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raccoon

(31,111 posts)
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 10:44 AM Mar 2020

I live alone, and this morning I realized that it doesn't

matter if I put on deodorant today or not. I’m not going to be around anybody else anyway.

It was a psychological whack upside the head.

Seems like the protagonist, Ish, in Earth Abides, had a similar epiphany and it was about mouthwash.

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I live alone, and this morning I realized that it doesn't (Original Post) raccoon Mar 2020 OP
Great book. I read it about thirty years ago, and it sticks with me. Aristus Mar 2020 #1
Yea, my few weekly outings served to get me groomed & dressed, hah!1 UTUSN Mar 2020 #2
Not going anywhere is saving me money on makeup,hair products, etc. dewsgirl Mar 2020 #3
Same here True Blue American Mar 2020 #29
LoL🤣 dewsgirl Mar 2020 #36
I absolutely can't stand being dirty Freddie Mar 2020 #4
Me too genxlib Mar 2020 #5
I'm The Same RobinA Mar 2020 #38
I came to the same realization Chainfire Mar 2020 #6
There is a link I believe between the aluminum in deodorant and breast cancer Maraya1969 Mar 2020 #13
The plain deodorants don't usually have it ornotna Mar 2020 #23
I'm starting to feel that way about jeans. My boxers are just fine. marble falls Mar 2020 #7
Haha, a week since I've put on makeup! tavernier Mar 2020 #8
Me too Freddie Mar 2020 #10
Nailed it! Totally Tunsie Mar 2020 #12
This "older" woman does full makeup every day zeusdogmom Mar 2020 #32
Absolutely! tavernier Mar 2020 #34
I Do Blush RobinA Mar 2020 #39
Same here! And my hair will get shaggy with no cuts, but... northoftheborder Mar 2020 #35
Can you imagine the crush to get hair appointments after this is all over? zeusdogmom Mar 2020 #40
I noticed my laundry hamper snowybirdie Mar 2020 #9
I've stopped shaving for a bit. roamer65 Mar 2020 #11
Yeah, but you can get depressed frazzled Mar 2020 #14
Whoa! I just said not wearing deodorant. I didn't say stopping all personal hygiene. nt raccoon Mar 2020 #21
I'm with 'ya!! MyOwnPeace Mar 2020 #27
I wonder if that isn't a different Ish from the one I remember....? DFW Mar 2020 #15
Is that from "One Fish, Two Fish"? nt raccoon Mar 2020 #22
It is indeed! n/t DFW Mar 2020 #28
Hah, yes. "Ish" is short for Isherwood, whom his parents admired & so saddled him with that name Hekate Mar 2020 #25
They said a mask was OK to wear to the store but they lied--- panader0 Mar 2020 #16
Lol. MrsCoffee Mar 2020 #18
In some states it's illegal to wear a mask. nt raccoon Mar 2020 #20
LOL True Blue American Mar 2020 #31
Churches will be empty today. You could go there, ... JustABozoOnThisBus Mar 2020 #17
You will be around *you* and that matters. nt Baltimike Mar 2020 #19
Ish and Em, progenitors of a new tribe. "Earth Abides" is a great book. Can't even remember... Hekate Mar 2020 #24
You can now join True Blue American Mar 2020 #26
Who needs deodorant when you have a single-jack miners hammer? Brother Buzz Mar 2020 #30
Keep up with the mouthwash marlakay Mar 2020 #33
Enjoying not blow drying my hair cally Mar 2020 #37

Aristus

(66,388 posts)
1. Great book. I read it about thirty years ago, and it sticks with me.
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 10:45 AM
Mar 2020

I'll have to read it again sometime.

True Blue American

(17,986 posts)
29. Same here
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 02:04 PM
Mar 2020

I get up, think, I have to be somewhere, then find out I do not.

Lord, I am watching Madeas Halloween!

Freddie

(9,267 posts)
4. I absolutely can't stand being dirty
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 10:50 AM
Mar 2020

Shower, hair wash, deodorant every day. Told DH if I ever skipped to have me checked for dementia as that’s one of the first signs. Stocked up on shampoo and body wash (there was lots on the shelves) on my last grocery run for a while.

RobinA

(9,893 posts)
38. I'm The Same
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 03:48 PM
Mar 2020

way. I told my sister that if I ever voluntarily didn’t shower she should commit me immediately, I’m a danger to myself.

Chainfire

(17,549 posts)
6. I came to the same realization
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 11:00 AM
Mar 2020

I retired two years ago, I have not bathed or brushed my teeth since. I have discovered that you can only get so dirty.

Seriously, I since I retired I quit using deodorant, unless I am going to a social function. If you bathe daily and wear clean clothes you don't need it. People didn't use the stuff for 200,000 years and seemed to have not suffered any big inconvenience from it. We have been taught that any fragrance that wasn't created in a laboratory is not acceptable.

