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rachel1

(538 posts)
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 03:25 PM Sep 2012

Four Middle Schoolers Found Guilty Of Gang Raping Teen

Four male middle schoolers, ages 12 and 13, were found guilty today of gang raping a 14-year-old girl and trying to rape a 12-year-old girl in June. Prosecutors said the boys, who were students at Chestnut Ridge Middle School in the Rockland County town of Ramapo, had attacked the teens over a three-day period at a Chestnut Ridge house. "I was yelling and screaming to leave me alone," one of the victims testified, adding that she felt "pain" at being penetrated multiple times.

Prosecutors said all four of the boys admitted in police statements that they sexually abused the girls, including holding down the 14-year-old girl and taking turns raping her, over the course of June 11th, 12th and 13th. The 14-year-old victim testified that the boys only left that morning to catch a bus to school for an exam they didn't want to miss. The boys claimed the sex was consensual, and their attorneys asked for them to be released because they had no criminal history and good academic records.

One of the boys, a 12-year-old, testified in court that they knew they were not invited into the girls' house, but knew where the family left a spare key. "We had sexual contact with her the day before [June 11] and wanted to do it again," said the boy. He said that he attempted to have sex with the older girl on June 12th because he didn't want to be the only boy who had not had sex with her: 'I didn’t want to be a punk," he said. "I didn’t want to seem like anyone who didn’t do it. It was consensual. I swear on everything I love. She was even laughing."

http://gothamist.com/2012/09/07/four_middle_schoolers_found_guilty.php

I know that they're young and minors but I really have to wonder if they'll someday regret their actions when they're older.

What a pity.

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Four Middle Schoolers Found Guilty Of Gang Raping Teen (Original Post) rachel1 Sep 2012 OP
If these were my kids, I'd make DAMN SURE they.... lastlib Sep 2012 #1
No excuse, no justification, they need to be punished to the full extent of the law. n/t bluesbassman Sep 2012 #2
How can sex be consensual if you have to have your friends hold the girl down? upaloopa Sep 2012 #3
That jumped out at me too gollygee Sep 2012 #5
because rape, gang rape is fun and entertaining. the girl wants it. they WANT to fuckin be forced seabeyond Sep 2012 #7
I'm guessing their lawyer told them to repeat that word 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #14
rape is rape - no exceptions leftyohiolib Sep 2012 #4
had to force her, didnt want to be the only one not getting it... just a thing, but hey, we KNOW our seabeyond Sep 2012 #6
Good god, the poor girl. Javaman Sep 2012 #8
animals? do you know how many times we have men tell us we are all just animals seabeyond Sep 2012 #10
Um what? Javaman Sep 2012 #24
Can't wait to hear someone ask Akin for his thoughts on this... Blue_Tires Sep 2012 #9
12 & 13 year olds who do something like this MineralMan Sep 2012 #11
+1 Blue_Tires Sep 2012 #17
This whole thing totally reminds me of my middle school in Oakland XemaSab Sep 2012 #25
You need to read "Makes Me Wanna Holler" by Nathan McCall Iris Sep 2012 #26
This is going to be a really tough case 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #12
And then we get shit like this in the comments section: MadrasT Sep 2012 #13
I didn't take that from those comments 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #16
My wife and I knew where our kids were every minute at that age exboyfil Sep 2012 #18
I don't get that he's blaming the girls' parents, necessarily, but he does blame journalists for Nay Sep 2012 #22
Well truly, MadrasT, how DARE that journalist not provide enoigh detail redqueen Sep 2012 #23
That is sick treestar Sep 2012 #15
Does it seem to anyone else that our society is in decay. Skip Intro Sep 2012 #19
No, I think it's being REPORTED more. NashvilleLefty Sep 2012 #20
but the garbage is going in and effecting us, and it is not garbage out much. i agree with your seabeyond Sep 2012 #21
I concluded that years ago but everyone I spoke to was in denial. ailsagirl Sep 2012 #28
How the hell does this happen? Is there any adult supervision for any TwilightGardener Sep 2012 #27
my memory recalls the phrase,"A gang bang" And I am talking about more than 40 years ago in a small Douglas Carpenter Sep 2012 #29

lastlib

(23,226 posts)
1. If these were my kids, I'd make DAMN SURE they....
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 03:29 PM
Sep 2012

