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Demovictory9

(32,456 posts)
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 12:28 PM Jan 2020

Wife Dies After Husband Trips While Carrying Her, Husband suing over pothole that tripped him

Wife Dies After Husband Trips While Carrying Her
He's now suing over pothole that tripped him, leading to her fatal head injuries

A young Marine was carrying his wife to their car after a night out with friends when he tripped on a pothole—and five days later, she was dead. John and Robyn Pinkham were newlyweds when tragedy struck on June 14 of last year, People reports. They were leaving the Coyote Bar and Grill in Carlsbad, California, when John tripped, sending Robyn to the ground, where she hit her head on the pavement and lost consciousness. The 22-year-old was rushed to the hospital, but ultimately died from the severe head injuries she suffered. John, 23, who was also injured in the incident, is now suing the restaurant's parent company, NBC San Diego reports.

"Young, in love, and newlyweds, John Pinkham was carrying his wife Robyn Pinkham in his arms as they moved towards the group’s car. As John Pinkham walked through the poorly lit, un-even, and pothole-ridden parking lot while lovingly holding his wife, John stepped into a pothole causing him to lose his footing and fall forward," the lawsuit states, accusing the company of an "inexcusable failure to maintain their parking lot in a safe condition." But a restaurant manager tells NBC San Diego the area in question is not technically a parking lot, but a street owned by the city, one side of which is used as commuter parking for North County Transit. Local workers also say the parking spaces are typically patched by the parent company every summer.

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Wife Dies After Husband Trips While Carrying Her, Husband suing over pothole that tripped him (Original Post) Demovictory9 Jan 2020 OP
That's absolutely horrible. But, it seems to be a freak accident. mucifer Jan 2020 #1
I assume they were drunk Drahthaardogs Jan 2020 #2
I assumed this also, because it doesn't say why he was carrying her. secondwind Jan 2020 #4
"It is unclear what injuries John sustained and whether alcohol played a role" dalton99a Jan 2020 #7
Nothing new to this lawsuit or the legal principles behind it. Hortensis Jan 2020 #41
They were at a bar. Smart money is they had a drink. Arthur_Frain Jan 2020 #17
Some thoughts matt819 Jan 2020 #9
Which insurance company should pick up the tab? jberryhill Jan 2020 #16
Probably not. He was a young Marine per the article. Amimnoch Jan 2020 #20
Tri Care's co pay ain't so little anymore. Farmer-Rick Jan 2020 #28
Wow. so sad. I do admit my own experience is long outdated. -nt Amimnoch Jan 2020 #29
Are the insurance companies that administer Tricare less likely to sue ... sl8 Jan 2020 #34
I'm always a nervous wreck anytime I see someone walking with a child on their shoulders jimfields33 Jan 2020 #42
Darwin by proxy award winner lapfog_1 Jan 2020 #3
Indeed.... you can't see potholes if you are carrying someone in your arms, in the dark. secondwind Jan 2020 #5
I have been completely blotto in my younger days Drahthaardogs Jan 2020 #11
the city of dekalb il is having the very same debate. mopinko Jan 2020 #6
tough one Kali Jan 2020 #8
Let me make it easier for you jberryhill Jan 2020 #15
yeah, I'm sure that is what it boils down to. Kali Jan 2020 #19
+1000 smirkymonkey Jan 2020 #39
let's make it easier -- eliminate health "insurance" Hermit-The-Prog Jan 2020 #40
Not tough at all bitterross Jan 2020 #33
somebody died Kali Jan 2020 #37
Take a look at the pothole and the article. Google it - they're getting tons of coverage bitterross Jan 2020 #43
He will lose. It's called torte immunity WhiteTara Jan 2020 #10
He needs to pursue settlement from city if city actually owns the place where accident happened wishstar Jan 2020 #12
Malls generally own the pavement, but have the attitude that "You did not have to be here" LiberalArkie Jan 2020 #13
Once again, the point is entirely missed here jberryhill Jan 2020 #14
Thank you! nt USALiberal Jan 2020 #22
it's Military. alphafemale Jan 2020 #32
How awful. My heart hurts for him and her family. nt chowder66 Jan 2020 #18
So....He didn't notice the potholes going in? alphafemale Jan 2020 #21
Can you show where it was reported that he was staggering drunk, and she was too drunk to walk.? cwydro Jan 2020 #23
Interestingly enough... jberryhill Jan 2020 #24
Lol! cwydro Jan 2020 #27
Sober people don't trip in a pothole. Conscious people being carried do not land on their head. alphafemale Jan 2020 #25
Lol, I tripped over my goose and broke my shoulder. cwydro Jan 2020 #26
I'm guessing you did not sue your goose. alphafemale Jan 2020 #30
No, but I was sorely tempted to kill him. cwydro Jan 2020 #31
wow Kali Jan 2020 #35
hilarious Nature Man Jan 2020 #36
" Sober people don't trip in a pothole." Codeine Jan 2020 #44
Over thirty years ago, I heard of a tragedy similar to this one. John1956PA Jan 2020 #38