Maraya1969

(22,483 posts)
13. There is a link I believe between the aluminum in deodorant and breast cancer
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 11:18 AM
Mar 2020

I've only used natural deodorant since I read about it.

ornotna

(10,803 posts)
23. The plain deodorants don't usually have it
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 12:33 PM
Mar 2020

When you get to the "antiperspirants" that's where you find it. Unfortunately trying to find plain deodorant is becoming harder.

tavernier

(12,392 posts)
8. Haha, a week since I've put on makeup!
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 11:07 AM
Mar 2020

This might not seem like a big deal to you guys, but some of us ladies, especially older ladies like myself who don’t want to scare the children, “put on a face” before going out in public. A little eyeliner, brush of eyebrow pencil, touch of mascara, dab of foundation, whisp of cheek color, quick stroke of lipstick. Doesn’t sound like much, but can take anywhere from 5 to 15 minutes, depending on the event.

And the “event” includes anywhere you might run into people... grocery store, post office, certainly work or appointments, restaurant, bank, gym. And sometimes a gas station run because if the pump mechanism is broken and you have to pay inside... and you KNOW that’s when you’ll run into everyone you know in town.

It’s been a week since I’ve been to any of these places. I live alone and go for daily walks in the park alone, wearing my sunglasses. And I’ll admit it, I have enjoyed being free of all that! Although I avoid the mirror. Even I don’t want to look at this face without a little embellishment.


Freddie

(9,267 posts)
10. Me too
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 11:13 AM
Mar 2020

Shower and shampoo, but no makeup or hair products. Better for your skin and hair. Might frighten the cats but as long as they’re fed they still love me.

Totally Tunsie

(10,885 posts)
12. Nailed it!
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 11:15 AM
Mar 2020

There are days when even my own children wouldn't recognize me.

I'm loving the time-savings and, why bother?

zeusdogmom

(994 posts)
32. This "older" woman does full makeup every day
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 02:19 PM
Mar 2020

Even if I am only going out to walk the dog. I just feel better. Right now whatever gets you thru the day is important especially if you are living by yourself.

tavernier

(12,392 posts)
34. Absolutely!
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 02:31 PM
Mar 2020

Though I’m skipping the make up until the old world resumes, I still need some civilized routines, so instead of eating out of the refrigerator, I’m cooking meals fit for an isolated princess. On the good china with a glass of wine. Who says we have to be barbarians even in the midst of a biblical plague?

RobinA

(9,893 posts)
39. I Do Blush
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 03:51 PM
Mar 2020

if I’m going to another room. Otherwise I could be mistaken for a dead person and cremated alive.

northoftheborder

(7,572 posts)
35. Same here! And my hair will get shaggy with no cuts, but...
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 02:45 PM
Mar 2020

....does it matter??? No. Don't need any new clothes, not using much gas at all; necessary to keep up personal hygiene however!

zeusdogmom

(994 posts)
40. Can you imagine the crush to get hair appointments after this is all over?
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 06:31 PM
Mar 2020

And in the meantime many of us will find out what our real hair color actually is. 😳

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
14. Yeah, but you can get depressed
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 11:20 AM
Mar 2020

sitting around in sweats all day, every day, and looking like a schlub. I've abandoned the makeup and canceled a much-needed hair appointment, but to feel like I'm not a total loser, I've been doing the spa-bath routine and moisturizing and occasionally putting on "real" clothes, just to pretend like I am half human. I may even spritz a little cologne on today after I shower and wash hair.

My favorite statement about losing the will to go on came from the avant-garde performance artist Jack Smith, who opined: "Why should I shave if I can't even think of a reason for living?" Well, hell, people. I still want to live through this. So I suggest we all shave or put on a face or do something to act like life is worth living!




DFW

(54,405 posts)
15. I wonder if that isn't a different Ish from the one I remember....?
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 11:24 AM
Mar 2020

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Hekate

(90,714 posts)
25. Hah, yes. "Ish" is short for Isherwood, whom his parents admired & so saddled him with that name
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 01:51 PM
Mar 2020

He's a scientist camping deep in the hills when humanity's Great Extinction occurs.

Good guess about Seuss tho!

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
24. Ish and Em, progenitors of a new tribe. "Earth Abides" is a great book. Can't even remember...
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 01:39 PM
Mar 2020

...when I first read it, but everything sci fi showed up in my parents' house in paperback thanks to Dad, and decades later I got a used hardcover.

cally

(21,594 posts)
37. Enjoying not blow drying my hair
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 03:20 PM
Mar 2020

And not having hair appointments. I’m not going anywhere except dog walks

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