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summer_in_TX

(2,739 posts)
Sat Oct 19, 2019, 12:22 AM Oct 2019

An interesting discussion today with a Republican friend

I was intrigued that my friend volunteered that he sure hoped the Dems would pick a nominee who could beat Trump. He's never been on the nutter end of the right wing but was too conservative to vote for Hilary in 2016 although he clearly had misgivings back then.

He isn't positive that there are any Dems he or many other R's could vote for or that he thinks could win. I said I'd been intrigued and impressed by Harris and Warren so far, but I'd heard them interviewed more than any of the others.

He surprised me by saying that he thought Buttigieg seemed the most electable. He'd taken notice of the way he approached problems, said he seemed very bright, open to diverse input, and down to earth… and that he liked governors and mayors as candidates because of the executive experience.

Knowing he's Catholic I asked him if he thought Republicans could vote for a gay candidate. He said why not, what goes on in their bedroom is their private business.

I found it an encouraging conversation.

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An interesting discussion today with a Republican friend (Original Post) summer_in_TX Oct 2019 OP
but what goes on between a woman and her doctor... nilram Oct 2019 #1
"but was too conservative to vote for Hilary" -Ok, but why wasn't he conservative enough to NCLefty Oct 2019 #2
the friend sounds like a misogynist asshole Skittles Oct 2019 #5
Overstatement surely? I did assume gender would Hortensis Oct 2019 #13
I think that's very encouraging. CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2019 #3
+10000 Celerity Oct 2019 #12
Glad you managed a semi sane discussion with a Maga. KentuckyWoman Oct 2019 #4
You still need to find smarter friends. nt TeamPooka Oct 2019 #6
Maybe he can encourage him. True Blue American Oct 2019 #7
i'm sorry. i kind of got stuck on the phrase orleans Oct 2019 #8
I believe Catholics are more open to a gay candidate than conservative Christians. No Vested Interest Oct 2019 #9
Thanks for the report and glad he's open minded on key points. appalachiablue Oct 2019 #10
May Trump turn out to be the great uniter, PufPuf23 Oct 2019 #11

NCLefty

(3,678 posts)
2. "but was too conservative to vote for Hilary" -Ok, but why wasn't he conservative enough to
Sat Oct 19, 2019, 12:48 AM
Oct 2019

shun the Constitution-hating, Russian-loving, multi-bankrupt criminal with zero morals?

Hillary Clinton was a CENTRIST. Your conservative friend must be on the extreme edge of his party if he couldn't stomach that over everything we already knew was wrong with Donald Trump. I also like how everything you listed he likes about Buttigieg is the utter opposite of Donald Trump.

I'm sorry but I do not feel encouraged by him being in the voting pool. Religious people who voted for Donald Trump are nearly the worst voters in America.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
13. Overstatement surely? I did assume gender would
Sat Oct 19, 2019, 04:46 AM
Oct 2019

likely be playing a role in his preferences. It's just reality, like gravity. Hillary had very high popularity ratings as senator and SoS, but people were already used to women in those roles.

He gives a perfectly valid rationale for experience. I also prefer governors over senators, and the electorate always has. Mayors less so, but same general idea.

In well over 200 years now, Obama's only the, what?, third to be elected from the senate to the presidency. Amazing enough that we should take note. Just as gender is still a factor that must be considered, that may also be.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,637 posts)
3. I think that's very encouraging.
Sat Oct 19, 2019, 12:49 AM
Oct 2019

I just finished watching a speech that Pete Buttigieg gave in Chicago either yesterday or today, and there was a Republican in the audience!

She wanted to hear what he had to say.

One voter at a time!

KentuckyWoman

(6,687 posts)
4. Glad you managed a semi sane discussion with a Maga.
Sat Oct 19, 2019, 12:56 AM
Oct 2019

Your friend voted for someone who actively subverts the integrity of our elections, wants to murder his political opponents and hangs with child rapists for fun and profit.

But he's not a nutter? ........ yes he is.



Edited because the original version could be read as attacking the poster ... not my intent.

No Vested Interest

(5,167 posts)
9. I believe Catholics are more open to a gay candidate than conservative Christians.
Sat Oct 19, 2019, 03:16 AM
Oct 2019

Catholics are more urban across the country than Southern conservatives and evangelical Christians, including many Afro-Americans.
Naturally, there are many exceptions both ways.

PufPuf23

(8,790 posts)
11. May Trump turn out to be the great uniter,
Sat Oct 19, 2019, 04:19 AM
Oct 2019

the malevolent clown that makes the USA sane again.

At least may this freak show have a bottom ASAP.

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