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madamesilverspurs

(15,805 posts)
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 03:23 PM Nov 2012

You'll have to forgive me...

Not many of my friends are Republicans. But one of those just shared a Romney campaign bit on facebook, a graphic that promotes voting for Romney in order to get rid of "Obamacare". She knew me back when I could barely walk, so her stance is personally troubling for me. Anyway, here's the response I posted on facebook:


For over twenty years I struggled with increasingly debilitating physical difficulties, unable to get health insurance because of those pre-existing conditions. The bitter irony is the worsening of those temporary conditions into permanent disability simply because I COULD NOT access the doctors who had the ability to help. The Affordable Care Act, aka Obamacare, opens the doors to doctors offices for people like me, for people like my nephew with cerebral palsy, for people like my sister-in-law with multiple sclerosis, like my friends’ children with cystic fibrosis and asthma; it is no longer legal to charge women higher rates than men; seniors are no longer penalized with higher premiums for the crime of living longer.

So you’ll have to forgive me if I cannot support your vote for Romney on the basis of his promise to get rid of “Obamacare.” Going back to the way it was would be, to put it mildly, needlessly cruel to millions of Americans.


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You'll have to forgive me... (Original Post) madamesilverspurs Nov 2012 OP
A sane voice-thank you! babylonsister Nov 2012 #1
Well said! Spazito Nov 2012 #2
How people are convinced to vote against their best interests is something Repubs have obviously namaste2 Nov 2012 #3
They're very good at convincing people that everything BUT economic issues are important - westladem Nov 2012 #13
Welcome to DU, namaste2! And also westladem! calimary Nov 2012 #15
It IS astounding, but even my rightwing, Fox-watching, republican coworker westladem Nov 2012 #22
No, what they have figured out Sekhmets Daughter Nov 2012 #21
Perfect response. nt Lex Nov 2012 #4
Very well Tnliberallee Nov 2012 #5
And Welcome to DU to you, too, tnliberallee! calimary Nov 2012 #17
Well articulated response. VespertineIconoclast Nov 2012 #6
Beautifully stated amuse bouche Nov 2012 #7
Good for you! n/t bluethruandthru Nov 2012 #8
Banging on racism to support corporate interests Scootaloo Nov 2012 #9
Beautiful response Tumbulu Nov 2012 #10
Here too with a pre-existing condition flygal Nov 2012 #11
That was a perfect response. Indpndnt Nov 2012 #12
my sister-in-law told me that she wanted ACA ended. I said your three kids are on your roguevalley Nov 2012 #14
it heaven05 Nov 2012 #30
SAW that, madame. GOOD one! elleng Nov 2012 #16
I am sure she probably had a come back. Your response was great. Hopefully you gave her something southernyankeebelle Nov 2012 #18
Wonderful Response... txdemsftw Nov 2012 #19
Bravo!!! Great response. PATXgirl Nov 2012 #20
Well done! gateley Nov 2012 #23
Exactly what you wrote xxqqqzme Nov 2012 #24
Basic Needs... FreedomFighter98201 Nov 2012 #25
Well worded and moderate Heathen57 Nov 2012 #26
Great answer and add on zentrum Nov 2012 #27
The anti Affordable Care Act forces present it as a "give away" of federal tax dollars. xtraxritical Nov 2012 #53
I heaven05 Nov 2012 #28
You ROCK! world wide wally Nov 2012 #29
Excellent statement of why ObamaCare Works for Millions of Americans, Cha Nov 2012 #31
Fantastically, excellent response! n/t Fla Dem Nov 2012 #32
well put. barbtries Nov 2012 #33
Your words speak for many! Best wishes for You--I wish You a better future!! hue Nov 2012 #34
Very nicely put! -Steph- Nov 2012 #35
Thank you for your eloquent voice. geckosfeet Nov 2012 #36
Preach it! nt MADem Nov 2012 #37
You put it so well. ChaoticTrilby Nov 2012 #38
Well of course... codjh9 Nov 2012 #39
Two thumbs up for you ChazII Nov 2012 #40
I did something similar today - Ms. Toad Nov 2012 #41
From what I've read, codjh9 Nov 2012 #42
Unfortuantely his definition of "keep" and reality are quite far apart. Ms. Toad Nov 2012 #47
Ms. Toad marions ghost Nov 2012 #45
Well said..... skeewee08 Nov 2012 #43
Fantastic! Just curious... FourScore Nov 2012 #44
K & R - Thank you for talking straight with your lifelong acquaintance. KatyBR Nov 2012 #46
It's a human right. Anybody opposed to it, has no humanity. RagAss Nov 2012 #48
A gentle answer. Hugs to you, Mme Silverspurs Hekate Nov 2012 #49
very dignified and respectful liberal_at_heart Nov 2012 #50
Hip Hip Hooray rebeccasrevenge Nov 2012 #51
Your voice speaks for many of us..... ProudProgressiveNow Nov 2012 #52
+1 nt rsweets Nov 2012 #54

