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[center][font size="4"][font color="blue"]YOU GUYS ARE GOOD!!!!!!! THE GOAL HAS BEEN REACHED. PLEASE SEE POST #137, WHERE KBLAGBURN EXPRESSES HIS APPRECIATION AND GRATITUDE!!!
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DUer, KBlagburn, has been here from THE BEGINNING, people. He has kindly shared many pictures and personal information with me about his life, so I would know with whom I was interacting as we worked toward getting the Wishlist post together to share with you all.
His situation is, unfortunately, not uncommon. Many veterans are facing dire financial situations, especially those who suffer with medical conditions that have rendered them disabled. People assume benefits cover everything, but they don't. While KBlagburn (Vet in Alabama @Wishadoo) is grateful for the benefits he does receive, his family is still in a mess right now.
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[font color="blue"]PER KBLAGBURN:
I am a disabled vet and I haven't worked since I had a heart attack in Dec 2011. I do get 70% disability from the VA and that mostly helps cover the bills. I am very grateful to receive that benefit.
But there is nothing left.
Last month I did get behind a little on my rent for the first time and am now trying to play catch up. I currently have a pending claim with the VA, which we filed in Feb. and have recently learned that it is sitting on someone's desk just waiting for a signature. It has been there since aug 21. We applied to the VA for a hardship but that did not seem to make a difference.
One of the hardest parts of this situation is that I am constantly having to cancel my doctors appts at the VA for lack of gas to get there. I am currently rated for PTSD and struggle with depression. I also suffer from severe migraines, fibroymalgia, bad knees, among others. I am supposed to see my VA therapist and psychologist regularly but cannot see them for lack of funds to get there.
I have 4 kids, 2 boys, 2 girls. My 17-year-old son got a job at McDonalds to try to help, but they are only giving him about 8 hours a week. We do get food stamps but with 6 people they dont stretch very far and they last about 2 1/2 weeks.
We are just trying to hang on until my claim is finalized. My vet rep feels that I stand a good chance of getting 100%. I normally don't reach out to strangers but have run out of places to turn. If you like, I can provide any verification you need on any info. I have my VA ID card, DD214, rent receipts, copies of utility bills, anything you need. I have nothing to hide from anyone.
It's very hard to do, but I'm asking for any help you can provide. Ideally, if we could raise $1000 through the kindness of strangers and fellow DUers, that would help the situation I'm in since I've gotten so behind with everything. But I am extremely grateful for any help that is offered.
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[font size="3"]EDIT: His PayPal email is: [font color="blue"]kblagburn64@bellsouth.net [/font]
There is a link at the bottom of the Wishlist post that has worked for some people. Note that the receipt may say "Magnolia Memories" and that *is* confirmed to be the correct PayPal account.
Click this link:[/font]
http://www.wishadoo.org/wishlist/127/i-am-a-vet-we-need-help-please
We both would GREATLY appreciate it if you would kindly:[/font]
* Recommend this thread and keep it kicked
* Share the Wishlist post with your social networks (or share from here, of course)
* Offer whatever support you can (financial support, information, advice, well wishes, etc.)
You can contact him here at DU through PM or at Wishadoo.
This is a picture of KBlagburn on the Saudi-Iraq Border 1991
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[font color="green"]PLEASE NOTE: Anyone is welcome to use the tools at Wishadoo, so long as the Terms of Service are adhered to (basically "play nice" and don't lie). This includes creating posts in the Wishlist, a "craigslist of compassion." Most of us are struggling with one thing or another, and as you'll see, there are many categories in the Wishlist to cover a variety of issues/needs.
Wishadoo! is a portal of sorts, where there are tools to create more compassionate, cooperative communities; the Wishlist is where we can ask, offer, give, receive and pay it forward. If you create a Wishlist post, let me know your DU name, and I can start to do weekly or biweekly threads such as this to highlight DUers' needs and offerings.
