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Jeebo

(2,023 posts)
Mon Mar 30, 2020, 11:32 PM Mar 2020

I am suffering from an email overload...

This is something I have been wanting for months to post here. I have been resisting that impulse, for reasons that I will explain later.

I get dozens of emails every day from various Democratic and left-leaning candidates and causes. They all are asking for money. They all are promoting causes and candidates I favor. I wish those candidates and causes well and hope they succeed.

However, there is no way I can give money to more than a small fraction of them. As I said, I get literally dozens of them in my inbox every day. They ask for $3, $19.67, $10, some of them even ask for just $1. (How do you give $1? Doesn't it cost more than that just to use the credit card?) If I gave that minimum $1 to each and every one of them, that would be $36 every day that I give away, guesstimating that I get three dozen of these pleas per day (I haven't actually counted them).

Giving away $36 per day is WAY more than I can afford. That's more than a thousand dollars a month, $13,000 in a year. I am just a retired fellow, living on a monthly pension and social security, struggling to get out of credit card debt now that I finally have just managed to finish paying off my house and car.

I always feel really guilty when I just go past these pleas for money, especially because I hope these candidates and causes succeed. Some of them I REALLY, FERVENTLY want to succeed. I can't think of anything I would love more than to get that arrogant con man out of the White House, for example, and to get the turtle out of the Senate. I actually did give $5 to Amy McGrath's campaign the other day. But, usually, almost always, I have to just go past the part of the email where they ask for money. And I always feel really guilty about it. Especially when they're only asking for $1 or $3.

So why am I posting this? I'm just trying to get it "out there" so that there will be somebody who understands why I'm not giving them money.

And why have I resisted the urge to post this for months? It's because I don't want to seem to be complaining about these people who are sending me this avalanche of emails, and I don't want to discourage them from doing so. Out of every emailing there will be a certain percentage of positive responses, and they will get donations in support of their causes, and because I support those candidates and causes, I want those donations to keep coming, even if I am usually unable to contribute to them.

Now there, I've finally gotten this off my chest. Thank you to those of you who have taken the time to read it.

-- Ron

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Karadeniz

(22,516 posts)
1. Don't feel bad! No one responds to every request for money! When I get phone calls to support
Mon Mar 30, 2020, 11:53 PM
Mar 2020

Law enforcement or whatever, I tell them I don't donate to anything over the phone...and hang up fast!

Raine

(30,540 posts)
2. I get lots and lots of those too and from
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 12:17 AM
Mar 2020

environmental and animal welfare groups all asking for donations. The animal ones are the closest to my heart and often bring me to tears but I just can't donate. I couldn't give much during the best of times and I sure can't give now. I've having to delete them one after the other without opening most. I really don't want to unsubscribe so I let them keep coming.

progree

(10,908 posts)
3. I've unsubscribed from them all. I know that makes me sound like an ahole, but I can figure out
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 12:31 AM
Mar 2020

on my own a few worthy organizations and candidates to donate to each year. Got it all spreadsheeted so I know what I've given to what/who every year for the last 15 years.

ooky

(8,923 posts)
4. Yeah, I'm getting so many I am going to have to unsubscribe to them.
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 12:36 AM
Mar 2020

I can't keep up with deleting them any more. It's become a daily chore.

sinkingfeeling

(51,457 posts)
6. Me too! I get any where from 60 to 150 emails a day!
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 08:13 AM
Mar 2020

It's so bad that I no longer even read most of them. About half are political and the others are from wildlife and climate folks.

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