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sheshe2

(83,833 posts)
Wed Aug 5, 2020, 01:36 AM Aug 2020

The times they are a changing.

Not sure where we go from here.

I want to hug my family again. I want to sit down to one of our dinner parties, Easter, Christmas, Thanksgiving, St Patrick's Day and Birthdays. I want to laugh, touch, whisper a secret to them. I want to hold the one year old that I have only held twice since she was born.

It has all changed now. Not sure when we will get any of that back. Do you?

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The times they are a changing. (Original Post) sheshe2 Aug 2020 OP
drumpf broke US cilla4progress Aug 2020 #1
I hear you, cilla. sheshe2 Aug 2020 #2
I know, she.. it's been so lonely not being able to hug my family & friends.. Cha Aug 2020 #3
That one made me cry, Cha. sheshe2 Aug 2020 #5
I know.. it's so unbearably sad.. but we do Cha Aug 2020 #6
I miss those times too but I iemitsu Aug 2020 #4
I miss the feel of simply being human among my friends... Ford_Prefect Aug 2020 #7
My mom came over to visit me on Sunday. madaboutharry Aug 2020 #8

cilla4progress

(24,756 posts)
1. drumpf broke US
Wed Aug 5, 2020, 01:39 AM
Aug 2020

I imagine my husband and I will spend thanksgiving at home alone.

People are going to start dropping from loneliness.

Cha

(297,429 posts)
3. I know, she.. it's been so lonely not being able to hug my family & friends..
Wed Aug 5, 2020, 01:44 AM
Aug 2020

Your OP reminds me of this tweet from TLP..


sheshe2

(83,833 posts)
5. That one made me cry, Cha.
Wed Aug 5, 2020, 01:56 AM
Aug 2020

He took away our ability to touch. A friend, a loved one, or one in need. Humans touch, he took that away and it is the cruelest thing he could do.

I don't have the words, just a deep sadness that this is how our our life ends. My mom will die without ever hugging her grandchildren or great grandchildren again.

All the people that died of COVID died alone, no family allowed.

Cha

(297,429 posts)
6. I know.. it's so unbearably sad.. but we do
Wed Aug 5, 2020, 02:08 AM
Aug 2020

it to help protect ourselves so hopefully we can live to see and feel the day when we can start Hugging Again in Real Life!

I'm sorry about your mom not being able to hug her great grandchild!

iemitsu

(3,888 posts)
4. I miss those times too but I
Wed Aug 5, 2020, 01:45 AM
Aug 2020

have been calling (facetime) my 90 year old mother every day. I am talking to her and enjoying her company much more than I ever could at crowded holiday events. And I'm calling her every day so I really can see her and check up on her.
Different than the old times but not altogether worse. Just different.
It is difficult to adjust but adapting is supposedly what humans are good at.
Take care.

madaboutharry

(40,216 posts)
8. My mom came over to visit me on Sunday.
Wed Aug 5, 2020, 03:14 AM
Aug 2020

We sat on my porch wearing masks and looked at old family photos. Some of the photos are well over 100 years old. Even the poor immigrants seemed happier than people are today. Family all around hugging and joyful in each other’s presence. I think we miss celebrating our simple humanity.

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