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demmiblue

(36,865 posts)
Sat May 2, 2020, 08:25 AM May 2020

I asked this woman to respect my space after she was yelling and spitting in my face.

I asked this woman to respect my space after she was yelling and spitting in my face. She said i had no right to social distancing in public and continued to follow me. Complaining about my mask (that is meant to protect her and those around me).





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I asked this woman to respect my space after she was yelling and spitting in my face. (Original Post) demmiblue May 2020 OP
As I started to say in another thread on this-- If Ms Robbins had lost it and... TreasonousBastard May 2020 #1
That twit deserves death just for using the phrase 'at the end of the day.' CurtEastPoint May 2020 #2
lol! LuvNewcastle May 2020 #34
Nah - Death's too good for her. GoneOffShore May 2020 #40
You are correct... N_E_1 for Tennis May 2020 #8
She could have just pulled down her mask PatSeg May 2020 #17
That is what the woman wanted. Assault LiberalArkie May 2020 #19
Yeah, I agree PatSeg May 2020 #22
That woman can't get it fast enough. That should shut her up before she infects dozens more. dem4decades May 2020 #3
I would have whipped my mask off and immediately started coughing tavernier May 2020 #4
Oh yessss...great response... N_E_1 for Tennis May 2020 #6
Shoot PatSeg May 2020 #18
Naw. Cough inside your mask to keep yourself safe. But cough. Look feverish. Hekate May 2020 #47
Oh,I like your thinking. tavernier May 2020 #48
Need to create a don't treat if Covid positive whistler162 May 2020 #5
Tattoo on forehead! 2naSalit May 2020 #21
People like this scare me more than the virus itself and Mike 03 May 2020 #7
I'm sure most of them are anti-vax even before Covid LakeArenal May 2020 #45
Thats assault and there is video proof. bullimiami May 2020 #9
I agree. Once they know who she is... WePurrsevere May 2020 #15
They are following the lead of their 2 - 5 year old leader. pazzyanne May 2020 #25
Did you hear about the jigsaw puzzle Trump finished? cab67 May 2020 #31
Lol cate94 May 2020 #33
Now that is a good one! pazzyanne May 2020 #46
As far as these assholes getting in peoples faces bullimiami May 2020 #36
Exactly. People were arrested for coughing on and licking store items. crickets May 2020 #43
Bingo. paleotn May 2020 #38
I think it's time to start carrying mace. That is what I would do, then leave. 58Sunliner May 2020 #10
Couldn't get by with it get the red out May 2020 #11
So what? Who cares? It's a legitimate response to a threat. 58Sunliner May 2020 #13
It certainly is! get the red out May 2020 #16
And it should be banned if the intent to threaten or intimidate. 58Sunliner May 2020 #49
Another disgusting MAGA terrorist RAB910 May 2020 #12
A MAGAzi GoneOffShore May 2020 #41
if she spat at me , i have every right to defend myself. AllaN01Bear May 2020 #14
yep Celerity May 2020 #29
"No right to social distancing in public"?? Where the hell else would one need it??? These niyad May 2020 #20
The US has an epidemic of untreated mental illness dlk May 2020 #23
Just shoot her and claim you were standing your ground world wide wally May 2020 #24
Where in the world did you find someone like that? totodeinhere May 2020 #26
I live in Florida. Stand my ground law jovibennett May 2020 #27
I live in Florida and have had a similar experience I am also 70. I moved 3 times she just kept Oppaloopa May 2020 #30
Pepper spray GETPLANING May 2020 #28
I always carry pepper spray. Demsrule86 May 2020 #39
I would have walked away vlyons May 2020 #32
In My Liberal Neighborhood Near a Wild Park McKim May 2020 #35
Not to trivialize your situation, but at least you have a house and a back yard. totodeinhere May 2020 #37
"limbaugh is dying. are you really going to take his advice this is a hoax?" certainot May 2020 #42
I saw something elsewhere on the internet PoindexterOglethorpe May 2020 #44
Had a guy back me into a corner at work ... pre masks bedazzled May 2020 #50
That woman is certifiable bedazzled May 2020 #51

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
1. As I started to say in another thread on this-- If Ms Robbins had lost it and...
Sat May 2, 2020, 08:36 AM
May 2020

did what us mere mortals might have done, pushed her six feet away or just decked her, she would have immediately become the bad guy in this.

I'm sure someone has studied how the public judges people in various situations.

N_E_1 for Tennis

(9,737 posts)
8. You are correct...
Sat May 2, 2020, 08:50 AM
May 2020

Retaliation is the “crime”...if someone shoves you...you shove back, you’re wrong...someone aggressively yells at you, you protect yourself you’re wrong.

But if you have a gun and someone threatens you and you fire...

PatSeg

(47,501 posts)
17. She could have just pulled down her mask
Sat May 2, 2020, 09:51 AM
May 2020

for a second and breathed into the woman's face. I wonder what her reaction would have been then.

PatSeg

(47,501 posts)
22. Yeah, I agree
Sat May 2, 2020, 10:15 AM
May 2020

She was intentionally pushing buttons to get a physical reaction. Its something I've seen men do a lot. Not as common with women, but it does happen.

tavernier

(12,392 posts)
4. I would have whipped my mask off and immediately started coughing
Sat May 2, 2020, 08:40 AM
May 2020

in her face while explaining that I had been wearing my mask because I had been diagnosed positive, but since she was offended by masked people and distancing, I would gladly go along with her wishes.

 

whistler162

(11,155 posts)
5. Need to create a don't treat if Covid positive
Sat May 2, 2020, 08:41 AM
May 2020

document and hand it to the person who doesn't want to do what is safe.