...regretted it to their dying day. Which would probly be tomorrow......if not sooner

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
3. How can sex be consensual if you have to have your friends hold the girl down?
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 03:40 PM
Sep 2012

Prosecutors said all four of the boys admitted in police statements that they sexually abused the girls, including holding down the 14-year-old girl and taking turns raping her

The boys claimed the sex was consensual,

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
5. That jumped out at me too
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 04:01 PM
Sep 2012

Horrifying and the story made me sick to my stomach. How any of them could try to claim it was consensual when they had to hold her down makes me ill too.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
7. because rape, gang rape is fun and entertaining. the girl wants it. they WANT to fuckin be forced
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 04:19 PM
Sep 2012

do we considered that trash and garbage we feed our kids.

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
14. I'm guessing their lawyer told them to repeat that word
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 04:30 PM
Sep 2012

as many times as possible.

Muddy the case and possibly reduce the charges.

Not my area of expertise, just a guess.

 

leftyohiolib

(5,917 posts)
4. rape is rape - no exceptions
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 03:57 PM
Sep 2012

send the little monsters to prison - that girls got a long time to live with being raped. if they get off (not a pun) it'll provide an out for every other asshole who "doesnt didn’t want to be a punk,"

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
6. had to force her, didnt want to be the only one not getting it... just a thing, but hey, we KNOW our
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 04:18 PM
Sep 2012

girls are really wanting it when we are holding them down. all of society adn media telling our boys this.

sacarsm, people for those that actually think i may be serious. though i am absolutely serious.... but in a sarcastically disgusted, beyond disgusted way.

glad our gals no means yes and that this is not an honest rape.

wtfuckity fuck

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
10. animals? do you know how many times we have men tell us we are all just animals
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 04:24 PM
Sep 2012

whenever we discuss this issue?

really, what more do you expect, we are animals.

MineralMan

(146,308 posts)
11. 12 & 13 year olds who do something like this
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 04:28 PM
Sep 2012

have major gaps in their upbringing. Someone did not teach them anything about respect for themselves or others. They need to be removed from their current living situations and placed in foster care with foster parents who have a proven history of success. After they spend some time incarcerated, of course.

Something is really wrong in these boys lives, and it needs to be corrected soon, or they'll end up killing someone someday.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
17. +1
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 05:32 PM
Sep 2012

I'm curious to find out what influences in their lives (if any) molded their attitudes that females are little more than disposable fuck toys...

Iris

(15,653 posts)
26. You need to read "Makes Me Wanna Holler" by Nathan McCall
Sat Sep 8, 2012, 12:16 AM
Sep 2012

Sadly, this incident is not a unique case.

There's also a book called "Only Girl in the Car" which is also autobiographical from a victim's perspective. I didn't actually read that one. Didn't think I could stomach it

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
12. This is going to be a really tough case
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 04:29 PM
Sep 2012

on the one hand they're 12/13. Easy enough to say they're kids who don't deserve severe punishment.

Then again it was a very adult crime, they don't seem at all repentant, and it took place over days. That doesn't smack of "salvageable kid who made a stupid mistake".

I'd be curious what the parents of the perpetrators have to say on their monumental failure in their responsibilities.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
13. And then we get shit like this in the comments section:
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 04:30 PM
Sep 2012
These girls were 12 and 14 years old? Don't they have parents or adult guardians? Didn't anyone notice they were not in school for 4 days? Do these kids raise themselves? Really an excellent example of journalism.


So it's really the fault of the girls' parents for not keeping them under lock and key.

The boys who RAPED THEM had nothing to do with it.

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
16. I didn't take that from those comments
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 04:40 PM
Sep 2012

maybe they should have prefaced it with something like "obviously the boys are 100% to blame" or something about *their* parents.

But that's a valid question. If a child goes missing for 4 days . . . why didn't that raise an alarm?

I take that as similar to comments like "why did it take the cops 5 hours to show up when I called to report an armed robbery?" Obviously that isn't absolving the criminals of responsibility. But it is fair to hold those who are responsible to intervene accountable when they don't.

exboyfil

(17,863 posts)
18. My wife and I knew where our kids were every minute at that age
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 05:34 PM
Sep 2012

We still keep close tabs on them (kids 16 and 15). I don't know if we have a real parent in the bunch (victims and attackers).

