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LGBT orgs are speaking out about JK Rowlings (Original Post) FreeState Jun 2020 OP
K&R Jamastiene Jun 2020 #1
Maybe her words weren't sensitive, but I don't see anything hateful. Beakybird Jun 2020 #2
This is the first that I have heard about her having such issues. Blue_true Jun 2020 #21
She has repeatedly said that trans women aren't real women sweetloukillbot Jun 2020 #25
Her view is stupid. A person's gender is how they are born at birth. Blue_true Jun 2020 #56
What are you trying to say here? PTWB Jun 2020 #60
That a Trans woman or a Trans man are the gender that they identify as, and Blue_true Jun 2020 #61
I'd like you to source that. PTWB Jun 2020 #63
This is part of a broader issue related to the gender self-recognition act janterry Jun 2020 #29
There's more to it than simply "self-declaring." yardwork Jun 2020 #49
In fact rusty fender Jun 2020 #58
"Destroying Title IX" is a very strong statement. yardwork Jun 2020 #64
Allowing biological males rusty fender Jun 2020 #70
The term "biological males" is problematic. yardwork Jun 2020 #72
How so? rusty fender Jun 2020 #76
Not everybody fits into these neat categories. yardwork Jun 2020 #77
Correct rusty fender Jun 2020 #79
And The More RobinA Jun 2020 #102
Absolutely rusty fender Jun 2020 #103
I can solve this problem: get rid of competitive sports in high school and college. hunter Jun 2020 #85
That would definitely solve it rusty fender Jun 2020 #97
Is this alarmist propaganda or is this legitimate? PTWB Jun 2020 #65
To me, it sounds like the same type of alarmist propaganda behind bathroom bills. yardwork Jun 2020 #66
Absolutely rusty fender Jun 2020 #67
Actually Happened In CT ProfessorGAC Jun 2020 #87
What do you say it "means to be a woman"? WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2020 #69
Thanks for the context and the link Blasphemer Jun 2020 #71
Rowling has been making transphobic comments on social media for years. yardwork Jun 2020 #37
She's got priors. (n/t) Iggo Jun 2020 #84
She says right in her post she supports trans people ... PTWB Jun 2020 #3
Did you miss the last tweet in my post? FreeState Jun 2020 #5
So do you conclude that she is a homophobic and a liar when she says she Doodley Jun 2020 #10
There are many people that are transphobic FreeState Jun 2020 #14
Mostly When RobinA Jun 2020 #104
I know and love trans people... PTWB Jun 2020 #11
Not if you say that after something extremely transphobic n/t FreeState Jun 2020 #16
How is, to paraphrase, saying sex is real and it is important to women around the world, "extremely Doodley Jun 2020 #18
It's in the OP FreeState Jun 2020 #20
It is not in the OP. PTWB Jun 2020 #22
When you say that people who menstruate are called women, Ms. Toad Jun 2020 #26
Why Can't We Have RobinA Jun 2020 #105
Are you willing to declare yourself a cis-woman every time you declare your gender? Ms. Toad Jun 2020 #110
The last few weeks have been instructive on this and other areas Blue_Adept Jun 2020 #38
Thank you for your posts and support. yardwork Jun 2020 #47
In a way, I blame myself as a pebble that instead of speaking up, just left Blue_Adept Jun 2020 #50
We are definitely a sad shell of our former community. yardwork Jun 2020 #51
"She says right in her post she supports trans people." Apparently her words don't matter. Oh hang Doodley Jun 2020 #13
She Doesn't Mean RobinA Jun 2020 #107
This isn't her only controversy JonLP24 Jun 2020 #98
I will wait until she responds to these allegations Miigwech Jun 2020 #4
No need to hold your fire. Ms. Toad Jun 2020 #27
Explain why her quote is "bigoted nonsense." Which part is "bigoted nonsense?" Doodley Jun 2020 #30
She's referring to a woman who said she doesn't believe it's possible to change genders and WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2020 #53
The woman wasn't fired sweetloukillbot Jun 2020 #57
Okay. But yes, misgendering is bigoted and supporting it is also bigoted. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2020 #68
Do you mean Maya Forstater? janterry Jun 2020 #74
This has been an ongoing issue with her for several years Blue_Adept Jun 2020 #39