namaste2

(74 posts)
3. How people are convinced to vote against their best interests is something Repubs have obviously
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 03:34 PM
Nov 2012

figured out over the years. However, I think their house of cards has started to crumble. Thank you for your reminder of what a huge difference PBO's incredible fight to get ACA into law is so important and necessary!

westladem

(23 posts)
13. They're very good at convincing people that everything BUT economic issues are important -
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 04:17 PM
Nov 2012

things like gay marriage and abortion should trump whether you can put food on the table for your family or not. And for the few economic issues they do talk about, they find convenient scapegoats and then convert them into super-enemies. So everything becomes an apocalyptic fight to the death, just like in every super-hero story where "the fate of the universe is at stake".

Meantime, their eyes are so blinded that they don't see that their quality of life has dropped dramatically. Case in point - Hurricane Katrina. Hurricane Sandy shows us what disaster relief looks like when it's done right. And Hurricane Katrina shows us what FEMA becomes when it's packed with people who don't believe in providing emergency assistance.

A lot of people can't imagine how bad a Romney administration would be -- for them, personally. Hopefully, this video will help them to see it:



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calimary

(81,313 posts)
15. Welcome to DU, namaste2! And also westladem!
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 04:21 PM
Nov 2012

Glad you're BOTH here! (I just saw your post, westladem.) It amazes me how well republi-CONS have been able to put their poisons over on the public! We need you guys - this election is NOT won yet!







Now get to work.

westladem

(23 posts)
22. It IS astounding, but even my rightwing, Fox-watching, republican coworker
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 04:52 PM
Nov 2012

is beginning to figure it out. He's decided that, even though we disagree on many issues, that what we do agree on is more important. And that the basic problem is not that Americans are so divided - it's that we haven't figured out that we're actually much more united than we are divided.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
21. No, what they have figured out
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 04:50 PM
Nov 2012

is what a certain segment of the population considers "their best interest". People who oppose Obamacare fall into just 2 categories...Those who have employer provided insurance and those who simply believe they don't need health insurance. Democrats would do well to figure out just what is the white working class believes is in their best interest...until we do, the Republicans will continue to be a ball & chain dragging us ever backward.

calimary

(81,313 posts)
17. And Welcome to DU to you, too, tnliberallee!
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 04:27 PM
Nov 2012

Great to have you with us as well. We need you! The clock is ticking, and this election is not signed, sealed, and delivered to Obama yet.






Now get to work.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
9. Banging on racism to support corporate interests
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 04:10 PM
Nov 2012

You should ask yourself why your friend is desperate to repeal the ACA. Is it because they think poor people (esp. nonwhites) should "know their place?" Is it because they think insurance companies should dictate terms to both providers and patients? or are they just a dumb fucking cow, swept along with the rest of the herd?

flygal

(3,231 posts)
11. Here too with a pre-existing condition
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 04:15 PM
Nov 2012

My husband would have to stay forever with this company. Never understood why so many middle and lower class republicans vote against things that help keep them from living on the street. You said it well and I hope a few read it and it registers in some way.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
14. my sister-in-law told me that she wanted ACA ended. I said your three kids are on your
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 04:18 PM
Nov 2012

insurance and your older daughter is having a baby on health insurance you own. Would you want to end it and end your daughter's health insurance?

