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of gay people. Her reasoning was based on her belief in the Bible. Here is my response. There was no response in return:
Wouldn't saying you are against a black person marrying a white person mean you are prejudiced against blacks? So what's the difference when you are against gay marriage? Isn't that the same as saying you are prejudiced against gays? People use to justify slavery because of the following parts of the Bible: (Leviticus 25:44-46 NLT), (Exodus 21:2-6 NLT), (Luke 12:47-48 NLT), (1 Timothy 6:1-2 NLT), (Ephesians 6:5 NLT), (Exodus 21:20-21 NAB). Just cut an paste any of those and see what comes up in a google search.
The reason Huck Fin is considered such a powerful book is because it took on this exact issue in the time of slavery when people used to justify it with the Bible. Mark Twain created Huck Fin as a character who was able to question everything and think on his own and Huck rejected these beliefs that slavery was Ok because he had come to know Jim the runaway "slave" as his dear friend; someone he no longer saw as the N word but a wonderful person with fears, dreams, and a family he loved. The most searing moment of the book comes when Huck Finn discards the note he penned to turn in Jim, his runaway slave companion. All right, then, Ill go to hell is the statement he makes as he realizes he does not have it in him to go along with the morals he has been taught since birth, that of the slave as being property. He grasps that he is going against the teachings of the church, the teachings of his elders, basically going against the full of society that he has been immersed in. The statement is heartfelt, as Huck sees his betrayal to hold serious consequences, maybe even an eternity in hell.
It's through our relationships with the people we know and love that the true vision of God's heart is revealed. That was the lesson of Mark Twain and his masterpiece Huck Fin. Perhaps the Gay Marriage issue is the modern version of what America went through back in the 1800's with slavery? Thomas Jefferson cut and pasted the Bible because in his heart and mind he could tell many parts did not ring true and many others did so he left them in. EVERYONE picks and chooses which parts of the Bible they want to value and which ones they don't. Guess I choose to think like Huck Finn on this particular issue. As Clint Eastwood a Republican once said: "Just give everybody the chance to have the life they want." What could be more American than that?
lunatica
(53,410 posts)Quixote1818
(28,955 posts)DirkGently
(12,151 posts)is the way it is used to short-circuit debate and give people cover for despicable attitudes. The Bible is a lot of things -- a bit of history a bit of law, a lot of mythology. It all used to be of a piece. Which means that it's also the accretion of every horrendous idea ancient society ever had. Slavery. Misogyny. Genocide. We all know that, so "belief" doesn't fly as cover for supporting evil. Every time this comes up, we all should do as you did, and insist that people back up their moral and ethical positions with something more than a naked assertion that "It's in the Bible." So's stoning people for skipping church, etc. Either the Bible is wrong or they're reading it wrong. Doesn't matter which.
avebury
(10,952 posts)CoffeeCat
(24,411 posts)What you wrote was truly concise, logical, from the heart and incredibly persuasive. It is not easy to get in the ring and discuss religion. People get so offended. However, you did it with compassion and grace.
That point--about people cherry picking the Bible is such a good one. The Bible does promote slavery and a host of other bizarre, weird and outrageous ideas and actions. When you point out these things--and ask people if they also follow these items in the Bible--it is powerful.
They cannot deny it. They are faced with the truth--that they follow some things and that other things are ridiculous. This is truly a watershed moment for many, not just with the gay marriage issue. They begin to question everything.
Facebook is a powerful medium. It is the virtual water cooler where so many get information. I am trying so hard to be more vocal. I really think Facebook is one of the most potent communication mediums available today. Because it is peers, friends and family discussing with one another. If we add to the conversation, we may not persuade, but at least we let others know that these opinions are out there. One Facebook post could convince someone that they are not alone and that it is ok to feel this way too. Right wing hate radio has such a resounding presence, and it warps people's perceptions about what is thought and believed in this country.
Facebook plows through all of that.
I applaud you and I hope you continue to do so. I will as well!
Quixote1818
(28,955 posts)catbyte
(34,415 posts)Didn't Anne Lamott say something to the effect that you truly know you have made God in your own image when it turns out God hates all the same people as you do. Or something really similar.
Diane
Anishinaabe in MI
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)Quixote1818
(28,955 posts)arcane1
(38,613 posts)Quixote1818
(28,955 posts)KurtNYC
(14,549 posts)It includes all of these:
Quixote1818
(28,955 posts)I then decided to cut it down to what I have above. Thanks for bringing this part up!
KurtNYC
(14,549 posts)SheilaT
(23,156 posts)the past tense of the word prejudice, which is prejudiced.
Getting something that basic wrong is a bit jarring.
Quixote1818
(28,955 posts)And growing up constantly being told I spelled something "that basic" wrong was a bit jarring for me too. In fact I went through years of low self esteem and depression before I realized I wasn't dumb. I appreciate being told I spelled something wrong so I won't do it again when it's done in a kind, un-demeaning way. Sorry if I am jumpy on this but these emotions go way back and are pretty powerful.
SheilaT
(23,156 posts)I should think more carefully before I post such a thing. I hope I can be forgiven, or at least my comment ignored.
Quixote1818
(28,955 posts)Bernardo de La Paz
(49,027 posts)allan01
(1,950 posts)thanks for the post. if it waddles like a duck, talk likes a duck, then its a duck . quack . quack. i loved your measured response to this person .
JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)Green_Lantern
(2,423 posts)Slavery involves using people like animals. Removing their natural rights.
Opposing gay marriage is just moralizing and keeping them from getting benefits govt. gives to married couples.
Tikki
(14,559 posts)Tikki
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CJCRANE
(18,184 posts)There are many variations in the Bible describing polygamy, concubines etc.
Todays definition of marriage is: an official union between two people who love each other.
Traditions change.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Noooooooooo!
Aerows
(39,961 posts)that hid this post 6-0. What a bigoted asshole this poster is.
Now we can play which jury number was Aerows.
JURY RESULTS
You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Sun Sep 2, 2012, 09:39 PM, and the Jury voted 6-0 to HIDE IT.
Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT and said: Seems that the poster is using a typical RW argument that allowing gay people to get married is creating a new right and being against gay marriage does not make one homophobic. Neither of these things are true.
Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT and said: Eloquent bigotry.
Juror #3 voted to HIDE IT and said: Homophobic bible banging troll? Check.
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT and said: Another homophobic bigot making excuses to justify their hatred of gays.
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT and said: No explanation given
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT and said: Oh no you didn't go there. You just happened to have a lesbian on the jury. It is EXACTLY the same type of prejudices. And by the way, if you can end the validity of one marriage (same-sex), don't think the ending of the validity of an interracial marriage isn't possible or next. Horseshit.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)That is equal rights, and it is fairness. The people whose noses are bent out of shape at the scary prospect of two men or two women theyve never met, being able to get married, need to grow the fuck up.
immoderate
(20,885 posts)Pretty much says it.
--imm
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)most sensible post on this subject yet.
Quixote1818
(28,955 posts)I was pointing out that many Christians hide behind the Bible to decide what is moral and what is not and I used two instances in history to show how they have done this and how free though can be used to combat this type of evil thinking. Keep in mind however that quite a few Gays have been lynched in recent years which to that person who was being killed must have seemed just as horrific as a slave being lynched. In the eyes of a bigot gays get treated just as harshly as the blacks were / sometimes still are.
IllinoisBirdWatcher
(2,315 posts)Usually these fanatic Bible cherry-pickers haven't even bothered to read the rest of Leviticus, much less remember it.
catbyte
(34,415 posts)And never eat pork again. Those are also in the Bible.