mucifer

(23,545 posts)
1. That's absolutely horrible. But, it seems to be a freak accident.
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 12:31 PM
Jan 2020

I don't think we can expect government to keep every pothole filled.

I feel for these people. It's so sad.

dalton99a

(81,512 posts)
7. "It is unclear what injuries John sustained and whether alcohol played a role"
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 12:46 PM
Jan 2020
At this time, it is unclear what injuries John sustained and whether alcohol played a role in the fatal accident.

A spokesperson for John’s law firm, Panish Shea & Boyle LLP, did not immediately respond to PEOPLE’s request for comment.

John and Robyn’s parents, Evan Stalzer and Wendy Witgen, are now seeking legal action against SVF, LLC for their “inexcusable failure to maintain their parking lot in a safe condition.”

Though the trio claimed in the lawsuit that the grounds were “covered in cracks and potholes in such a manner as to be a blatant disregard for the safety of its guests,” Village Faire employees who spoke to KNSD said SVF, LLC effectively maintains the space and annually fixes potholes.

A restaurant manager also told the San Diego outlet that the space in question is a street owned by the city of Carlsbad, which is partially used by North County Transit for commuter parking.

https://people.com/human-interest/marine-wife-dies-trips-pothole-carrying-her-lawsuit/

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
41. Nothing new to this lawsuit or the legal principles behind it.
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 01:43 PM
Jan 2020

They were brought by early settlers from England and were hundreds of years old then.

The property owner has a duty to maintain it in a condition that won't cause normal use to hurt people. And potholes take a long time to develop, so no excuse there.

The husband will win if the unrepaired pothole is believed to be the proximate cause of injury that lead to death. Even if he was under the influence, the property owner will almost certainly still be held liable to some degree for maintaining a hazard.

Arthur_Frain

(1,850 posts)
17. They were at a bar. Smart money is they had a drink.
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 02:12 PM
Jan 2020

That’s a problem with your lawsuit right there.

It’s a terrible thing that happened, but suing the city because you stepped in a hole? Sometimes when bad things happen you simply can’t blame them on anyone else.

matt819

(10,749 posts)
9. Some thoughts
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 01:20 PM
Jan 2020

1. From this snippet we don’t know if either of them was drunk. Maybe they were having a good time and as loving newlyweds and thought it be funny and cute. So the Darwin reference really is offensive.

2. It sounds like this was private property so it would not be a government issue.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
16. Which insurance company should pick up the tab?
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 02:12 PM
Jan 2020

She has a huge bill from her last days, and either her health insurer or the property insurer needs to pay that bill.

Do you think the health insurance company should just sit back and say, “Well, there might be a primary insurer here, but since we’re in the business of giving away money, we’ll just pay it. Our policy owners and shareholders won’t mind a bit.”
 

Amimnoch

(4,558 posts)
20. Probably not. He was a young Marine per the article.
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 08:01 AM
Jan 2020

If she was in the hospital at the base in Carlsbad then there's no bill at all. If a public hospital it was likely covered by military Tricare insurance, and a very small co-pay.

Farmer-Rick

(10,175 posts)
28. Tri Care's co pay ain't so little anymore.
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 11:28 AM
Jan 2020

Some copayments are 25 to 50% depending on the illness.

But if he was active duty, her payments should be very low.