Any contributions to Wishadoo! goes toward the cost of maintaining the site, NOT toward any Wishlist posts. That takes place one on one, between Wishadoo! members. If you are able to help with costs to keep the site going, we all appreciate your generosity tremendously. Thanks to those who have already helped support Wishadoo! ~ OneGrassRoot[br]
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Sienna86
(2,149 posts)Will visit the link see how I can help.
LeftofObama
(4,243 posts)newfie11
(8,159 posts)Sienna86
(2,149 posts)Not working, or is it just me and not enough coffee?
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)It works sometimes and not others. NO idea what that is about, but here is the email he uses for PayPal:
kblagburn64@bellsouth.net
Thanks much, and sorry about that.
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)It's me, too:
"Sorry your last action could not be completed"
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)The code provided for me to create the PayPal link works sometimes but not others. Weird.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)The little ad banner above the button worked fine. Weird.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)tavalon
(27,985 posts)That's what worked for me.
goclark
(30,404 posts)BlueToTheBone
(3,747 posts)Kicking for the morning crowd.
Heidi
(58,237 posts)rfranklin
(13,200 posts)and the link did not work for me either. I had to go to the Paypal site on my own.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)Last edited Tue Sep 18, 2012, 09:32 PM - Edit history (1)
Thanks for that. It should say "Vet in Alabama"
I'll contact the DUer to get a different link.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)but my receipt said Magnolia Memories. I'm hoping that's maybe a hold over from him selling on Ebay or something. I'm fairly sure the money got to the right person.
rfranklin
(13,200 posts)Probably okay.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)I'm no scrapbooker but I've known many. They remind me of my grandmother and her quilts. I have a soft spot in my heart for scrapbookers and quilters.
And I have got to stop posting. I'm in bed, winding down, but there's the siren call of the laptop......type on me, type on me.
No, go to sleep, Terri
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)you were in the right place.
Thanks again.
LiberalLoner
(9,762 posts)OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)and at any point did it say "Vet in Alabama" on the PayPal page?
If so, it's fine. He must have used Magnolia Memories for something else at some point, so that's what is on the receipt.
Thank you so much.
LiberalLoner
(9,762 posts)place. I copied and pasted the address from here so I know it was right.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)I didn't realize that when I first posted, so my apologies.
And THANK YOU for everything!
LiberalLoner
(9,762 posts)It really goes to show, one person can truly change the world for good!
Jackpine Radical
(45,274 posts)What do I do now?
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)and thanks.
Jackpine Radical
(45,274 posts)I mean all of this.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)tavalon
(27,985 posts)I'm worried that this will get buried. I really, really don't want to see that happen.
DUers, let's prove, once and for all, that we can walk and chew gum at the same time. Let's bury Romney as we lift up KBlagburn.
I'm going to issue a gentle and loving challenge. To my fellow middle class folks (no not the mythical ones Romney has conjured) - I got him one tenth of the way to his goal. Let's take this one home before the morning news shows are over!
Now, if you can't afford to take up my challenge, that is just fine. If you can give even $5, great. At least keep the thread kicked. I'm heading to bed soon.
This is what makes us good people. We're people who want to help people, whether they pay taxes or not (sorry, couldn't resist one jab at the Mittastrophe).
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)as this fine DUer needs our help.
YES, we can walk and chew gum at the same time and WE CARE.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)When I look at the whole world, I become despondent but when a person who has a known identity to me needs help and I can help, It is balm to my soul as well as helping them.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)Being of service to others can be the greatest gift we can give ourselves.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)Whoa! That's huge.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)Yes, I did. Still working on it, trying to promote the various tools there, as I also work on surviving myself.
Thanks for the kind words. I really, really appreciate it.
Lochloosa
(16,066 posts)OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)Using the opportunity to thank you for your kindness to kick this again!
LiberalLoner
(9,762 posts)GeorgeGist
(25,321 posts)OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)Sorry in advance if anyone has questions for me. I shall return...
tavalon
(27,985 posts)you are one cool person.
porphyrian
(18,530 posts)porphyrian
(18,530 posts)handmade34
(22,756 posts)rosesaylavee
(12,126 posts)Wishadoo rocks. There is nothing else like it and am so grateful you do this OGR!
