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TEB

(12,851 posts)
Sat Mar 14, 2020, 08:25 AM Mar 2020

My moms nursing home has suspended all visits

I’m glad that I resupplied her with powder coffee creamer and bath and body products Thursday morning . She just called me as we were gonna do pizzas tomorrow with her.She said kid you cannot come kid that’s makes me smile I’m almost 54.

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My moms nursing home has suspended all visits (Original Post) TEB Mar 2020 OP
My Mom's nursing home did too Danascot Mar 2020 #1
Yes friend TEB Mar 2020 #2
My Mom is 92. Mendocino Mar 2020 #3
Sorry friend TEB Mar 2020 #4
Thank You! Mendocino Mar 2020 #5
This is so hard and heartbreaking for you and all moonscape Mar 2020 #12
I had to be face to face Mendocino Mar 2020 #13
Same With My BiL ProfessorGAC Mar 2020 #6
Sending compassion TEB Mar 2020 #8
Back At You (eom) ProfessorGAC Mar 2020 #11
Please set up Facetime or Skype for her so you can do face to face malaise Mar 2020 #7
She has I phone TEB Mar 2020 #9
Great malaise Mar 2020 #10
I have a friend whose mom was in a nursing home in another country Tanuki Mar 2020 #14
My dad's home too. I loaded him up with all sorts of supplies 10 days ago. applegrove Mar 2020 #15
It's the responsible thing to do. StarryNite Mar 2020 #16

Danascot

(4,690 posts)
1. My Mom's nursing home did too
Sat Mar 14, 2020, 09:39 AM
Mar 2020

I understand why. Out of 120 residents of the nursing home in Kirkland WA 31 have died and 60 have been sickened. But it's so tragic that residents are now denied visits from loved ones, one of the most precious things they had left.

Mendocino

(7,495 posts)
3. My Mom is 92.
Sat Mar 14, 2020, 11:01 AM
Mar 2020

Thursday I went to visit, they had just shut the doors. I couldn't go in. I last saw Monday.There is no Covid there (Lucas County Ohio). I won't see her for weeks. She's in the alzheimer's unit and extremely hard of hearing. It may better this way, she couldn't understand the situation anyway. I talked to the head nurse this morning, she said that Mom is OK.

I'll won't be able to see or talk to her on her birthday.

moonscape

(4,673 posts)
12. This is so hard and heartbreaking for you and all
Sat Mar 14, 2020, 12:01 PM
Mar 2020

loved ones around the country in this situation. When Mom was alive, I can't imagine the ache of not being able to be there, be an advocate, hug her, etc.

The social consequences of CV are going to be severe.

Mendocino

(7,495 posts)
13. I had to be face to face
Sat Mar 14, 2020, 12:20 PM
Mar 2020

only a few inches, with her even before all this. She would pull her hearing aids out and her glasses, even if the they were strapped in.

ProfessorGAC

(65,057 posts)
6. Same With My BiL
Sat Mar 14, 2020, 11:50 AM
Mar 2020

At least 2 weeks, my wife was told.
He's not super old, but he's still rehabbing from a 2 week hospital stay.
He's likely to need assisted living from now on, so this is sort of his home.
But, they're free to move about in building & grounds.

malaise

(269,022 posts)
7. Please set up Facetime or Skype for her so you can do face to face
Sat Mar 14, 2020, 11:52 AM
Mar 2020

Being all alone is the worst part of these forced separations.

Tanuki

(14,918 posts)
14. I have a friend whose mom was in a nursing home in another country
Sat Mar 14, 2020, 12:26 PM
Mar 2020

and she set up a computer for her over there so she could Skype and send programming she knew her mom might enjoy. I know it's too late to do all that now, but I wonder if nursing homes and other senior residences could at least set up Skype or other face to face apps on a central computer?

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