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Bozita

(26,955 posts)
Sat Oct 6, 2012, 12:09 AM Oct 2012

A feel-good story about an autistic kid and the community that has grown with him - pics

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I posted this story because it made ME feel good!

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Linden High Homecoming King breaks through autism's barriers with help from his friends
5:43 PM, October 5, 2012
By Patricia Montemurri
Free Press Staff writer


Danny Leideker, an 18-year-old Linden High School senior who has Asperger's Syndrome, is the 2012 Linden High Homecoming King. He awaits the start of Friday's parade with classmate Gabby Tomaszewski. / Photo courtesy of Wayne Leideker
When he was younger, Danny Leideker’s parents wondered if their only child would ever have any friends.

Danny has Asperger’s Syndrome, a form of autism, which affects his ability to interact with others, to look them in the eye, to pick up on when it’s appropriate to be loud or quiet.

It was very appropriate Friday for Danny to be loud, as he rode in a convertible with a crown atop his head and paraded through Linden’s downtown as the Linden High School 2012 Homecoming King.

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When he was in 8th grade, Danny worked with a counselor on the goal of making friends. At recess one day, hanging out near the basketball hoop, Danny said hello to Eddie Walterhouse, a good student and strong athlete.

“He asked would you guys like to sit with me at lunch,” Eddie recalled.

Eddie and his basketball buddies sat with Danny the next day, and many lunch days since.

“Finally,” said Wayne Leideker, “in the 8th grade, my son had some friends.”

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A feel-good story about an autistic kid and the community that has grown with him - pics (Original Post) Bozita Oct 2012 OP
This comment was just posted at the website of the Detroit Free Press. ... Bozita Oct 2012 #1
It made me feel good, too, Bozita! Suich Oct 2012 #2
Thank you for sharing this. :) n/t OneGrassRoot Oct 2012 #3
When you live overseas American you occassionally run into an expression of American exceptionalism grantcart Oct 2012 #4

Bozita

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1. This comment was just posted at the website of the Detroit Free Press. ...
Sat Oct 6, 2012, 01:19 AM
Oct 2012

Katy Gillette-Glover
This story is so very close to my heart. I'm an Aspie, with a 9-year old Aspie daughter. And I hail from Linden.
Our town truly is a special place, where children are encouraged to embrace their strengths and be proud of their uniqueness. The school system has been INCREDIBLE at fostering this mentality, and facilitating the growth of each individual.
Congrats to Danny and **all of the awesome people of Linden** who make our town an awesome place to raise our children.
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grantcart

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4. When you live overseas American you occassionally run into an expression of American exceptionalism
Sat Oct 6, 2012, 09:49 AM
Oct 2012

and its pretty embarassing (Watching some baffoon say "Only in America does a neighbor help a neighbor like this" in a third world country that oddly has absolutely no homeless because everyone is ultimately taken in by someone.)

But there is one point where America is decades ahead, accepting people with disabilities and equipping them to have productive and normal lives.

From building accessibility to handicap parking to wonderful stories like this, you can see the one instance where a few other countries might match, but none excel and the vast majority lag way behind.

What wonderful young people to respond to a simple request to share lunch with.

Sublime, beautiful and inspiring.
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