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n2doc

(47,953 posts)
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 09:33 AM Oct 2012

Politics brings out true depth of Facebook 'friending'

October 26, 2012 by Rex W. Huppke, Chicago Tribune

Sean Bergan has witnessed the turbulent confluence of a heated presidential race and the free-wheeling world of social media. And, like many this election season, he has responded by putting a virtual finger to his lips, saying "Shhhhh!" and clicking a button to vanquish those who fill his Facebook page with partisan rants.

"I've unfriended people on several occasions," said Bergan, 19, of Oswego, N.Y., who is a sophomore at Eastern Illinois University. "Especially if they're so extreme to one side or the other. I like to consider myself moderate. You just don't want to be seeing that stuff three times a day in your own news feed."

This divisive presidential contest has brought out the worst in many people, particularly in the online world. The result is a rampant severing of social media ties - unfriending or unfollowing. Web acquaintances who reveal their political leanings find themselves swiftly jettisoned by so-called friends who realize their ideologies don't align. Or Twitter followers are dumped simply because they won't shut up about politics.

It says as much about passions over the campaign as it does about the evolving - or possibly devolving - definition of the term "friend."

Read more at: http://phys.org/news/2012-10-politics-true-depth-facebook-friending.html

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Politics brings out true depth of Facebook 'friending' (Original Post) n2doc Oct 2012 OP
I've been unfriended landolfi Oct 2012 #1
He's right davidpdx Oct 2012 #2
Obviously the truth lies somewhere between right leaning moderate centrism and far right nutjobbery Fumesucker Oct 2012 #3
I particularly like the "extremes of both sides" bull. Darth_Kitten Oct 2012 #5
Tote-baggers Fumesucker Oct 2012 #7
I just hide any... meaculpa2011 Oct 2012 #4
I don't, but then again, there's nothing I ever really disagree with. Darth_Kitten Oct 2012 #6
I was unfriended in a nasty skirmish Generic Other Oct 2012 #8
That kind of thing always amazes me. noamnety Oct 2012 #9
well I did mention the psychiatric help part to him Generic Other Oct 2012 #11
What does the data that Facebook collects after about 1 year of "membership" look like? green for victory Oct 2012 #10

landolfi

(234 posts)
1. I've been unfriended
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 09:39 AM
Oct 2012

but there are easier ways to ignore the political stuff than to unfriend someone. What the unfriending tells me is that if our views are really that divergent, we never really were friends anyway--and that's good to know.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
2. He's right
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 09:44 AM
Oct 2012

I'm one of those people who has at least 10 things a day political on my Facebook page. Even someone with the same ideology as myself said yesterday (and this wasn't direct at me) that he's getting sick of the political posts on Facebook.

Darth_Kitten

(14,192 posts)
5. I particularly like the "extremes of both sides" bull.
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 09:56 AM
Oct 2012

It must be so self-satisfying for the "moderate", rational and above the fray centrists to feel the way they do.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
7. Tote-baggers
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 10:07 AM
Oct 2012
http://www.balloon-juice.com/2011/11/30/where-is-my-motivation/

When I discuss the American political scene with tote-baggers, the notion they resist the most is that we should question our Galtian and Village overlords’ underlying motivations. When I tell them, for example, that the establishment wants to cut Social Security and Medicare simply because they enjoy fucking the middle-class over, they tell me I am insane. When I ask them what other motivation there could be for replacing a reasonably efficient government health-care system with a less efficient private health care system, they have no answer.

Darth_Kitten

(14,192 posts)
6. I don't, but then again, there's nothing I ever really disagree with.
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 09:58 AM
Oct 2012

I seem to get a lot of items in my feed that I share.

Generic Other

(28,979 posts)
8. I was unfriended in a nasty skirmish
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 10:43 AM
Oct 2012

After making an innocuous comment about Akin to the effect that he couldn't find a uterus if he had a roadmap, the person lit into me telling me how stupid I was and how he would run circles around me in a debate on the subject of reproductive rights. I refused to take the bait which appeared to outrage the person. I say person. This was a close relative. He worked himself into such a rage over it that it got personal. So personal he unfriended, blocked and appears to have deleted his FB account entirely.

I pretty much didn't do anything but witness the rightwing meltdown.

 

noamnety

(20,234 posts)
9. That kind of thing always amazes me.
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 11:44 AM
Oct 2012

People get incredibly irate if you opt out of replying to them, as if they believe they are in charge of the conversation and you are being insubordinate if you don't follow their guidelines and timetables for your responses. I tend to cross those people off my list as mentally unstable and not worth my energy.

 

green for victory

(591 posts)
10. What does the data that Facebook collects after about 1 year of "membership" look like?
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 12:11 PM
Oct 2012


(see the details: http://www.europe-v-facebook.org/EN/Data_Pool/data_pool.html)

Austrian student takes on Facebook over privacy

In this photo taken Monday, Oct. 10, 2011, Austrian student Max Schrems holds files about his activities on his Facebook account that Facebook handed over to him, in Vienna, Austria. Schrems wasn't quite sure what information about himself Facebook would send him after he filed a request with the social networking giant to receive his personal data, as is required under European law.

It certainly wasn't the stack of 1,222 pages worth on a CD that inspired him to launch an online campaign aimed at forcing the social media behemoth to abide by European data privacy laws _ something the Palo Alto, California-based company insists it already does. Since August, some 350,000 people have visited the site, dubbed "Europe vs. Facebook," and flooded Facebook's European branch, based in Ireland, with requests for their personal data. (AP Photo/Ronald Zak)

One of Schrems' main complaints with Facebook, he says, is that company retains information far longer than allowed under European law, which it most cases is limited to a few months.

"I wondered, what are they doing with my data?" Schrems said, sitting with his laptop in a Viennese coffee house. "I thought through everything that one can do with that amount of information, all the marketing that is possible."

Under European law, consumers have the right to request a record of the personal information held by a company. The law further stipulates that to retain data beyond the limit of several months, a company must have a reason to do so...(more)

http://phys.org/news/2011-10-austrian-student-facebook-privacy.html

see also: http://www.europe-v-facebook.org/


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