Confusing sex and gender for the win JK Buzz cook Jun 2020 #6
She's a TERFy mess. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2020 #7
Why not take her words in good faith, instead of looking for the worst possible Doodley Jun 2020 #8
So all these LGBT organizations are wrong? FreeState Jun 2020 #9
Yes, they are wrong to say what she does or doesn't believe, and why would organizations Doodley Jun 2020 #12
They quoted her words n/t FreeState Jun 2020 #15
I will ask again, why would your opinion of JK Rowling be shaped by organizations? Doodley Jun 2020 #17
Excuse me? My opinion of her statement is formed by FreeState Jun 2020 #19
JK Rowling has been targeted for years, first for not making any characters Doodley Jun 2020 #33
That's complete nonsense. It just is. yardwork Jun 2020 #48
Let's not deal in facts. Doodley Jun 2020 #90
There is no wiggle room in the interpretation; Rowling is a transphobic bigot Tarc Jun 2020 #73
I grew up having a narrow definition of gender drilled into my head. Blue_true Jun 2020 #23
See post 29 in this thread. Rowling's statements are not random. yardwork Jun 2020 #52
What is her mission? Maybe explaining that more thoroughly would help a lot of people Blue_true Jun 2020 #54
Did you read post 29 in this thread? It's clear, I think. yardwork Jun 2020 #55
I hadn't read post 29. But your second paragraph in the post you Blue_true Jun 2020 #59
She lost good faith after the first couple of years of doing this Blue_Adept Jun 2020 #40
The lived reality of women globally is not erased by Trans relationships njhoneybadger Jun 2020 #24
But she has never said she objects to trans relationships. In fact, she has embraced all Doodley Jun 2020 #32
There are two kinds of people MurrayDelph Jun 2020 #28
Well put. If denial means non-denial, then we are all at risk of being accused. Doodley Jun 2020 #31
People either believe in the liberal principles of equality for all Hortensis Jun 2020 #34
Agreed 100% and JK Rowling has made it clear that she shares those same values. Doodley Jun 2020 #35
Okay. I wouldn't know and don't care. She has the right to speak, Hortensis Jun 2020 #36
I wish I could say I am surprised by this thead dsc Jun 2020 #41
Human Rights Campaign Blue_Adept Jun 2020 #42
Medium: JK Rowling Confirms Stance Against Transgender Women Blue_Adept Jun 2020 #43
The Mary Sue: J.K. Rowling Leaves Little Doubt About Her TERFdom Blue_Adept Jun 2020 #44
lgbtqnation: The mysterious case of J.K. Rowling & her transphobic Twitter history Blue_Adept Jun 2020 #45
nytimes: How British Feminism Became Anti-Trans Blue_Adept Jun 2020 #46
Thanks for adding these FreeState Jun 2020 #81
And I made sure to only grab things pre-2019 so that it wasn't "just in the now" Blue_Adept Jun 2020 #96
She's been a TERF for a long time, what a worthless human being. n/t Humanist_Activist Jun 2020 #62
Who are you to judge what JK Rowling believes? She's made it very clear that a Doodley Jun 2020 #89
A thinking person, and no it is not, if she would be quiet, it would be different... Humanist_Activist Jun 2020 #94
This isn't the first time is correct JonLP24 Jun 2020 #100
"Sex and gender" aren't exclusively binary? Azathoth Jun 2020 #75
So everyone is born with a penis or a vagina FreeState Jun 2020 #82
So if you are a trans person, or a non-binary person Ms. Toad Jun 2020 #83
If such criticism pushes people to the right, then they were already there. n/t Humanist_Activist Jun 2020 #95
honestly BGBD Jun 2020 #78
Do you feel that celebrities' racist statements are similarly unimportant? yardwork Jun 2020 #80
yes BGBD Jun 2020 #86
She's simply another target to hate. A few weeks ago, it was Madonna's son because he Doodley Jun 2020 #88
This is what I can't stand... BGBD Jun 2020 #92
She is not a target of hate JonLP24 Jun 2020 #99
How'd she get herself into this? treestar Jun 2020 #91
I think JK has some learning to do mvd Jun 2020 #93
Don't agree zak247 Jun 2020 #101
are you fucking kidding? obamanut2012 Jun 2020 #106
How is JK Rowling forcing her lifestyle on anyone? She has been targeted for years, starting with Doodley Jun 2020 #108
No its not okay zak247 Jun 2020 #109

