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demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 12:55 AM Sep 2012

Out of the hospital on Tuesday, back in on Thursday

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10021321601



Am very frustrated with this disease and somewhat scared. The meds are not doing their jobs to keep it in remission and we are not sure what comes next. Added to the complications of the Pancreatitis and other issues that come along, it just seems like I am losing the battle. Frankly, I am tired of fighting. Not sure there is much fight left in me.
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Out of the hospital on Tuesday, back in on Thursday (Original Post) demtenjeep Sep 2012 OP
I do thank God that our insurance has been good to us. demtenjeep Sep 2012 #1
Hang in there... Panasonic Sep 2012 #2
I think this term Palliative Care has been mentioned this evening, but I was out of it demtenjeep Sep 2012 #4
Hugs nadinbrzezinski Sep 2012 #3
Hang in there, demtenjeep. We need you. longship Sep 2012 #5
I can imagine how frustrating Cha Sep 2012 #6
It's way too soon to give up! HeiressofBickworth Sep 2012 #7
A big hug your way.... Tikki Sep 2012 #8
Strength oldtime dfl_er Sep 2012 #9
Hugs and prayers on the way. emilyg Sep 2012 #10
Big hugs and prayers being said now goclark Sep 2012 #29
Best thoughts and wishes from me to you. Whovian Sep 2012 #11
Please do not give up. We need you! catbyte Sep 2012 #12
You are a special person DesertRat Sep 2012 #13
I hope you don't mind if I suggest meditation and chanting, or just listening to some meditation patrice Sep 2012 #14
it is a good suggestion I can do the music now from my computer demtenjeep Sep 2012 #22
You need a break from the un-remitting pressure of being sick. The relaxation patrice Sep 2012 #24
Hugs ribrepin Sep 2012 #15
Sending strength and courage your way... Surya Gayatri Sep 2012 #16
everything they all said and onethatcares Sep 2012 #17
thank you all demtenjeep Sep 2012 #18
Please keep your chin up demtenjeep. We're all rooting for you and Auntie Bush Sep 2012 #19
sending good vibes your way blueamy66 Sep 2012 #20
I'm thinking of you Texasgal Sep 2012 #21
Listen well - life is all you have malaise Sep 2012 #23
Sat nam! Reach for the very far most tips of the growing branches! patrice Sep 2012 #26
I was just thinking, perhaps you should look for a good aroma-therapist too. Our olfactory patrice Sep 2012 #25
Sorry to hear that. I wish you well.Don't give up. virgogal Sep 2012 #27
You might also ask about the use of ginger, which is a gentle but powerful stimulant. patrice Sep 2012 #28
when I am at home and my stomach is to nauseated to eat, I drink Ginger Ale demtenjeep Sep 2012 #30
Crystalized ginger is stronger than ginger ale. It's like candy, sweet, but also warming because patrice Sep 2012 #31
Whatever you do, DON'T give up without giving medical cannabis a whirl. kestrel91316 Sep 2012 #32
Rest and regroup KT2000 Sep 2012 #33
I've been fighting a neurodegenerative disease for 15 years, somehow I'm still here NotThisTime Sep 2012 #34
"....keep on the sunny side of life..." madrchsod Sep 2012 #35
((((((vibes))))) of strength and healing to you demtenjeep. Keep fighting. riderinthestorm Sep 2012 #36
 

demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
1. I do thank God that our insurance has been good to us.
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 12:58 AM
Sep 2012

other than the fear of missing work, (my classroom is probably a wreck) I don't have to worry about when to go to the hospital. My GI and Gen Docs know I know the symptoms and what is going on so I just have to call them...if it is weekend, their service and by the time I am packed and showered my admit papers are waiting for our arrival.

 

demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
4. I think this term Palliative Care has been mentioned this evening, but I was out of it
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 01:03 AM
Sep 2012

Palliative care (from Latin palliare, to cloak) is an area of healthcare that focuses on relieving and preventing the suffering of patients. Unlike hospice care, palliative medicine is appropriate for patients in all disease stages, including those undergoing treatment for curable illnesses and those living with chronic diseases, as well as patients who are nearing the end of life. Palliative medicine utilizes a multidisciplinary approach to patient care, relying on input from physicians, pharmacists, nurses, chaplains, social workers, psychologists, and other allied health professionals in formulating a plan of care to relieve suffering in all areas of a patient's life. This multidisciplinary approach allows the palliative care team to address physical, emotional, spiritual, and social concerns that arise with advanced illness.

Medications and treatments are said to have a palliative effect if they relieve symptoms without having a curative effect on the underlying disease or cause. This can include treating nausea related to chemotherapy or something as simple as morphine to treat a broken leg or ibuprofen to treat aching related to an influenza (flu) infection.

