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Coventina

(27,121 posts)
Wed Oct 9, 2019, 11:24 PM Oct 2019

Mark Ruffalo Slams Ellen DeGeneres'Comments About George W. BushDeserving 'Kindness'

Mark Ruffalo is not there for Ellen DeGeneres’ call for kindness towards President George W. Bush after they posed Dallas Cowboys football game. He’s says Bush needs to answer for ‘war crimes’ instead.

Mark Ruffalo has shot down talk show host Ellen DeGeneres call for kindness despite one’s political beliefs. Ellen, 61, and wife Portia DeRossi, 46, accepted Dallas Cowboys owner Jerry Jones‘ daughter Charlotte‘s invitation to attend a home game in Arlington, TX versus the Green Bay Packers on Oct. 6, and she ended up being photographed former President George W. Bush, 73. That upset many of her fans who tweeted up a storm that openly gay Ellen and the conservative former president could be friendly. As a result, she did a monologue on her show the following day calling on everyone to be unconditionally kind to one another. The Avengers star unleashed a tweet on Oct. 9 very critical of her message…as well as the former president.

“Sorry, until George W. Bush is brought to justice for the crimes of the Iraq War, (including American-lead torture, Iraqi deaths & displacement, and the deep scars — emotional & otherwise — inflicted on our military that served his folly), we can’t even begin to talk about kindness,” the 51-year-old actor tweeted out along with a Vanity Fair article questioning if unconditional kindness has its limits. His tweet immediately caused his name to being trending. Mark has campaigned for many Democratic political candidates and is an outspoken opponent of current President Donald Trump, just as he was critical of President Bush when he was in office.

Mark got props from fans, with Wajahat Ali tweeting, “Hulk out, Mark Ruffalo. Hulk out. I’m just glad someone with power and influence is reminding the younger generation about the disastrous legacy of the Bush years,” while a user named Susi tweeted, “I love how Mark Ruffalo is in one of the biggest movie franchise but he’s not afraid to support Palestine and call out Bush for his war crimes in Iraq etc.”

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I 100% agree with Mark Ruffalo. Ellen is an idiot.

ETA: Link to whole article. Sorry! I forgot!
https://hollywoodlife.com/2019/10/09/mark-ruffalo-slams-ellen-degeneres-george-w-bush-kindness-war-crimes-tweet/

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Mark Ruffalo Slams Ellen DeGeneres'Comments About George W. BushDeserving 'Kindness' (Original Post) Coventina Oct 2019 OP
Honestly, I'm currently dealing with bigger demons than if a star Democrat was nice to Bush herding cats Oct 2019 #1
It is most definitely related. The way the criminal Bush admin was normalized is a direct line to Coventina Oct 2019 #2
He's not a nice guy, he's a war criminal. herding cats Oct 2019 #5
I hope you understood my sarcasm. Yes, he's a war criminal, AND THAT'S IMPORTANT! Coventina Oct 2019 #6
In my opinion it's not as big as you think it is right now. herding cats Oct 2019 #8
Well, guess where I really disagree with you is that I see the Ellen/Bush thing as as SYMPTOM Coventina Oct 2019 #11
Where did I say anything like that, or even imply such? herding cats Oct 2019 #12
Apologies, my question was rhetorical, I didn't mean for you to take it personally. n/t Coventina Oct 2019 #18
Ellen is 61??!!! ecstatic Oct 2019 #3
Mark Ruffalo was there for us Fighting Cha Oct 2019 #4
should be an easy question to answer. Right? quickesst Oct 2019 #7
2 past presidents & their families appearing together for a state funeral is in no way comparable Coventina Oct 2019 #9
Bullshit quickesst Oct 2019 #13
OK, I stand corrected. I think that's a terrible choice on Michelle Obama's part. n/t Coventina Oct 2019 #16
thanks for replying quickesst Oct 2019 #20
A friend posted on fb what Ellen said marlakay Oct 2019 #10
since Michelle Obama's friendship.... quickesst Oct 2019 #14
& 9/11 happened on Bush's "watch" diva77 Oct 2019 #15
We need to choose our battles. DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2019 #17
30 years of hate radio have conditioned us to criticize simple kindness against "the wrong people." LanternWaste Oct 2019 #19
There's a difference between kindness and making someone your friend and socializing with them. Coventina Oct 2019 #21
Good post . thanks GusBob Oct 2019 #22

herding cats

(19,565 posts)
1. Honestly, I'm currently dealing with bigger demons than if a star Democrat was nice to Bush
Wed Oct 9, 2019, 11:36 PM
Oct 2019

I have zero interest in tearing Ellen to shreds right this moment.

