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OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 06:20 PM Sep 2012

UPDATE: YOU DID IT, DU!!! (Time to rally behind another DUer in need)

Last edited Tue Sep 11, 2012, 09:20 AM - Edit history (3)

(I was previously given permission by Skinner to post periodically about http://www.wishadoo.org, especially when it involves DUers, with this required disclaimer: "The administrators of Democratic Underground have given permission for one discussion thread on this topic. The administrators of Democratic Underground make no claims regarding the legitimacy or illegitimacy of this fundraising effort. Permission was granted by Skinner on 8/6/2010, and the moderators have been notified.&quot


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[font size="3"]MISSION ACCOMPLISHED!!!!!!! Catbyte has asked that I ask people to stop donating, as she has reached what she feels she needs to breathe for the moment. She is overwhelmed by the kindness and generosity.
YOU ARE ALL AMAZING!!!!!
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Earlier today DUer catbyte created this DU post to share her experience and the dreadful situation she finds herself in, which includes fearing for her three cats after receiving an eviction notice. She wrote:

[font color="blue"]"You know how they say that many folks are 1 paycheck away from disaster? Well I am 1/2 a paycheck from disaster and disaster has hit. My husband has been in a nursing home for 18 months and will likely be there permanently due to the ravages of having Type I Diabetes for 54 years. He has vascular dementia and has lost part of a foot. Our insurance ran out and I was hit with a big bill before Medicaid kicked in. It paid some months retroactively but not all. I was faced with a choice of keeping a roof over his head or mine. I think I can stay with friends for a while but I am worried sick about my 3 cats.

I never thought I would be in this position at age 57. Sorry but I just had to vent. The healthcare system in this country sucks even if you have insurance."[/font]


The link below takes you to the Wishlist post, which gives a bit more information, including contact (and PayPal) info for catbyte if you can help in any way.


http://www.wishadoo.org/wishlist/124/facing-eviction-in-sw-michigan-worried-about-3-cats/


catbyte would GREATLY appreciate it if you would kindly:

* Recommend this thread and keep it kicked

* Share the Wishlist post with your social networks (or share from here, of course)

* Offer whatever support you can (information, advice, financial support, well wishes, etc.)


You can contact her here at DU through PM, at Wishadoo, or send an email to her as noted in the Wishlist post.



PLEASE NOTE: Anyone is welcome to use the tools at Wishadoo, so long as the Terms of Service are adhered to (basically "play nice" and don't lie). This includes creating posts in the Wishlist, a "craigslist of compassion." Most of us are struggling with one thing or another, and as you'll see, there are many categories in the Wishlist to cover a variety of issues/needs.

Wishadoo! is a portal of sorts, where there are tools to create more compassionate, cooperative communities; the Wishlist is where we can ask, offer, give, receive and pay it forward. If you create a Wishlist post, let me know your DU name, and I can start to do weekly or biweekly threads such as this to highlight DUers' needs and offerings.

(FYI, the Wishlist post regarding Bubble & Squeak was shared far and wide, and eventually led to a happy yet bittersweet ending -- given the poignant circumstances -- thanks to the heroism of several DUers and well wishes of many non-DUers around the country. BTW, we may need an update from DUer, jsmirman, as to whether or not he is still in need of funds to cover everything; the DNC and other news events derailed that effort, last I heard. We were almost there, though...)


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[font color="green"]I realize there are pleas for help from every corner nowadays, but if you are able to help support the administrative costs of Wishadoo! so the website can continue to provide tools to help one another, there aren't enough words to express my gratitude. I struggle tremendously myself and hate to ask, especially when I'm posting to ask for help for others, but ask I must. Remember that Glenn Beck branded Wishadoo! as part of the community/socialist/fascist conspiracy on his show, so I know we're on the right track with such endeavors for The Common Good!