Beakybird

(3,333 posts)
2. Maybe her words weren't sensitive, but I don't see anything hateful.
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:00 PM
Jun 2020

She's not a bathroom bully. She supports trans rights to live how they choose. She might be insensitive and lack understanding, but she's not a right winger on this issue.
Maybe I'm not educated on all her utterances on transgender rights.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
21. This is the first that I have heard about her having such issues.
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:56 PM
Jun 2020

I don't understand what she means by "if sex is not real". Is she talking about the hardware that we are born with? She can't be writing about the broader category of birth gender (if I can use that term), a person can be born with hardware that doesn't reflect that person's gender.

Maybe the issue with her is that she isn't a horrible person as much as it is that she just can't wrap her head around the broad concept of gender. In my world growing up, gender was always either male or female, with both having hardware that matched that limited definition - that was a pretty small world because eventually I met people that didn't fit into the narrow definition of gender, that didn't make the reality of their birth form any less valid than that of people that fit into the narrow concept.

sweetloukillbot

(11,029 posts)
25. She has repeatedly said that trans women aren't real women
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 12:54 AM
Jun 2020

In this particular case she said that women are people who menstruate, ignoring trans men. But she has a history of transphobic tweets and misgendering trans people.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
56. Her view is stupid. A person's gender is how they are born at birth.
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 11:40 AM
Jun 2020

A person can be a woman by gender, even though she may not have been given female sex organs. I believe that I remember reading that a Trans woman has chromosomes that reflect that gender orientation - to me that sealed it, such women are what Nature made them, Nature doesn't make mistakes.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
61. That a Trans woman or a Trans man are the gender that they identify as, and
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 12:14 PM
Jun 2020

that science supports that alignment.

 

PTWB

(4,131 posts)
63. I'd like you to source that.
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 12:31 PM
Jun 2020

First, I strongly believe that trans women are women and trans men are men. I also recognize that we cannot allow discussion of women’s health to become ensnared with the quest for trans rights. They’re both very important issues and in discussing women’s health we need to be able to use common language that is easily understood.

In the case above, I think JKR was making a fair point that saying “people who menstruate” is needlessly complex that it would have been better to just write “women.” Of course some think it is trans exclusionary to just write “women” because some female-to-male are men who menstruate. But women’s health in general should not be held to that type of nuance.

Now, for your claims:


A person can be a woman by gender, even though she may not have been given female sex organs. I believe that I remember reading that a Trans woman has chromosomes that reflect that gender orientation - to me that sealed it, such women are what Nature made them, Nature doesn't make mistakes.



I find this to be questionable at best and terribly offensive or perhaps intentionally hateful at worst. I don’t know you so I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you’re not trying to be hateful.

It is my understanding that while yes, someone who is trans may also have a chromosomal abnormality, that abnormality has nothing to do with them being trans. I believe nearly all trans men have “normal” female chromosomes and nearly all trans women have “normal” male chromosomes. For you to say “nature doesn’t make mistakes” is essentially disempowering and denying the existence of trans people.
 

janterry

(4,429 posts)
29. This is part of a broader issue related to the gender self-recognition act
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 05:32 AM
Jun 2020

Last edited Sun Jun 7, 2020, 06:44 AM - Edit history (1)

Many feminists in England (and some prominent lesbian activists) do not support it. They feel that if anyone can simply self-declare that they are a woman, scholarships for women, sex-based rights granted to women, women's spaces, and legal protections will disappear.

On the other side, Transactivists and perhaps younger feminists feel like anyone can simply self-declare that they are another gender and be one.

It's a real issue and JK Rowling is making a statement. Here in the US, this issue has not become controversial. But in GB and other countries, there is an examination of this issue and it is very intense.

ETA: this issue overlaps with this:

https://www.bbc.com/news/health-51676020

yardwork

(61,650 posts)
49. There's more to it than simply "self-declaring."
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 09:52 AM
Jun 2020

Rowling's implication is that zillions of cis-gender men will simply get up one morning and say "Today I'm a woman so I'll take this special scholarship set aside for women thank you very much" and then go back to being men.

That's not how it works, and the paranoia behind that kind of extreme framing is similar to the bogus "slippery slope" arguments we hear in the U.S. about gun control, abortion rights, affirmative action, etc.

I meant to add - thank you for your post giving the context for Rowling's behavior. That's important for people to understand. A lot of people in this thread think we're being unfair and picky because they don't know the context for Rowling's behavior.

 

rusty fender

(3,428 posts)
58. In fact
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 12:06 PM
Jun 2020

Trans female teen athletes are taking scholarships from female athletes, which will have the effect of destroying Title IX.

There is a movement among some trans women to redefine what a woman is, which effectively erases what we non transwomen are. I resent and reject when former men dictate what it means to be a woman.

yardwork

(61,650 posts)
64. "Destroying Title IX" is a very strong statement.
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 12:33 PM
Jun 2020

I doubt that there are thousands, hundreds, or even dozens of cis-men preparing to pretend to be trans women just to get scholarships and other benefits.

Instead of overreacting, let's look at the actual issues one at a time.

 

rusty fender

(3,428 posts)
70. Allowing biological males
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 01:34 PM
Jun 2020

to compete against biological females in women’s/girl’s completions will effectively nullify women’s sports when the only athletes wining those competitions are trans females. Why would biological girls continue to run track if they have no hope of actually winning a race? Title IX was created to create opportunities for females in sports. If females lose interest in competing in sports because biological males dominate women’s sports, then Title IX is meaningless.