"Yes."

Dicks are everywhere. However, they aren't enough to counteract others. My granddaughter's entire family on both sides are voting for Obama just for the health care.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
30. it
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 05:17 PM
Nov 2012

is just the race of our POTUS then. sad indeed. Would hurt his own daughter!!!????? Mean spirited racist.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
18. I am sure she probably had a come back. Your response was great. Hopefully you gave her something
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 04:28 PM
Nov 2012

to think about. Remember you can always tell her I pray your never in my position. On the other hand without Obamacare and your aging it could happen to you.

txdemsftw

(461 posts)
19. Wonderful Response...
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 04:36 PM
Nov 2012

I worked for a major health insurance company for nearly 5 years. I saw firsthand how the insurance creeps worked. Insurance companies don't give a damn about you or your families. Having to deny claims, find reasons TO deny claims, etc..it was madness. I hated working there. I truly felt like I was working for the 'enemy.'

But then..when the first of the ACA came into play..it was amazing. I LOVED watching the higher-ups going crazy when PBO was elected and the aftermath was glorious. Oh, you should hear the town-hall meetings we had...hilarious!

Suddenly, more and more mental health services were being covered, preventative health services being paid at 100% with no copays or deductibles, parents able to keep their college-age kids on their insurance longer...SO many great things.

Once our CEO left and another came in, I had to leave...more and more politics were coming into play at work and I just couldn't take it anymore.

Why anyone would vote against the ACA is way beyond me. They have no idea.

PATXgirl

(192 posts)
20. Bravo!!! Great response.
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 04:43 PM
Nov 2012

I had 2 herniated disks in 2009 and in 2010 had to move from a group policy to a private policy. Texas law allows BCBS, who has insured me non-stop for 25+ years, to place a rider on my private BCBS policy to permanently exclude ANY thing to do with my spine, muscles or nerves.

One of the major reasons I voted this year for Obama to stay in office and the ACA to stay in place.

xxqqqzme

(14,887 posts)
24. Exactly what you wrote
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 04:53 PM
Nov 2012

is, I believe, the incentive for the voter ID laws, voter suppression and intimidation. The rethugs have come to grips (even though they insisted on the snail's pace of implementation) with ACA being in full effect by 2016. It will then be impossible to reverse it. The Democrats can then rightly, claim yet another social program the rethugs opposed. But like Social Security and Medicare, it will be too popular to be undone. The improvement, both socially and economically, will be hard to ignore.

The rethugs, once again, will prove to be an empty vessel organized strictly for the benefit of the 1%. They will then have to claw there way back as they had to after the Depression and FDR's/Democrats 'New Deal'.

25. Basic Needs...
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 05:06 PM
Nov 2012

The amazing accomplishments of humanity are able to easily provide for basic needs at a small cost compared to all that is produced. Only when a more basic need is met and mastered can we address our higher needs. (Thank you Dr. Maslow!)

I truly believe it is in our DNA to help others with basic needs especially when we have our own basic needs covered - and our outrage at ignoring those needs, plus our knowledge that "we can do it" springs from that.

Physiological needs

Air, water, food, clothing, shelter (Think Sandy)

Safety needs

Personal security
Financial security
Health and well-being
Safety net against accidents/illness and their adverse impacts (Our Poster)


These two levels of need IMHO can and should be addressed by our political structures.

The rest - listed below - are up to each individual and their circumstances. The beauty of it all is that if our political structures function correctly, each and every individual has the same shot at our higher needs (The Pursuit of Happiness?)


