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mojowork_n

(2,354 posts)
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 08:49 PM Sep 2012

Strange day at work today, Go Figure.

When I was a kid, I started kindergarten without knowing a word of English.

The first two words I picked up from the kids who spoke English were "Shut" and "Up."

Today at work, the new guy (contract professional, an engineer) started and he and I both speak
the same language.

Except it disturbs some of the long timers at work that he has an accent, and came here
from another country. I knew that, and tried really hard to keep all conversations in English,
but when he asked where the bathroom was, I said, "Levo, i opet levo."

Left and left again.

It's going to be all bad news, and while I knew it would be best to keep all conversations
in English, I messed up.

My Bad.

Why does it have to be this way?



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Strange day at work today, Go Figure. (Original Post) mojowork_n Sep 2012 OP
what? Coexist Sep 2012 #1
the issue i find is that if you drop into another language then non speakers can feel excluded loli phabay Sep 2012 #2
Is that Serbian? rug Sep 2012 #3
i thought slovenian or romanian just from memory. probuably wrong though loli phabay Sep 2012 #5
It definitely looks Balkan. rug Sep 2012 #7
kinda excited now waiting for the answer lol loli phabay Sep 2012 #8
It seems to be. drm604 Sep 2012 #11
Thank you. rug Sep 2012 #14
lol been a while since ive been to the old yugoslavia so i was slightly off loli phabay Sep 2012 #18
You have "predictive sex" on your phone? rug Sep 2012 #22
lol yup i hate it, couple of weeks ago everytime i inputted rabbits in a hunting thread it changed loli phabay Sep 2012 #24
Lol! rug Sep 2012 #26
It doesn't have to be this way blaze Sep 2012 #4
That's me! kentauros Sep 2012 #20
Shut up!!! Curmudgeoness Sep 2012 #6
OH, just you wait. Baitball Blogger Sep 2012 #9
Forget them, elleng Sep 2012 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author elleng Sep 2012 #12
It makes people think you might be talking about them. Sometimes people speaking in a foreign Raine Sep 2012 #13
yup thats exactly what people think its human nature, thats why its better to talk in the common ton loli phabay Sep 2012 #15
My friend and I had a similar thing happen. a la izquierda Sep 2012 #16
Reminds me of a joke: NashvilleLefty Sep 2012 #17
Take heart...my favorite Larson ever..... RagAss Sep 2012 #19
my favourite larsson :) cant do the image thing for some reaon still learning loli phabay Sep 2012 #21
It doesn't free human beings speak whatever language they want RB TexLa Sep 2012 #23
andwithoutpunctuationobviously pewpface Sep 2012 #27
He doesn't drink with punctuation. Gold Metal Flake Sep 2012 #29
It's natural to be suspicious or irritated when co-workers are speaking in a language you don't Honeycombe8 Sep 2012 #25
Not that way at my work. Gold Metal Flake Sep 2012 #28
 

loli phabay

(5,580 posts)
2. the issue i find is that if you drop into another language then non speakers can feel excluded
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 08:52 PM
Sep 2012

and sometimes its human nature to believe that you are being talked about, its one of the weird quirks of humans.

 

loli phabay

(5,580 posts)
18. lol been a while since ive been to the old yugoslavia so i was slightly off
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 09:19 PM
Sep 2012

never even thought of the translator stuff online, even though its worse than the predictive sex on my phone for screwing up sentences.

 

loli phabay

(5,580 posts)
24. lol yup i hate it, couple of weeks ago everytime i inputted rabbits in a hunting thread it changed
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 09:40 PM
Sep 2012

to rabbis, i have no idea why the companies think that its a great tool as it seems to change everything to innappropriate words. god help me if i ask my boss if i can ride in her volvo. lol

blaze

(6,360 posts)
4. It doesn't have to be this way
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 08:54 PM
Sep 2012

I welcome all languages and am jealous that I only know one.

And, for what it's worth, I was never allowed to say "Shut Up!"

And what language is that? Just curious.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
20. That's me!
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 09:30 PM
Sep 2012

That is, I'm envious of those that can speak or pick up other languages. I've had Latin and Deutsch, yet all I ever retained from either were pronunciations and grammar. You have to practice that vocabulary or you'll lose it.

I do love listening to music in other languages, though. I like the sound of them. Of course, it helps if they can sing well, too

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
6. Shut up!!!
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 08:57 PM
Sep 2012

So you made a mistake and did not follow your own advice. Move on. This is a hard time in this country for people who are bilingual, and that is a shame. I cannot answer why it has to be this way, but we both know that it just is. Stick with your advice, it will be a benefit to both of you.....even if it makes no sense.

Baitball Blogger

(46,703 posts)
9. OH, just you wait.
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 09:00 PM
Sep 2012

If you don't teach your children how to speak your native tongue fluently, they'll look at you like you're a fuck up parent.

You can't win with them.

elleng

(130,888 posts)
10. Forget them,
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 09:03 PM
Sep 2012

and retain your self-esteem by befriending the contract professional.

AND if its ever necessary, ask them where THEIR ancestors came from. Highly unlikely they're Native Americans, I'd guess.

Response to mojowork_n (Original post)

Raine

(30,540 posts)
13. It makes people think you might be talking about them. Sometimes people speaking in a foreign
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 09:06 PM
Sep 2012

language are talking about people that are right there. I remember one time when I was a little girl some people sitting next to us in a restaurant were talking to each other in a foreign language. Little did they know that my father (whose parents were born in Norway) understand them. They were talking about my family, apparently uncomplimentary, my father answered them in Norwegian and we left. My father never told us what they had said. I think that's what people who hear a foreign language fear.

 

loli phabay

(5,580 posts)
15. yup thats exactly what people think its human nature, thats why its better to talk in the common ton
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 09:08 PM
Sep 2012

tongue and to translate anything that needs to be, its just good manners.

a la izquierda

(11,791 posts)
16. My friend and I had a similar thing happen.
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 09:12 PM
Sep 2012

We're both fluent Spanish speakers, and I asked her something one day in Spanish.
Our "lovely" colleague said "Oh, how cute. You both have a secret language." I was floored. We were all graduate students at the time.

NashvilleLefty

(811 posts)
17. Reminds me of a joke:
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 09:16 PM
Sep 2012

Q.What do you call someone who speaks 2 languages? A. Bi-lingual. Q. What do you call someone who speaks 3 languages? A. Tri-Lingual. Q. What do you call someone who only speaks 1 language? A. American.

Here's to all multilingual Americans!

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
25. It's natural to be suspicious or irritated when co-workers are speaking in a language you don't
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 09:40 PM
Sep 2012

speak. You don't know what they're saying.

It's a natural thing. If two Chinese people came to work at your place, and they sometimes would speak Chinese to each other, even though they could speak English or your language, after a while you'd probably get irritated, too. It's rude, in a way.

It happens a lot to English-only speakers. So it probably builds up over the time...the irritation factor.

Gold Metal Flake

(13,805 posts)
28. Not that way at my work.
Thu Sep 6, 2012, 09:50 PM
Sep 2012

Folks from all over the globe. Most speak mostly in English, but not exclusively. Can some feel insecure when they hear a couple of people speaking in a language they do not understand? Yes. Some people are that way. Can't change them. Just is. Don't let them get you down.

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