There is a lawsuit filed against the state school board by biological female high school athletes in CT that would bar trans females from competing in girl’s sports precisely because trans female athletes have started to dominate, i.e., win the top spots in track in a specific school district.

Granted this is happening in one specific school district, that I know of, but there are surely others where this is happening.

Biological males have built in physical advantages over biological females, hence the need for women’s/girl’s sports

 

rusty fender

(3,428 posts)
76. How so?
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 02:21 PM
Jun 2020

How about persons with xy chromosomes who have testosterone coursing throughout their bodies?

The more we try to redefine biology, the more cumbersome the terms become that we use in the redefinition

 

rusty fender

(3,428 posts)
79. Correct
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 02:32 PM
Jun 2020

Hence, these are the categories:

Female
Male
Trans female
Trans male
Hermaphrodite

Although hermaphrodites are born this way, there’s no such thing as a trans baby.

hunter

(38,317 posts)
85. I can solve this problem: get rid of competitive sports in high school and college.
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 06:19 PM
Jun 2020

Mixed teams, everybody plays, nobody is a "bench warmer."

The Olympic level athletes will out themselves. It shouldn't be the job of public schools to provide a platform for them.

I hated sports until I started running cross country and playing softball on coed recreational teams in college.


 

PTWB

(4,131 posts)
65. Is this alarmist propaganda or is this legitimate?
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 12:33 PM
Jun 2020

And if it is legitimately occurring aren’t there better ways of addressing this... like increasing the number of scholarships for female athletes so that trans women are included?

yardwork

(61,650 posts)
66. To me, it sounds like the same type of alarmist propaganda behind bathroom bills.
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 12:39 PM
Jun 2020

In my state of North Carolina, a bigoted law was passed against trans people based on the pathetic fear that men would "dress as women just to rape little girls in bathrooms."

The effect of this bigoted law was to bring ridicule down on my state, economic loss of untold millions (frankly, we'll never recover; too much was lost forever), and to bring even more harm to some of the most vulnerable people in our communities.

So when I hear the same kind of rhetoric from Rowling I'm not inclined to excuse it.

 

rusty fender

(3,428 posts)
67. Absolutely
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 12:43 PM
Jun 2020

trans female athletes should have their own competitions. It isn't fair to women and girls to have to have to compete against biological males who are born with physical advantages. Why even have women’s sports if biological males are allowed to participate?

ProfessorGAC

(65,076 posts)
87. Actually Happened In CT
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 06:32 PM
Jun 2020

Young lady finished 4th in state in a track event. Scholarship offers were contingent upon improvement over junior year to top 3 in state, plus actual quantifiables.
The top 2 competitors were transitioning young women.
Her family sued the HS association for damages equal to the cost of the education. I'm not aware the case has come to trial yet. That said, it happened in 2019.
It seems to be an outlier, and quite rare. But, it did occur so it's not 100% propaganda. Making it seem routine would be, though.

Blasphemer

(3,261 posts)
71. Thanks for the context and the link
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 01:44 PM
Jun 2020

I think there is a legitimate discussion to be had about how to handle the transitions of those who are below a certain age. However, I don't agree with the feminist movement's position. I am curious about whether this is mainly a white feminist phenomenon and how much it intersects with how white female privilege is being challenged here in the U.S. When demographics started shifting and people started to talk about diversity and inclusion, there was a public discussion about white male rage (Michael Douglas's "Falling Down" character was on the cover of Newsweek). I think we are heading in this direction about how white women are handling shifts that affect their power.

yardwork

(61,650 posts)
37. Rowling has been making transphobic comments on social media for years.
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 09:13 AM
Jun 2020

People have explained that she's mistaken and that her statements are hurtful, and she doubles down.

Ask yourself how many people would bother to tweet over and over again about menstruation? How many people get up every morning and decide to post yet again about how trans women aren't really women?

Rowling is doing this on purpose. It's a thing with her. It's a big disappointment to many people. We're sad that she's doing this. But we're not going to pretend she isn't saying what she's very clearly saying. She's had plenty of opportunities to clarify.

FreeState

(10,572 posts)
5. Did you miss the last tweet in my post?
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:22 PM
Jun 2020

National Center for Lesbian Rights

“I know and love transgender people” is the same rhetorical device racist indoviduals use when they say “I can’t be racist because I have Black friends.” It isn’t an excuse to racist or transphobic. Please do better for #transyouth,

Doodley

(9,095 posts)
10. So do you conclude that she is a homophobic and a liar when she says she
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:35 PM
Jun 2020

loves trans people? Are you saying she is a liar to suggest she has trans friends?

FreeState

(10,572 posts)
14. There are many people that are transphobic
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:47 PM
Jun 2020

That know and love trans people just as there are many racist that know and love black people.

