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we had to euthanize my daughter's cat tonight (Original Post) liberal_at_heart Nov 2012 OP
Oh soooo sorry!! I've got a great little stray in the back yard that needs a good home!! Thekaspervote Nov 2012 #1
Sorry to hear that. It's never easy. Good people always have nice kitty's! n/t brewens Nov 2012 #2
I'm so sorry. TDale313 Nov 2012 #3
I lost my Patrick several months ago to kidney disease. Brigid Nov 2012 #4
Sorry for your loss. samsingh Nov 2012 #5
Hugs and prayers for you panAmerican Nov 2012 #6
That's gotta be rough, I'm so sorry. MynameisBlarney Nov 2012 #7
Common in male cats. I lost a young one a few years back too. Bonobo Nov 2012 #8
That's awful. We've had to do that with two cats in the past few years. Curtland1015 Nov 2012 #9
Sorry to hear this. GoneOffShore Nov 2012 #10
I am so sorry. GoCubsGo Nov 2012 #11
My sympathies to you and your daughter Liberalynn Nov 2012 #12
My old kitty is a renal failure kitty Warpy Nov 2012 #13
I'm sorry. At least the little guy isn't suffering anymore ProfessionalLeftist Nov 2012 #14
Yes, love, comfort, and humane treatment for the kittehs. anneboleyn Nov 2012 #24
So sorry about your kitty friend. TwilightGardener Nov 2012 #15
I am so sorry for your loss sasha031 Nov 2012 #16
Oh no! graywarrior Nov 2012 #17
So sorry to hear that! eqfan592 Nov 2012 #18
Hugs, never easy. nadinbrzezinski Nov 2012 #19
That's hard...I'm sorry. nt cry baby Nov 2012 #20
I'm so sorry - KT2000 Nov 2012 #21
I lost my dear Max to kidney failure hifiguy Nov 2012 #22
Oh, that's tough. gkhouston Nov 2012 #23
You and your family have my deepest sympathies. City Lights Nov 2012 #25
Thank you everybody liberal_at_heart Nov 2012 #26
I am so sorry. StarryNite Nov 2012 #27
I lose more patients to this than anything else. When they avoid kestrel91316 Nov 2012 #28
yeah we knew we were lucky to get 17 years with him liberal_at_heart Nov 2012 #29
I'm sorry renate Nov 2012 #30
She has been such a trooper liberal_at_heart Nov 2012 #35
that is so sad. brettdale Nov 2012 #31
Gentle passage to Kiki. nolabear Nov 2012 #32
A beloved pet is an integral part of a family BillyJack Nov 2012 #33
I'm sorry. That happened to my Bijou 1-1/2 years ago. Zoeisright Nov 2012 #34
heres my Mr. Kitty MFM008 Nov 2012 #36
he's beautiful and thank you liberal_at_heart Nov 2012 #37
So sorry. I'm a gruff, grumpy, tough, old SOB who had to euthanize my best feline buddy 5 months ago Bigleaf Nov 2012 #38
I am very sorry for your loss... virgdem Nov 2012 #39
I recently had to do this to my ferret, Roseberry, for the same reason TlalocW Nov 2012 #40
I'm so sorry! LancetChick Nov 2012 #41
That sucks.... sorry for your loss trailmonkee Nov 2012 #42
You, your daughter and your family have my deepest sympathy. amandabeech Nov 2012 #43
So sorry TuxedoKat Nov 2012 #44
Lady Bast, please take this little being back into your loving care. niyad Nov 2012 #45
I'm so sorry. I know how much it hurts. Catlover827 Nov 2012 #46
God,I'm so sorry. Hatchling Nov 2012 #47
bless you and yours. This is always so sad. roguevalley Nov 2012 #48
Sorry :( AlexSatan Nov 2012 #49
I'm sorry for your loss. area51 Nov 2012 #50
.. Liberal_in_LA Nov 2012 #51

panAmerican

(1,206 posts)
6. Hugs and prayers for you
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:13 AM
Nov 2012

One of ours is very ill, too, so I don't doubt this was hard on you and your daughter. My heart goes out to you.

MynameisBlarney

(2,979 posts)
7. That's gotta be rough, I'm so sorry.
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:14 AM
Nov 2012

At least the cat is not in pain anymore.
Losing a pet is tough. But I'm sure your kid will bounce back before you know it.
Kids are pretty tough.

Curtland1015

(4,404 posts)
9. That's awful. We've had to do that with two cats in the past few years.
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:14 AM
Nov 2012

They were great cats. We loved them like family.

As sad as it is though, I can't think of a better life than being a house cat in a loving family.

Sorry to hear though, it's a rough thing to go through.

GoCubsGo

(32,086 posts)
11. I am so sorry.
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:14 AM
Nov 2012

I went through that with my handsome boy last year. Kidney failure sucks.

Please give your daughter a big hug for me.

Warpy

(111,274 posts)
13. My old kitty is a renal failure kitty
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:15 AM
Nov 2012

who is being maintained on supplements and blood pressure drugs for now, fluids in the near future.

I know what you went through with him. I'm just waiting for her to tell me it's time.