Will send what I can to help.
BanzaiBonnie
(3,621 posts)I'll check my bank balance and send what I can.
Kookaburra
(2,649 posts)Lifelong Protester
(8,421 posts)Will come back after work to make a donation.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)I'm heading to bed. I've asked my dayshift hubby to keep it kicked.
daleanime
(17,796 posts)spanone
(135,844 posts)myrna minx
(22,772 posts)psychmommy
(1,739 posts)BelleCarolinaPeridot
(9,609 posts)Whovian
(2,866 posts)agtcovert
(238 posts)Arkansas Granny
(31,519 posts)pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)kag
(4,079 posts)pinstikfartherin
(500 posts)navarth
(5,927 posts)Melissa G
(10,170 posts)roody
(10,849 posts)rsweets
(307 posts)and done
Mokito
(717 posts)n/t
mnhtnbb
(31,394 posts)providing psychiatric help to Veterans.
Hubert Flottz
(37,726 posts)catbyte
(34,403 posts)DU saved my cats and me just last week. The generosity of the members here is stunning and humbling. Thank you for your service and I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.
Mom to Taz, Nigel, and baby brother Sammy, members of Dogs Against Romney, Cat Division
"Dogs Arent Luggage--HISS!
and
THANK YOU, DU, FOR SAVING OUR HOMEPURR!
LiberalLoner
(9,762 posts)nc4bo
(17,651 posts)tavalon
(27,985 posts)Even though I should be asleep.
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)(none to send) but I can certainly give this a kick. Good luck!
Glorfindel
(9,730 posts)I'm happy to kick and recommend and will do whatever I can.
barbtries
(28,799 posts)to help this family. thanks Dena
sdfernando
(4,935 posts)I'm already helping support a disabled friend so I can't give a lot, but I'll give a little and hope others will too. My father and 2 brothers are veterans and I'd want them to get help if they needed it.
Hope it all works out for this guy and his family!
Jane Austin
(9,199 posts)Donation made and thread kicked.
Barack_America
(28,876 posts)They have a program of paying for gas for veterans who have to travel to get their services, because VAs are often not their closest facility.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)I'll make sure he sees it.
DiverDave
(4,886 posts)pick up guys in Oregon to take them to Roseburg and Portland.
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)Thanks for pointing out that transportation option.
For a vet, the best way to find out if your area is served is to call your VA hospital. They know about these services and can provide contact phone numbers to arrange a ride (the DAV may even have a transportation office in the hospital, as they do in mine).
DiverDave
(4,886 posts)but I just had to borrow 300 to turn my water back on.
God, will it never end??
I hope things work out for this guy.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)You bumped the thread. You care.
magical thyme
(14,881 posts)jsmirman
(4,507 posts)hang in there!
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)Hard to do with all the Romney stuff.
Duer 157099
(17,742 posts)Fire Walk With Me
(38,893 posts)southerncrone
(5,506 posts)Why are we allowing deserving heroes to end up in such dire straits, while others are born into privilege & deserve to stay there simply because of some ordained (albeit undeserved) birthright?
Our world is not serving 99% of its inhabitants, because 1% has their foot on our back. Time to cut them from our lives & support our fellow 99%!
Kali
(55,014 posts)and hope he gets through this, know he has been struggling for a while
sent a little, thanks for the post - THIS is what I think Dems are about.
Bobbie Jo
(14,341 posts)....and thank you, OGR!
KBlagburn
(567 posts)I am overwhelmed. Words do not do justice to the gratitude I wish to express. Thank you so much.
This is a picture of me on the Saudi-Iraq Border 1991
Though you might like to put face to the postl
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)onestepforward
(3,691 posts)LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)I have nothing to give right now but a kick and rec.
one_voice
(20,043 posts)hope it helps! Wish I could have done more. Good luck to you and your family!
