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What is white privilege? Ex-NBA player and psychologist John Amaechi explains in 3 min. (Original Post) Nevilledog Aug 2020 OP
THIS malaise Aug 2020 #1
Agree completely. n/t. NNadir Aug 2020 #3
Perfectly stated. n/t LuckyCharms Aug 2020 #2
+1000000 crickets Aug 2020 #8
K & R Arkansas Granny Aug 2020 #4
I just want to bump this important post. NNadir Aug 2020 #5
This is excellent! StarfishSaver Aug 2020 #6
K & R for visibility, he was also the first NBA player to come out as gay, and some players Celerity Aug 2020 #7
This message was self-deleted by its author NNadir Aug 2020 #9
Wow. I didn't know that story. Given that he is so articulate, clear, bright and confident... NNadir Aug 2020 #10

Celerity

(43,333 posts)
7. K & R for visibility, he was also the first NBA player to come out as gay, and some players
Fri Aug 7, 2020, 08:49 AM
Aug 2020

like Tim Hardaway and LeBron James made asses of themselves over it.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Amaechi

Reaction from other players

One widely publicised response to Amaechi's announcement came from former NBA player Tim Hardaway, who stated that he would demand that a gay player be removed from his team: "First of all I wouldn't want him on my team. Second of all, if he was on my team I would really distance myself from him because I don't think that's right and I don't think he should be in the locker room when we're in the locker room. Something has to give. If you have 12 other ball players in your locker room that's upset and can't concentrate and always worried about him in the locker room or on the court or whatever, it's going to be hard for your teammates to win and accept him as a teammate." Hardaway later apologised for his remarks.

Some players gave Amaechi public support: former Magic teammate Grant Hill said: "the fact that John has done this, maybe it will give others the comfort or confidence to come out as well, whether they are playing or retiring." Shaquille O'Neal told the New York Daily News, "If he was on my team, I guess I would have to protect him from the outsiders, I'm not homophobic or anything. I'm not the type who judges people, I wish him well." Charles Barkley said: "It shouldn't be a big deal to anybody. I know I've played with gay players and against gay players and it just shouldn't surprise anybody or be any issue."

However, the prevailing public statements from NBA players tended toward an expression of mixed feelings on the matter. Steven Hunter said that he would accept an openly gay teammate "as long as he [didn't] make any advances toward me. As long as he came to play basketball like a man and conducted himself like a good person, I'd be fine with it." That sentiment was echoed, though less tactfully, by Shavlik Randolph, who said that "as long as you don't bring your gayness on me I'm fine. As far as business-wise, I'm sure I could play with him. But I think it would create a little awkwardness in the locker room."

Pat Garrity warned that an openly gay player could expect to face both acceptance and hostility from his teammates. He said that "they would have teammates that would accept them for being a good person and a good teammate, and there would be people who would give him a hard time about it. I think that's true if you're playing basketball or in an office job. That's just how the world is right now." LeBron James said, "With teammates you have to be trustworthy, and if you're gay and you're not admitting that you are, then you are not trustworthy. So that's like the No. 1 thing as teammates – we all trust each other.... It's a trust factor, honestly. A big trust factor."

Response to Celerity (Reply #7)

NNadir

(33,515 posts)
10. Wow. I didn't know that story. Given that he is so articulate, clear, bright and confident...
Fri Aug 7, 2020, 06:01 PM
Aug 2020

...he was exactly the right guy to come out in his sport.

That video was a damned good 2 and a half minutes well spent.

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