ProfessionalLeftist

(4,982 posts)
14. I'm sorry. At least the little guy isn't suffering anymore
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:16 AM
Nov 2012

And he wasn't alone and he went loved and had a good life.

Your girl will be OK. Give her time.

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
24. Yes, love, comfort, and humane treatment for the kittehs.
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:28 AM
Nov 2012

Our guy had kidney failure and heart trouble and had to be put down a few years ago. We miss him. But it was definitely time for him to go so he wouldn't suffer even more.

It sounds like this kitteh had exactly what kittehs want and need most -- genuine love and compassionate care.

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
15. So sorry about your kitty friend.
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:16 AM
Nov 2012

Edit to add: One of my kittehs isn't doing so hot lately in the kidney dept., seems to be what brings down a lot of them.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
22. I lost my dear Max to kidney failure
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:25 AM
Nov 2012

a couple of years ago. There is nothing so hard as the last goodbye to a loving furfriend. Cross safely, Kiki.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
26. Thank you everybody
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:30 AM
Nov 2012

and for those who currently have sick pets I hope they get better. For those whose pets have recently passed I'm sorry.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
28. I lose more patients to this than anything else. When they avoid
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:39 AM
Nov 2012

all the other deadly diseases and mishaps, the kidneys are the part that simply wears out.

Had one come in today that is starting to near the end. We are upping his home fluid administration schedule, and if that doesn't get him back on an even keel I won't have any more tricks up my sleeve. We have tinkered with nutrition and medications and fluids for quite a while. He is 15 or 16, so I told the clients it's all icing on the cake now anyway.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
29. yeah we knew we were lucky to get 17 years with him
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:42 AM
Nov 2012

He actually hung in there a few more years than I expected him to. No one can live forever, but we will miss him.

renate

(13,776 posts)
30. I'm sorry
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:43 AM
Nov 2012

Poor Kiki, poor daughter, poor you. It really is difficult to see your child sad.

It's hard to do the kindest thing to end a beloved animal's suffering, but the trust he always had in her to take good care of him was well placed.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
35. She has been such a trooper
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:47 AM
Nov 2012

She had been giving him his fluids and trying to get him to eat. She tried to clean his fur when he stopped cleaning himself. She cleaned up after him when he became incontinent. She even wanted to be with him when he went to sleep for the last time. She has a great sense of caring and responsibility with animals. She wants to be a veterinarian and I tell you I have ever confidence in her ability to do so.

BillyJack

(819 posts)
33. A beloved pet is an integral part of a family
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 12:44 AM
Nov 2012

It hurts. Really bad. I've been there too.

I'm very sorry for your loss.

 

Bigleaf

(2,050 posts)
38. So sorry. I'm a gruff, grumpy, tough, old SOB who had to euthanize my best feline buddy 5 months ago
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 01:00 AM
Nov 2012

and I'm still devastated. I've done it many times and will many more times (we still have 3 dogs and 4 cats) but losing my Joey tore a piece of my heart out. I love all my critters with all my heart but I know I'll never grieve like I have for Joey. I've had dogs and cats all my life but he was different, special in some way. I wish the best for your daughter and hope she feels better soon. Again, I'm terribly sorry.

virgdem

(2,126 posts)
39. I am very sorry for your loss...
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 01:01 AM
Nov 2012

I know how hard it is to lose beloved kittehs. I've lost 3 of my cats to kidney failure. You did the right and humane thing to put your daughter's cat to sleep.

TlalocW

(15,384 posts)
40. I recently had to do this to my ferret, Roseberry, for the same reason
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 01:05 AM
Nov 2012

I hated the idea of her - or any animal suffering. They bring so much to us and expect so little in return, and they're in our lives for only a short time, which makes them all the more precious.

TlalocW

LancetChick

(272 posts)
41. I'm so sorry!
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 01:07 AM
Nov 2012

Losing animals is so hard. I've lost two beloved cats and a beloved dog to getting-old-and-falling-apart syndrome. It hurts. You may know this already, but Paul Krugman recently lost one of his cats, and mentioned it Here.

 

amandabeech

(9,893 posts)
43. You, your daughter and your family have my deepest sympathy.
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 01:13 AM
Nov 2012

It is difficult, but your daughter did the right thing. Perhaps that will be of comfort to you once the shock wears off.

Kiki is undoubtedly in a better place now and waiting for your daughter to join him eventually.

niyad

(113,336 posts)
45. Lady Bast, please take this little being back into your loving care.
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 02:34 AM
Nov 2012

I am so very sorry for your loss, please know that your DU family is here for you. My little ones send their deepest sympathies as well.

 

Catlover827

(191 posts)
46. I'm so sorry. I know how much it hurts.
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 02:53 AM
Nov 2012

We had to do the same for our Monty just a few weeks ago. It is very, very tough, but time will heal the wound. RIP Kiki.

Hatchling

(2,323 posts)
47. God,I'm so sorry.
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 03:12 AM
Nov 2012

I lost my Moochie two months ago. I know how you feel. He was my heart baby.

What a brave daughter you have.

 

AlexSatan

(535 posts)
49. Sorry :(
Tue Nov 6, 2012, 10:48 AM
Nov 2012

We had to do that with one of ours and it was horrible, even knowing it was putting her out of pain.

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