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Demovictory9

(32,572 posts)
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 03:14 PM Mar 2021

Tina Turner says goodbye to fans with doc amid PTSD, stroke, cancer

Tina Turner bids a final farewell to her fans in a touching new film that shows how she has overcome her painful past and finally found happiness.

In the feature-length documentary, simply titled “Tina,” the singer looks back on camera for the first time at her younger years filled with struggle and pain, then the true love and global fame she found as a middle-aged woman.

Now 81 and plagued by ill health, including a stroke and cancer, the soul and rock music legend also suffered kidney failure which led to a transplant in 2017.

In the film she tells how she wants to enter the third and final chapter of her life out of the spotlight, and it is revealed that she has a form of post-traumatic stress disorder from the domestic abuse she suffered at the hands of her first husband and music partner, Ike Turner.

https://nypost.com/2021/03/16/tina-turner-says-goodbye-to-fans-with-doc-amid-ptsd-stroke-cancer/

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Tina Turner says goodbye to fans with doc amid PTSD, stroke, cancer (Original Post) Demovictory9 Mar 2021 OP
So sad to hear of her illnesses and how life is coming to a close. Vinca Mar 2021 #1
My thoughts exactly. I've long admired & adored her. May she live out her life happy & as free hlthe2b Mar 2021 #4
I saw TT in Stuttgart on her Private Dancer tour in '83. bluedigger Mar 2021 #2
I saw that tour too Blue_playwright Mar 2021 #7
I Saw Elton John And Joan Baez In Mannheim In 1983 COL Mustard Mar 2021 #10
I saw her at Notre Dame LittleGirl Mar 2021 #14
I got to see that tour, too! AwakeAtLast Mar 2021 #27
I saw that tour too, she was glorious!! BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2021 #47
I can tell you that the trauma from a long-term abusive relationship can last CousinIT Mar 2021 #3
Sometimes.... Sophiegirl Mar 2021 #11
Well put, Sophie PlanetBev Mar 2021 #23
Really sorry to hear you endured that. lindysalsagal Mar 2021 #24
+1 live love laugh Mar 2021 #37
If there is any upside to this Covid nightmare 2Gingersnaps Mar 2021 #42
Same here! I feel ya! BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2021 #48
I have not seen the book Sophiegirl Mar 2021 #52
By Pete Walker. He's online too. BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2021 #54
The wounds may heal but the scars remain dlk Mar 2021 #45
💫🕯💫 blm Mar 2021 #5
I'm a huge fan Mickju Mar 2021 #6
Bluedigger, I agree 100%! Magnificent! Gamecock Lefty Mar 2021 #8
I got to see Tina perform at the University of Washington right before "Private Dancer" came out. OMGWTF Mar 2021 #9
Dear ?Tina, thank you for the music and inspiration. May your days be filled with peace and joy. niyad Mar 2021 #12
Tina is a a talented shining star! dlk Mar 2021 #13
i did not know her husband gave her a kidney malaise Mar 2021 #15
Tina AverageOldGuy Mar 2021 #16
She will always be amazing. I wish her well and many thanks for the greatness Tina! You're awesome. Evolve Dammit Mar 2021 #17
Im happy for her; glad to see after all that she went thru she is still "rolling on the river" patphil Mar 2021 #18
OH! Thanks, I so love this performance!! No one else but Tina can do this song!! BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2021 #49
She's a dear lady. lpbk2713 Mar 2021 #19
I will weep when she leaves us... NurseJackie Mar 2021 #20
I once read that when she left Ike 2Gingersnaps Mar 2021 #43
A hell of a woman! Hulk Mar 2021 #21
God bless her Catherine Vincent Mar 2021 #22
The mention of her name fills my head with her music Stinky The Clown Mar 2021 #25
A legendary artist and great person nt BootinUp Mar 2021 #26
Tina Turner - We Don't Need Another Hero 2009 keithbvadu2 Mar 2021 #28
THAT is a performer! colorado_ufo Mar 2021 #31
That was incredible! llmart Mar 2021 #34
Classic, Historic NY Mar 2021 #40
Thank you Ms. Turner. nt ZonkerHarris Mar 2021 #29
What a remarkable, talented woman. gademocrat7 Mar 2021 #30
I had the good fortune to interview her when I was still working. calimary Mar 2021 #53
I love Tina ❤️ this is such sad news Raine Mar 2021 #32
I saw her in 1969 with Ike. She was on a revolving stage and wore a fishnet skirt. I've never seen a jalan48 Mar 2021 #33
Incredible performer . . . incredible woman . . . incredible human being . . . OneBlueSky Mar 2021 #35
Very sad news nightwing1240 Mar 2021 #36
Ike & Tina Turner Review 1971: Advrider28 Mar 2021 #38
She had the million dollar gams.... Historic NY Mar 2021 #39
she's so hot, and those legs....... Hotler Mar 2021 #41
I'm quite saddened to learn of this. BobTheSubgenius Mar 2021 #44
Looking back, Tina reflects: "It wasn't a good life. The good did janterry Mar 2021 #46
Now that is heartbreaking. BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2021 #50
that's what I thought, too janterry Mar 2021 #51