RobinA

(9,893 posts)
104. Mostly When
Mon Jun 8, 2020, 01:31 PM
Jun 2020

you start calling people who aren't using approved language transphobic and racist. As here, where she's labelled transphobic because she isn't toeing the party line.

Doodley

(9,095 posts)
18. How is, to paraphrase, saying sex is real and it is important to women around the world, "extremely
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:53 PM
Jun 2020

transphobic?"

FreeState

(10,572 posts)
20. It's in the OP
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:54 PM
Jun 2020

And I wonder why there are hardly any LGBT posters left here. Jesus, thanks for your support.

 

PTWB

(4,131 posts)
22. It is not in the OP.
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:58 PM
Jun 2020

If she is transphobic I want to know. I read the tweets and don’t see what is transphobic.

Can you quote it and explain it to me? I’m someone who wants to understand.

Ms. Toad

(34,076 posts)
26. When you say that people who menstruate are called women,
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 01:15 AM
Jun 2020

you erase the lives of trans men, many of whom also menstruate. Some of whom bear children.

Those fuctions are tied to having a uterus, not to being a woman.

This is not the first time she has questioned the legitimacy of trans individuals (of course, while mouthings words that make her seem reasonable to people who don't instantly get her intent when she excludes men from "people who menstrate," especially when she says it in response to a call for greater sensitivity in trans health care.

RobinA

(9,893 posts)
105. Why Can't We Have
Mon Jun 8, 2020, 01:37 PM
Jun 2020

transmen and women? I am a woman with a uterus. No transman has my experience and I don't have the trans man's experience. We are not the same.

Ms. Toad

(34,076 posts)
110. Are you willing to declare yourself a cis-woman every time you declare your gender?
Mon Jun 8, 2020, 04:53 PM
Jun 2020

So black women aren't just women, because their experience isn't yours? Are the categories black women and women?

How about lesbian women? Are the categories lebian women and women?

Anytime the minority group is required to tack an adjective to the main category you send the message that they are not real women (or whatever the main category under discussion).

If your gender assigned at bith is relevant, both/all should designate their status: cis/trans. Otherwise, it is just women. In the same way it would be bigoted to expressly name black women by race, but to treat "women" as presumptively white.

Yes, in any category - sub-categories have different different experiences. What is transphobic is to insist that the majority sub-category has exclusive title to the main category and all others must declare their sub-category.

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
38. The last few weeks have been instructive on this and other areas
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 09:18 AM
Jun 2020

It's boggling how we've ended up like this. But the attrition of diverse voices here continues.

yardwork

(61,650 posts)
47. Thank you for your posts and support.
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 09:44 AM
Jun 2020

It's disappointing to see so many people dismiss the perspectives of actual gay people and gay organizations, but not surprising, unfortunately.

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
50. In a way, I blame myself as a pebble that instead of speaking up, just left
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 09:53 AM
Jun 2020

I only visit infrequently at this point since so many voices I was aligned with have left since 2016 primary season. The gutting of so many voices here, especially from the feminism side, cut deep and wide here and I don't think people really recognize that still.

Doodley

(9,095 posts)
13. "She says right in her post she supports trans people." Apparently her words don't matter. Oh hang
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:41 PM
Jun 2020

on! They do matter! To say sex is a real thing and is important to women apparently means she hates lesbians!

RobinA

(9,893 posts)
107. She Doesn't Mean
Mon Jun 8, 2020, 01:42 PM
Jun 2020

that the act of sex is real, she means that...I'm not sure what word I'm allowed to use here...the fact that there are people with XY chromosomes and there are people with XX chromosomes and the two are different is real.

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
98. This isn't her only controversy
Mon Jun 8, 2020, 01:16 PM
Jun 2020

She follows transphobes and she liked transphobic tweets. I guess she even wrote a trans character in a book that was problematic.

 

Miigwech

(3,741 posts)
4. I will wait until she responds to these allegations
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:18 PM
Jun 2020

She has been a great advocate for many of the issues that we hold true. Holding my fire for now.

Doodley

(9,095 posts)
30. Explain why her quote is "bigoted nonsense." Which part is "bigoted nonsense?"
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 07:28 AM
Jun 2020
Dress however you please.
Call yourself whatever you like.
Sleep with any consenting adult who’ll have you.
Live your best life in peace and security.
But force women out of their jobs for stating that sex is real?

https://www.cnn.com/2019/12/20/uk/jk-rowling-transgender-tweets-scli-intl-gbr/index.html

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,357 posts)
53. She's referring to a woman who said she doesn't believe it's possible to change genders and
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 10:03 AM
Jun 2020

was fired for it. Rowling's tweets says she's fine if you want to "dress however you please," but doesn't agree with firing someone who won't refer to you as your correct gender. That's transphobia. She supports transphobia, which is bigoted nonsense, as is the "sex is real" shorthand, which implies that someone can't correct the gender assigned to them at birth.

sweetloukillbot

(11,029 posts)
57. The woman wasn't fired
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 12:06 PM
Jun 2020

She was a temp and was not hired permanently. And I think she had been migendering a colleague which was what started the problem.

