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The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,719 posts)
Sun Jul 26, 2020, 05:51 PM Jul 2020

I'm Done With America - Jon Pavlovitz

I’d only been up for four hours, which was about the length of time I’d slept the night before, and already I’d been beaten relentlessly by a social media tsunami of anti-mask proselytizing, confederate statue worship—and a quick cut horror show of trending news stories about COVID parties, Costco white fragility, pandemic school re-openings, and inexplicable World Health Organization departures.

I sat there transfixed to the small screen in my shaking hand, scrolling quickly to find something to get me unstuck and jump-start my optimism enough to propel me into the day—but I was met with packed pools of virus-deniers, old friends broadcasting their racism, born-again Karens preaching hatred in Jesus’ name, and slurs of black NASCAR drivers by extended family members....

(But) this is my home, it’s the place I’ve lived for half a century and poured my life and my gifts and my heart into, and I’d really rather not uproot my family and leave my friends and flee to places that feel less violent and less cruel and more welcoming—because that’s what we’re supposed to be...

The racists are growing desperate. I think their violence is going to get worse. I think they feel the headwinds of History blowing fiercely against them and they are going to make one more frantic, brutal, ugly assault on diversity and decency—and we’ll have to be here to be the line that will not be moved...

Yes, I’m done.

I’m done with this America—and I’m ready to fight for a better one.

https://johnpavlovitz.com/2020/07/24/im-done-with-america/?fbclid=IwAR2mIrGt4wYVbwcwkmKAPBzj3HvxrFIxqMyknX7huXy4bsNndtk4G_k4yxI
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I'm Done With America - Jon Pavlovitz (Original Post) The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2020 OP
Feel cilla4progress Jul 2020 #1
I think of this song a lot these days. Squinch Jul 2020 #2
I feel PutGramaOnThePhone Jul 2020 #3
I didn't write it - the author is Jon Pavlovitz. The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2020 #4
Sorry PutGramaOnThePhone Jul 2020 #18
Welcome! I'm glad it did resonate. The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2020 #19
Thank you! PutGramaOnThePhone Jul 2020 #24
Welcome to DU! Delphinus Jul 2020 #8
I'm just learning about this America.. stillcool Jul 2020 #5
Do you know what state he's in? The NASCAR mention is a hint. brush Jul 2020 #6
Liberal Christian pastor in North Carolina muriel_volestrangler Jul 2020 #14
should say I am done with THIS America Skittles Jul 2020 #7
He does say that at the end of the essay. The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2020 #9
yes, I know Skittles Jul 2020 #10
Yeah, I was ready to disagree with the guy until I read the last line. panader0 Jul 2020 #21
Wade out of the cesspool of Social Media and volunteer in the analogue world farmbo Jul 2020 #11
Not my essay. I'm trying to avoid doom-surfing myself. The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2020 #12
Great recommendations. (nt) klook Jul 2020 #20
Fight we shall. warmfeet Jul 2020 #13
+ agree. nt iluvtennis Jul 2020 #16
Whew! For a minute he had me worried! Well done essay! Karadeniz Jul 2020 #15
Wasps at the end of the summer. . . Collimator Jul 2020 #17
Even though I can't post the links, I've said it before on DU...... A HERETIC I AM Jul 2020 #22
Yes.. "Done With This America".. No Kidding! Cha Jul 2020 #23

Squinch

(50,954 posts)
2. I think of this song a lot these days.
Sun Jul 26, 2020, 06:00 PM
Jul 2020

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The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,719 posts)
4. I didn't write it - the author is Jon Pavlovitz.
Sun Jul 26, 2020, 06:14 PM
Jul 2020

The rest of his piece is at the link. I've edited the thread title to make it clearer that I am not the author. He does write some very good essays.

PutGramaOnThePhone

(236 posts)
18. Sorry
Sun Jul 26, 2020, 08:15 PM
Jul 2020

Long time lurker, second time poster. I guess I was a bit trigger happy on the post because the writing resonated so much with me, and I feel ready to start contributing a bit.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,719 posts)
19. Welcome! I'm glad it did resonate.
Sun Jul 26, 2020, 08:23 PM
Jul 2020

Pavlovitz is someone to follow, even if you aren't religious. He always has something profound to say.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
21. Yeah, I was ready to disagree with the guy until I read the last line.
Sun Jul 26, 2020, 08:40 PM
Jul 2020

I'm not scared and I'm not going anywhere.

farmbo

(3,122 posts)
11. Wade out of the cesspool of Social Media and volunteer in the analogue world
Sun Jul 26, 2020, 06:36 PM
Jul 2020

I’ve done it. It works.

I’ve stopped posting on Facebook or Twitter (or scrolling thru others‘ posts). I’m back to reading again— newspapers, magazines, books; both fiction and non- fiction.
I’m also volunteering for key campaigns in my state, plus of course Joe Biden.

It’s much less stressful and it just might, you know, help save our democracy.

Collimator

(1,639 posts)
17. Wasps at the end of the summer. . .
Sun Jul 26, 2020, 08:05 PM
Jul 2020

are particularly aggressive. I have used this metaphor to describe the racists in this country before.

I don't claim to know why wasps become so agitated with the waning days of summer. It's only my imagination that plays with the idea that they know that their time on earth is limited, so they sting while they can no matter how high the cost.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,370 posts)
22. Even though I can't post the links, I've said it before on DU......
Sun Jul 26, 2020, 08:46 PM
Jul 2020

It is going to get a LOT WORSE before it gets better.

Electing Obama twice showed us what we can aspire to, but since politics is a pendulum, many on the other side were SERIOUSLY pissed it was pushed that far, and they SHOVED as hard as they could the other way.

What is interesting in hindsight is that shove was actually pretty weak, and the most vocal of Trumpy's defenders are truly a small minority.

The middle of the road electorate, which is a significant number of Americans, I feel has had just about enough of this bullshit, and will make the necessary changes. But the lesson was learned, I think.

Shoving that pendulum too hard in the future can get us another Trumpy.

Or worse, a Pence clone.

We just need more and more women in state houses and national positions.

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