Vinca

(50,386 posts)
1. So sad to hear of her illnesses and how life is coming to a close.
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 03:22 PM
Mar 2021

She's one of my all-time favorites. Like Aretha before her, her physical self might not be around, but she'll live forever.

hlthe2b

(102,850 posts)
4. My thoughts exactly. I've long admired & adored her. May she live out her life happy & as free
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 03:28 PM
Mar 2021

of pain as possible.

Blue_playwright

(1,570 posts)
7. I saw that tour too
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 03:42 PM
Mar 2021

She was brilliant. I love her. And I'm a bit heartbroken to hear this. But, she did live a long life free of her abuser and able to thrive - despite her challenges. I think we're all blessed by that!

COL Mustard

(6,090 posts)
10. I Saw Elton John And Joan Baez In Mannheim In 1983
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 03:55 PM
Mar 2021

Not together, that would have been weird. But great shows nonetheless. I also saw Simon & Garfunkel in Frankfurt in 82.

Sad about Tina though. She’s had a rough time.

LittleGirl

(8,298 posts)
14. I saw her at Notre Dame
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 04:17 PM
Mar 2021

In South Bend Indiana that year.
It was great.
Edit: I forgot to mention that she lives here in Switzerland and renounced her US citizenship recently. She hasn’t lived in the states in decades. Her partner is Swiss.

AwakeAtLast

(14,156 posts)
27. I got to see that tour, too!
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 05:20 PM
Mar 2021

My Dad LOVES her, so we took him for his birthday. Even though I was 13, I still enjoyed it. He still talks about it! They are the same age.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
47. I saw that tour too, she was glorious!!
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 03:12 PM
Mar 2021

Oh, I’m sad to hear of so many struggles. I hope she is getting proper help for the C-PTSD.

Sophiegirl

(2,338 posts)
11. Sometimes....
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 04:00 PM
Mar 2021

A lifetime. I’ve spent half my life in and out of therapy for horrific childhood abuses and the PTSD that resulted. Some things never go away. They just become manageable.

PlanetBev

(4,104 posts)
23. Well put, Sophie
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 05:07 PM
Mar 2021

The ghosts of childhood are always with us, but as we care for ourselves and our own well-being, we grow stronger. Those voices that tell us we’re not worthy become weaker and more manageable.

2Gingersnaps

(1,000 posts)
42. If there is any upside to this Covid nightmare
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 10:22 AM
Mar 2021

it is that medical professionals will look at PTSD, and mental health in general, in a whole new light when this is over. There is nothing worse than people who should know better that don't. People basically do not accept something is real if they have not experienced it. I was in nursing school in basic psychology when I read "feral children have deficits they never outgrow." My response was "what? who? Me?" I was orphaned at 4, suffered pervasive abuse, the only one of four to really outlive it, and I only have one surviving sibling, if you could call the life she endured "living." And if there is any upside to the tRump years, it has taught us that there are a lot of dangerous damaged people walking around untreated, and it spreads exponentially. So sorry for your pain Sophiegirl, manageable is the best we can do sometimes.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
48. Same here! I feel ya!
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 03:14 PM
Mar 2021

Just had a big C-PTSD relapse recently. NOT fun.
Have you seen the book, ”C-PTSD, From Surviving to Thriving”? I recommend it highly!

dlk

(11,669 posts)
45. The wounds may heal but the scars remain
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 12:11 PM
Mar 2021

Our personal histories stay with us. I'm sorry for what you endured and wish a continued better life ahead.

Gamecock Lefty

(702 posts)
8. Bluedigger, I agree 100%! Magnificent!
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 03:44 PM
Mar 2021

I saw Tina's Private Dancer tour on SCs campus at the Carolina Coliseum. It was the most electrifying concert I have ever seen!

OMGWTF

(4,043 posts)
9. I got to see Tina perform at the University of Washington right before "Private Dancer" came out.
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 03:54 PM
Mar 2021

My friend's band opened the show. Everyone was blown away by her energy and talent.

dlk

(11,669 posts)
13. Tina is a a talented shining star!
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 04:09 PM
Mar 2021

Her tremendous strength in overcoming trauma and her generosity in sharing the gift of her music with the world, makes her one of my heroes. I’m glad she found happiness in this life and wish her continued strength in facing the latest challenges with her health.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
20. I will weep when she leaves us...
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 04:58 PM
Mar 2021

... as a fellow survivor, she's always been a hero of mine. It will be a truly sorrowful day for me.