Maybe later, when the Kurds aren't being slaughtered, immigrant children aren't in cages in the US, our democracy isn't being stripped from us and Nazis aren't actively creating our immigration policy I'll focus on that. Because, I can only multi task so damn much, and daily I deal with people who say they can't keep up with the very real atrocities taking place under this administration. This isn't one, BTW.

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
2. It is most definitely related. The way the criminal Bush admin was normalized is a direct line to
Wed Oct 9, 2019, 11:44 PM
Oct 2019

Trump.

It was the attitude of, "well, we disagreed about the war, but gee, he's a nice guy and all."

That attitude of shrugging off unpleasantness led us to this.


So yes, it absolutely matters.

herding cats

(19,565 posts)
5. He's not a nice guy, he's a war criminal.
Wed Oct 9, 2019, 11:55 PM
Oct 2019

I still don't give a flying fuck right now that a Hollywood star, who happens to be a vocal Democrat, was nice to him at a football game. This is picking nits at its lowest. Consider what we're actually dealing with right now? Most people in this country can't be brought to give a damn about Russia's active intervention in 2016, Trump's involvement with such let alone Comey's sticking his thumb on the scales in the final hours. Why is this something people should waste time trying to get the populous to care about over the real, truly distressing issues we're currently dealing with?

I'm sorry, it's such a minor issue in my eyes at this point. She's not a politician and we have much bigger issues before us and people are overwhelmed trying to keep up with the real things right now.

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
6. I hope you understood my sarcasm. Yes, he's a war criminal, AND THAT'S IMPORTANT!
Wed Oct 9, 2019, 11:59 PM
Oct 2019

When a major star Democrat speaks out about how we should be nice to a WAR CRIMINAL, that is just another sign of how sick this country is.

Ellen is sick to defend a war criminal. If you want to compare proportions, Bush killed 1000X more people than Trump has so far.

IT'S A BIG DEAL.

You are free to hide the thread if it bothers you.
But the issue remains important.

herding cats

(19,565 posts)
8. In my opinion it's not as big as you think it is right now.
Thu Oct 10, 2019, 12:15 AM
Oct 2019

Seriously, it's not. She's not a god, she's a Hollywood figure and she's a human. As such she's inclined to be stupid and do stupid shit. Which in no way changes my opinion of Bush, nor does it any other person with a functioning brain. Yes, a lot of people don't have any depth of thought... they're the ones I don't want distracted from the razor thin issues we need them focused on right now. Keeping them focused is nearly impossible by the way. Ellen isn't one of those issues.

You're right, I'll put Ellen in my trash by word. I'm not interested in this at this moment. I don't see this as a massive issue but rather a trivial Hollywood aside.

Peace! I'm not upset with you, I'm just overwhelmed in my dealings with people out there and trying to get them focused on why they should vote blue in 2020.

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
11. Well, guess where I really disagree with you is that I see the Ellen/Bush thing as as SYMPTOM
Thu Oct 10, 2019, 12:29 AM
Oct 2019

of a serious disease in the country.

When did it become OK for people to break the law, brag about it, do it in plain sight, and nothing is done?


Not only are they not prosecuted, but others have to continue to carry on the crimes they did not stop, and they are not able to finish, so more people are dragged into the commissions of crimes.

And then, after leaving the position that one used to commit crimes, you enjoy a nice retirement where everywhere you go you are praised and made much of.

This is the society we've created. Trump is also just a symptom of it.

In a just society, Trump would be in jail (decades ago), his reputation permanently tarnished, and all his inheritance would have been long squandered on his dumb ideas.

This country has chosen to reward his thieving, scheming, and cruel ways.

herding cats

(19,565 posts)
12. Where did I say anything like that, or even imply such?
Thu Oct 10, 2019, 12:40 AM
Oct 2019

You're in your head and I'm in mine and we're apparently talking past each other and not hearing well.