 

janterry

(4,429 posts)
74. Do you mean Maya Forstater?
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 02:10 PM
Jun 2020
https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/trans-councillor-gregor-murray-suspended-for-abusing-critics-6jbx0tms6

She apparently only lost a tribunal decision. The link I posted should explain it further. Her case has a long way to go, yet.

The person she initially 'misgendered' is here: https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/trans-councillor-gregor-murray-suspended-for-abusing-critics-6jbx0tms6

I guess they also got into trouble for using abusive language (derogatorily calling people TERF's - if you excuse the slur - and other attacks). You can find the additional language online. It's very abusive and - not language I'd like to link to

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
39. This has been an ongoing issue with her for several years
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 09:21 AM
Jun 2020

Repeatedly called out for what she says, then she couches it in a way to make her seem reasonable while still engaging in the bad rhetoric.

Basically, if a whole lot of trans folks are saying its bad, gay and lesbian groups of notes saying its bad, LISTEN to them.

Buzz cook

(2,472 posts)
6. Confusing sex and gender for the win JK
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:24 PM
Jun 2020

Really don't see how people who are smart can get mixed up when it comes to the two terms. Yet they do mostly in dismally simple terms that a fourth grader would see as bogus.

Hopefully she will educate herself.

Doodley

(9,095 posts)
8. Why not take her words in good faith, instead of looking for the worst possible
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:31 PM
Jun 2020

interpretation? I can't see how this is "targeting trans people" or should be compared to racism. In fact, how dare anyone say she hates trans people? How dare anyone question her integrity based on this Tweet?

FreeState

(10,572 posts)
9. So all these LGBT organizations are wrong?
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:35 PM
Jun 2020

Really? She has a history of this, these organizations know what they are talking about, they are some of the leading voices of the LGBT community. I’m sorry you don’t support them, that’s disappointing.

Doodley

(9,095 posts)
12. Yes, they are wrong to say what she does or doesn't believe, and why would organizations
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:38 PM
Jun 2020

shape your opinion of JK Rowling?

FreeState

(10,572 posts)
19. Excuse me? My opinion of her statement is formed by
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 10:53 PM
Jun 2020

my exposure to many within my community. Ives seen first had the lives destroyed by transphobia. Why would you not care what the LGBT community feels?

Doodley

(9,095 posts)
33. JK Rowling has been targeted for years, first for not making any characters
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 08:20 AM
Jun 2020

in her books LGBT. Some people want to tell the author of the most popular books ever how she should have written her books. They feel slighted that LGBT were not included. Then when she says, well actually two male characters had an "intense relationship" she was still criticized for retrospectively stating that. Then when she said, love and relationships transcend sexual identity anyway, she really became a figure to hate.

More recently, she has suggested that women should be called women, rather than "people" when it comes to outreach for screening and hygiene, and for women to talk about their health and their lives. That too created outrage, because it was considered a slight against trans people.

It doesn't matter how many times she says she supports the LGBT community. It doesn't matter how many times she makes it clear she embraces and encourages people to identify as they want and love who they want, some people want to only look for the worst possible interpretation of what she says.





Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
23. I grew up having a narrow definition of gender drilled into my head.
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 11:19 PM
Jun 2020

All of that was made even more confusing by me having a bisexual brother who clearly didn't fall into the neat concept of gender that was drilled into my head at church and school, my parents resigned themselves to my brother's sexuality. So it was sort of a mess for me as I wondered about my own sexuality, which is a process that all kids go through.

I didn't meet a Trans person (that I knew of) until pretty far in my professiona career.

I, like most heterosexual people struggled with the broader concept of gender. My bisexual brother was attracted to both men and women, so to an extent, he didn't force my reckoning with better understanding what gender really means. Fortunately for me, I was open to accepting that gender meant more than what I was taught, a lot of that acceptance came from me being a Warm Deist and accepting the concept that God never creates a person or object that does not have a unique identity and/or purpose. Maybe JK Rowling's issue is that she can't somehow open her mind to the broader reality of gender, but I argue, at the risk of getting pounded, that doesn't mean that she is transphobic, even as her poorly informed thoughts on the issue of gender causes harm. Some people are just evil and they set out to purposely do as much harm as possible, there are others that say harmful stuff whose intention wasn't to do harm and they can pull themselves away from the path without meaningful intervention of someone that they care about and trust.

yardwork

(61,650 posts)
52. See post 29 in this thread. Rowling's statements are not random.
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 10:02 AM
Jun 2020

It's important to understand the context for her comments. She has a mission. I think she's wrong. I disagree with her premise. But we're not being picky and these aren't just random throwaway comments.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
54. What is her mission? Maybe explaining that more thoroughly would help a lot of people
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 11:11 AM
Jun 2020

that aren't fully getting it.

yardwork

(61,650 posts)
55. Did you read post 29 in this thread? It's clear, I think.
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 11:21 AM
Jun 2020

Also read my response to post 29.

