about him — his progress in school, his favorite sports team. Where are the grandkids? Nothing. And certainly, Melania is the least publicly maternal First Lady we’ve ever had. She doesn’t even pretend to care.

No, in Trumpville, the emotional texture and familial feeling usually modeled by a First Family has been replaced with the enthusiasm of anonymous crowds, with the mass hysteria whipped up at Nuremberg-style rallies led by the President, where people seek the thrill of connection conjured by ritualistic chants of racism and misogyny (“Lock her up!” “Build that wall!” “Send them back!”). Donald Trump seems to experience love only in such soulless settings, with their underlying threat of violence — and he encourages his followers to do the same.

Those fascistic ceremonies lie at the root of the El Paso massacre, and that’s what makes this photo especially galling. Motherless Baby Paul is the latest victim of the hatred those rallies gin up. For Trump then to create uncharacteristically this faux portrait of familial love, to play-act a kind of happy Daddy, Mommy, and Baby — by borrowing THIS baby — is an abomination. In this simulacrum of a family portrait, the centerpiece is a direct evocation of the massacre that rendered him available for “adoption” in this photo in the first place. And since the picture blithely replaces the baby’s slaughtered parents — murdered for their Latinx ethnicity — with two unconcerned, smiling white people, it performs a kind of symbolic kidnapping, cruelly appropriating someone else’s child for personal gain. (Note also the marginalized positions of the two Achondo relatives.





https://www.thecut.com/2019/08/trump-baby-photo-el-paso-shooting.html

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madaboutharry

(40,224 posts)
1. This is an excellent article.
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 06:12 AM
Aug 2019

I encourage reading the entire piece at the link.

There is something deeply wrong with the Trump family. They are strange beyond even the average dysfunctional family. Melania’s perplexing disengagement with the world around her is astounding. Was she always like this?

Demovictory9

(32,475 posts)
9. Melenia is ODD. righties describe her as elegant and intelligent. WHAT!!???
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 10:22 AM
Aug 2019

in that photo opp in the WH as few weeks ago. She was standing behind Trump with her filler lips opening and closing - no sound coming out. I think the camera man kept focusing in her because it was so weird. best description of her is "listless".

Fyrefox

(300 posts)
3. Manufactured images
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 07:12 AM
Aug 2019

Exploiting a tragedy he helped inspire for political gain is well within Trump's standard repertoire. His carefully-crafted images will be eagerly fed as pablum to his adoring base. A germophobe, Trump himself would feel uncomfortable holding a baby. He doesn't like dogs, either, and his White House is one of the few in recent years without one...

secondwind

(16,903 posts)
4. There is a clinical term for this behavior, I think it is
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 07:24 AM
Aug 2019

called Attachment Disorder or something like that. It is not uncommon. Whole swaths of Millenials are afflicted with this.

Remember when folks would say “ let him cry, you don’t want to spoil him”? Whole families suffer from this.

Trump never received much love so he can’t give any either. You cannot give what you never received in the first place.

Farmer-Rick

(10,216 posts)
5. Very Typical for psychopaths who do not have empathy
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 07:31 AM
Aug 2019

They can not show familia care or concern when they feel no love. Traitor Trump's Slovenian sex worker holds that child like a sack of potatoes. Traitor Trump's smiles are so fake. The only emotions they can muster are the negative ones - Hate, loathing and revenge.

They are very creepy people. Smiling and happy that the broken fingered baby gave them a great optical image after a massacre.

That last line in the storey is devastating. What will this child think about this creepy photo when he grows up and learns how the people who encouraged the murder of his parents used him for a photo opportunity.

rainin

(3,011 posts)
6. Like an episode of "The Americans".
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 07:32 AM
Aug 2019

Are we looking at a fake marriage? Everyone is perfectly playing their parts.

Delmette2.0

(4,171 posts)
7. Did you notice when Dipshit and wife were shown walking down the steps of AF-1?
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 09:31 AM
Aug 2019

This was on Monday, I don't know if it was at Dayton of El Paso. She was holding his hand but she was looking down and not smiling. I got the feeling that he was using her to steady himself. I have heard how he rarely stands in the Oval Office when it would be appropriate and he tends to hold on to podiums.

Maru Kitteh

(28,343 posts)
13. Woman looks like she's never held a human baby before
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 02:32 PM
Aug 2019

She's trying to show all of us ugly people how amazingly shapely her hands are. Do you not appreciate her gifts to you? You stupid little peasants?

peggysue2

(10,842 posts)
14. This photograph . . .
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 02:38 PM
Aug 2019

is so despicable it defies description. What is with the thumbs up sign and shitty grin??? And mannequin Melania looks as uncomfortable as I've ever seen her. A photo-op of a post-slaughter. Should go down in the history books for peak crassness.

FakeNoose

(32,777 posts)
17. I really hope that's true
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 09:06 PM
Aug 2019

... for Barron's sake if nothing else. Poor kid, maybe his grandparents can shield him somewhat.

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