I was involved in a pothole in the parking lot fall and I can tell you it was serious. The pothole could not be seen because it was dark and raining. I stepped right into it. Fell flat on my face but I was able to get up. Three days later I was in the hospital for a concussion. I thought I was fine but started feeling weird, dizzy, like I was drunk without drinking, 3 days afterwards.

Anyway, all us well for me now but not maintaining your parking lot and injured customers happens a lot more than you think. I will never use a facility again that allows potholes in the parking area.

sl8

(13,779 posts)
34. Are the insurance companies that administer Tricare less likely to sue ...
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 11:48 AM
Jan 2020

than other insurance companies? I've got my doubts, but I don't know.

If she was treated in a military facility, that's one thing, but if they're relying on Tricare to pay for treatment at a civilian hospital, they could be on the hook for a substantial amount.

It is good that he's active duty, with regard to healthcare costs & access to military healthcare for himself and his dependents. That's in general, I don't know about this specific case.

jimfields33

(15,807 posts)
42. I'm always a nervous wreck anytime I see someone walking with a child on their shoulders
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 01:49 PM
Jan 2020

I hate seeing that and it just makes me cringe especially walking along the sidewalk.

lapfog_1

(29,205 posts)
3. Darwin by proxy award winner
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 12:33 PM
Jan 2020

1. don't get so drunk you can't walk

2. going into the bar, notice the potholes

3. if you are going to carry someone, please do so in a manner that allows both of you to be safe...

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
11. I have been completely blotto in my younger days
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 01:35 PM
Jan 2020

And something likebthis COULD have happened to me. I wont call him a Darwin candidate, but I wouldnt award hom a single penny either.

Caveat: Assuming they were drunk.

mopinko

(70,111 posts)
6. the city of dekalb il is having the very same debate.
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 12:43 PM
Jan 2020

big mall that is a big asset to the tax base, but not doing well enough, so they say, to keep up the parking lots. they are trying to get the city to consider them streets and maintain them. they are currently shit.

they are talking about a special taxing district.

cities end up cleaning up so much corporate trash.

Kali

(55,008 posts)
8. tough one
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 12:46 PM
Jan 2020

homeowners can get sued when somebody falls down on their property...

sad situation, I really feel sorry for the guy. partly his fault too and he has to live with that. an accident can end a life.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
15. Let me make it easier for you
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 02:09 PM
Jan 2020

You are a stockholder in her health insurance company. Should her health insurance pay the gargantuan bill here, or should the insurer for the property owner (whether public or private) pay that bill?

This is the mechanism by which we as a society decide which insurance company has to pay.

That’s all this is.

Hermit-The-Prog

(33,347 posts)
40. let's make it easier -- eliminate health "insurance"
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 01:37 PM
Jan 2020

Let's substitute health care for the current wealth care system.

 

bitterross

(4,066 posts)
33. Not tough at all
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 11:47 AM
Jan 2020

It's a ridiculous suit. Two drunks in a parking lot. One not paying attention to where he's walking and trips. Totally
not the fault of the establishment.

Yes, home owners, and anyone else, can get sued for almost anything. That doesn't make the cases legitimate. To win a case, they must prove the establishment was willfully negligent. That they knew that safety was compromised and did nothing.

Making that case about potholes in a parking lot is going to be tough. As it should be. It's ridiculous to expect every pothole be fixed immediately.

I'm sorry for his loss, but suing the establishment doesn't absolve him for his actions.

Kali

(55,008 posts)
37. somebody died
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 01:00 PM
Jan 2020

it very well could be partially the fault of the establishment - we really don't know all the facts here. we don't even know if anybody was really drunk, though it is certainly reasonable to assume they may have at least been drinking.