K&R
TheOther95Percent
(1,035 posts)GreenPartyVoter
(72,378 posts)catchnrelease
(1,945 posts)I don't use paypal but will see about sending a donation via snail mail. My husband is a disabled Vietnam vet and he volunteers with a group called Project Healing Waters to help other vets with mental/physical problems, so we're well aware of how the VA works or doesn't. We're happy to help if we can.
Blasphemer
(3,261 posts)Thank you for sharing this OGR. Wishadoo is such a wonderful resource and one of the few spaces online that is 100% rooted in compassion, generosity, healing and love. I hope that my contribution is sufficiently helpful and I'm sure KBlagburn will make it through this difficult time.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)EVERYONE'S contribution -- including those who kick and rec but are in dire straits themselves financially and can't donate -- are helping TREMENDOUSLY.
Moral support. It means the world.
bunnies
(15,859 posts)but I hope every little bit helps.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)TRULY.
EVERYONE'S contribution -- including those who kick and rec but are in dire straits themselves financially and can't donate -- are helping TREMENDOUSLY.
Moral support. It means the world.
Unlike some people, we know that we're in this together.
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)freshwest
(53,661 posts)frylock
(34,825 posts)blaze
(6,362 posts)Happy to help.
byronius
(7,395 posts)chervilant
(8,267 posts)(I wish that I could help, but I'm in a similar situation: no money, no job, and living rent-free with a total stranger...)
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)Do we have an update on how far along we are toward the goal? Inquiring minds...putting more work on you...
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)but I'm sure KBlagburn will let me know tomorrow morning, and I'll be sure to let you guys know (if he hasn't done so himself by then).
I'm calling it a night, but will check in super early.
Thanks, Everyone!
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)ailsagirl
(22,897 posts)KBlagburn
(567 posts)I cant say thank you enough. This is beyond my wildest imaginations. You have blessed me and my family so much. Words are not enough to say thank you from the bottom, top, and middle of my heart. Thank you for helping to reach our goal.
patrice
(47,992 posts)emilyg
(22,742 posts)patrice
(47,992 posts)right now, 'cause I have less that $10. between me and the end of the month.
Thank goodness my son got a job recently.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)We're not alone.
patrice
(47,992 posts)I have it relatively easy in that regard, compared to some people I know.
glinda
(14,807 posts)lisainmilo
(1,625 posts)defacto7
(13,485 posts)Hang in there...
Vestigial_Sister
(182 posts)Sent something...good luck!
daleanime
(17,796 posts)Again!
Firebrand Gary
(5,044 posts)irisblue
(32,982 posts)prayers sent, I am sorry I cannot do more this time.
Mr_Jefferson_24
(8,559 posts)Uben
(7,719 posts)Hope my donation helps you over the hump. We all need a little help from our friends from time to time. God bless.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)I'll come back around lunchtime and hopefully KBlagburn will have an update for us, and I'll then update the OP accordingly.
PLEASE KNOW.....
fun n serious
(4,451 posts)kick
Spacemom
(2,561 posts)Many prayers and good wishes for you and your family.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)TuxedoKat
(3,818 posts)your disability claim gets approved soon so you can get the care you deserve on a regular basis. (((HUGS and PRAYERS)))
TK
Tsiyu
(18,186 posts)dogday
(24,008 posts)For the best damn group of people there is....
patrice
(47,992 posts)GardeningGal
(2,211 posts)KBlagburn
(567 posts)To all the DU family. From the bottom of my heart and soul, I send my everlasting gratitude and my love. What you have done for me and my family is beyond measure, is beyond words. If you believe in angels, they are here. I believe that with all my heart and soul. thank you, thank you, thank you. And may God bless each and everyone of you.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)Blessings to you and yours, and everyone here.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)This is the best part of DU. The caring about each other part.
Go get 'em tiger!
midnight
(26,624 posts)Digit
(6,163 posts)I came here to kick and I find great news!