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Atticus

(15,124 posts)
Sun Dec 4, 2022, 09:36 PM Dec 2022

I do not know just what area of the human psyche is wounded by shame or embarrassment,

but--- for me, at least--- that area used to be pretty tender; pretty easy to pierce.

In the not too distant past, for example, that area would have been bloodied by a former POTUS who called for suspension of the Constitution. But, no longer.

After seven years of transparent lies, vile racism, vulgar misogyny, unabashed bigotry and unparalleled narcissism by that same former POTUS, I find that after his daily assaults on my conscience---my sense of what is morally acceptable--- I have developed callouses on my soul.

It is not that I am no longer offended. It is simply that these past several years have conditioned me not to expect my shame and outrage to make any difference.

So, when this latest Trumpism was splattered across the news shows like so much ketchup, my reaction was not "OMG! That's TERRIBLE! Surely this is a bridge too far even for his party!"

No, my calloused reaction was "So?"

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I do not know just what area of the human psyche is wounded by shame or embarrassment, (Original Post) Atticus Dec 2022 OP
MAGAts literally do no believe in America Skittles Dec 2022 #1
That's it in 1 sentence. ty Tetrachloride Dec 2022 #5
We need to defend ourselves in the way that works best for ourselves. NBachers Dec 2022 #2
tfg has pushed the line so hard and far, we all say "so". that's the problem BlueWaveNeverEnd Dec 2022 #3
Yes that shame and embarrassment has been painful. enough Dec 2022 #4
If I've had shame or embarrassment I haven't felt it...I get angry or furious! Even still stunned... electric_blue68 Dec 2022 #6
Shame is what you experience when others call you out for something you did Gaugamela Dec 2022 #7

enough

(13,263 posts)
4. Yes that shame and embarrassment has been painful.
Sun Dec 4, 2022, 09:44 PM
Dec 2022

Now I take courage from the fact that he/they have lost a significant number of elections.

That doesn’t help with the even deeper shame and embarrassment of the nature of the of the current Supreme Court. But it does provide courage.

electric_blue68

(14,956 posts)
6. If I've had shame or embarrassment I haven't felt it...I get angry or furious! Even still stunned...
Sun Dec 4, 2022, 10:03 PM
Dec 2022
but not surprised.


Aarrrggggggg!!!!!! 😬


Then I go back to people, places,and things I enjoy, and love

(and keep up w news, vote, volunteer at times, send some $ etc as well)

Gaugamela

(2,496 posts)
7. Shame is what you experience when others call you out for something you did
Sun Dec 4, 2022, 10:48 PM
Dec 2022

which you know was wrong. What you are talking about is outrage fatigue — and that’s their plan. That’s the right wing strategy. They seek to normalize their extremism and make it look like a legitimate point of view.

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