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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsTrump is a Narcissist. This is a post for everyone still asking why he acts as he does.
He is not crazy or psychotic.
He rages, and when he does, he can seem to be, and really, might as well be.
Narcissists are completely aware of reality. They understand the words you are saying. They remember things just fine.
The problem is
they dont care. They dont care about reality. They dont think that the truth is important. They dont think that YOU should think that the truth is important.
When they rage, they are almost always angry about something that they cannot acknowledge or express. They must find a different reason for the rage that already exists, even if they have to make something up. Even if they have to blame their rage on you.
We are talking about an ego so overblown that it is literally pathological. Narcissists egos are so inflated that they actually think that they have the right to declare what reality is, whether or not it is actually true. The universe revolves around them and exists only for them.
Why wouldnt they be able to tell you what is real with omnipotent authority? What right should actual facts have in denying what a narcissist declares the truth to be? Its not a lie if the narcissist is telling it. He is re-writing reality because he wants to and he feels entitled to do so.
Not because he's crazy or psychotic.
NRaleighLiberal
(60,018 posts)leftyladyfrommo
(18,869 posts)When the other person is no longer useful they get dumped and someone more useful takes their place.
Narcissists don't work on a vacuum. They need other people to provide narcissistic supply .
They can be really nice if they need you. They can be really awful if you don't do their bidding.
GeorgeGist
(25,322 posts)he's crazy.
cornball 24
(1,480 posts)The Blue Flower
(5,444 posts)"But what you're saying isn't true."
"It's MY truth."
And that's the end of it. An acknowledgement that an alternate truth is the one that matters. Objective reality is irrelevant.
Claritie Pixie
(2,199 posts)Their truth is the only truth.
TheBlackAdder
(28,211 posts).
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Claritie Pixie
(2,199 posts)NewJeffCT
(56,828 posts)summer of 2016 - he was one of the original never Trumpers, and also had a PhD in Psychology from Harvard - my bolding below
This is beyond narcissism. I used to think Trump was an 11-year-old, an undeveloped schoolyard bully. I was off by about 10 years. His needs are more primitive, an infantile hunger for approval and praise, a craving that can never be satisfied. He lives in a cocoon of solipsism where the world outside himself has value indeed exists only insofar as it sustains and inflates him.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/donald-trump-and-the-fitness-threshold/2016/08/04/b06bae34-5a69-11e6-831d-0324760ca856_story.html
Claritie Pixie
(2,199 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Trump is pure id. He has not matured past an infantile state of need and want. He has never grown up and he now finds himself frustrated in a role that demands maturity and adult competence.
Things of which he is incapable of demonstrating and he has been throwing a temper tantrum for the past three years.
He will never admit that he is out of his depth, instead he will blame everyone and everything for his abysmal failure at the job. And the entire world will be the target of his misguided rage. He will make us all pay for his own inability to measure up.
NewJeffCT
(56,828 posts)I agree with almost nothing from Krauthammer, but he had Trump nailed from the time he entered the race.
pwb
(11,287 posts).
lunasun
(21,646 posts)That trump baby balloon with a cell phone and diaper is spot on
He should be convicted of assholism and is mentally competent to stand trial.
llmart
(15,548 posts)They're not crazy, but they're very good at making YOU crazy unless you learn the signs of narcissistic personality disorder. Once you learn them, you'll do yourself a favor and get as far away from them as possible before they destroy your sense of self.
This guy is a textbook case.
Claritie Pixie
(2,199 posts)I was able to walk away from my narcissist and end the relationship when I realized he would destroy me if I stayed. We can't do that and I hate it.
Champagnes
(11 posts)He's a narcissist.