I'm dealing with people in the here and now who can't keep up, you're focusing on an existential issue which doesn't resonate but with people other than like you and me. As I said, I get it, but it's not what I'm currently focused on. I have much bigger demons I'm currently fighting among people who aren't nearly this retrospective.

Cha

(297,275 posts)
4. Mark Ruffalo was there for us Fighting
Wed Oct 9, 2019, 11:48 PM
Oct 2019

against bush's war on Iraq.

I'm not forgiving bush.. what other people choose to do is their business.

quickesst

(6,280 posts)
7. should be an easy question to answer. Right?
Thu Oct 10, 2019, 12:13 AM
Oct 2019

Why haven't Michelle and Barack Obama been dragged through the muddy briar patch like Ellen DeGeneres has? What is the difference between what Ellen DeGeneres did and the Obamas sitting next to bush at McCain's funeral with Michelle accepting candy from him? They did not have to sit next to him, and Michelle did not have to accept his candy. If I were to give the Obamas a free pass, and turned around and eviscerated Ellen DeGeneres, I would have to look at myself as a tad hypocritical
Ruffalo, like many others, seems to have suffered a lapse in memory when it comes to the Obama's friendship with bush.

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
9. 2 past presidents & their families appearing together for a state funeral is in no way comparable
Thu Oct 10, 2019, 12:21 AM
Oct 2019

to hanging out at a recreational sporting event.

Everybody knows this.

quickesst

(6,280 posts)
13. Bullshit
Thu Oct 10, 2019, 01:11 AM
Oct 2019

You think John McCain's funeral was a one-time event for them to get together?


"Though Obama and Bush have made headlines several times this year for having fun together, they're hardly new to putting their friendly feelings on display."

"President Bush and I, we are forever seatmates because of protocol, and that's how we sit at all the official functions," Obama told Today. "He's my partner in crime at every major thing where all the 'formers' gather. So we're together all the time." She later added, "I love him to death. He's a wonderful man, he's a funny man."
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https://www.townandcountrymag.com/society/politics/a22979284/george-w-bush-michelle-obama-friendship-history/

marlakay

(11,471 posts)
10. A friend posted on fb what Ellen said
Thu Oct 10, 2019, 12:23 AM
Oct 2019

And I said there is a difference between forgiving someone and being nice to them and being friends with them.

Being friends with Bush is like being friends with a mass murderer considering how many have died in his needless wars.

And I said same goes with Ellen, Michelle and Hillary. They are all friends with him and normalize him.

I have a problem with that because its like saying you have no problem with what they did in the past.

quickesst

(6,280 posts)
14. since Michelle Obama's friendship....
Thu Oct 10, 2019, 01:19 AM
Oct 2019

.... with bush has been ongoing for years now, I just can't seem to recall anyone over those years condemning Michelle Obama and dragging her through the mud.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
19. 30 years of hate radio have conditioned us to criticize simple kindness against "the wrong people."
Thu Oct 10, 2019, 09:51 AM
Oct 2019

Who to hate, why to hate, and how to hate them.

Breaking this orthodoxy of hate gets one labeled as an idiot.

And you are illustrating that perfectly.


Kindness doesn't normalize the actions of anyone other than the person being kind.
Kindness does not reflect the character of anyone except the person showing kindness.

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
21. There's a difference between kindness and making someone your friend and socializing with them.
Thu Oct 10, 2019, 09:55 AM
Oct 2019

Hating George W. Bush's war crimes is necessary to maintaining a healthy sense of right and wrong.

And, ultimately, KINDNESS is making sure that criminals are aware that their actions are WRONG and NOT ACCEPTABLE.

This pie in the sky cupcakeism is DAMAGING to morality and understanding right from wrong.

On edit: typo

On further edit: I have never ONCE listened to anything resembling "hate radio".

GusBob

(7,286 posts)
22. Good post . thanks
Thu Oct 10, 2019, 10:05 AM
Oct 2019

Not a big fan of Ellens but 1 thing I have noticed:

Her response to this “debacle” is the most grown-up thing I have seen in recent times and for some reason is drawing more condemnation than sitting at a football game as someone’s guest

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