Maybe the author of "Lord of the Flies" was right - without parental restraint you can expect this.

I think the kids should serve at least to 18 (probably 21).

Nay

(12,051 posts)
22. I don't get that he's blaming the girls' parents, necessarily, but he does blame journalists for
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 06:08 PM
Sep 2012

writing an incomprehensible story.

1) the girls were 12 and 14 - if they were held and raped in their own house, one has to assume the boys attacked them AFTER the parents left for work (they used a key they knew was hidden) and left the house BEFORE the parents returned from work....OK, so why did it go on for 3 days? Why didn't they call the police or their parents/tell their parents the minute the boys left on the first day? Why did this go on for 3 days?
2) the four boys were out of school for the 3 days with no one wondering where they were? And the girls, too? Were the parents of any of them notified of their absence, ever? Here in VA, you get a call the morning your kid doesn't show his face, because teachers know kids are sneaks and want to nip that stuff in the bud.

Very weird story.

If I were the boys' lawyer, I could certainly make a case for the boys and girls deciding to stay home and party rather than go to school.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
23. Well truly, MadrasT, how DARE that journalist not provide enoigh detail
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 06:16 PM
Sep 2012

to allow all the readers to try to spread the blame around.

There must be SOMEONE besides the rapists to blame! They're just boys and they're good students.

Besides, those boys were probably just "trying to become her fantasy".



I guess they have year round schools there.

Regardless, even if the parents left them alone for a few days that does NOT remove ANY of the blame from those monsters.

Skip Intro

(19,768 posts)
19. Does it seem to anyone else that our society is in decay.
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 05:38 PM
Sep 2012

I don't mean roads and bridges, or partisan anger. I mean morally. I think that's the right word.

Senseless crime - violent crime - is so commonplace it barely rates a mention in the media.

I can't help but wonder if the glorification of sex and money and violence and self-interest in various forms of media has played a part in creating what we are witnessing. There seems to be a real contempt for law and common decency, and a disregard for the lives of others, instant self-satisfaction a prime motivator for so many. Take what you want - don't care about how it affects anyone else.

And we can't forget parents who are absent or apathetic or so wrapped up in their own selfish desires that they are derelict in their duties and responsibilities to raise children with a strong moral fiber and sense of right and wrong and respect for others.

Last night I watched a couple of videos of this "Honey Boo Boo" kid I keep hearing about. In one clip, this six year old girl was on stage doing a dance like you might see a stripper do, being led from the audience by her mother. A six year old gyrating and shaking her butt under the direction of her mom. And I just thought, wtf?

The phrase "garbage in, garbage out," comes to mind.

NashvilleLefty

(811 posts)
20. No, I think it's being REPORTED more.
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 05:56 PM
Sep 2012

Not too long ago, this would have been considered a case of "boys will be boys" and the whole thing would have been covered up.

Everything else in your post, you're only aware of it because it's been brought to your attention by the media. Most of these things have been going on forever, they were just "covered-up" and/or the rest of us simply didn't know about it.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
21. but the garbage is going in and effecting us, and it is not garbage out much. i agree with your
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 06:01 PM
Sep 2012

post.

it amazes me all we are seeing and having people tell us it does not have an influence. yet we will be all over fox for the mind warping there. because it does not fit our agenda, and for only that reason.

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
27. How the hell does this happen? Is there any adult supervision for any
Sat Sep 8, 2012, 12:20 AM
Sep 2012

of these kids? This whole story is just disturbing and weird.

Douglas Carpenter

(20,226 posts)
29. my memory recalls the phrase,"A gang bang" And I am talking about more than 40 years ago in a small
Sat Sep 8, 2012, 12:28 AM
Sep 2012

town in Western PA. From what I can gather, "a gang bang" implied a small group of young adolescent boys forcibly having sexual contact with a girl of about the same age. From what I can gather the boys who talked about doing such things did not in their own minds believe they were engaging in rape or even sexual assault. In fact I don't think they thought about it any more seriously than their bravado talk about "how far they went" with their "girl friend." I suspect such behavior as this is as old as the hills and much like the like the behavior of a priest improperly touching young boys - until relatively recently most people didn't eventhink about the implications and until relatively recently it didn't even register in a lot of peoples' minds as seriously criminal behavior.

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