Investing in Wishadoo! goes toward the cost of maintaining the site, NOT toward any Wishlist posts. That takes place one on one, between Wishadoo! members. ~ OneGrassRoot[br]

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UPDATE: YOU DID IT, DU!!! (Time to rally behind another DUer in need) (Original Post) OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 OP
Du rec. Nt xchrom Sep 2012 #1
K/R Jack Rabbit Sep 2012 #2
K&R lillypaddle Sep 2012 #3
Kick elleng Sep 2012 #4
K & R protect our future Sep 2012 #5
Please DU... Blue Belle Sep 2012 #6
Right here: freshwest Sep 2012 #108
k&r Starry Messenger Sep 2012 #7
Every little bit helps... Melinda Sep 2012 #8
k&r donated rsweets Sep 2012 #9
K & R AzDar Sep 2012 #10
K&R MinneapolisMatt Sep 2012 #11
I can't find the paypal info. Anyone know where it is? n/t cherokeeprogressive Sep 2012 #12
Yes.... Melinda Sep 2012 #15
Thanks. I'll ask catbyte if she can generate a button for me to insert there. OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #16
Nooo, thank YOU, Ms OGR!! Melinda Sep 2012 #18
... OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #52
Thanks. Done. cherokeeprogressive Sep 2012 #17
You're amazing!! Melinda Sep 2012 #19
Thanks OGR and Melinda, for helping us to help someone in need.... Trailrider1951 Sep 2012 #35
There's always another in need at another time... Melinda Sep 2012 #64
K&R nt avebury Sep 2012 #13
Thanks OGR and DU... luvspeas Sep 2012 #14
I am so happy you are taking this up!!!! You are so wonderful! nt Mojorabbit Sep 2012 #20
k and r niyad Sep 2012 #21
KnR GreenPartyVoter Sep 2012 #22
I so wish I could.. AzSweet Sep 2012 #23
Welcome to DU AzSweet pkdu Sep 2012 #53
Yes, welcome to DU :) OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #55
K&R I sent you something...I hope you can stay in your home. nt msanthrope Sep 2012 #24
K&R LadyHawkAZ Sep 2012 #25
knr..... wish it were more. chknltl Sep 2012 #26
Best Wishes for catbyte! Cha Sep 2012 #27
K&R patrice Sep 2012 #28
K&R !!! n/t RKP5637 Sep 2012 #29
Kick. Rec. cherokeeprogressive Sep 2012 #30
HANG IN THERE CATBYTE & MR. CATBYTE XXOO Astazia Sep 2012 #31
Kick for trio of Kits and their fine owner. glinda Sep 2012 #32
K & R Lifelong Protester Sep 2012 #33
K&R nt grasswire Sep 2012 #34
I'm about to head out the door to work tavalon Sep 2012 #36
I'll message you. :) n/t OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #38
Thank you, One Grass Root, tavalon Sep 2012 #41
Kick Helen Reddy Sep 2012 #37
Welcome, Helen Reddy! OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #40
Will do! nt Guy Whitey Corngood Sep 2012 #39
. n/t porphyrian Sep 2012 #42
Kick Chorophyll Sep 2012 #43
Kick and Rec Trailrider1951 Sep 2012 #44
I don't know how to find Catbyte's account on PayPal Betsy Ross Sep 2012 #45
Hopefully she'll be able to create a donation button for me to insert... OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #46
Thanks. I did it using an email address. Betsy Ross Sep 2012 #50
Hi Betsy, here is what I did Trailrider1951 Sep 2012 #49
... OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #51
K&r nt abelenkpe Sep 2012 #47
Just used Paypal. Took 10 seconds. Sienna86 Sep 2012 #48
K&R Flaxbee Sep 2012 #54
Done. Good luck. Frustratedlady Sep 2012 #56
I just sent money TheOther95Percent Sep 2012 #57
K&R stormpilot Sep 2012 #58
Paypal sent unclouded Sep 2012 #59
Thank YOU, and welcome to DU! OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #60
I love you, OGR. Mnemosyne Sep 2012 #61
... OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #62
Kickety kick kick! Melinda Sep 2012 #63
Marta handles PayPal Omaha Steve Sep 2012 #65
K&R FourScore Sep 2012 #66
K&R one_voice Sep 2012 #67
k&r... spanone Sep 2012 #68
K&R dogday Sep 2012 #69
K&R. nt tblue37 Sep 2012 #70
Bottom of this hour kick ;-) Melinda Sep 2012 #71
K&R Odin2005 Sep 2012 #72
Keeping this thread kicked! DontTreadOnMe Sep 2012 #73
kicking JanMichael Sep 2012 #74
kicking rurallib Sep 2012 #75
Just sent some money matt819 Sep 2012 #76
You're all amazing. OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #77
K&R MotherPetrie Sep 2012 #78
K&R Digit Sep 2012 #79
k/r emilyg Sep 2012 #80
I can't believe the support I am getting from everyon here catbyte Sep 2012 #81
Good luck Thursday. nt Guy Whitey Corngood Sep 2012 #82
Best wishes dogday Sep 2012 #83
"The only family I have left are my beloved husband of 28 years, Chuck, and my cats." Melinda Sep 2012 #84
I'll Kick This! Lochloosa Sep 2012 #95
You'll not find a better group of people than DU... cynatnite Sep 2012 #86
It would be helpful to know a2liberal Sep 2012 #91
Bless your heart. Just breathe... OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #98
K&R! onestepforward Sep 2012 #85
K&R sent a bit n/t Hamlette Sep 2012 #87
catbyte, you know the amount I'm good for jsmirman Sep 2012 #88
K&R n/t Lugnut Sep 2012 #89
Can't imagine how I would feel if this was my cats AllyCat Sep 2012 #90
Kicking for the night shift n/t LadyHawkAZ Sep 2012 #92
Kick again. nt msanthrope Sep 2012 #93
Kicked and Recd Firebrand Gary Sep 2012 #94
KR n/t dogknob Sep 2012 #96
Just sent a little to help out. mnhtnbb Sep 2012 #97
Done trumad Sep 2012 #99
and kicked JanMichael Sep 2012 #100
*UPDATE* *UPDATE* *UPDATE* Woohoo!!!!!! OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #101
What a wonderful way to greet the new day! Melinda Sep 2012 #104
LOL! OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #105
Aw, come on, let the late to the party DUers help too tavalon Sep 2012 #106
True! OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #107
For DUers (and DU admins): OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #102
PERSONAL UPDATE FROM catbyte: OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #103
Oh my - I think I have to get a tissue. myrna minx Sep 2012 #112
Recommended. mmonk Sep 2012 #109
Kicking! calimary Sep 2012 #110
O well, late again. billyclem Sep 2012 #111