 

bitterross

(4,066 posts)
43. Take a look at the pothole and the article. Google it - they're getting tons of coverage
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 07:56 PM
Jan 2020

I googled "marine in carlsbad suing bar" and got a ton of links to articles. For an odd, tragic, accident it seems to be getting a lot of attention. That makes me suspicious. But, my screen name isn't bitter - as in bitter and jaded - for nothing.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7921689/Newlywed-marine-fell-pothole-carrying-wife-parking-lot-sues-lot-owner.html

It was in the early morning hours after a night out dancing at a bar. There is a picture of the pothole in the linked article. Looks pretty avoidable to me if you are paying attention to where you are walking. Especially if, as the suit complains, the parking lot was riddled with potholes. That probably wasn't the best thing to put in the suit. A person would normally be even more cautious in a place that is riddled with potholes. Let's extend this blame-game to it's extreme and most stupid conclusion. IF the parking lot WAS riddled with potholes HE had a duty to take EXTRA care when transporting his wife. SO, HER parents, his in-laws, should sue HIM for being negligent and depriving them of their daughter. See how stupid this can get?

From the article though:

Though the trio claimed in the lawsuit that the grounds were “covered in cracks and potholes in such a manner as to be a blatant disregard for the safety of its guests,” Village Faire employees who spoke to KNSD said SVF, LLC effectively maintains the space and annually fixes potholes.

I'm very sorry he has lost his wife. There is no doubt this is a terrible, terrible thing to have happened.

I'm just so sick of everything having to be the fault of someone else. Of people feeling like it's perfectly okay to blame others for everything rather than taking some personal responsibility. That every time something bad happens to them they get to sue someone.

I feel bad for the guy. I suspect he feels guilty as hell about tripping with her and causing her head injuries. But, it sounds like that is what happened. HE wasn't paying enough attention to where he was walking. Now, it seems to me some lawyer or others have convinced him to offload the guilt he feels by suing the bar and saying they're responsible. Perhaps that's the way he's dealing with the guilt and the loss.

He needs to accept that he was part of a tragic accident. That no amount of suing and money is going to change that.

WhiteTara

(29,715 posts)
10. He will lose. It's called torte immunity
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 01:27 PM
Jan 2020

Unless the parking lot is owned by the restaurant, too bad, so sad. really.

wishstar

(5,269 posts)
12. He needs to pursue settlement from city if city actually owns the place where accident happened
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 01:50 PM
Jan 2020

My aunt received a settlement from city of Philadelphia to recover her medical costs breaking a limb from tripping on a pipe sticking up at edge of sidewalk

LiberalArkie

(15,715 posts)
13. Malls generally own the pavement, but have the attitude that "You did not have to be here"
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 01:59 PM
Jan 2020

So you tore your suspension out of the car - not our problem.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
14. Once again, the point is entirely missed here
Sat Jan 25, 2020, 02:07 PM
Jan 2020

Because we do not have a comprehensive health program, it is necessary for health insurers to force their policy holders to do this sort of thing.

Whether or not it is private property or public property, there is a potential alternative insurer than the health insurance, to cover the bills that were racked up in her final days.

Please, folks, whenever you see a lawsuit pimped out in the press like this, there is a reason why, and it has practically nothing to do with the people involved. They are simply puppets in a show to figure which insurer is going to pay.
 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
21. So....He didn't notice the potholes going in?
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 08:26 AM
Jan 2020

Before he got stagger drunk and she unconscious drunk. Better luck maybe on suing the restaurant for serving too many drinks.
Those suit have been successful, specially to people that young, who ae inexperienced with the affects.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
23. Can you show where it was reported that he was staggering drunk, and she was too drunk to walk.?
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 10:55 AM
Jan 2020
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
24. Interestingly enough...
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 11:07 AM
Jan 2020

...in competitive wife carrying, the traditional prize is the wife’s weight in beer.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
25. Sober people don't trip in a pothole. Conscious people being carried do not land on their head.
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 11:14 AM
Jan 2020

Sober people don't trip in a pothole. Conscious people being carried do not land on their head.

Even if the person carrying them trips.

Potholes are a fact of life in the winter in some areas.

They are fixed in the Spring when the ground thaws.



Kali

(55,008 posts)
35. wow
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 12:56 PM
Jan 2020

nobody sober ever falls or has an accident? interesting. good luck in life, hope it never happens to you but you are dead wrong.

John1956PA

(2,654 posts)
38. Over thirty years ago, I heard of a tragedy similar to this one.
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 01:29 PM
Jan 2020

Tragedies such as the one which is the subject of this post are rare, but they have occurred. They result in the question of who, if anyone, is to blame. My heart goes out to the family of the deceased.

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