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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI live alone, and this morning I realized that it doesn't
matter if I put on deodorant today or not. Im not going to be around anybody else anyway.
It was a psychological whack upside the head.
Seems like the protagonist, Ish, in Earth Abides, had a similar epiphany and it was about mouthwash.
Aristus
(66,388 posts)I'll have to read it again sometime.
UTUSN
(70,710 posts)dewsgirl
(14,961 posts)True Blue American
(17,986 posts)I get up, think, I have to be somewhere, then find out I do not.
Lord, I am watching Madeas Halloween!
dewsgirl
(14,961 posts)Freddie
(9,267 posts)Shower, hair wash, deodorant every day. Told DH if I ever skipped to have me checked for dementia as thats one of the first signs. Stocked up on shampoo and body wash (there was lots on the shelves) on my last grocery run for a while.
Same with shaving. I hate going without shaving for any amount of time.
RobinA
(9,893 posts)way. I told my sister that if I ever voluntarily didnt shower she should commit me immediately, Im a danger to myself.
Chainfire
(17,549 posts)I retired two years ago, I have not bathed or brushed my teeth since. I have discovered that you can only get so dirty.
Seriously, I since I retired I quit using deodorant, unless I am going to a social function. If you bathe daily and wear clean clothes you don't need it. People didn't use the stuff for 200,000 years and seemed to have not suffered any big inconvenience from it. We have been taught that any fragrance that wasn't created in a laboratory is not acceptable.
Maraya1969
(22,483 posts)I've only used natural deodorant since I read about it.
ornotna
(10,803 posts)When you get to the "antiperspirants" that's where you find it. Unfortunately trying to find plain deodorant is becoming harder.
marble falls
(57,106 posts)tavernier
(12,392 posts)This might not seem like a big deal to you guys, but some of us ladies, especially older ladies like myself who dont want to scare the children, put on a face before going out in public. A little eyeliner, brush of eyebrow pencil, touch of mascara, dab of foundation, whisp of cheek color, quick stroke of lipstick. Doesnt sound like much, but can take anywhere from 5 to 15 minutes, depending on the event.
And the event includes anywhere you might run into people... grocery store, post office, certainly work or appointments, restaurant, bank, gym. And sometimes a gas station run because if the pump mechanism is broken and you have to pay inside... and you KNOW thats when youll run into everyone you know in town.
Its been a week since Ive been to any of these places. I live alone and go for daily walks in the park alone, wearing my sunglasses. And Ill admit it, I have enjoyed being free of all that! Although I avoid the mirror. Even I dont want to look at this face without a little embellishment.
Shower and shampoo, but no makeup or hair products. Better for your skin and hair. Might frighten the cats but as long as theyre fed they still love me.
Totally Tunsie
(10,885 posts)There are days when even my own children wouldn't recognize me.
I'm loving the time-savings and, why bother?
zeusdogmom
(994 posts)Even if I am only going out to walk the dog. I just feel better. Right now whatever gets you thru the day is important especially if you are living by yourself.
tavernier
(12,392 posts)Though Im skipping the make up until the old world resumes, I still need some civilized routines, so instead of eating out of the refrigerator, Im cooking meals fit for an isolated princess. On the good china with a glass of wine. Who says we have to be barbarians even in the midst of a biblical plague?
RobinA
(9,893 posts)if Im going to another room. Otherwise I could be mistaken for a dead person and cremated alive.
northoftheborder
(7,572 posts)....does it matter??? No. Don't need any new clothes, not using much gas at all; necessary to keep up personal hygiene however!
zeusdogmom
(994 posts)And in the meantime many of us will find out what our real hair color actually is. 😳
snowybirdie
(5,229 posts)is nearly empty after a week. Sweats can be worn daily.
roamer65
(36,745 posts)I look like US Grant on a $50
frazzled
(18,402 posts)sitting around in sweats all day, every day, and looking like a schlub. I've abandoned the makeup and canceled a much-needed hair appointment, but to feel like I'm not a total loser, I've been doing the spa-bath routine and moisturizing and occasionally putting on "real" clothes, just to pretend like I am half human. I may even spritz a little cologne on today after I shower and wash hair.
My favorite statement about losing the will to go on came from the avant-garde performance artist Jack Smith, who opined: "Why should I shave if I can't even think of a reason for living?" Well, hell, people. I still want to live through this. So I suggest we all shave or put on a face or do something to act like life is worth living!
raccoon
(31,111 posts)MyOwnPeace
(16,928 posts)WAY too much "sharing" going on in this thread!!!!
DFW
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raccoon
(31,111 posts)DFW
(54,405 posts)Hekate
(90,714 posts)He's a scientist camping deep in the hills when humanity's Great Extinction occurs.
Good guess about Seuss tho!
panader0
(25,816 posts)everyone else had clothes on.
raccoon
(31,111 posts)True Blue American
(17,986 posts)JustABozoOnThisBus
(23,350 posts)... and sit in your own pew.
Phew!
Baltimike
(4,146 posts)Hekate
(90,714 posts)...when I first read it, but everything sci fi showed up in my parents' house in paperback thanks to Dad, and decades later I got a used hardcover.
True Blue American
(17,986 posts)The poster who discovered pants are a waste of time.
Brother Buzz
(36,444 posts)marlakay
(11,474 posts)Kills germs...😛
cally
(21,594 posts)And not having hair appointments. Im not going anywhere except dog walks