Love and belonging

Friendship
Intimacy
Family

Esteem

typical human desire to be accepted and valued by others


Self-actualization

the desire to accomplish everything that one can, to become the most that one can be

Self-transcendence

The spiritual dimension of our personalities

Heathen57

(573 posts)
26. Well worded and moderate
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 05:10 PM
Nov 2012

you gave them the facts just as to why you want the ACA to continue, and in a way to keep them from having any rebuttal that would be effective.

I have the same thing with my BIL. I am awaiting a federal appeals court decision on my disability claim (I have the disability proven, it is the date of onset we are appealing), and am without insurance. Of course I can't get insurance I can afford yet.

My BIL said I would be getting Medicare if the case goes through, but I countered that since my blood pressure is not controlled I could be dead before that comes through. The ACA would allow me to be able to see a doctor now, not in a couple of years.

zentrum

(9,865 posts)
27. Great answer and add on
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 05:11 PM
Nov 2012

...how it also saves money and is cheaper to have than not to have for the federal debt.

Money trumps compassion for most Republicans so that is the thing to talk to them about. $$$ and how they aren't going to pay more taxes. That's their highest value, no matter how much they wrap themselves in the biblical.

 

xtraxritical

(3,576 posts)
53. The anti Affordable Care Act forces present it as a "give away" of federal tax dollars.
Mon Nov 5, 2012, 10:27 AM
Nov 2012

This resonates with RepubliCON mantra and especially low info types whom are always RepubliCON.

Cha

(297,304 posts)
31. Excellent statement of why ObamaCare Works for Millions of Americans,
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 05:22 PM
Nov 2012

madamesilverspurs! Those who want to get of it don't have a clue what it actually Does!

geckosfeet

(9,644 posts)
36. Thank you for your eloquent voice.
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 06:10 PM
Nov 2012

And it would be beyond cruel. It would be inhumane and immoral to roll back ACA.

ChaoticTrilby

(211 posts)
38. You put it so well.
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 07:28 PM
Nov 2012

I hope that your medical difficulties can be cleared up. Obama has done so much for everyone and I hope that Romney doesn't make it all go to waste.

codjh9

(2,781 posts)
39. Well of course...
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 09:10 PM
Nov 2012

The whole thing against 'Obamacare' is nuts. Who wouldn't want millions more people to have healthcare?!?! Europeans think we're nuts (and of course, a certain percentage of us ARE - no, not 99% of the people on this site).

Besides the Lone Ranger-type attitude held by Republicans, they're also against it, of course, due to lots of lies, sound bites, and the simple fact that few of them have bothered to actually *read the details* - what a concept! Remember 'death panels'? What a load of crap.

Ms. Toad

(34,074 posts)
41. I did something similar today -
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 10:19 PM
Nov 2012

Many of my inlaws (including most of the LGBT ones) are "like"ing Romney right and left. I have not responded because they are inlaws - and some of them children of one inlaw I got off on the wrong foot with 30-some years ago who has never forgiven me.

But today, when one posted a "can't we all get along" post, saying something nice about Obama - and requesting Obama supporters say something nice about Romney, it was too much.

Here is my response to her:

I have been avoiding saying negative things about Romney on facebook, because I have friends and family who support him. That is about the best I can do.

This election is, literally, life and death for millions of Americans - including your cousin, my daughter. The medical care that keeps her alive costs around $40,000 a year. The year she needs a transplant, the bill will be over a half million dollars - and after transplant it will be closer to $100,000 a year to keep her from rejecting her new liver. The only reason we can pay that now is because the Affordable Care Act lets her stay on my insurance plan. And, when she turns 26 in less than 4 years, the only way she will be able to obtain insurance she can afford is under the Affordable Care Act which - for the first time - does not link access to health care to wealth, health, or the ability to maintain a full time job or student status.

