Stressed about last minute shopping?
For many years, our extended family has had stressless end of year gatherings. Nobody needs or wants more stuff so we put money (sliding scale) in a hat along with the name of a progressive nonprofit. Before we draw a name, anybody can make an impassioned plea for their nonprofit. Once we have reached consensus on a name, the money is bundled and sent. The only exception is hand crafted items like hats or scarves.
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Presents? Bah Humbug!
We only buy presents for our two adult children. We ask them what they want.
For about 20 years, my wife has bought a big Christmas for a child that she is assigned, by a local charity, knowing only the age and gender and sizes of the child she will be buying for. She does it up nicely with half toys and half clothes. The things that she buys are of the same quality that we gave our children. My wife enjoys it probably more than the child will. 
We don't do last minute shopping, everything is bought by the first of December, then we sit back and have a relaxed holiday. We are breaking new ground this year; it will be the first time in 41 years that it will be just the two of us on Christmas.