Melinda

(5,465 posts)
8. Every little bit helps...
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 06:33 PM
Sep 2012

From our kittah's to yours...
*hugs*
Melinda

Oh, K&R, and you're an angel on earth, Dena

Melinda

(5,465 posts)
15. Yes....
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 06:42 PM
Sep 2012

There is no paypal button for her at Wishadoo, but you can go directly to paypal.com and send to her at catbyte08@yahoo.com Her email address is noted on the bottom of her Wishadoo entry.

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
16. Thanks. I'll ask catbyte if she can generate a button for me to insert there.
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 06:48 PM
Sep 2012

Given my nightmare with the Glenn Beck followers and others harassing me when I post things here at DU, I'm hesitant to give out anyone's email in my posts. I'm sure it's fine, so long as I don't do it...lol.

Thanks, Melinda!



Trailrider1951

(3,414 posts)
35. Thanks OGR and Melinda, for helping us to help someone in need....
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 08:08 PM
Sep 2012

I'm paying mine forward. Sorry I cannot contribute more at this time, but maybe after payday.


Melinda

(5,465 posts)
64. There's always another in need at another time...
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 09:54 PM
Sep 2012

You are contributing in spirit and moral support, and oftentimes it is these acts that are the most uplifting of all. There will be a time when you can do a different type of support, and that's more than good enough. That's perfect.

My biggest contribution is in helping ensure this thread gets views; you have just helped do this too.

And OGR and Wishadoo rock!

luvspeas

(1,883 posts)
14. Thanks OGR and DU...
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 06:42 PM
Sep 2012

I've been following this thread all day and wondering how I could help. I'll check it out.

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
55. Yes, welcome to DU :)
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 09:03 PM
Sep 2012

So many are struggling...it's simply awful.

I'm sorry you're going through this, too.



tavalon

(27,985 posts)
36. I'm about to head out the door to work
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 08:08 PM
Sep 2012

but can you point me to how to do a donation to catbyte via paypal?

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
41. Thank you, One Grass Root,
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 08:16 PM
Sep 2012

I've sent what I can and I hope any DUer who has a little extra moola will consider helping this person out.

Betsy Ross

(3,147 posts)
45. I don't know how to find Catbyte's account on PayPal
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 08:28 PM
Sep 2012

How does one donate to her? I understand her account is catbyte08, but I don't know how to get there.