Thanks for posting this... I'm looking forward to seeing this love-letter to her fans.

2Gingersnaps

(1,000 posts)
43. I once read that when she left Ike
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 10:25 AM
Mar 2021

all she had was her purse and she was deeply in debt for walking away from the tour they were on. She is phenominal. She has given so much. I am so glad she got to live out her life in peace and joy.

 

Hulk

(6,699 posts)
21. A hell of a woman!
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 04:58 PM
Mar 2021

She endured and persisted....broke away from a heinous captor, and is an inspiration to other women, and men, in such an abusive relationship.

I confess to being abusive to my wife emotionally....very probably due to my infantry tour in Vietnam. There was no such recognition of PTSD back then. But my point would be if he, or she, ever purposefully harmed you physically....that should be "immediate walking papers". Might break both your hearts in the short run, but it could be years of pain and misery if you stay. I think Tina would probably agree.

Great Lady..😘

Stinky The Clown

(67,901 posts)
25. The mention of her name fills my head with her music
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 05:09 PM
Mar 2021

Her music has brought me happiness for as long as I can remember.

So sad to know that the band in Rock and Roll Heaven will have another member.

But you know its a hell of band!

keithbvadu2

(37,361 posts)
28. Tina Turner - We Don't Need Another Hero 2009
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 05:23 PM
Mar 2021

Tina Turner - We Don't Need Another Hero 2009

Almost 70

Not bad for an old lady voice, eh?

still got the gams, too.

Then they jack her up in the air on a tiny platform, wearing high heels, to meet Tarzan's big brother.

llmart

(15,613 posts)
34. That was incredible!
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 08:14 PM
Mar 2021

Thanks for posting that. I've never seen it before. She has such a distinctive voice. I heard an interview she gave to Oprah about a year or so ago and she has an amazing outlook on life.

gademocrat7

(10,719 posts)
30. What a remarkable, talented woman.
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 06:53 PM
Mar 2021

She overcame horrible domestic violence and rose to the top. Simply the best.

calimary

(81,824 posts)
53. I had the good fortune to interview her when I was still working.
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 08:47 PM
Mar 2021

First thing she said as we were setting up was a compliment about something I was wearing. I don’t know if that was a little “trick” to build rapport with whoever she was working with at that moment, but it sure was smart. Suddenly we were, at least temporarily, girlfriends. Gossiping about fashion accessories. It was a magic touch! She had me immediately. Such a teensy little moment! Already liked and admired her, but that really clinched it.

She was utterly charming throughout, had a really regal air about her, yet approachable as could be. With good skin as well as great legs and muscle tone. I liked her even more by the end of it. Always hoped interviews would go that well. And sometimes they actually did!

Raine

(30,565 posts)
32. I love Tina ❤️ this is such sad news
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 07:38 PM
Mar 2021

to hear. I hope that the remaining time of her life is happy and fulfilling. 🙏

jalan48

(13,969 posts)
33. I saw her in 1969 with Ike. She was on a revolving stage and wore a fishnet skirt. I've never seen a
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 07:56 PM
Mar 2021

performer with so much sexual energy. She was amazing.

OneBlueSky

(18,536 posts)
35. Incredible performer . . . incredible woman . . . incredible human being . . .
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 09:53 PM
Mar 2021

nothing but love, good thoughts, and prayers going her way . . .

and kudos for a life well lived -- despite stuff that would have crushed a lesser person . . .

and a million thanks for some great, great music . . .

Love ya, Tina . . . God speed . . .

nightwing1240

(1,996 posts)
36. Very sad news
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 11:02 PM
Mar 2021

Tina Turner is the embodiment of what a fine woman, person and performer should be. Such a talent and a true living legend. Live in peace and thank you for so many wonderful performances

Advrider28

(10 posts)
38. Ike & Tina Turner Review 1971:
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 08:29 AM
Mar 2021

I remember leaning on the stage in Charlotte, NC as she was reaching out and touching the fans during " Try a Little Tenderness".

Hotler

(11,557 posts)
41. she's so hot, and those legs.......
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 09:37 AM
Mar 2021

I dreamed of her saying to me; "come here white boy, come to mama".

BobTheSubgenius

(11,600 posts)
44. I'm quite saddened to learn of this.
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 11:52 AM
Mar 2021

She was a powerhouse in more ways than one, and now she's summoning what's left of it to exit as gracefully as she can. What an icon.

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