Romney has promised to repeal it on his first day - and his promise that individuals with pre-existing conditions will be able to get insurance is smoke and mirrors. What he has promised is that some individuals with pre-existing conditions insurance will be guaranteed access to insurance (good news for my daughter - she has insurance, and will be able to continue it - if you don't already have insurance, you are out of luck) The premiums, however, will be market based (bad news for my daughter - and everyone else - that means around $20,000 a year - before copays and coinsurance. In addition, prescription copays are generally not capped, and they are around half of her current health care costs). In other words, if she is lucky and can afford it without having any gaps (since gaps make you no longer eligible for the guarantee), she might get away with only having to come up with $30,000 a year for medical care under the plan Romney proposes. The chances that she will be able to make $30,000 more than she needs to live on, in order to be able to afford health care, are near zero.

So - it has been very hard for me to see all of the people I know who care about my daughter supporting someone whose policies will prevent her from getting the health care she needs to survive. So far I have not de-friended anyone, or even shut off the newsfeeds, but it is incredibly painful. I have not bashed Romney, and I will continue not to, but I also hope that when you vote you will think about the real impact of Romney's proposals on the people you love who have chronic costly illnesses through no fault of their own.


The ironic thing - her dad has MS, and if he loses his job he won't be able to afford the premiums if the Affordable Care Act is rescinded.

codjh9

(2,781 posts)
42. From what I've read,
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 11:26 PM
Nov 2012

he couldn't repeal it the first day if he wanted to. And it'll be difficult even over time - and he's even said now (which shows what a crock most of his 'ideas' are) that 'parts of it' he wants to keep.

But besides all of that, I agree with you, and the person who started this thread, that at least sometimes, even against relatives that we 'don't want to upset', we have to SPEAK UP. I said 'I wouldn't vote for him for dogcatcher', referring to Bush, at a family get-together several years ago, and oh man, did I cause an uproar! But I couldn't take it any more.

Ms. Toad

(34,074 posts)
47. Unfortuantely his definition of "keep" and reality are quite far apart.
Mon Nov 5, 2012, 12:35 AM
Nov 2012

He has stated that people with preexisting conditions will be covered. When you read the plan on his website, what he means is people with preexisting conditions, who already have insurance, cannot be rejected by a subsequent employer's insurance - and that anyone previously insured may extend insurance as a private plan, but that there are no price caps. That was the law under HIPAA (since around 1998) - so "keep" to Romney means he will not roll back the completely inadequate 1996 HIPAA law (which was the only ray of hope in several decades - if I managed to scrape together enough money to keep myself or my daughter covered without a gap in coverage we could get insurance. It might cost a fortune, but it would always be available.

Under that law, the scenario is what I outlined (I just didn't go into detail about the prior law for my niece). Roughly $30,000 a year.

The House has voted to repeal the Affordable Care Act repeatedly. If Romney wins, it is likely that things will be bad in the senate (since the top of the ticket usually pulls seats farther down along with them). The new congress is seated early January, so depending on how bad the losses are in the Senate - and how much stomach the senate Dems have for holding firm in the face of public rejection of the ACA, the bill could be on his desk the day he arrives in office.

I hope that won't happen - but it is his stated intent (and the active intent of the House Rs) and not outside the realm of possibility.

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
45. Ms. Toad
Sun Nov 4, 2012, 11:42 PM
Nov 2012
your story really gets at the stakes in this election.

Admirable reply to your peeps--maybe they will wake up some day.

rebeccasrevenge

(2 posts)
51. Hip Hip Hooray
Mon Nov 5, 2012, 02:58 AM
Nov 2012

Brava!You would think that anyone with even a drop of humanity would see that "Obamacare"is a long overdue change in America's outrageously illogical health care system.Why can't the people who see it as a hand out to lazy good for nothings open their eyes to the reality: IT ACTUALLY SAVES YOU MONEY,HOSER! I think that the majority of
American workers live from paycheck to paycheck so that if they lost their job tomorrow they could only survive for a few months on their available funds and God forbid they or a family member becomes ill perhaps then they would know for whom the bell tolled.

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