Although the concept of palliative care is not new, most physicians have traditionally concentrated on trying to cure patients. Treatments for the alleviation of symptoms were viewed as hazardous and seen as inviting addiction and other unwanted side effects.[1]

The focus on a patient's quality of life has increased greatly during the past twenty years. In the United States today, 55% of hospitals with more than 100 beds offer a palliative-care program,[2] and nearly one-fifth of community hospitals have palliative-care programs.[3] A relatively recent development is the concept of a dedicated health care team that is entirely geared toward palliative treatment: a palliative-care team.

Cha

(297,220 posts)
6. I can imagine how frustrating
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 01:38 AM
Sep 2012

it must be after dealing with an illness for so long. I'm so glad you don't have to worry about your insurance paying for your care, demtenjeep.

I know it's scary from experience..Wishing the Best!

HeiressofBickworth

(2,682 posts)
7. It's way too soon to give up!
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 01:40 AM
Sep 2012

Remember the poem: "Do not go gentle into that good night. Rage, rage against the dying of the light."

I'm sending you thoughts of strength and courage.

oldtime dfl_er

(6,931 posts)
9. Strength
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 01:58 AM
Sep 2012

I know so many people living with and battling this horrid disease. I hope with all my heart that you find the right meds and find the strength to keep fighting. As someone else said, we -- and the world -- need(s) you.

 

Whovian

(2,866 posts)
11. Best thoughts and wishes from me to you.
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 02:07 AM
Sep 2012

Please be strong and keep an eye on the positive around you.

patrice

(47,992 posts)
14. I hope you don't mind if I suggest meditation and chanting, or just listening to some meditation
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 03:12 AM
Sep 2012

music and doing relaxation routines, in order to relieve some of the stress of fighting the disease and to help conserve your physical strength.

If you don't know about these things, you could ask your doctor or for these services when you are in the hospital.

 

demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
22. it is a good suggestion I can do the music now from my computer
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 02:22 PM
Sep 2012

I will ask my doc when he comes in doing rounds on some relaxation routines.

Thank you

patrice

(47,992 posts)
24. You need a break from the un-remitting pressure of being sick. The relaxation
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 02:37 PM
Sep 2012

routines are actually very basic bio-mechanics built upon deep breathing. You are talking to your body in a very purposeful way to get it to ease up on itself and create space for something other than the struggle.

Please seek the right music for yourself diligently, because it will help put your mind into neutral inside of a good space for you.

AllOne be with you, demtenjeep!!!

patrice

(47,992 posts)
25. I was just thinking, perhaps you should look for a good aroma-therapist too. Our olfactory
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 05:23 PM
Sep 2012

sense is one of our most primitive (deeply "wired&quot modalities.

I know how I feel every time I smell dill, which evokes memories of sunny summer days and the baskets of cucumbers and dill that my mother used to buy from the gardener who used to also let us pick grapes in his vineyard, where I'd encounter bees with fat yellow legs laden with pollen, hovering peacefully amongst the fragrant vines. I mention this as an example of what scent can do for you, so someone who can help you with any special smell you may have experienced might also help ease the fight for you and help you conserve your strength.

Perhaps you should also find out if you could be a candidate for medical cannabis??? I also remember from the day back when that pot lightened my tension just enough that, instead of the lassitude that some people claim, I felt motivation and energy when high. That may just have been my particular chemistry and I have no idea how one goes about finding about such things, but it couldn't hurt to ask. Also, there are national level medical cannabis organizations now, who could advise your doctor about his/her questions.

Namaste, demtenjeep!

 

demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
30. when I am at home and my stomach is to nauseated to eat, I drink Ginger Ale
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 05:54 PM
Sep 2012

seems to help settle my stomach

patrice

(47,992 posts)
31. Crystalized ginger is stronger than ginger ale. It's like candy, sweet, but also warming because
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 06:02 PM
Sep 2012

it's ginger root so it has a hotness to it that is balanced by the sugar-crystallization. Most grocery bulk-sections have crystallized ginger root these days, or might get it for you if you ask.

I have to be careful around crystalized ginger, not to eat too much of it, because it affects my sleep, keeps me awake. Best kept to mornings, so that the effect can wear off.

Ginger is soothing to the stomach

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
32. Whatever you do, DON'T give up without giving medical cannabis a whirl.
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 06:04 PM
Sep 2012

Nobody should face serious illness without access to cannabis. It can really help with nausea and appetite issues.

NotThisTime

(3,657 posts)
34. I've been fighting a neurodegenerative disease for 15 years, somehow I'm still here
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 06:16 PM
Sep 2012

If you ever want to email a private message, please do so, I found in the darkest days is when I needed to write or talk most, and talking to family wasn't so helpful, it was more upsetting to them.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
36. ((((((vibes))))) of strength and healing to you demtenjeep. Keep fighting.
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 09:18 PM
Sep 2012

Remember its always darkest before the dawn. Have you considered getting a massage? It can do wonders in terms of relaxing you and helping you "feel" calmer. Personally we've had good luck with acupuncture as well during some of our darkest health crisis.

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