In summary: Rowling aligns with a group in the United Kingdom that is opposed to recognizing trans women as women, for fear that men will take women's rights.

Many people disagree with this group's position.

Rowling's years of statements about trans women not being women are not random, naive statements. She's being very deliberate.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
59. I hadn't read post 29. But your second paragraph in the post you
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 12:08 PM
Jun 2020

just made explains the issue fully.

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
40. She lost good faith after the first couple of years of doing this
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 09:22 AM
Jun 2020

This may be new to some people, but Rowling has been on this for something like three or four years easy of incendiary language and basically being pretty TERFy.

njhoneybadger

(3,910 posts)
24. The lived reality of women globally is not erased by Trans relationships
Sat Jun 6, 2020, 11:57 PM
Jun 2020

Erasing the concept of sex removes the ability of many(second sentence implied ALL) to meaningfully discuss their lives. That's the "Many's" problem and doesn't prove anything.
I'm gobsmacked that with her imagination she's stuck in her own little small minded self made box.

Doodley

(9,095 posts)
32. But she has never said she objects to trans relationships. In fact, she has embraced all
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 08:03 AM
Jun 2020

sexual preferences and identities many times. One thing she objects to is calling women "people" rather than women when it comes to appealing to women for health screening and hygiene, and talking about their lives. She has made this point in several Tweets that has resulted in her being attacked for ignoring trans-gender people. I am not particularly a JK fan, but cannot see why it is so hard to understand that the intention of her words are not to be "small-minded."

MurrayDelph

(5,299 posts)
28. There are two kinds of people
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 01:51 AM
Jun 2020

who say "I am not a <fill in theblank>":
Those who actually are, and
Those who actually aren't.

Saying someone IS a <fill in the blank> primarily on the basis that they said they are not, sounds more like wish-projection than fact.

One should have more than a denial.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
34. People either believe in the liberal principles of equality for all
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 08:27 AM
Jun 2020

and the right of all people to life, liberty and pursuit of happiness, or they don't.

Rowlings doesn't matter. What does is that back in the 1960s we added an inferred constitutional "right to be left alone" by our government (when Connecticut made birth control illegal), and right now America's "don'ts" are stacking the courts to reverse that.

Elections ALWAYS further empower those who do or those who don't.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
36. Okay. I wouldn't know and don't care. She has the right to speak,
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 08:39 AM
Jun 2020

and I think the howling over every little thing she says is ridiculous.

If some people paid half as much attention to the harm or good their own vote or failure to vote did, our nation would be in incredibly better shape. All social advances are liberal advances. Democrats are the party of liberalism. It really is that simple.

dsc

(52,162 posts)
41. I wish I could say I am surprised by this thead
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 09:25 AM
Jun 2020

but sadly I am not. Let's take some of the issues raised.

One, what is so bad about saying sex is sex (it should be gender is gender BTW but ignore that). The fact is she is erasing transgender people by doing this. People aren't claiming they are women to get scholarships in the UK or here. Just like when marriage equality was being debated and we were assured that hordes of people would fraudulently declare themselves gay couples to get benefits, and of course, that didn't happen. It didn't happen for two reasons. One, most people are honest. Two, there is a somewhat significant price one pays for being gay in this country and the UK and a huge price one pays for being transgender in this country and the UK.

Two, she says she loves transgender people, so what is the big deal. Well, the big deal is if you say transgender women aren't women, then you are saying they don't exist. You are saying it is OK for them to be ignored. It is OK for society to throw them away.

JK Rowling has many great qualities. She is clearly a great writer, I admire the fact she has been giving away her fortune, I admire her rags to riches story. But she is a howling bigot. Sometimes people with great qualities are bigots. Wilson and Churchill were great leaders in many respects, they were howling bigots.

Doodley

(9,095 posts)
89. Who are you to judge what JK Rowling believes? She's made it very clear that a
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 06:44 PM
Jun 2020

she embraces LGBT, and encourages people to be who they are and love who they want. Why isn't that good enough for you? Why would you call her a worthless human being? If this is your idea of humanist activism, count me out.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
94. A thinking person, and no it is not, if she would be quiet, it would be different...
Mon Jun 8, 2020, 12:24 AM
Jun 2020

you are free to have any beliefs you want, when you express them, expect to get criticism and pushback. This isn't the first time she's expressed transphobic beliefs, after all.