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
46. Hopefully she'll be able to create a donation button for me to insert...
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 08:31 PM
Sep 2012

but until then, if you log into your PayPal account, then click to "send" money, when you insert her email address, it will go to her.

Hope that helps.

Trailrider1951

(3,414 posts)
49. Hi Betsy, here is what I did
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 08:37 PM
Sep 2012

go to paypal.com
log into your account
click on the tab above that says "Send Money"
decide on the amount you wish to give and
send it to catbyte08's e-mail address which can be found at the wishadoo address
Now, paypal called me at my home phone to verify that I did indeed want to send this, and I put in a security code that they provided. Don't be freaked out by that.

Thank you for helping her. Pay it forward.

Sandy

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
56. Done. Good luck.
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 09:06 PM
Sep 2012

I hope your life eases up and both you and your husband can see some blue sky without clouds and troubles.

TheOther95Percent

(1,035 posts)
57. I just sent money
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 09:08 PM
Sep 2012

I hope you're able to stave off eviction. If not, I hope we've come together to get you into another place. When you're back on your feet, you can pay it forward. Much love.

stormpilot

(95 posts)
58. K&R
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 09:21 PM
Sep 2012

I wish you catbyte and your kitties the best in resolving your situation. The support from DU'ers is very heartwarming, my eyes well with tears that people have to suffer like this and for so many right on the brink. Many of us, me included, are a paycheck or less away from this and times are very scary.

Much love and peace your way.

unclouded

(12 posts)
59. Paypal sent
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 09:28 PM
Sep 2012

I couldn't do much, but if we all do what we can, catbyte and the kitties will not have to worry about moving.

Thank you, OGR for setting this up!

catbyte

(34,386 posts)
81. I can't believe the support I am getting from everyon here
Mon Sep 10, 2012, 11:44 PM
Sep 2012

I wrote this post out of frustration and despair and I needed to vent to people I knew could understand. Your offers of help and compassion are truly overwhelming. My 16 year old cat, Nigel,, is sitting in my lap wondering why his fur is becoming so wet and salty. I can't begin to tell you how grateful I am. The only family I have left are my beloved husband of 28 years, Chuck, and my cats.

No matter how this all ends, I will be forever touched by each and every one of you and I vow to pay this forward somehow. I will update.

I love you all.

Diane

Melinda

(5,465 posts)
84. "The only family I have left are my beloved husband of 28 years, Chuck, and my cats."
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 12:05 AM
Sep 2012

Not quite. You have your DU family too, right here and right now.
Stay strong. We have your back.


Melinda

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
86. You'll not find a better group of people than DU...
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 12:21 AM
Sep 2012

DU helped my daughter a while back and while she still has a few bad days, the good ones far outweight those. DU is an amazing place!

jsmirman

(4,507 posts)
88. catbyte, you know the amount I'm good for
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 12:42 AM
Sep 2012

just holding off until we know just what info you find out tomorrow - js

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
101. *UPDATE* *UPDATE* *UPDATE* Woohoo!!!!!!
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 09:02 AM
Sep 2012




MISSION ACCOMPLISHED!!!!!!! Catbyte has asked that I ask people to stop donating, as she has reached what she feels she needs to breathe for the moment. She is overwhelmed by the kindness and generosity. YOU ARE ALL AMAZING!!!!!





Melinda

(5,465 posts)
104. What a wonderful way to greet the new day!
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 09:41 AM
Sep 2012

Thank you everyone, but most specially you OGR for standing up immediately and putting your skills and kindness and empathy to work to make this happen. You're a total sweetheart.

catbyte!!! I'd like to jump up and down in excited joy for you, but I just woke up and need to pee and it could be a real disaster!!!

There's gonna be lots of happiness for YOU at DU today. Please keep us updated? From one old legacy DUer to another, I am glad you're here too. We may not post often, but we are DU too. And this is why I love DU. catbyte!!! Life is good today!!!

Thanks everyone!!

billyclem

(145 posts)
111. O well, late again.
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 03:02 PM
Sep 2012

Too late to contribute to catbyte so some support to Wishadoo was in order.

This episode watching the DU response to helping catbyte has been, for me, the most pleasant experience I have encountered here. Kinda fills me with a nice warm fuzzy feeling knowing someone has gone from imminent eviction to relative stability.

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