LakeArenal

(28,820 posts)
45. I'm sure most of them are anti-vax even before Covid
Sat May 2, 2020, 01:25 PM
May 2020

She’s probably spit yelled at many people by now.

WePurrsevere

(24,259 posts)
15. I agree. Once they know who she is...
Sat May 2, 2020, 09:35 AM
May 2020

give her a time out in a jail cell.

Personally I think everyone of those bullies and ignoramuses who won't wear a mask and practice other safety precautions should be fined a good amount just like those who drive around vehicles that don't pass safety standards, drive too fast, especially in construction zones, etc.

Heck, if they test positive and still go out and/or hang out with kids or those who are deemed a high risk with one charge them with assault, reckless endangerment, endangering the welfare of a child or such.

These spoiled entitled 'adults' are behaving worse than a 5 yr old pitching a hissy fit in a Walmart aisle because 'mom' says they can't have that big box of fireworks after that sales guy, COVID45, said they could.

pazzyanne

(6,556 posts)
25. They are following the lead of their 2 - 5 year old leader.
Sat May 2, 2020, 10:26 AM
May 2020

Bullies tend to run with other bullies. This makes me sick. Whose Constitutional rights are being taken away in this instance. I see an ignorant POS who is taking away the reporter's right to LIFE, LIBERTY (to wear a mask), and PERSUIT OF HAPPINESS (to remain disease free). At least she wasn't openly carrying a gun (that I could see).

cab67

(2,993 posts)
31. Did you hear about the jigsaw puzzle Trump finished?
Sat May 2, 2020, 10:55 AM
May 2020

It took him a whole week.

When Pence pointed hour how long it took, Trump replied, “I’m a genius! No one does puzzles better than me! It only took me a week! On the box, it says ‘3 to 5 years’!”

bullimiami

(13,099 posts)
36. As far as these assholes getting in peoples faces
Sat May 2, 2020, 11:21 AM
May 2020

If you cough on food you committed crime
What’s different here?

There freedom ends when it interferes with mine.

crickets

(25,981 posts)
43. Exactly. People were arrested for coughing on and licking store items.
Sat May 2, 2020, 11:58 AM
May 2020

The only difference here, and it makes the situation worse, is that it's deliberately aimed at an individual instead of leaving the exposure to chance. People who do this should be arrested and charged.

58Sunliner

(4,386 posts)
10. I think it's time to start carrying mace. That is what I would do, then leave.
Sat May 2, 2020, 09:00 AM
May 2020

If anyone asks, she threatened me with assault. I bet that little creep would think twice next time.

58Sunliner

(4,386 posts)
13. So what? Who cares? It's a legitimate response to a threat.
Sat May 2, 2020, 09:24 AM
May 2020

I don't care what color the person is who threatens me like that. Do I need to stick around? No.

get the red out

(13,466 posts)
16. It certainly is!
Sat May 2, 2020, 09:37 AM
May 2020

But the law would see that differently IMO, it disgusts even me that this what I think would happen!

I could not possibly agree more about it being a legitimate response, but banning people protesting with guns at state legislatures in session would be a legitimate response too, but that is apparently not considered.

niyad

(113,350 posts)
20. "No right to social distancing in public"?? Where the hell else would one need it??? These
Sat May 2, 2020, 10:02 AM
May 2020

Covidiots do not seem to share one brain cell between them all.

dlk

(11,569 posts)
23. The US has an epidemic of untreated mental illness
Sat May 2, 2020, 10:17 AM
May 2020

Verbal assault and physical intimidation are illegal in most states. It shouldn’t be a problem to honor your request to go away and leave you alone.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
26. Where in the world did you find someone like that?
Sat May 2, 2020, 10:27 AM
May 2020

Not everybody in my community wears a mask but many do. And I have never faced any harassment for wearing a mask.

jovibennett

(120 posts)
27. I live in Florida. Stand my ground law
Sat May 2, 2020, 10:28 AM
May 2020

I feel threatened.... But I don't carry a gun but I do have pepper spray and mace she would have gotten sprayed.

Oppaloopa

(867 posts)
30. I live in Florida and have had a similar experience I am also 70. I moved 3 times she just kept
Sat May 2, 2020, 10:38 AM
May 2020

coming closer

McKim

(2,412 posts)
35. In My Liberal Neighborhood Near a Wild Park
Sat May 2, 2020, 11:20 AM
May 2020

In my liberal neighborhood near a wild park people are jogging and walking by all day long with no masks. They evidently are very special and privileged and outdoorsy and athletic, so no problem.
I do not want to die so they can let their dogs poop. I am trapped in the house or the back yard.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
37. Not to trivialize your situation, but at least you have a house and a back yard.
Sat May 2, 2020, 11:24 AM
May 2020

Think of the many homeless people who have nowhere to go and nowhere to hide from this virus.

 

certainot

(9,090 posts)
42. "limbaugh is dying. are you really going to take his advice this is a hoax?"
Sat May 2, 2020, 11:36 AM
May 2020

pivot it to limbaugh and they will get defensive

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,862 posts)
44. I saw something elsewhere on the internet
Sat May 2, 2020, 12:02 PM
May 2020

which essentially said:

They expect our kids to endure mass school shootings, but can't possibly wear a face make in public.

I've tried to find the exact thing, and can't, but this is pretty close.

bedazzled

(1,765 posts)
50. Had a guy back me into a corner at work ... pre masks
Sun May 3, 2020, 02:27 PM
May 2020

He said "am i BOTHERING YOU." I just gave him a look of disgust and went into the backroom. I felt sorry for the cashiers who couldn't do that. I spent my last two weeks at work swerving course to avoid interacting with the few screwballs who couldn't live without going to a thrift store

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