Azathoth

(4,610 posts)
75. "Sex and gender" aren't exclusively binary?
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 02:14 PM
Jun 2020

"Gender identity" might be a fluid concept, but sex is most definitely binary with the exception of rare medical disorders.

This is the kind of stuff that drives people to the right.

Ms. Toad

(34,076 posts)
83. So if you are a trans person, or a non-binary person
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 05:37 PM
Jun 2020

what do you put in the single slot identifying sex/gender on your intake forms at the doctor's office. (That is the context of the article she was responding to - health care).

If you put your gender down, does it match your insurance records? Your legal documentation?

If you have legally changed your gender markers, what happens when you, as a trans woman, need a prostate exam?

I can guarantee you there is not a separate question on medical records for sex v. gender. And I can also give you assurances that if you identify yourself with the marker on your insurance records, your driver's license, your social security records (most of which are labeled "sex&quot that a fair amount of the time you will be denied coverage for that prostate exam.

What matter is your gender identity, and what organs you have that may need medical care - not "sex." Which is exactly what she was responding to - she was dismissing a call to focus medical care on body parts, not the gender of the person who owns them, by insisting that people who menstruate are all women. They are not, and trans men who menstruate also need competent non-biased care for their ovaries, uterii, vaginas, etc. And there is no medical reason to force them to declare their sex female to get that care.


And "sex" is far less binary than you imagine. Please educate yourself:

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/10/25/opinion/sex-biology-binary.html

https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/voices/stop-using-phony-science-to-justify-transphobia/

 

BGBD

(3,282 posts)
78. honestly
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 02:30 PM
Jun 2020

I dont have enough fucks to give about how JK Rawlings feels about anyone. It's just so unimportant with everything else happening. Wake me up when her views on the subject actually impact anyone else.

 

BGBD

(3,282 posts)
86. yes
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 06:29 PM
Jun 2020

These people don't actually matter. Who cares what some British lady who wrote a story about a boy wizard thinks about trans rights?

Doodley

(9,095 posts)
88. She's simply another target to hate. A few weeks ago, it was Madonna's son because he
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 06:38 PM
Jun 2020

danced to celebrate George Floyd's life. Then it was Joe Biden because he said something about if you can't figure out if you are for him or Trump, you aren't black. None of this is important. On all three examples, their words and actions weren't taken in good faith and a bigoted interpretation was projected onto them.

 

BGBD

(3,282 posts)
92. This is what I can't stand...
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 09:20 PM
Jun 2020

Twitter is really bad about this and it seems to be spreading from there.

Somebody says something that people don't agree with. Maybe it really is something stupid that they shouldn't have said, but just as often it's something blown totally out of proportion. Then everyone starts to pile on and "cancel" the person. All of this for doing what every person does all the time, say something that they didn't think through, didn't mean, or just a bad take.

If it really is something that bad, can't they just apologize and move on. So long as it doesn't happen regularly just let it go.

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
99. She is not a target of hate
Mon Jun 8, 2020, 01:19 PM
Jun 2020

She did things that are transphobic and people are properly calling her out for it.

mvd

(65,174 posts)
93. I think JK has some learning to do
Sun Jun 7, 2020, 10:22 PM
Jun 2020

No reason she can’t learn since she is progressive on a lot of things.

 

zak247

(251 posts)
101. Don't agree
Mon Jun 8, 2020, 01:21 PM
Jun 2020

I don’t agree with this at all though I consider myself a post-modern believer in freedom of thought and freedom of lifestyle

Though NOT unlimited freedom.

But that’s the point. Do we have to be forced to adhere to someone else’s dogma?

Liberal or conservative or somewhere in between.


I totally agree with Rowling on this one.


I understand LGBT folks have had a terrible time of it but its a difference IMO in rights and philosophy.

You have every right to believe what you like and live your lifestyle but do you have the right to impose your beliefs on others?













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obamanut2012

(26,080 posts)
106. are you fucking kidding?
Mon Jun 8, 2020, 01:42 PM
Jun 2020

So, it's okay to be a bigot and not ahve LGBT "force their lifestyle" on you?

Doodley

(9,095 posts)
108. How is JK Rowling forcing her lifestyle on anyone? She has been targeted for years, starting with
Mon Jun 8, 2020, 02:01 PM
Jun 2020

attacks for not including LGBT characters in her books. How many times does she have to say that she wants people to be who they want to be and love who they want to love, irrespective of gender or identity?

 

zak247

(251 posts)
109. No its not okay
Mon Jun 8, 2020, 02:07 PM
Jun 2020

...to be a bigot.


I don't think she's a bigot. And I don't think what she said was bigoted.

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